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Page 1: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in

Your ChildPresented By:

Dr. Jan HittelmanBoulderPsychologicalServices.com

Page 2: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

In This Webinar You Will Learn:

How self-esteem develops from birth

The 7 key indicators of poor and healthy self-esteem

How you can recognize if your child has self-esteem issues

Why your own self-esteem impacts your child’s sense of self

5 ways to foster healthy self-esteem in your child

Page 3: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

How self-esteem develops from birth

Development of self-esteem begins early in life

Critical importance of effort and success experiences

Page 4: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

The 7 key indicators of healthy/poor self-esteem

Willingness to try new things/Gives up easilyTakes pride in accomplishments/Overly self-critical or

easily disappointed Assumes responsibility/Projects blame on othersHas good frustration tolerance/Quickly gets anxious or

frustrated in response to challengesCapacity to resist peer pressure/Easily influenced by

othersDemonstrates effective problem-solving skills/Unable to

resolve problems independently Feels loved/Feels unloved or unwanted

Page 5: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

Why your own self-esteem impacts your child’s sense of

selfThe challenge of being the

role model

Children observe and learn from everything we do

Parenting makes us want to be better people

How are your coping and problem solving skills?

Page 6: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

5 ways to foster healthy self-esteem in your child

1. Provide accurate, realistic feedback that focuses on the behavior not the child

2. Create opportunities for success

3. Teach and model effective problem solving skills

4. Teach and model healthy self-statements

5. Create a loving environment

Page 7: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

Limits of parental impact on self-esteem

Underlying mental health issues

Significant learning challenges

Challenges of nonconformity

Psychological distress

Page 8: 5 Ways to Develop Healthy Self-Esteem in Your Child Presented By: Dr. Jan Hittelman BoulderPsychologicalServices.com

Practice these techniques, while going easy on yourself.

Parenting is a challenging job!

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Our Next Webinar!

Why Your Child Has Difficulty Learning

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Noon - 1:00 pm

Presenter: Dr. Jan Hittelman