By

S. Thilaganathan

Introduction This presentation is mainly based on the real life situation.

The points noted are generalized viewpoints and many women are falling under many of the categories.

The views mentioned are extracted from South Asian context. However, they may be applicable universally.

No attempt is made find the physical, psychological and social causes of these nature, attitude and behavior

The good nature and qualities of women as mother, wife, daughter, sister etc., are not presented in this presentation

Objectives of this Presentation This presentation is prepared mainly for the benefits

of husband or lover for better understanding of relationship

The men who are confronting such situation will prepare and adjust themselves and live better

This presentation also helpful to women to get better understanding about themselves

Once facts are known, mind will be working proactive ways than the reactive ways

Intricate complex Women are complex and intricate in nature

It is difficult to understand them totally and fully

Controlling Women want to control men (specially husband)

Women feel better if they have their husband under their control.

Protective Women are unnecessarily protective for everything

They protect their conduct without being disturbed by others

They protect themselves to achieve their needs, want and pleasure without any problem from others

Their self interest is utmost thing for them and they feel behavior is morally correct

Secretive They are very secretive about their personal matters

They hide things about the past

They hide what is going on now

They hide future desires, needs and intention

They try to hide all details about themselves

Unpredictable They are very unpredictable

Under a same situation attitudes, beliefs, and personality traits of one women will be different form another women

Under the same situation in two different days, same women may behave differently

Attractive beautiful women are more unpredictable and the core issue is unpredictability

Unaware Women are unaware about themselves

They are not aware what is going on with them

Women are never sure about what they want.

Irrational

Women are completely and utterly irrational.

They often think irrationally, act irrationally and behave irrationally .

Unreasonable They are often unreasonable for the particular

situation or context.

They do not bother much about the reasons for their behavior but they are more concerned about their likes and dislikes.

Over Reacting They are usually over reacting to situations

They get agitated and disturbed

Non Responsive Sometimes they are non-responsive

They will not reply to the question

They will not tell “yes or no”

You can’t understand whether they like it or not

Unstable They will not stay on one point and wonder this or that

not only in trivial things but also in major life matters

Once decision is taken they reverse the decision easily then and there.

Within a moment they change or revert the decision

Picky, Picky They reject things for silly reason.

Even 99% is ok because of 1% they reject things, e.g. buying a clothe, food, car even house

Unable to Discriminate They are unable to differentiate which is major and

which is minor things: which is important and which is not important

Main things viewed as small thing and small things viewed as big things

As a result they may lose benefits of life

Making Small Things Big They create small matters as big matters

They create big issues for nothing

Incomplete They in certain way defective and incomplete

Demanding Women are very demanding

They have the habit of obtaining everything for bthemby demanding from others

Dominating Women are so dominating and intimidating

Those women usually have the dominant role in the house.

Controlling behavior such as checking up on partners and persuading them not to certain things

Woman feel more secure by controlling her environment and this includes controlling her husband.

Non-Programmable This is input output process

Generally the out puts are based on input

In the case of women the out put is independent ofminput

If you praise or give some gift it work or will not work or work reversely

Men can be easily programmed by women not vise versa

Very Low Tolerance Limit

Women will not tolerate people, their behavior

External Situation

Weather, noise, crowd etc

Changing Without Warning They suddenly change for silly reason

Women’s wants and desires in terms of a relationship can change dramatically in what appears to be a very short amount of time

Women are Crazy Truths about women that all women are crazy, and

that there are distinct types of women.

All women are crazy to some degree – the problem is –how to deal with a particular woman’s craziness

She is Always Upset at You Some women are just flat out critical of everything

their man does

Many of these women appear to thrive on telling you just what you are doing wrong

Women rarely Feel Guilty Most of the women do not feel guilty for their wrong

doing

Yesterday is Not Today Every day it is working. But suddenly it will not work

today

You need to press different button for each day

Different key for Different Time Every day you have to use different key to get the same

result

Very Possessive They are more possessive than men

Non-Consistent They change very often

Quick to Misunderstand They will not understand the real situation

They quickly misunderstood their husband or lover

Never Satisfied No matter how hard you try, they just won’t be happy

The unhappiness is constant and sometimes intermittent

women are far less contented with

women are unhappier than men

Destroy Every thing in One Day They work on long relationship but one day all of a

sudden give up everything.

Several years of work may be forgotten or destroyed on one day

They suddenly abandon their relationship suddenly and take another decision without thinking of the consequences or

They are affected by “sudden change syndrome”

On /Off Women are generally either “on or off “and not in

between

They are either “yes or no” to many matters particularly in relationship

They can regulate themselves in between on and off

Finding Mistakes in its Absence Always fault finding in other person

This is to maintain upper hand in relationship

They are clever in finding mistakes even there no mistakes in other person- becoming expertise in this skill

Making others feel Guilty Throughout their life, they learned to put other

person guilty

Even every things are alright they find a minor issue making other person guilty

This is a way of getting things done for their advantage.

Overly-obsessed about Appearance They overly worried about their look

Spend lot of time for this

Women go for Money First But most women want to get things and ultimately

seek a man with money