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Discovering Your Values

Discovering Your Authentic, Real SelfThat Will Drive Women Wild!

Written By: MarniThe Wing Girl Method

http://www.winggirlmethod.com

DISCLAIMER: No responsibility can be accepted by Marni, The Wing Girl Method or herpublishers for the accuracy of information contained in this book, or any action taken or nottaken based on such information. You are responsible for your own behavior, and none ofthis book is to be considered legal or personal advice.

You may NOT copy, steal, or distribute all or any part of this book without permission.

Contact: Marni, The Wing Girl Method, http://www.winggirlmethod.com
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Hey You!!

Before I dive into telling you, How To Get To Know You, I wantto properly introduce myself. My name is Marni and from here onout, I am going to be your personal Wing Girl.

Im not just any Wing Girl. In fact, I was voted the #1 Wing Girl inthe world and Worlds Best Female Coach at the PUA Summit.

My job is to tell you everything about women so that you can meet,attract, date, seduce and be with the women you want.

I have successfully done this for almost a decade. I have helpedthousands of men all over the world get everything they want with

women and now its your turn.

I AM NOT A PICK UP ARTIST

I want to be very clear with you. I am not a Pick Up Artist. I do not teachroutines, lines or any type of manipulation. In fact, I believe that many ofthe top Pick-Up Artists materials actually harm more men than they help.Why? Because a lot of their techniques stress the goal of feeling superior towomen, in order to gain success with women. This creates an unequaldynamic where insecurity becomes the driving force behind attraction. Thisis certainly not healthy for anyone involved. My belief is that if you have thepower to feel Superior to anyone, eventually you will resort back to feelinginferior. Both labels are just two different sides of the same coin.

The materials I provide will show you how to empower yourself by getting aclear understanding of how women work, what they want and why they dothe things they do. In addition, my written, audio, and video coachingproducts will help you gain a strong masculine character, whose presencewomen will be attracted to regardless of your individual life circumstances.

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How Is A WOMAN Going To Help MeGain A Strong Masculine Character?

I am pretty sure you are asking yourself How is SHE going to help me gaina strong masculine character. Trust me I have heard it before. This is why Iwant to explain it in detail, so we can eliminate this belief and moveforward.

BELIEF: Women Give Bad Advice To Men About What WomenWant

TRUTH: Most women give bad advice to men about what women want.

To be fair, many women do not actually comprehend what women want orwhy they do the things they do. Most women will be able to tell you exactlywhat they WISH they wanted, but very few are able to say what they

genuinely want.

In fact, about five months ago I put out an ad asking for women to give metheir opinions on what women really want from men. I got over 600responses from women around the world. Many where Beautiful,intelligent women who I later discovered has absolutely no idea what it wasthey wanted, what they were attracted to or what they responded to withmen. I was shocked! But one thing I did learn is that women were veryinterested in being heard (save that note for later).

For some women, its difficult to admit the behaviors they respond too. This

is either because they are embarrassed or because they really dont have aclue, even if they desperately want to figure it out. Most women also holdthemselves on a social pedestal - and are very fearful of confrontingthemselves and falling off.

Now, there are some women out there who are different. Take me forexample. I am a woman who deeply understands what goes on inside mymind, and I am able to articulate WHAT, HOW and WHY I do the things Ido and think. I am also a woman who is not embarrassed or fearful abouthow you will perceive me, when revealing the truths behind my actions.

However, in most other ways I am just like all the rest of the women in theworld, and exactly like the women you want to be with. I have been attractedto men, loved men, hated men, been hurt by men, got revenge on men, feltinsecure around men, had sex with men, rejected men, been wishy-washywith men, led men on, flirted with men for fun and pleasure, teasedmen, broken up with men for no reason, avoided men, flaked on men,given men my number with no intention of answering their calls, had onenight stands with men, been in long term relationships with men and



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placed men in the friendzone when they deserved a romantic chance. Ihave experienced every scenario you have experienced but on the other end.

It's not so much that Im going to help you be a step ahead of her in thegame - it's so that you're actually really in the game and playing it with her.

With my help you are going to be the guy who has a woman that is truly intohim, not because of what you do or what you have, but because you arebeing yourself and projecting a confident masculine bodylanguage/personality that women are intensely attracted to.

If you have any questions, concerns or comments feel free to email medirectly at [email protected]

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Now onto the good stuff!! How you REALLY get to know yourself so that you canbe authentic, real, and genuine.

One key thing to mention is that being authentic and real happens once you openup and start seeing others around you as different instead of wrong. The more that

you get to know yourself, the more understanding and accepting you can be of thedifferences in others.

There are some questions below that are going to help you discover how you think,feel, and what your core values are. They arent tough, or meant to trick you. Theyare actually very easy questions about a great topic that you are very familiar with,

YOU.

The questions were also developed to help you discover where you are and whereyou want to go in your life with women.

Please take your time and think about your answers. Again, they are for you, notfor anyone else. So really put some thought into them.

Instructions:

1. Answer questions in the order they are listed. If you feel you need moretime to think about a question, pause and take time to contemplate whatyou want to write.

2. Be real with yourself. No one is judging you and no one will ever see theseanswers.

3. You can input your answer directly on this document, or you can print it

out and answer the questions manually by hand.4. Most importantly - have fun!

Note that next steps are provided at the bottom of the questions.



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QUESTIONS

1. Look forward 20 years you are attending a function wheresomeone is giving a speech about YOU! What would you want themto say?

2. If time and resources were not a concern, describe things you long todo.

3. How would you define a true leader? What qualities does this leaderembody?

4. If you knew that you could not fail at what you really wanted to do,what would that be?

5. Think about two or three people you know who really inspire you.Who are they and what about them is inspiring?



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6. Whats missing in your personal and professional life? What wouldmake your personal and work life more fulfilling?

7. What are the biggest changes in your personal life and with womenyou want to make over:

a.) The next 3 Years?

b.) The next 3 Months?

8. What activities have meaning and purpose for you.

9. What are your biggest personal roadblocks to your personal andprofessional success?



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10. What is your commitment to eliminating these constraints?

11. Of the things you start, what is the percentage of things you finish?

12. What are you most satisfied with in your work and personal life

right now? What are you least satisfied with in your work andpersonal life right now?

13. What are your 3 greatest accomplishments or achievements up totoday?

14. What is the hardest thing in your life that youve had to:

a.) Overcome?

b.) Accept?



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WHAT TO DO NEXT?

So now that you have filled out all these questions, what are you supposed todo with the answers?

The first thing you should do is read them. Then add to them and tweakthem if necessary. Digest what you have written and get to know yourstrengths, weaknesses, likes, dislikes, wants and needs. I would suggestreading your answers every evening for a week.

NOTE: I guarantee each time you read them you will discover somethingnew to add, and you will begin to look at it differently. In addition, you willfeel different as well. You will start to have greater confidence, more innerstrength and a deeper understanding of yourself.

After that first week, I want you to go through your responses and look foryour personal core values. You will begin to notice that they are sprinkledthroughout the document. After you learn how to find them the first time, itwill eventually become easy to instantly pick them out in later exercises.

For example:

Answer to question #17:

It drives me crazy when people waste their time having small talk withothers in the office. It would be better if people did their work and then

socialized after. I would like that.

Values: If you look at this answer you will see one of the core values ishaving a work hard, play hard mentality. Thus, a clear line between workand play is important.

Go back to each question, look at your responses and see the deeper corevalue within each response.

You will find very interesting insights about what you value and dont value.

Use this deeper knowledge of yourself to also recognize that others aroundyou have different values than you. It will help you to be less angry withothers by having a deeper understanding and acceptance of theirvalues/actions.



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What Are Personal Values?

Personal values provide an internal reference for what is good, beneficial,important, useful, beautiful, desirable, and constructive, etc. Valuesgenerate behaviorand help solve common human problems for survival.

Comparative rankings of value provide answers to questions of why peopledo what they do and in what order they choose to do them.

The Importance of Clearly Defining Your Core Values

Defining our values gives us purpose. When you dont know or youhavent clearly defined your values, you end up drifting along in life. Insteadof basing your decisions on your own internal compass, you make choicesbased on circumstances and social pressures. One result is that you end uptrying to fulfill other peoples expectations instead of your own. Before you

know it, life has passed you by and you havent even started to live. Trying tobe someone else and living without core values is exhausting and leaves youfeeling empty and unfulfilled. Conversely, living a life in line with your corevalues brings purpose, direction, happiness, and wholeness.

Defining our values prevents us from making bad choices. Perhapsyou have a vague idea about what you value. But if you haventclearlydefinedyour values, you can end up making choices that conflict with them.And when your actions conflict with your values, the result is unhappinessand frustration.

Defining our values gives us confidence. Ive noticed that when I takethe time to really think and meditate upon what I value and then write thosethings down, Im more likely to have the courage and confidence to makechoices based on those values. Theres something about actually writingdown your values that makes you more committed to living them.

Defining our values makes life simpler.When youre sure of your corevalues, decision-making becomes easier. Furthermore, when faced with achoice, you simply ask yourself: Does this action align with my values? If itdoes, then do it. If it doesnt, then you probably should refrain from theaction. Instead of fretting over whats the best thing do to, and possiblyhaving great confusion when determining how to proceed in times of crisis,you simply let your internal compass guide you.



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Overall having an understanding of your core personal values will help youattract women, date women, seduce women, get a great woman andultimately have a strong relationship. Why? Because it helps you reallyunderstand yourself so that you can:

1. Be more open to others (especially women)2. Act less guarded and defensive3. Remain emotionally stable when you feel your ego getting bruised4. Be more empathetic to others who have different values then you5. Stay calm, and be less angry/frustrated with others6. Be your authentic real self7. Have a strong character that women are instantly attracted

too!

Women want a man with a strong sense of his core personal values, as well

as a man who can truly put his most authentic self forward.

There are 1000s of little things that most men dont know about women.But I guarantee that if you knew them, it would put you in the top 1% ofmen. The men in this elite group have their choice of virtually any womenthey want. As your own personal Wing Girl, I can tell every little thing youneed to know about women - including things that women would never wantyou to know.


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