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5/5/2015 14 Ways to Encourage Your Pastor http://www.victorious.org/blesspastor.htm 1/2 14 Ways to Encourage Your Pastor By Dr. Dale A. Robbins Eph 4:1116 (NKJV) “And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, (12) for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ, (13) till we all come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ; A Pastor is one of Christ’s five office gifts to the Church. Yes, pastoring is a gift... and a pastor happens to be a GIFT that God gives to a church. The term pastor comes from “shepherd,” one who guides and cares for a flock. Serving as a pastor is a remarkable and awesome blessing and privilege, but sometimes pastors can be the most misunderstood people in the church. Often their hours are long, the pay minimal, the criticism considerable and constant. Despite the joys of serving God, feelings of disappointment and discouragement can plague the best of them. However, here are 14 ways God can use you to become a blessing in his life, which also enhance your ability to receive from his ministry: 1. Roll up your Sleeves and Become a Part of the Team – Attend church faithfully and show that you’re eager to follow his leadership. This will bless your life and be a tremendous encouragement to your pastor. Look for opportunities to use your gifts and talents for the work of Christ. And become a soul winner. People all around us are lost in sin, dying and going to hell. Do all in your power to win them to Jesus Christ. Tell them what Christ has done for you and what He can do for them. “Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins.” (James 5:1920) 2. Be Openly Responsive Nothing excites a spiritual leader like seeing people respond to the preaching and teaching. Show him that you’re listening, and even say “Amen” once in a while. Not only will it make his day, but it may make the service shorter... as it is a proven fact that preachers often unconsciously repeat themselves when they feel they’re not connecting with their hearers. 3. Submit to the Leadership of your Pastor The Bible places special emphasis on submission to spiritual authorities. The writer of Hebrews says, “Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you.” (Heb 13:17). We are also instructed to follow and imitate those spiritual leaders as they follow Christ. Follow the man of God who is following Jesus Christ as set forth in the Word of God. “Remember those who rule over you, who have spoken the word of God to you, whose faith follow, considering the outcome of their conduct.”(Heb 13:7) 4. Treat him with Proper Respect Treat him with as much or more respect that you would anyone else in authority. Sometimes folks tend to think of him as an employee, instead of their spiritual leader. A pastor, however, is God’s appointed man, to help guide the soul of you and your family, and needs our love and respect. Express your respect to his authority by addressing him as “pastor” rather than by his first name, especially while on the church premises. “And we urge you, brethren, to recognize those who labor among you, and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, (13) and to esteem them very highly in love for their work’s sake...” (1 Thes 5:1213) 5. Pray, Pray, Pray for Your Pastor You know how much opposition that you receive yourself... from the world, the flesh, and the devil... and be assured, your pastor receives much more than you. Pray for him every day, and ask God to shower your pastor with an abundance of love, hope, joy, faith, peace, power, wisdom, and courage. Pray for your spiritual leader’s maturity and growth in the faith. While you pray be mindful of this wise advice from the German writer, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe: “If you treat a person as he is, he will stay as he is; but if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be, he will become what he ought to be and could be.” As Paul wrote, “Finally, brethren, pray for us, that the word of the Lord may run swiftly and be glorified, just as it is with you, and that we may be delivered from unreasonable and wicked men; for not all have faith.” (2 Thes 3:12) 6. Commit to Stand with Him Through Tough Times Be a REAL friend… not just a fairweather buddy. A genuine friend is someone who remains steadfast with you regardless of what may come. He stands with you in the adverse circumstances of life, does not forsake you when others may abandon you, helps guard you when you are off guard, helps hold you accountable to your values, forgives and encourages you if or when you fail. 7. Toss out the Cookie Cutter Don’t expect your pastor to do everything the same way the last pastor did. Trust God to use your spiritual leader to bring about relevant and effective ministry to the present need... and don’t stereotype him

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  • 5/5/2015 14WaystoEncourageYourPastor

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    14WaystoEncourageYourPastorByDr.DaleA.Robbins

    Eph4:1116(NKJV)AndHeHimselfgavesometobeapostles,someprophets,someevangelists,andsomepastorsandteachers,(12)fortheequippingofthesaintsfortheworkofministry,fortheedifyingofthebodyofChrist,(13)tillweallcometotheunityofthefaithandoftheknowledgeoftheSonofGod,toaperfectman,tothemeasureofthestatureofthefullnessofChrist

    APastorisoneofChristsfiveofficegiftstotheChurch.Yes,pastoringisagift...andapastorhappenstobeaGIFTthatGodgivestoachurch.Thetermpastorcomesfromshepherd,onewhoguidesandcaresforaflock.

    Servingasapastorisaremarkableandawesomeblessingandprivilege,butsometimespastorscanbethemostmisunderstoodpeopleinthechurch.Oftentheirhoursarelong,thepayminimal,thecriticismconsiderableandconstant.DespitethejoysofservingGod,feelingsofdisappointmentanddiscouragementcanplaguethebestofthem.However,hereare14waysGodcanuseyoutobecomeablessinginhislife,whichalsoenhanceyourabilitytoreceivefromhisministry:

    1.RollupyourSleevesandBecomeaPartoftheTeamAttendchurchfaithfullyandshowthatyoureeagertofollowhisleadership.Thiswillblessyourlifeandbeatremendousencouragementtoyourpastor.LookforopportunitiestouseyourgiftsandtalentsfortheworkofChrist.Andbecomeasoulwinner.Peopleallaroundusarelostinsin,dyingandgoingtohell.DoallinyourpowertowinthemtoJesusChrist.TellthemwhatChristhasdoneforyouandwhatHecandoforthem.Brethren,ifanyoneamongyouwandersfromthetruth,andsomeoneturnshimback,lethimknowthathewhoturnsasinnerfromtheerrorofhiswaywillsaveasoulfromdeathandcoveramultitudeofsins.(James5:1920)

    2.BeOpenlyResponsiveNothingexcitesaspiritualleaderlikeseeingpeoplerespondtothepreachingandteaching.Showhimthatyourelistening,andevensayAmenonceinawhile.Notonlywillitmakehisday,butitmaymaketheserviceshorter...asitisaprovenfactthatpreachersoftenunconsciouslyrepeatthemselveswhentheyfeeltheyrenotconnectingwiththeirhearers.

    3.SubmittotheLeadershipofyourPastorTheBibleplacesspecialemphasisonsubmissiontospiritualauthorities.ThewriterofHebrewssays,Obeythosewhoruleoveryou,andbesubmissive,fortheywatchoutforyoursouls,asthosewhomustgiveaccount.Letthemdosowithjoyandnotwithgrief,forthatwouldbeunprofitableforyou.(Heb13:17).WearealsoinstructedtofollowandimitatethosespiritualleadersastheyfollowChrist.FollowthemanofGodwhoisfollowingJesusChristassetforthintheWordofGod.Rememberthosewhoruleoveryou,whohavespokenthewordofGodtoyou,whosefaithfollow,consideringtheoutcomeoftheirconduct.(Heb13:7)

    4.TreathimwithProperRespectTreathimwithasmuchormorerespectthatyouwouldanyoneelseinauthority.Sometimesfolkstendtothinkofhimasanemployee,insteadoftheirspiritualleader.Apastor,however,isGodsappointedman,tohelpguidethesoulofyouandyourfamily,andneedsourloveandrespect.Expressyourrespecttohisauthoritybyaddressinghimaspastorratherthanbyhisfirstname,especiallywhileonthechurchpremises.Andweurgeyou,brethren,torecognizethosewholaboramongyou,andareoveryouintheLordandadmonishyou,(13)andtoesteemthemveryhighlyinlovefortheirworkssake...(1Thes5:1213)

    5.Pray,Pray,PrayforYourPastorYouknowhowmuchoppositionthatyoureceiveyourself...fromtheworld,theflesh,andthedevil...andbeassured,yourpastorreceivesmuchmorethanyou.Prayforhimeveryday,andaskGodtoshoweryourpastorwithanabundanceoflove,hope,joy,faith,peace,power,wisdom,andcourage.Prayforyourspiritualleadersmaturityandgrowthinthefaith.WhileyoupraybemindfulofthiswiseadvicefromtheGermanwriter,JohannWolfgangvonGoethe:Ifyoutreatapersonasheis,hewillstayasheisbutifyoutreathimasifhewerewhatheoughttobe,hewillbecomewhatheoughttobeandcouldbe.AsPaulwrote,Finally,brethren,prayforus,thatthewordoftheLordmayrunswiftlyandbeglorified,justasitiswithyou,andthatwemaybedeliveredfromunreasonableandwickedmenfornotallhavefaith.(2Thes3:12)

    6.CommittoStandwithHimThroughToughTimesBeaREALfriendnotjustafairweatherbuddy.Agenuinefriendissomeonewhoremainssteadfastwithyouregardlessofwhatmaycome.Hestandswithyouintheadversecircumstancesoflife,doesnotforsakeyouwhenothersmayabandonyou,helpsguardyouwhenyouareoffguard,helpsholdyouaccountabletoyourvalues,forgivesandencouragesyouiforwhenyoufail.

    7.TossouttheCookieCutterDontexpectyourpastortodoeverythingthesamewaythelastpastordid.TrustGodtouseyourspiritualleadertobringaboutrelevantandeffectiveministrytothepresentneed...anddontstereotypehim

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    eitherwiththestrengthsorshortcomingsofotherspiritualleadersyouveknown.Letyourpastorbehimself.Yourpastorisanimperfecthumanbeing,andisuniquewithhisowndistinctpersonality,giftsandtalents.Notallpastorsarethesame,sodontputhiminaboxandexpecthimtobeaduplicateofothersyouveknown.

    8.BePatientandUnderstandingwithyourpastor,hismate,andhischildren.Donotexpectyourpastororhisfamilytobeperfect,theyarehumantoo.AmanofGodhasthesamehumantendenciesthatweallface,andsodoeshisfamily.Letyourpastorsspousebeherself,anddontplaceunspokenexpectationsonhertoperformparticularministriesorbelikeformerpastorsspouses.Justlovetheminfindingtheirplace.

    9.Supporthimfinanciallysohecankeephismindontheworkoftheministry.Ifamancannotproperlycareforhisfamily,hewillbedistractedfromtheministry.Itcostsyourpastorjustasmuchtoliveasitdoesyou,andinsomecasesmuchmorebecauseofaddedexpensessuchasbooks,transportationorthewayheisexpectedtodress.Lettheelderswhorulewellbecountedworthyofdoublehonor,especiallythosewholaborinthewordanddoctrine.FortheScripturesays,Youshallnotmuzzleanoxwhileittreadsoutthegrain,and,Thelaborerisworthyofhiswages.(1Tim5:1718)

    10.GiveHimtheBenefitoftheDoubtSupportyourpastorevenwhenhecantpubliclyexplainwhycertaindecisionsoractionshavebeenmade.Oftentimes,toprotecttheprivacyofothers,pastorsandleadersfrequentlycannotdiscloseeverythingpublicly...andprofessionalethicssometimesdemandsilenceoverissuesthatareverysensitive.Ifatoughdecisiontakesplace,supportyourpastorandavoidthecriticismthatusuallycomesalongwithsuchsituations.

    11.KnockoffBehindHisBackCriticismMinisters,aswellasvirtuallyallpublicauthorityfigures,areoftenthesubjectofincessantcriticism.Ifthereisalegitimatematterthatconcernstheleader,itshouldbeaddressedtohimpersonallybutcriticismbehindonesbackcertainlydoesnthelpthem,andwhendistributedaboutcancausealotofharmtoaleadersreputationandcredibility.

    12.SquelchGossipandBadMouthingDonotspeakagainstorlistentogossiporslanderaboutyourpastor.Ifyouhearnegativecomments,respondwithapositiveone.Ifmisinformationisbeingspread,correctitwiththeaccurateinformation.Or,ifpeoplearegossiping,justwalkaway.TheApostlePaulsaid,Donotreceiveanaccusationagainstanelderexceptfromtwoorthreewitnesses.(1Tim5:19)

    13.LookforopportunitiestoencouragehimTellhimwhenhehashelpedyou.Ephesians4:29teachesustosaysthingsthatedify,andyouministergracetoyourpastorwheneveryoutellhimhowhehashelpedyou.Hewillbeamoreeffective,dedicatedservantofGodifyougivehimsomefeedbackonhisministrytoyou(seeProv.3:27).ItwillalsobeveryencouragingifyoutellyourSundaySchoolteacher,spouse,andyourchildrenhowtheyhavehelpedorbeenablessingtoyou.Praisedoesntcostbutitpaystremendousdividendsinthehome,inthechurch,intheschoolandonthejob.Andbesuretorecognizeyourpastorandhisspouseforbirthdays,anniversariesandChristmas.Itisnotalwaysnecessarytogivegifts,buttoberememberedonthesespecialdaysisanexpressionofyourloveandencouragement.

    14.StayfocusedonthebigpictureThebigpictureisJESUS...tolove,forgiveandseektobringsoulsintotheKingdomofGod.Dontgetweigheddownbychurchpolitics,nonsense,offensesorwhateverelsegoeson,butkeepyourfocusonJesusandonwhatthechurchandthepastorarereallyallabout!

    ThisarticleiscopyrightedbyDaleA.Robbins,2008,andisapublicationofVictoriousPublications,GrassValley,CA95949.Unlessotherwisestated,allscripturereferencesweretakenfromTheNewKingJamesBible,ThomasNelsonInc.,1982.Youmaydownloadthisarticleforpersonaluseaslongasyouretaincredittotheauthor.Obtainpermissionbeforereproducingcopiesforanyreason,byfillingoutoursimplepermissionform.Thiswritingisalsoavailableasanattractivetrifoldpamphlet,whichcanbedownloadedforreproductionfromourOnlineCatalog.Formediareproductionrights,ortoobtainquantitiesofthistitleinotherformats,emailus..

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