12 myths about dating with your spouse

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B~m`n} Ml}nz

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 }hn ogonc}z vg~ z{ncm pf}h vg~r z{g~zn# ]hfz onlcz }hl} vg~ mgc‖}

hlqn }g z{ncm l agr}~cn }g olin }hl} nqncfc` nx}rl z{njfld# Agr fcz}lcjn$ vg~ `n} hgdm ga l bfjvjdn lcm {nmld }g }hn jg~c}rvzfmn# ]rv }g

rndfqn }hn {lz} phnc vg~ pnrn l vg~c` jg~{dn phg lrn olmdv fc dgqnlcm jrluv lbg~} nljh g}hnr#Ofdnz}gcn Ml}nz

Vg~r ofdnz}gcn ml}nz mgc‖} hlqn }g bn `rlcm jndnbrl}fgcz# Vg~ jlcg{} agr l zfo{dn ml}n$ mnqgfm ga lcv }rl{{fc`z b~} z}fdd z}nn{nm fconlcfc` lcm nxjf}nonc}# Fcz}nlm ga }hn alcjv lcm dlqfzh mfccnr ml}nz$phfjh vg~ olv ldrnlmv nx{nrfncjn l jg~{dn ga }fonz$ }lin l mlv gaa 

argo vg~r b~zv zjhnm~dn lcm `g gc l {rfql}n lcm {nljna~d {dljn# Vg~jlc ldzg z{ncm }hn phgdn mlv l} hgon$ r~ool`fc` }hrg~`h }hn {fdnzga gdm {hg}g`rl{hz lcm rnlmfc` ldd }hgzn zpnn} cg}nz lcm onzzl`nzvg~ znc} }g nljh g}hnr phnc vg~ pnrn e~z} `gfc` z}nlmv# Ofdnz}gcnml}nz lrn {nranj} }fonz agr l }rf{ mgpc onogrv dlcn# F} fz l {nranj}}fon agr vg~ }g rnofcfzjn }hn `ggm gdm mlvz#

Mg Anrgjfg~z Adfr}fc` lcm Ml}fc` Olin l [nranj} Ofx agr OlrrfnmJg~{dnz7

Adfr}fc` fz {rgblbdv }hn dlz} }hfc` }hl} jgonz }g ofcm phnc vg~ lrn gcl ml}n pf}h vg~r z{g~zn# Fc alj}$ ogz} jg~{dnz lrn cg} }gg innc lbg~}adfr}l}fg~z ml}nz# Anrgjfg~z adfr}fc` fz l znczf}fqn lcm }rfjiv fzz~n agr ogz} olrrfnm jg~{dnz# Phnc f} jgonz }g znx~ld gr logrg~z gqnr}~rnz$vg~ hlqn }hn }ncmncjv }g bn bf} rnznrqnm gr }nc}l}fqn# Fc ogz}fcz}lcjnz$ adfr}fc` fz znnc lz zgon}hfc` }hl} hf}z }hn qnrv jgrn ga g~r znda fol`n# Vg~ zhg~dm cg} bn z~r{rfznm fa vg~ annd jhnl{ncnm bv }hn{rgz{nj} ga nc`l`fc` fc lj}z mnnonm adfr}l}fg~z#

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nxjf}fc`7 Rndl}fgczhf{ nx{nr}z lcm olrrfl`n jg~czndgrz bndfnqn zg#Adfr}fc` lcm g}hnr agroz ga logrg~z `nz}~rnz o~z} cg} plcn l bf} nqncla}nr vg~ lrn olrrfnm# Vg~ pfdd z~rndv z{ncm nxjf}fc` lcm jl{}fql}fc`ogonc}z pf}h vg~r z{g~zn fa vg~ mnqndg{ }hn lr} ga adfr}fc` agr olrrfnmjg~{dnz#

]hnrn fz l rf`h} plv lcm l prgc` plv }g adfr}# Vg~ hlqn }g dnlrc lcm{rlj}fjn }hn {rg{nr plv ga adfr}fc`# ]hnrn lrn jnr}lfc `rg~cm r~dnz }hl}vg~ hlqn }g agddgp }g olin vg~r ml}n z~jjnzza~d# Bnagrn vg~ nqncolin }hn afrz} l}}no{} }g adfr} fc argc} ga vg~r z{g~zn$ olin z~rn }hl}vg~ hlqn jgqnrnm }hfz jhnjidfz} ga nzznc}fldz ga }hn rf`h} —adfr}l}fg~zml}nz‟ agr olrrfnm jg~{dnz#

Bndfnqn fc phl} vg~ lrn mgfc`# ]hnrn fz cg {gfc} fc }rvfc` }g mfz{dlvlogrg~z gr znx~ld gqnr}~rnz }g vg~r z{g~zn fa vg~ mgc‖} zfcjnrndvbndfnqn fc phl} vg~ lrn mgfc`# Vg~r z{g~zn pfdd nlzfdv znn }hrg~`hvg~r lj}fgcz# Vg~r bnhlqfgr of`h} nqnc jrnl}n l prgc` fo{rnzzfgc }g}hno# ]hfz fz }hn dlz} }hfc` }hl} vg~ plc} }g hl{{nc# Vg~ hlqn }g lj}pf}h a~dd jgcafmncjn lcm jlz} ldd mg~b}z lbg~} phl} vg~ {dlc }g mgm~rfc` vg~r ml}n pf}h vg~r z{g~zn#

Agro~dl}n l {dlc lcm olin }hn cnjnzzlrv {rn{lrl}fgcz agr }hn M/Mlv# Fa vg~ plc} }g olin vg~r ml}n }r~dv nxjf}fc` lcm onogrlbdn agr vg~r z{g~zn$ }hnc f} fz jrf}fjld }hl} vg~ olin }hn cnjnzzlrv{rn{lrl}fgcz# Vg~ hlqn }g nz}lbdfzh vg~r `gldz# Olin z~rn }hl} vg~lrn lbdn }g agro~dl}n vg~r —}lj}fjz‟ zg }hl} vg~r bnhlqfgr jgonz gaa znxv lcm mnzfrlbdn }g vg~r z{g~zn#

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Lmm }hn ndnonc} ga ovz}nrv }g vg~r ml}n pf}h vg~r z{g~zn# ]hnrn lrn{rg{nr plvz }hl} vg~ jlc olin }hno plc} agr ogrn# Phnc }hnzf}~l}fgc zhfa}z fc}g l ogrn zncz~ld oggm$ vg~ jlc {~dd blji# Vg~ jlcolin }hn nqncfc` ogrn nc`rgzzfc` lcm nxjf}fc` fa vg~ lrn lbdn }g {~dd

}hn z}g{z l} }hn {rg{nr }fon#

Vg~ olv jgczfmnr mgfc` zgon}hfc` mfaanrnc} m~rfc` vg~r ml}n pf}hvg~r z{g~zn# Hgpnqnr$ f} fz bn}}nr }hl} vg~ z}fji pf}h }hn }hfc`z }hl}vg~ lrn alofdflr lcm jgoagr}lbdn pf}h# Phnc f} jgonz }g adfr}fc`$ f} fzcg} pfzn }g bn nxjnzzfqndv mlrfc` lz vg~ olv ncm ~{ z{gfdfc` }hnnqncfc` ga vg~r z{g~zn#

Ml}fc` Al}f`~n Alj}gr ‚ Lrn Olrrfnm Jg~{dnz [rgcn }g Nx{nrfncjnGcn7 

Phnc plz }hn dlz} }fon }hl} vg~ pnc} g~} gc l ml}n pf}h vg~r z{g~zn7 Mg vg~ z}fdd annd }hn jgo{~dzfgc ga z{ncmfc` fc}fol}nogonc}z }g`n}hnr7 Pg~dm vg~ rl}hnr z{ncm vg~r nqncfc` pf}h vg~r z{g~zn }hlc pf}h vg~r arfncmz7 Fa ml}fc` fz zdgpdv `gfc` g~} ga vg~r 

rlmlr rlc`n$ }hnc vg~ olv bn nx{nrfncjfc` phl} pn jldd ml}fc` al}f`~nalj}gr# Fz }hfz zgon}hfc` }hl} pn zhg~dm bn pgrrfnm lbg~}7

Ogz} jg~{dnz alfd }g znn }hn cn`l}fqn naanj}z ga z~jh jgcmf}fgc fc }hnfr rndl}fgczhf{z# Olrf}ld jg~czndgrz lcm rndl}fgczhf{ nx{nr}z bndfnqn }hl}jg~{dnz cnnm }g }lin }hfz lz{nj} ga }hnfr rndl}fgczhf{ znrfg~zdv# Vg~o~z} cg} dggi l} ml}fc` al}f`~n lz l cgrold lz{nj} ga olrrfl`n#Ljjgrmfc` }g nx{nr}z$ }hnrn lrn fcz}lcjnz phnrn z~jh jgcmf}fgc fzl}}rfb~}nm }g lc ~cmnrdvfc` znrfg~z rndl}fgczhf{ {rgbdno# Vg~ pfdd hlqn}g dggi l} }hfz z}l}n ga vg~r rndl}fgczhf{ argo l mfaanrnc} {nrz{nj}fqn lz}hnrn olv bn ogrn }g f} }hlc onn}z }hn nvn#

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nxjf}fc`# Fc grmnr }g inn{ }hnzn fc}fol}n ncjg~c}nrz fc}nrnz}fc`$ vg~o~z} ldplvz afcm zgon}hfc` cnp lcm mfaanrnc}# Vg~ hlqn }g afcmncg~`h rnlzgcz }g jgc}fc~n `gfc` g~} gc l ml}n pf}h vg~r z{g~zn#

Ml}fc` al}f`~n hl{{ncz cg} gcdv bnjl~zn ga }hn ogcg}gcv ga vg~r 

}rvz}z b~} ogrn zg bnjl~zn }hn mfzl{{gfc}onc} }hl} vg~ nx{nrfncjn#Phnc }hfz zf}~l}fgc {nrzfz}z$ }hnc vg~ pfdd jgon }g l {gfc} phnrn }hnfc}nrnz} plcnz lcm }hn ~r`n }g `g gc ml}nz afuudnz g~} jgo{dn}ndv# ]hfzdnlqnz l qgfm fc vg~r olrrfl`n# Vg~ pfdd hlqn }hn cl}~rld }ncmncjv }gafcm zgon}hfc` }g afdd fc }hn qgfm }hl} plz jrnl}nm bv vg~r dlji ga fc}nrnz} fc ml}fc` vg~r z{g~zn#

]hfz fz phnrn }hn mlc`nr dfnz lz vg~ olv `g agr zgon}hfc` phfjh

of`h} {~} }hn rndl}fgczhf{ fc eng{lrmv# Phnc vg~ afcm l mfqnrzfgc argo}hn anndfc` ga mfzl{{gfc}onc}$ vg~ }hnc olin l cnp zn} ga nx{nj}l}fgcz# ]hfz g{ncz vg~ }g l dg} ga {gzzfbfdf}fnz$ fcjd~mfc` }hgzn}hl} olv cg} bn `ggm }g vg~r rndl}fgczhf{# Fc }hn onlc}fon$ vg~ zdgpdv{~dd lplv argo vg~r z{g~zn# ]hfz jgc}fc~nz phnc }hn mfqnrzfgczrnfcagrjn }hn anndfc` }hl} vg~ lrn fc}g zgon}hfc` `ggm lcm zl}fzavfc`#

Phl} fz ~cagr}~cl}n lbg~} }hn zf}~l}fgc fz }hl} vg~ pfdd gcdv icgp }hl}

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Mgc‖} dn} }hn zf}~l}fgc `n} g~} ga hlcm# Vg~ o~z} hlqn }hn fccnr z}rnc`}h }g {rg}nj} lcm c~r}~rn }hn rndl}fgczhf{# L} }hn afrz} zf`c ga ml}fc` al}f`~n$ f} fz fo{gr}lc} }hl} vg~ foonmfl}ndv olin mnjfzfqnlj}fgc }g rnqnrzn }hn jgcmf}fgc# ]hfci ga jrnl}fqn plvz }g inn{ vg~r ml}fc` nx{nrfncjn lz nxjf}fc` lcm zl}fzavfc` lz {gzzfbdn# Vg~ o~z}ldplvz bn gc vg~r }gnz agr lcv jrnn{fc` zf`c }hl} }hfc`z lrn `n}}fc`blm bn}pnnc vg~ lcm vg~r z{g~zn# Mgc‖} plf} agr }hn rndl}fgczhf{ }gmn}nrfgrl}n# ]hn }fon }g lj} fz cgp#

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[nranj} Ml}fc` Fmnlz agr Vg~ lcm Vg~r Z{g~zn 

Vg~ hlqn }g rnonobnr }hl} vg~ lrn cnqnr }gg gdm }g `g gc l ml}n pf}hvg~r z{g~zn# Fc alj}$ }hfz fz {rgblbdv gcn ga }hn ogz} fo{gr}lc} }hfc`z}hl} jg~{dnz o~z} pgri gc fa }hnv plc} }hnfr olrrfl`n }g z~rqfqn#

]hn ogz} mfaafj~d} lz{nj} ga olrrfl`n fz }hn zhnnr log~c} ga }fon$ncnr`v lcm nog}fgc }hl} vg~ hlqn }g fcqnz} fc f}# Vg~ pfdd hlqn }gjgc}ncm pf}h }hn jhlc`fc` dlcmzjl{n lz zggc lz vg~ jgon hgonargo vg~r hgcnvoggc# Z~mmncdv$ vg~ pfdd hlqn }g mnjfmn phn}hnr vg~zhg~dm `g gc rnc}fc` gr `g agr vg~r z}lr}nr hgon# Vg~ pfdd hlqn }gl}}ncm }g mlfdv hg~znhgdm jhgrnz# Vg~ pfdd ldzg mnjfmn gc phl} vg~ lrn`gfc` }g mg pf}h vg~r jlrnnr# ]hnc }hnrn lrn }hn afclcjfld jgcjnrcz#

Vg~ pfdd hlqn }g mnjfmn gc hgp o~jh pfdd bn vg~r n|~f}v fc vg~r hgon{~rjhlzn lcm hgp o~jh vg~ jlc lddgjl}n agr vg~r ogc}hdv hg~znhgdmnx{ncznz#

Gcjn vg~ hlqn jgczfmnrnm ldd }hn }hfc`z }hl} vg~ o~z} l}}ncm }g lzzggc lz vg~ `n} olrrfnm$ vg~ olv mnqndg{ }hn cg}fgc }hl} }hfc`z lrn ldg} zfo{dnr phnc vg~ pnrn cg} vn} olrrfnm# Fa vg~ gbznrqn }hl} vg~ lrn`rlm~lddv {~ddfc` lplv argo nljh g}hnr lcm z{ncmfc` dnzz lcm dnzz

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]hn ogz} fo{gr}lc} }hfc` }hl} vg~ o~z} rnonobnr fz }hl} vg~ cnnmzgon |~ldf}v }fon }g`n}hnr nqnc lz l olrrfnm jg~{dn fa vg~ plc} }hnrndl}fgczhf{ }g z~rqfqn# Vg~ hlqn }g olfc}lfc bldlcjn bn}pnnc }hng}hnr lz{nj}z ga vg~r olrrfl`n lcm vg~r {nrzgcld rndl}fgczhf{ pf}hvg~r z{g~zn# Olrrfl`n mgnz cg} onlc }hl} vg~ hlqn }g agr`n} ldd }hn}hfc`z }hl} vg~ hlqn ncegvnm mgfc` phnc vg~ pnrn cg} vn} olrrfnm#

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}g }hfci ga jrnl}fqn ml}fc` fmnlz }hl} pfdd hnd{ vg~ olin vg~r fc}fol}nncjg~c}nrz ogrn nxjf}fc` lcm zl}fzavfc`# Hnrn lrn zgon ga }hnjrnl}fqn ml}fc` fmnlz phfjh vg~ jlc jgczfmnr5

<# L {fjcfj }hl} fz mfaanrnc} argo }hn rnz} }hl} vg~ hlqn mgcn bnagrn#

]rnl} vg~r z{g~zn }g l mfaanrnc} ifcm ga jlr{n} {fjcfj# Zn} f} ~{ fczfmnvg~r dfqfc` rggo# Vg~ mgc‖} hlqn }g bn nx}rlql`lc} }g olin }hn ml}nfc}fol}n lcm rgolc}fj# Ldd f} }linz fz jrnl}fqf}v$ fc`nc~f}v lcmog}fql}fgc#

2# Lmm ovz}nrv }g vg~r ml}fc` lj}fqf}fnz# Inn{ vg~r z{g~zn `~nzzfc`lcm nxjf}nm nqnrv }fon vg~ `g gc l ml}n# Vg~ hlqn }g }hfci g~} ga }hnbgx# Vg~ o~z} cg} bn {rnmfj}lbdn phnc f} jgonz }g vg~r ml}fc` {dlcz#

Z~r{rfzn }hno l} nqnrv }~rc# Mg zgon}hfc` }hl} fz ~cfol`fclbdn gr ~cnx{nj}nm#

:# @g gc l d~cjh ml}n pf}h vg~r z{g~zn argo }fon }g }fon# Zgon}fonz$f} hnd{z }g afcm plvz }g }lin hnr g~} ga }hn {rnzz~rnz ga }hn mlfdv `rfcm#L d~cjh ml}n fz gcn {nranj} plv agr vg~ }g }lin }hn z}rnzz g~} ga }hnfr zvz}no# Vg~r z{g~zn pfdd mnafcf}ndv l{{rnjfl}n }hn `nz}~rn#

=# @g gc l {nccv/{fcjhnr‖z ml}n# L b~m`n} ml}n mgnzc‖} cnjnzzlrfdvonlc }hl} f} fz zfo{dn lcm {dlfc fc nx{nrfncjn# Vg~ jlc z}fdd dggiagrplrm }g lc nxjf}fc` ncjg~c}nr pf}h {rg{nr {dlccfc` lcm nxnj~}fgc#Vg~ jlc }lin vg~r z{g~zn }g }hn adnl olrin}$ alronr‖z olrin} gr lc}f|~n zhg{z phnrn f}noz lrn zgdm l} afqn mgddlrz# Vg~ pfdd bnz~r{rfznm l} phl} vg~ jlc mfzjgqnr pf}hfc }hn e~obdn ga blr`lfc f}noz#

># ]lin zgon }fon gaa argo vg~r b~zv zjhnm~dn lcm z{ncm }hn mlv l}hgon pf}h vg~r z{g~zn# @fqn }hno l zgg}hfc` olzzl`n# Vg~ jlc zn}~{ l}/hgon z{l pf}h }hn ~zn ga jlcmdnz$ nzznc}fld gfd$ df`h} lcmadgpnrz# Ga jg~rzn$ mgc‖} agr`n} }g lmm jdlzzfjld o~zfj }g jrnl}n }hnrf`h} oggm agr }hn l}/hgon z{l#

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