10 things you need to know if you're in a relationship with a narcissist
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Top 10 Need-to-Know Facts for
People in Relationships With
Narcissists
with Angela AtkinsonCertified Life CoachGoAskAngie.com ~ QueenBeeing.com
Feel like you’re being
brainwashed? Or
like you’re crazy?
If you’re struggling with a narcissist in a toxic relationship, you may have been under pressure for so long that you’re not even sure which way is up anymore.
You’re not alone.
Start the healing with
your own head. You have to change those thoughts and limiting
beliefs that are holding you back.
Let’s Start Here.
Ready?
This might hit you kinda
hard. Sit down.
If you're currently in this situation, you may have never heard these things--
and when you first see and hear them, you probably won't even believe them.
But these are truths--and you keep reading, listenig to and viewing them
until you get it.
Changing your mind will help you to change your life.
Start by tweaking your perspective a bit...
LITERALLY.
Top 10 Things You Need to Know if You’re in a Toxic Relationship with
a Narcissist
Despite what
you’ve been
told, you ARE a real
person . BELIEVE IT!You are a real person with legitimate concerns,
thoughts, feelings and aspirations.
Don’t believe the lies The
Narc Tells You About
Yourself.You are good enough.
You are going to be okay -
and as sucessful as you want to
be. You don't need anyone's approval or endorsement to help you succeed. You can get validation through success in your own, self-dictated endeavors.
You aren’t to blame for this
situation. It isn't about you and that it isn't your fault. You
aren't bad or broken.
You can do
whatever you want.
You simply must decide to do so. If you choose to do it,
you'll be compelled to take inspired action and you will
make it happen.And you have to believe that
is true.
You Matter. You have something real to offer the world.
You matter. You have value.
It’s Your Identity. You get
to choose it
Choosing your own identity does not make you selfish, lazy, entitled or otherwise
unsavory. Who do you wanna be?
YOU Choose
Your Own Identity.
Every Day.
You get to choose my own identity every day. You
decide who you are and how far you go.Are you prepared?
Compromise must be fair. But compromise means that both parties bend
and both parties are satisfied with the outcome. It's not compromising to give up what you truly
want in order to make someone else happy or to keep them from getting angry at you.
You can compromise for someone you love to a certain point
when it's time to choose your priorities and choose a path.
Walking Away is Okay
If you were to walk away from the toxic relationship, the world wouldn’t end. It might be hard, and you will need to do some soul
searching.
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