which way to the good life?
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Type & Money/Special Topic
Which Way to the Good Life? By Ray Linder
Beth wants mad money that she can splurge, but Gordon observes, penny
is a penny earned." Don wants to retire to a comfortable lifestyle in 20 years. but Marjorie wants comfortable living room furniture today.
When it comes to money, most people want to use it to attain the good life. However, because we are propelled to that life by different motivations, people find themselves going there in opposite directions.
Jung's initial typology was based upon two opposing directions, or atti-
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APT needs to work on onesidedness. Our biggest typological weakness is the relative lack of the sensing preference among our members and leadership (see Tom Penderghast's article, 'fi Case Study," in the last issue of the Bulletin, p. 4), but there are other potential problems. Our age distribution, for example, is skewed towards the older end of the spectrum.
We need to have more theoretical diversity. Ironically, too much devotion to the Jungian model can make us onesided. Too much focus on application rather than research and theory (or vice versa) can also. Too much reliance on the MBTI to the exclusion of other instruments does not promote balance,. The defining of orthodox positions about type diminishes diversity of opinion and makes us a less vibrant organization.
It is in the creative interplay of opposing ideas and personalities that APT can be a dynamic organization. We don't want to be as bland or unipolar as the trait theories, do we?
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tudes, of psychic energy. Extraverted energy focuses on the outer world of objects, places, and things, and introverted energv focuses on the inner
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world of ideas, thoughts, and feelings. Jung found that the extraverted and
introverted attitudes combine with the four functions of sensing, intuition, thinking, and feeling to create eight basic mental processes that are central to the functioning of the human mind.
With the four basic functions modified by opposing preferences for extraversion and introversion, each of the eight function-attitudes represent different patterns of psychologically satisfying behavior, generating radically different meaningful money management practices. The result is eight distinctively different paths to the financial good life.
Extraverted Sensing (ESTP, ESFP) Captivated and dominated by the
need to participate in the moment, money is a means to by which extraverted sensors satisfy strong personal
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desires: "I want it, so I get it, even if I can't afford it," says one. To them, planning and saving are impractical. "It's our chance! \\Thy wait and miss the moment?" Prior experience means little to extraverted sensors, so they have little store or brand loyalty. ''I'm here, so I may as well buy it, even if it's cheaper elsewhere. vVhy waste time?''
Introverted Sensing (1ST J, ISFJ) Handling money responsibly is criti
cal to introverted sensors. "I pay close attention to what I'm spending;' says one, who plans and saves for most purchases. Uncomfortable with credit, introverted sensors will generally go without something if they can't afford it today. Past experience matters greatly
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Linder is the CEO of Good-stewardship.com and the author of three books, including \Vhat Will I Do With My Money?, published by Northfield in June 2000. ([email protected])
to them, resulting in strong store and brand loyalty and specific stores for specific needs. "I hate not finding what I want, and I must know where everything is in the store and who the salespeople are:'
Extraverted Intuition (ENTP, ENFP) Extraverted intuitives are natural sav
ers whose ability to enjoy the present is contingent upon being financially prepared for the future. Today's issues are less important than tomorrow's goals and they will sacrifice in the present to achieve their future plans. ''I'm saving for a trip to Israel next year, so other things will have to wait;' says Sonya. Extraverted intuitives dislike being restricted by not having enough money to respond to different options. But they can be paralyzed by too many possibilities and will often resolve the inability to decide by buying all the choices. "I don't spend money too often, but when I do, look out!"
Introverted Intuition (I NT J, INFJ) "Champagne tastes" or "the best
money that can buy" reflect the financial heartbeat of introverted intuitives. Monev has meaning when it is used to enjoy ~he aesthetic side of life: elegance,
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Type & Money/Counseling & Psychotherapy
Which Way to the Good Life? Continued from page 4
class, ambience, beauty, and taste. \t\lhen going out to dinner, "I envision the ambience first, then make my selection of where to dine," says Fran. They are idealistic shoppers who seek perfection and will do without unless they find it. But they are decisive when they do, because the ideal is more important than cost. They are also insightful gift givers with an uncanny ability to disce rn what people will want or like.
Extraverted Thinking (EST J, ENT J) Whether they use envelopes, boxes,
notebooks, folders, or software, extraverted thinkers are easily the most organized in their approach to money. First, every piece of financial data must be arranged into an orderly system, storing years of records, receipts, statements, and cancelled checks. Then, all cash must flow through a methodical tracking system so they know where every dollar is and where it's going. One extraverted thinker describes his system as his emotional comfort zone. "\t\lhen the house is disorganized, I feel financially burdened, which makes me go back to my financial system to see if everything is okay."
Introverted Thinking (ISTP, INTP) Introverted thinkers are highly ana
lytical comparison shoppers, accumulating data for mental models to establish what an item is intrinsically worth. Prospective purchases are evaluated for their utility and then analyzed to determine the right price for that utility. "If I'm not sure what the value is, I have to investigate it further. Even if I . want it, and recognize that others may pay the market's price, I may not if I don't think the value's there." Price is not a selling feat ure to introverted thinkers, who will buy an expensive item once they understand it well enough to determine it's intrinsic value.
Extraverted Feeling (ESFJ, ENFJ) Using money to make personal con
nections is what matters most to extra-
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verted feelers. "I use money to make people feel loved, especially people who have done nice things for me;' says Tina. "Or if someone is having a bad day, I'll buy them an encouraging card. I also feel very responsible about taking care of people, especially family and
While all of the eight function-attitudes are legitimate styles of money management, the ones we prefer can send us in the opposite direction of the financial good life.
close friends, and I'll go without if it means making sure others have what they need." extraverted feelers detest categorizing people by income or financial status.
Introverted Feeling (ISFP, INFP) To introverted feelers , morals mat
ter more than material goods, and ethics are more important than expenditures. Of all types, money matters least to them. They feel no pressure to keep up with the Joneses, which makes their li festyle highly individualistic. "I don't care if I have money, but if I do, I want to use it to do things I like or buy things I want." for the introverted feeler, money is merely an external tool that reflects their inner values, none of which have anything to do with money.
Each of the eight function-attitudes represent legitimate styles of money management but the ones we prefer can send us in opposite directions in our search for the financial good life. Increased awareness of the psychological needs we use money to fulfill should result in more financially satisfying behavior.
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Masquerade of the Inferior Function By Paula McDonald
It's not unusual to see clients presenting their inferior functions in therapy. This least preferred function, opposite the dominant preference, is naturally the most unconscious and the most likely to erupt with primitive material. As the function over which we have the least control, it is usually hidden and shadowy, and when it emerges, it shows itself prominently as the opposite of what we expect to see in a healthy individual.
\t\lhat might be going on when we encounter such a phenomenon? I've identified two possibilities:
One possibility is that the client is in the grip of her or his inferior function. Naomi Quenk (1993) uses this language to describe an episode in which conscious control is disrupted by an eruption of the inferior function. This can be triggered by a variety of circumstances, with the result that the individual is thrown into primitive unconscious processes.
In the Grip Any of us can find ourselves in the
grip of an inferior function eruption from time to time. Usually we work our way out of it, sometimes even experiencing it as a positive growth experience. If one is stuck in the grip of the inferior function, however, the severity and the length of the episode might bring someone into therapy.
\t\lhen a client presents the inferior function, a second possibility is that he or she lives everyday life as if the inferior function were primary. It's as if the inferior masquerades as the dominant preference. My experience has been that when we see such a masquerade, usually something has happened
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