what is your "big why"? what is your "big you"

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<p>I want you to think about a major goal that gives your life a sense of meaning right now: some personal goal that you would like to achieve.</p> <p>WHAT IS YOUR BIG YOU?WHAT IS YOUR BIG WHY?</p> <p><br />I want you to think about a major goal that gives your life a sense of meaning right now: some personal goal that you would like to achieve.</p> <p>Ask yourself!</p> <p>What do I want to leave in this life? </p> <p>If I had to write a statement about my life right now, what would I like to say about it? </p> <p>I have been asking my self these questions long time ago!</p> <p>Why am I here and what do I want to leave?</p> <p>When People look at me, they often say you are a blessed, you are lucked.</p> <p> Even Though.</p> <p>I could not say the same!</p> <p>There was a time when I woke up every morning to the roosters crowing, sweating, with my eyes half asleep</p> <p>I tried to reach a peace of a school uniform that was hanging in a piece of stick behind me.</p> <p>I woke up, took a can with water, stood up in a door jamb washing my face.</p> <p>I could hear somebody talking so far they couldnt sleepit was dark and hot</p> <p>cockroach jumping up down even touching my neck. I could feel it </p> <p>rolling down to my chest. I couldnt move. I was paralysed</p> <p>I took my hand down to my belly slowly I grabbed it and tossed it down to the floor. </p> <p>It was about 5.30 in the morning. The time I used to leave home. </p> <p>Walking 15 km for a school among nowhere, well, just cows, lambs, goat, mouse, and whatsoever you could imagine. </p> <p>Starving, I had to be at school at 8 oclock Am.</p> <p>After 1pm I had to do the same way back home in a hot sunning, wearing an old flip flop that couldnt protect my feet from hot loosing gravel. Exhaust, weak </p> <p><br /><br /><br />I remember most of time I would rather go barefoot.<br /></p> <p>Jogging on my tip toes, trying to find out shadow tree somewhere to cold down my feet. </p> <p>Not because I would! Because I had to save that rest of flip flop left on my feet. Like these </p> <p> Most of the time when I arrived thinking that at least I am going to eat something</p> <p> I found nothing. Instead I found a dirty plastic bucket, hoe and shovel. Ready to go to work.. </p> <p>hungry, with weakness on my face, and my stomach singing until it dropped</p> <p>I had to picked up my stuff and go to the beach helping my mum strip sand off the beaches to sell and put food on the table.</p> <p>Like these</p> <p>The Cost of Sand Depletion</p> <p>It was hard. life hit me hard on my face. And told me come on with you! what are you going to do with me? </p> <p>Life put me in a situation which I had two choice: </p> <p>Sinking or Swimming. </p> <p>I would rather swimming. Even though, I couldnt swim at all!</p> <p>But I had to learn.</p> <p> I swung with no direction, lost on my thought.</p> <p> Owner of my own destiny. </p> <p>I was sick and tired and hungry I promise to myself that I couldnt handle it any more. </p> <p>I knew that I will find the way somewhere. </p> <p> And I have done!</p> <p>Everything that you could imagine to pursue my dream!</p> <p>Working 40 hours a week and at the same time studying at university</p> <p>Week in and week out eating pasta and sweet corn (the only one that I could afford) </p> <p>Earning 500 euros per month and paying 200 euros of university fee (apart from other expenses)</p> <p>I did not died. Because the worst in my life was already over!</p> <p><br />I studied and still do:<br /></p> <p>To change the circle of mindset that nobody going to look at you if you are not a good housekeeper. </p> <p>You cannot find a job because you are black and poor. </p> <p>You cannot find a job because they dont know you. </p> <p>You will never ever got a job because You cannot speak English like them</p> <p>BUT</p> <p>Now!</p> <p>I have a degree in Psychology</p> <p>I have a Master degree in Forensic Psychology and Social Exclusion</p> <p>I am an International Certified Coach (ICC)</p> <p><br />My why was </p> <p>Every time that I have seen my mum went to the beach to steal sand to put food on the table</p> <p>its began to give me a sense of optimism a possibility of a kind of life that I wanted to live.</p> <p>And is</p> <p>Being a Role Model for my Daughter! My Baby Girl!</p> <p>What I want to leave for her!<br /></p> <p>The world where people choose to swim even though they thought they could</p> <p>The world, where I believe that there are cheeses for everybody. If not, make it</p> <p>When I looked back</p> <p>I could understand why those things happened to me. </p> <p>That made me the person who I am now. </p> <p>BE BLESSED!</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Click to edit Master subtitle style</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Click icon to add picture</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>Click to edit Master title style</p> <p>Edit Master text styles</p> <p>Second level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>15/11/2016</p> <p>Edit Master text stylesSecond level</p> <p>Third level</p> <p>Fourth level</p> <p>Fifth level</p>