what is your "big why"? what is your "big you"

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I want you to think about a major goal that gives your life a sense of meaning right now: some personal goal that you would like to achieve.

WHAT IS YOUR BIG YOU?WHAT IS YOUR BIG WHY?


I want you to think about a major goal that gives your life a sense of meaning right now: some personal goal that you would like to achieve.

Ask yourself!

What do I want to leave in this life?

If I had to write a statement about my life right now, what would I like to say about it?

I have been asking my self these questions long time ago!

Why am I here and what do I want to leave?

When People look at me, they often say you are a blessed, you are lucked.

Even Though.

I could not say the same!

There was a time when I woke up every morning to the roosters crowing, sweating, with my eyes half asleep

I tried to reach a peace of a school uniform that was hanging in a piece of stick behind me.

I woke up, took a can with water, stood up in a door jamb washing my face.

I could hear somebody talking so far they couldnt sleepit was dark and hot

cockroach jumping up down even touching my neck. I could feel it

rolling down to my chest. I couldnt move. I was paralysed

I took my hand down to my belly slowly I grabbed it and tossed it down to the floor.

It was about 5.30 in the morning. The time I used to leave home.

Walking 15 km for a school among nowhere, well, just cows, lambs, goat, mouse, and whatsoever you could imagine.

Starving, I had to be at school at 8 oclock Am.

After 1pm I had to do the same way back home in a hot sunning, wearing an old flip flop that couldnt protect my feet from hot loosing gravel. Exhaust, weak




I remember most of time I would rather go barefoot.

Jogging on my tip toes, trying to find out shadow tree somewhere to cold down my feet.

Not because I would! Because I had to save that rest of flip flop left on my feet. Like these

Most of the time when I arrived thinking that at least I am going to eat something

I found nothing. Instead I found a dirty plastic bucket, hoe and shovel. Ready to go to work..

hungry, with weakness on my face, and my stomach singing until it dropped

I had to picked up my stuff and go to the beach helping my mum strip sand off the beaches to sell and put food on the table.

Like these

The Cost of Sand Depletion

It was hard. life hit me hard on my face. And told me come on with you! what are you going to do with me?

Life put me in a situation which I had two choice:

Sinking or Swimming.

I would rather swimming. Even though, I couldnt swim at all!

But I had to learn.

I swung with no direction, lost on my thought.

Owner of my own destiny.

I was sick and tired and hungry I promise to myself that I couldnt handle it any more.

I knew that I will find the way somewhere.

And I have done!

Everything that you could imagine to pursue my dream!

Working 40 hours a week and at the same time studying at university

Week in and week out eating pasta and sweet corn (the only one that I could afford)

Earning 500 euros per month and paying 200 euros of university fee (apart from other expenses)

I did not died. Because the worst in my life was already over!


I studied and still do:

To change the circle of mindset that nobody going to look at you if you are not a good housekeeper.

You cannot find a job because you are black and poor.

You cannot find a job because they dont know you.

You will never ever got a job because You cannot speak English like them

BUT

Now!

I have a degree in Psychology

I have a Master degree in Forensic Psychology and Social Exclusion

I am an International Certified Coach (ICC)


My why was

Every time that I have seen my mum went to the beach to steal sand to put food on the table

its began to give me a sense of optimism a possibility of a kind of life that I wanted to live.

And is

Being a Role Model for my Daughter! My Baby Girl!

What I want to leave for her!

The world where people choose to swim even though they thought they could

The world, where I believe that there are cheeses for everybody. If not, make it

When I looked back

I could understand why those things happened to me.

That made me the person who I am now.

BE BLESSED!

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