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Don't Don't compare compare yourself yourself with any with any
one in this one in this world.world.
If you If you compare, you compare, you are insulting are insulting
yourself.yourself.
No one will No one will manufacture a manufacture a
lock without a key.lock without a key.
Similarly God won't Similarly God won't give problems without give problems without
solutions.solutions.
Life laughs Life laughs at you at you
when you when you are are
unhappy...unhappy...
Life smiles at Life smiles at you when you when you are happy...you are happy...Life salutes you Life salutes you when when you make others you make others happy...happy...
Every successful person has a Every successful person has a painful story.painful story.
Every painful story has a Every painful story has a successful ending.successful ending.
Accept the pain and get Accept the pain and get ready for success.ready for success.
Easy is to judge the mistakes of Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.others.Difficult is to recognize our own Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes.mistakes.
It is easier to protect your feet with It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to cover the earth slippers than to cover the earth
with carpet.with carpet.
No one can go back No one can go back and change a bad and change a bad beginning;beginning;
But anyone can start But anyone can start now and create a now and create a successful ending.successful ending.
If a problem can If a problem can be solved, no be solved, no
need to worry need to worry about it.about it.
If a problem cannot If a problem cannot be solved what is the be solved what is the use of worrying?use of worrying?
If you miss If you miss an an
opportunity opportunity don't fill the don't fill the
eyes with eyes with tears.tears.
It will hide It will hide another better another better opportunity in opportunity in front of you front of you
"Changing the Face" can change nothing."Changing the Face" can change nothing.But "Facing the Change" can change everything.But "Facing the Change" can change everything.
Don't complain about others;Don't complain about others;Change yourself if you want peace.Change yourself if you want peace.
Mistakes are painful when they Mistakes are painful when they happen.happen.
But year's later collection But year's later collection of mistakes is called of mistakes is called experience, which leads to experience, which leads to success.success.
Be bold when you looseBe bold when you looseand be calm when you win.and be calm when you win.
Heated gold becomes ornament. Heated gold becomes ornament. Beaten copper becomes wires. Beaten copper becomes wires.
Depleted Depleted stone becomes statue. So the stone becomes statue. So the more pain you get in life you more pain you get in life you
become more valuable.become more valuable.Suresh.sSuresh.s
Just love Just love problemproblem
Transaction Analysis by S.Suresh A.Vijaya bharghavi
1. A theory of personality as well as a
systematic
psychotherapy for personal growth
and personal change.
2. Among psychological approaches,
it is outstanding in the depth of its
theory and the wide variety of its
applications.
3. It is finding wide application in
organizations and education.
What is Transactional Analysis ?
Transactional Basis
Id – Pleasure PrincipleEgo- Realistic Principle(irrational)Super-Ego- Ethical Principle(mind)
By Fred Luthans
EGO STATES
Typical Behaviors
PARENT
Advising
Criticizing
Ordering
Telling
Fault
Finding
Moralizing
Scolding
Nurturing
Caring
Loving
ADULT
Fact Finding
Questioning
Analyzing
Problem
Solving
Helping
Cooperating
Planning
Coordinating
Scheduling
Thinking
CHILD
Laughing
Crying
Sulking
Being Frightened
Playing
Enjoying
Dancing
Curiosity
Obeying
Dependent
"I'm OK - You're OK”
Ego States Basic Needs I’m Not OK,You’re Not
OK
I’m OK, You’re not
OK
I’m OK You’re OK
I‘m Not OK,
You’re OK
Life Positions
ADULT Rationality CynicalTask
ObsessiveProblem Solving
PARENT
Over-whelming
Regulating Love, Care
Power
Traditional
Over Indulgent
Prescriptive
Rescuing
Normative
Supportive
Indifferent
Ingratiating
CHILD
Adaptive
Reactive
Creative
Nurturing
Approval, Safety
Aggression
Creativity
Sulking
Withdrawn
Humorous
Complaining
Aggressive
Bohemian
Resilient
Confronting
Innovative
Dependent
Intropunitive
Satirical
Ego States Basic Needs I’m Not OK,You’re Not
OK
I’m OK, You’re not
OK
I’m OK You’re OK
I‘m Not OK,
You’re OK
Life Positions
ADULT Rationality CynicalTask
ObsessiveProblem Solving
PARENT
Over-whelming
Regulating Love, Care
Power
Traditional
Over Indulgent
Prescriptive
Rescuing
Normative
Supportive
Indifferent
Ingratiating
CHILD
Adaptive
Reactive
Creative
Nurturing
Approval, Safety
Aggression
Creativity
Sulking
Withdrawn
Humorous
Complaining
Aggressive
Bohemian
Resilient
Confronting
Innovative
Dependent
Intropunitive
Satirical
.Aim of Transactional Analysis
Psychotherapy
Aim of Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy
1.To help a person to choose to be in a particular
inner state, instead of just allowing the current
ego-state to dominate feelings, attitudes and
behavior.
2.Changing the Life Script
3.Replacing organizational or societal scripting
with cooperative non-violent behavior is the aim
of other applications of Transactional Analysis.
.
Complementary transactions
• A complementary transaction occurs when a message, sent from a specific ego state, gets the predicted response from a specific ego state in the other person.
• For example, if a wife who is grieving her lost friend is comforted by a sympathetic husband, her momentary dependency is answered appropriately.
.. Crossed Transactions
A crossed transaction occurs when an unexpected response is made to the stimulus. An inappropriate ego state is activated, and the lines of communication between people are crossed.
At this point people tend to withdraw, turn away from each other or switch the conversation in another direction.
For example, Agent's Adult: "Do you know where my cuff links are?" (note that this stimuli is directed at the Respondents Adult).Respondent's Child: "You always blame me for everything!"
Crossed transactions are a frequent source of pain between people
Ulterior TransactionsUlterior transactions are the most complex. They
differ from complementary and crossed transactions in that they always involve two or more ego states.
Only one ego state controls the body; but another ego state is operating in the background.If a car salesman says to his customer, "This is our finest sports car...but maybe too racy for you," he is sending a message that can be heard by either the customer’s adult or child ego state.
If the customer’s Adult hears, the response may be... "yes, you’re right, considering the requirements of my job." If the customer’s Child hears, the response may be "I’ll take it. It’s just what I want."
Thus ulterior transactions help us to get the desired response from the respondent.
The original three Parent Adult Child components were sub-divided by Wagner, Joines and Mountain to form seven element model.
Original 3 parental adult child components
Traditional
Transactional
Analysis
Modified into 7 elements.
Modern
Transactional
Analysis
Modern TA established 2 parental elements:
Adult
Represents an 'accounting'
function or mode
Adult remains as a single entity
Which can draw on The resources
of both Parent and Child.
Child
Child is now commonly represented as circle with four quadrants:
Adapted - Co-operative (positive) and Compliant/Resistant (negative).
Free - Spontaneous (positive) and Immature (negative).
CONCLUSION
Transactional analysis is a rational and easy-to-understand method of clarifying and managing human relationships and behaviors.
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