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7/29/2019 Sneha Bhasha - Love Languages

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]Tnmw kvt\l`mj2

PADIKKAAM SNEHA BHAASHA

Malayalam

George Koshy Mylapra

E-version published by:

Kaithiri Malayalm

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3/14

" "k v t\lamWJnekmc aqgnbn''

kvt\lsa ]cniphnImcsn Ihn.

kvt\lsdnv ]mSmIhnIfn. kvt\lw kz]v\wImWm lrZbfn.

k v t \ l n p h m \ p wk v t \ l n s S ph m\ p wIgnbm Hcp hynbpsSPohnXw F{Xam{Xw hnckhpwe yt _ m[ a n m X pambncnpw?

"kvt\lann Rmapgp sNtm Nnep

ssImftam t]mseam{Xw'Fv XncphN\hpwD]tZinpXns kmchpwasm.

h n t h I a p h vAhKWnm ]mt{ijvT KpWamWv kvt\lw.

kvt\lw PohnXskpcampp. _v

Ahpw hym]vXnbpw Ddpw\evIpp. ]t, {]tbmKn hcptm \mw FhnsSsbmstbm ]cmPbsSpnt?

kvt\lw {]ISnnptmAXp BtcmSmtWm, Ahva\knemIWw FXv{]mYanI ]mTw. AXpt]mseXs \s kvt\lnpHcmfpsS kvt\lw

a\knemm\pw \apvkm[nWw. AsXmcp `mja\knempXp t]msebmWv.

AXn ]cmPbsSptmkvt\lw Aw \sNSpIfmIpp. As\DmIp hncnbpwhnckXbpw aqew_fn Dckepw

AIbpw kw`hnpp.AXv IpSpw_sftmepwXIpp. AXpsImvIpSpw_n CXns{]m[m\yw GsdbmWv.

CXns\mcp ]cnlmcambnkvt\lnpXn hnPbwB { K l n p h vh n h m l P o h n X n AsXs\ km[nmwFXn\v 100% {]mtbmKnI

amb Nne kq{XhmIyCXm......

ssIncn.tImw3

]Tnmw...kvt\l`mj >> >> >>


4/14

Htc `mj Adn-bm-hp--hXn kwkm-cn-p-tmtgBi-b-hn-\n-abw \S-p-I-bp-

q. kwkm-cn-p--bm-fpsS`mj {^pw, tIhnmcs`mj P\pw BsW-n,F{X aWn-q-dp -I {ian-mepw Hcm ]dbpXv A]c\v a\-n-em-h-W-sa-n-.kw`m -j -Ww -t]mseXssImSppIbpw sImpIbpwsNt Hcp hnIm-c-amWvkvt\lhpw.

kvt\ln-p-hm Fm-hcpw

B{K-ln-pp; kvt\ln--s-Sp -hm-\pw.... ]t Cukvt\lw an-tmgpw Xncn--dnbsSpn. `mcym`mmcpsS CSbn CXv hfscKpcpXcamb Hcp {]iv\amWv.

Z-Xn -I Xnkvt\ln-m--tXm,-kvt\lw {]ISnnmtXm A {]iv\w.k v t \ l n - p p

FXv a\-n-em--s-SmsX t]mIp--XmWv {]iv\w.

kwkmcnphm hnhn[ mjI Dv F-Xp -t]msekvt\l{]IS\n\pw hnhn[

`mjI Dv.

]d -bp hynbpwtIp hynbpw Htc`mjb D]-tbm-Kn -msXBibhn\nabw \SmXpt]m -se -kvt\lw {]I-Snnpbmpw kzoI-cn-p -bm pw kvt\l-ns mj s]mXphmbXsn, kvt\lhn\nabw \SpIbn.

kvt\lwAdnbsSmsXt]mIptm

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj4

CphntXpw {]tamZnsXpwt{]ahnhmlambncpp. hfscBthitmsSbpw {]Xo

tbmsSbpamWv Ah ZmXyn-tev Imeq -nb-X v .BZys Nne amk-Imcy--sfms kmam\yw\mbn \on. Fm{ItaW Cp-hns a\-nHcp kwibw \mnp. {]tamZvkXy-n Xs kvt\lnpptm? Fmw Hcp A`n\bw am{Xambncpnt?

Fm {]tamZv BW-bnp

]d-bp-Xv Xm Cp-hns\]-s-m Bflm-ambn kvt\ln-p-p-s-v,Ah-kcw Inp-tm-sgmsAXv {]ISnnppapv.

AhfpsS Nncn F{X kpcam -sWtm.. . , Rm ]eXhW B Imcyw AhtfmSv]dnpv. \mbn ]mNIwsNm\pw Cp-hn-\-dn-bmw.Rm AXn\v Ahsf A`n\n-n-p-ap-v. kvt\l-an-s-n CsXms ]d-bptam?

kmtd, Cu IeymWw Ign-p-I-gn-bp-tm, kvt\lwFhnsSbmWv t]mbv ad-bp-Xv, Bdpamks IpSpw_PohnXn\ptijw Hcp hnhm

ltamN\ns hnsen\np {]tamZv tNmZn-p tNmZy-amWn-Xv.

kvt\lnm Hcp `mj!


5/14

kvt\l-`mjF{X ]dmepw Cphn\va\-n -em-In -sv hmFp sNpw km? {]tamZvCXp ]d-bp-tm In\o s]mSnppmbncpp..

]s Cp-hns adp -]Sn

C-s\: lpw, kvt\l-ap-sm ]dbpt... Dmbncp-s-n BgvN-bn HcpZnh-k-sa-nepw Fs IqsSHv tjmnwKn\v {]tamZv hcpambncpnt... Rm ASpf-bn ]mNIw sNp-tmFs IqsS hsmncnmambncpnt... Fsm IqSpX Iw]yq - -d n -t\mSmkvt\lw. Hm^o -knepwhonepw AXns\ sIn-n-Sn-t Ccnpw \Spw...

]mhw {]tamZv! ]mhw Cp!!cp -t]cpw ]c -kv]cwkvt\ln-p-p-v. kvt\lw{]ISnnm AdnbmhpXpt]m-se-sbms {ian-p-p-apv. ]t HcmfpsS `mj{^pw, as-bm-fpsS `mjP\pw... ]nsp sNpw.?

kvt\l-n-\p -apv `mj-I.... ASn-m-\-]-c-ambAp `mj-I. hyn-IsshImcnI kvt\lw {]ISnnpIbpw XncndnbpIbpwsNp 5 am--fm-W-h.Hmtcm `mjbvpw hyXykvXamb DmcW coXnIfpw Dv.

`mcybpw `mhpwXfpsS PohnX]mfn-bpsS kvt\l-`mjGXm-sWv Xncn--dn-bWw. IpSpw_PohnXhnPbns BZy]

SnbmWXv.P\nphfsSp ]m-e-n D]-tbm-Kn-s-Sp `mjbmWv \psS amXr`mjbmbn ocpXv. aebmfn-bm-sW-nepw Hcp D-tc-y {Kma -n P\nphf-s-Sp-Ibpw honepw\mnepw Ftmgpw lnn

am{Xw tIpIbpw sNpHcp hyn-bpsS amXr-`mjlnnbmbncnpw.

Hcp ]s \apv Hne[nIw`mjI Xnapndbm Ignsphcmw. Fm A\m

bmtk\ ssIImcyw sNm\mhp mjbmWv \psS {]nb`mjbmbnocpXv.

P\nv hfsSp ]m-e-n\n-mWv hyn-I kvt\l`mjbpw ]TnsSp -p--Xv. cv IpSpw_]m--e -n \npwhcp ZXnIfpsS kvt\l`mj cpw cm-Im-\mWvIqSpX km[yX. X

dnbmhp mjbnembncnpw`mcybpw mhpw kvt\lw{]I-Sn-n-p-I. as-bm-fn\vAXv Adnbm Ignbpnsn ]m-fn -bpsSkvt\ls kwi-btmsSam{Xta ImWm\mhpIbpq.AtXmSpIqsS {]iv\ DSseSpp-I-bp-am-bn. GsXm-sbmWv kvt\l-`mj-I?

ssIncn.tImw5


6/14

eqsSbmhmw AXv AhXcnn

-s-Sp-I.

Cu ]pXnb jv \nv\mbn tNcppv.

\nstmse C{X cpNnIcambn Cd-n-dn hbvpBcpv?

apdn-sbmw ASp-n---Xn\v {]tXyIw \n-bpv,tItm

\o B _mw ]pc-n---tm Fs thZ\ ] ISp. CXpt]msebp kXyk-hpw Bflm-hp-ambhmpI, tIpbmv\Ip Duw A]mcamWv.

-cm-[n-Ibvv `m-hn-s\-p-dnv ]cmXn am{Xta Dmbncppq.

Rm Bdp amk-ambn ]d-psImncnpIbm Fs`m-hn -t\m -S v , hoSnstNm H-S-nv hrn-bmbn s]bnp sNnnm.Fm amKhpw ]co-np

Bsc-nepw Hcp \-Imcyw]dv Fs t{]mmlnnm, ]ns cpamkw F\n-Xp -a -Xn , kpK-a -ambnapt]m v t]mIphm, amv

Szbn ]dXmWnXv. Atl-ns hmp-I A-cm-n-se-Sp-m, BdvBizmkhmNI aXn Szbn\n\v Hcp hjtv NpdpNpdp-tmsS aptmv IpXn-p-hm. Hcp ]s \n-fpsSPohnX ]m-fnv IqSp-Xthn htmw. AXv \nfmWv IstWXv.

\mn-sbpw hmn-sbpw

Duns\pdnv Gsd t_m[h-\m-bn-cpp m\n-I-fnm\nbmb tkmfa. AXpsImmWv acWhpw Poh\pw\mhns A[nImcn Ccnpp (k-Zr. 18:21) FvAtlw tcJsSpnbXv.

kvt\l-ns AXn-iamb Hcp {]ISt\m]m[nbmWv Ddt

Ip hmpI.hfsc efn-X-amb hmp-I-fn-

t\mn. tMtl ]mew Ipepn-bm-epw... . hon -setbmFstbm Hcp ImcyhpwsNm Atv t\can,Xm-cy-hp-an -. ]nsv

sNpw, Ah thZ\tbmsSbmWv ]dXv.

Hcp Imcyhpw sNm-dnt,a\x-im-kv{X- tNmZn-p.

tM.. tl.., \ntj[mXvIambncpp adp]Sn.

Id-v, -t^m _np-I-f-S-bvpXmcm ?

AXv AtlamWv.

tj-\dn km[-\ -hmptXm ?

AXpw Atlam.

\nv tcmKw hcptmacpphmn XcptXm....

AXpw Atlam

CsXms sNbvXp Xcp -tm Xncnsmcp \hmsnepw ]dbmdptm?

AsXn\m.? kzw NpaXebt sNpXv.

Hmas kvt\l`mj: DdtIp hmpI (Affirming Words)

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj6


7/14

kvt\lw {]ISnnpI. AXpaXn. kvt\lnphpthn, kvt\lw Xncn--dn-bp-tm Fpw sNmkvt\lnsSph XmdmIpXv XnIpw kzm`mhnIw.

t{]mmlnnpI Fp ]dm ss[cyw ]I-cpIFpw Aapv. (Encour-age = give courage) `ocp-Xzw-aqew ]e Imcypw apnndmsX aSnp\nphcpv. Akm[mcW km[yin-bp --h-cmImw Ah.]s Xp\n-n-d-p-hmaSnbpw Ass[cyhpamWv. AhcpsS Dn DdnnSp

knwlpnI kSIpSsgptphm, ss[cyw ]Icp hmp-I sImpHcp XtemSen\mhpw. PohnX]mfn, FgpXmt\m kwLSnn-m-t\m ]mSmt\m HsIgn -hp hyn -bm -hmw.]t A\y Fv IcpXpwF Nnaqew AsXmw a\ns DdIfnsehnsStbm]qn hncnpIbmhmw. Hp

s]mSn- X-n-sb-Sp-m, aqIqm \n klm-bnpt\mq... ]mfn asmcmfmbnamdp-Xv A`n-am-\-tmsS

icn Rm Hcp \ntiw]dbmw, a\x-im-kv{X-A`n{-{]m-b-s-p.,

C\n taen hoSns tNmsb-p-dnv At-l-tmSvanp-Itb Acp-Xv. am{X-a-,

Fs-nepw ImcywsNbvXm AXns\ Hv A`n\-n-pIbpw thWw.

a\-nm a\-tmsS cm[nIAXv kXnp. cmgvNbvpdw AhcpsS t^m hp.km Fs `mhvhoSns ]Wn -I -sfmwsNbvXp. s]bnpw ASnnpXp.

AXpsImmatm Fs\km[np..?

Rm km ]dXpt]msesNbvXp. A{X am{Xw.

cm[n -I-bpsS `m-hns\kw_-nv am{n-I-sam-gn-I-fmbncpp mcybpsS t{]mml\ hmpI.

PohnX ]m-fn -bn\npwImcyw km[n -s-Sp -m

thn apJ-kvXpXn ]d-bpIF CXn\w. Ahva\-n -em -Ip `mj-bn\n-fpsS Dn -ep

t\mnmWq.

hmp -I -tfm -sSm -w -XsAXns Dm-cW coXn-bpw,BwKy-hn-t-]-fpw i_vZ-ns G-p-d-n-ep-samw(tone & gestures) hmNmeambn

kwkmcnpXmsWpw adcpXv.

hmpIfn imk\bpsStbm,Iev]-\-bp-sStbm [z\n hcp-tm \n Hcp t]cnsIpmbw AWn-bp-I-bm-Wv.]m-fnsb Hcp Ipn -bpsSm\-tv HXpn\npIbmhpw.

Hcp hjambn Cu hontIv Dm-n-bn - v . Hmh-

s\ms Xpcp-np ImWpw.Cp sshIn v Rm hcptmthpw Hcp tIv Dmnh-bv-Ww. Fv `mhv`mcy -tbmS v ]d -bp -tm`mhv Hcp t]cns A[nImcw FSpp NmpIbmWv. Fm, kqko, \o ]vDm-p -am -bn -cp tIvFv cpNn-bp--Xm-bn-cp-p.hmbn Ctm-gpw AXns

cpNn Xn- \np-pv.Cv, Hp {ian -mtem?FmWv ]d-bp--sX-n\nc -kn -m `mcybvvBhptam?

ssIncn.tImw7


8/14

Hmô-kv - B-h-iy-p-thn aqm-gvN, t_mws_-bn Bbn-cpp kmP.cmhnse hp IbdnbtXbpq. ]Xnhpt]mse bm{Xmthfbn `mcy B\nv Ghpw]pXnb mj\nep NpcnZm

hmnsmphcm kmPad-n-. ]t hon-senAc aWn-q Ign--tm-tgpw Hmô-kn\npwt^m hp. Hmô-knNne {]iv\-. kmPskmnyw ASn-b-n-c-ambnthWw. _mKv Xpdv km\smXn B\nv \In-bnvkmP Hmôkntev IpXnp. {]iv\--sfmw Hvim-amn XncnsI hon-se-n-b-tm cm{Xn 9 aWnBbncpp.

cmhnse sImSp km-\-smXn B\n Xpdpt\mnbn-p-IqsS Dm-bn-cp-n-.t{_Iv ^mpw epw BcpwIgnmsX ssU\nwKv tS_nfn Ccnpv. hopsInbapJ-hp-ambn B\n s_Uvdq-an InSppapv. Imcysas--dn -bmsX `mcysbkmz -\ n - n -mthnkmP InSbvcnIntev

sNp. AbmfpsS ssI Xnamnbn v B\n s]mnsdnp,

\nv Hcp XcnsnepwFtmSv kvt\l-aptm?aqmgvNbmbn Rm Inse-bp-sam-gnv Imn-cn-p-I-bm... Fnv hp Ib-dnbDSs\ Hmô-kn-tev Hcpt]mv. AhnsSbv XmaknpIqtS....Fn\m CtmphXv.

]mhw kmP ! Acpt]mbn. t_mws_bnse Xncn\nSbnepw _m{bnse ^mjkv{Son t]mbn Ghpwhne]n-Sn-p Npcn-Zm hmn-smv hXv mcytbmSp

kvt\lw sImm-bn-cp-p.]t Ctm -gnXm AhtNmZn-p-p, Xcn-s-nepwkvt\laptmFv. Anp\nmt\ kmP\v Ignpp.

`mcybvv hne -]n -Sn -pkm\w hmn-b-Xn -eqsSkvt\lw {]ISnnm {ianp-I-bm -bn -cpp kmP.Fm B\nv B `mj

Xosc a\nembn.. ImcWwAh-cpsS kvt\l-`mj Izm-fnn ssSw Bbncptm.

Hcp-anv Sn.-hn. ImWp--tXm,km[\ hmm ISbnt]mIp-tm Hcp-anv bm{XsNptXm, n Hcpanvt]mIp--tXm A IzmfnnssSw. asm-n\pw hn`-Pnp\ImsX ]m-fnv am{X-

ambn ]Ip-p-sIm-Sp-pkabamWv mfnn ssSw. ]mfn-Iv X-fpsS IzmfnnssSan, Hp \S -mt]mhp -I -tbm, Hcp -a n v_mUvan Ifn-p-ItbmHw Bhmw. ]s B\Spw Ifnbpw Hpw \S-nt\m Ifntm thnbmIcpXv.

Rm Fs `mcy -bpsS

apn Ah ]d-bp-Xn{inv 20 an\nv Ccp-m,hne-]n -Sn Fs Pohn -X-nse 20 an\npIft RmAhv sImSp -p --X v .Fs Bbpns Hcp `mKwXs Ahv km-\nvkvt\lw {]ISnnpIbmWvRm Atm sNp--Xv,{itb\mb Hcp _nkn\pImcs hmpIfmWnh.

Rm InSp AtX Inen NmcnbncppsImv HcpaWn -q t\cw Atlw

\nehmcap kabamWv (quality time) cmas kvt\l`mj

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj8


9/14

Cs\v {_ukv sNpw.Fnv FtmSv CS-bvnsSFs-n-ep-sams tNmZn-pw. BZysams Rm adp]Sn ]dbpambncpp. ]noSvRm\pw ]Tn -p. CtmRm\pw A{Xbpw kabw

Fsnepw hmbnpsImncnpw. ASpncpm ASp-am-Iptam? Iukn-enw-Kn-s\nb Hcp `mcy tNmZnpp. AsX, ASp-n-cp-mASpamhpIbn.

]mfnbpsS hmpIfpw, AXns ]nn-ep hnImchpw Xncn - d n -b - - -h n[w

kwkmcnpIbpw, CSbvnsS tNmZy-D-bnv BflmX shfn-s-Sp-p-Ibpw thWw.

Fs `mhv FtmSvHpw kwkmcnmdn FvHcp mcy ]cmXnsm AXnsbw, Hpta kwkmcnm-dn F. {]Xyp -X,Izmfnn ssSw F\nv e`npn FmWv.

Hm^oknse taeptZymK\pam -bp -mb Hcp {]iv\w`m-hn-t\mSv ]p-h-bvp-hm {ian `mcy-bpsS IYHmhcpp.

{]iv\-hn-h-cWw ]mXn-bm-b-

tm -tgpw amt\ -P va vIk v IqsS -bmb_pn-am -\mb `m-hn\vAXns aqe-Im-cWw a\-n-embn. Ccw \nch[n {]iv\sf \nmcambn ]cnlcnnp Atlw mcybpsS hniZo -I -cWw ]mXn -h -gn -bn\nnpIbpw, {]iv\ ]cnlmcn\p kpKaamb hgn]d -p - sIm - S p -p -IbpwsNbvXp. ]t `mcy kwXr]vXbmbn. ImcWw, AhvAtm thn-bn -cp -Xv{]iv\w ]cn -l-cn -m-\p\ntiambncpn. X\npmb hnjaXI klXm]]qw tIpIbpw XtmsSmw AXns `mK`mmIpIbpw sNp Hcp `m-hns ImXp -I-fm -bn -cppAhmhiyw.

CXv a\nemm Ignbm`mhv F{X amt\-Pvsa vFIvkvt]v BsW-nepw

IpSpw_PohnXn Hcp hqPyw XsbmWv.

A]cs kwkmcw tIpsImn-cn-m-\p Bfp-I-fpsSabpsS AXnn Ctm17 skmbn Ipdncnp

pshv ]T\ shfnsSppp. 17 skn\v appXs Ah-cpsS kwkm-c -ns CS-bn Ib-dp-hm\mw hy{KX ImWn-p-p.Fm PohnX ]mfnbpsSkw`m-jWw sXv ZoLn-mepw A-a -cm -ImsXAXn\v ImXp \IpIbmWvthXv. {]tXyInv kvt\l`mj Izmfnn ssSw Bb Hcphyn-tbmSv kwkm-cn -p-tm. AXn-\p- -k-abwAtm Cs-n AXpwXpdp ]dbmw,

t\mq, \o ]dbpXv apgph F\nv tIp a\nemWw. ]t CtmgXn\pkmlNcyantm. Hcp ]tCv sshIn v Fmw FtmSvhniZambn ]dbWw, adcptX. Fv `mhv `mcy-

tbmSv ]dm Fmw Xpdp-]-d kwXr-]vXn-bmWv`mcybvv Inp-Xv.

ssIncn.tImw9


10/14

av kvt\l-`m-j-I-sfm-pw-Xs In -se -Sp -p -hmkm[n-n-. Fm km-\-fmIs, Zriycq]ap Hcpkvt\l`mjbmWv.

\n ]m-fnv sImSp

Hcp km\w In-se-SpvXmtem -en -p -sImv Bhyn-sb-p-dnv ]d-bm-\m-hpw, Itm, Fs-p-dnvHmn--Xp-sIm-t Cukm\w hmnsmph-Xv Fv.

Xo-bmbpw Hcm-sf-p-dnvHmn-msX \apv At-l-n-\p-thn Hcp km\whmm\mhn. B NnbpsSHcp {]Xn^e\amWv km\w.

km-\ -n -\ hne. BNnbvpw IcpXen\pamWv.Fm Dn-ep Nnbpwkvt\lhpw {]ISnnsSpXv Cu km\neqsSbmWv.

km\ kvt\l`mjbmbn Xncndnbp -hy -n-IvHmtcm sNdnb km\n-sbpw hnehfsc henbXmWv.

Ch hmnbtXm, kzbw Dm

n-btXm Is-n-btXmHs Bhmw.

]pjv] -fpw sNSn -IfpwFhnsS Imepw Gsd t\cwIuXp -I -tmsS t\mn -\np kz`mhamWv tla

eXbptSXv . Ahvkmam\yw \ Hcp ]qtmhp-ap-v. Hcn- tla-bpsS`mhv FhnsStbm t]mbn vX nc n - sI - sb -n -b - tmA]q-amb Hcp ]qsSnsImpFSpp. AXp IvAh Xpn-m-Sn. hgn-tbm-c-s-hn -sStbm I HcpA]qXcw ImpsNSnbmbncpp AXv. hgnbn Cu sNSnI `mhv DSs\ Im

\nn AXv thscmsS ]dnpsIm-p-t]m-cn-I-bm-bn-cp-p.ImpsNSnbmbncppshnepwtla-e -Xsb kw_-nvAXns hne Af-m-\m-hm-XmWv. ImcWw AhcpsSkvt\l-`mj km-\-am-bn-cp-p.

F\nv Cu km\w sImSpp kz`m-h-sam-p-an -,km\w sXcsSpm\pwF\n--dn-bn-, F\n-mcpwXnpan, Ipsdmew apvtla-e -X -bpsS `mhv

Bflm-ambn Cu Ip-kmcw \Snbtm Abmalmb Hcp Ip]nSpw\SpIbmbncpp. Xsbpw`mcy-bp-sSbpw kvt\l-`m-j-I hyXykvXamsW Ip]nSpw. AhcpsS IpSpw_PohnX hnP-b-ns BZy-]-Sn-bmbncpp AXv.

]mfnbpsS icockmnywHcp henb km-\-am-bn-o-cp L-fpw Dv. Nne

knKv thf-I-fn `m-hns / mcybpsS kmnywtImSm-\p-tImSn cq]-tb-maqey -ap km-\ -am -bn -osphcmw.

aqmas kvt\l`mj km\fmWv (Gifts)

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj10


11/14

F\nss `mcysb hfscCjvS-am-Wv, Hcn- -Hcp`mhv shfn -s -Sp -n.AXns ImcWhpw Atlwhy-am-n, Ah F\nvDm-n--cp Blm-cwFv cpNn-I-c-am-sW-tm,Fs hkv{Xsamw AentXv Aeamcbn ASpnhbvpw. Hm^o-kn \npwRm hcptm IrXyambpwHcp NqSpNmb. ]ns BgvN

bnsemcn Im IgpIpw.

`mcysbsmv tPmen sNnnm hy{KX ImWnp{Iqc\pw aSn -b-\p-amb Hcp`mhmbn Atls hnebn-cp-t-. At-l-ns

apJykvt\l`mj klmbhpwtkh\hpw BsWs AXn\apq. A\y \apvsNbvXpXcp klmbklIcWfn-eq-sS-bmWv Cq-kvt\lns Afhv XnsSppI.

Fs `mhv sshInvFtm-sSmw In-WnImWpw. ]m{Xw IgpIptmXpSv It_m-Un hbvpw.

hncp -p -Im hcp -tmtS_n skv sNpXpwhmjv t_kn-\-Spv ]pXnbSepw tkmpw hbvpXpwAtlamWv. CSbvv RmAenb XpWn FSpv aSnhbvmdpv. cmhnse Fgptp-tm InIpSv hncn -p -XpwAtlw Xs. \ kvt\l

ap a\p -jy, kqkXs mhv tPm_nsbpdnv ]d-bp -Xv tIp-tmtg \apv a\nemmwAh-cpsS apJy-kvt\-l-`mjtkh\amWv Fv.

I e y m - W - n - \ p - a p vRms\s hon HpwsNbvXnn. ]nt Ctm.Rms\m `mcy-bpsS i-f-m-c-\mtWm? em F

bphmhv tNmZnXv Css\bm-bn -cp -p, Rm hop -Imcyw t\mn \S -mth ]Ww km-Zn-p-p-v . AXns Xe-th -Z\Ahv Adn -tb--tm.hnhm-l-tam-N-\-ns hn-sen \np-I -bm -Wv .emepw `mcy kpNn{Xbpw.

\n--sfmcp \ `m-hm-sW-n F\nnXv sNbvXp

Xcpw Fp ]d-bp `mcy-bpw. CXp sNbvXnsn \oA\p`hnpw Fp `ojWns-Sp -p `m-hpw.kvt\lw ]m-fn-bn\npw IhsSpm {ianpIbmWv. AhcpsS kvt\l`mj tkh-\-am-Wv. ]t]mfnbn \nXv InpXpan -. Atm \n_--]qw kvt\lw ]nSn-s-Sp-m {ian-p-tm hmp-I ]cpjambnocpw. ewhn]-coXam-bn -o-cp -IbpwsNpw.

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imcocnI kv]i\w sshImcnI kvt\lns _mly{]I-S-\-amWv. sImp-Ip-n-\p-t]mepw AXv Xncn--dn-bm-\m-hpw. AXp-sIm--mWtmNne FSp -m Ipvs]mn--c-bp-I-bpw, av Nne-

cpsS Hsptm NncnpIbpw sNpXv.

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SpI F-sXms kvt\l{]IS\ns hnhn[ AfhpIfmWv.

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cpp skeo -\. BlmcwIgnv InS--bn-se-nbjuv Ipsdt\cw skeo

\sb Imn-cp-p. Fmhp-hn-f-nb ]m{X-samwIgpIn, In\pw osNbvXnv sken InSpapdnbn-se-n-b-tm Iqwhen-p-d-p ju-n-\-bmWv IXv.

kmtd, Fn\m F\nv GgvIqm. Htm ctm t]mtc.t\cs Xon v hpIqsS

Ahv.. thsd F{XtbmImcy InSpp, As\bmbncpp juns{]XnIcWw.

AZvtZlns kvt\l`mj`Wambncpn. kv]i\am-bn-cp-p. AXv Xncn--dn-bp-hm ]mhw sken\v Ignn.

]t{nbfn Hp am{Xam-Wv Nw. Fm av

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kv]i-\-amWv (Physical touch)

Amas kvt\l`mjF\n -p --sXmwFs ico-c-n-etIpSn -sIm -p - -X v .AXp-sImv Fsico -c -n Hcmkv]in -p -tmFs--s-bmWvk v]in -p - -X v .Fs kv]inmsX

amdn -\np-tmFn\npamWv Bhyn AIp\npXv.

\nfpsS PohnX ]mfnbpsSapJykvt\l`mj kv]i\amsW-n, Io-cns thf-I-fn B hynsb HptNp]nSnpXns\mBizmkIcambn asmpan.ktmjthfIfn \IpHcmenwK\tmfw BthiIcambpw asmpan.Hcp D`mjnWnbneqsS sFehv bq Fv hnfnpIqhn ]dbp --Xnepw i-amWvAhv Hcp arZpkv]i\w.AtmXs {in-tHcp Imcy-ap-v. ]m-fnsb\n kv]in -p -Xv\n B{Klnp kabpw, coXn-bnepw AI-cp-Xv.AXv hn]coX ew Dfhmn

sbv hcpw. adnv AhcpsSka-bpw Ah B{K-ln-p coXnbnepamhWw Bkv]iw.

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Pohn-X-]-m-fn-bpsS kvt\l-

ns Smv \ndphbvWsa-n B hyn-bpsSkvt\l-`mj GXm-sWvXncndnbWw. ]s AXn\papv kzw kvt\l-`mjGXmsWv a\nemWw.apIfn]d Ap mjIsf-p -dn v Nnn -p -tmXs Nnev X-fpsS {]Ya kvt\l-`mjGXm-sWv t_m[y-am-tb-mw. Am--h C\n--d-bp tNmZy--fpsS Dcwkzbw IspI.

1. \nfpsS ]mfn t\cs]d 5 Imcy--fn FpsNm-sX-bn-cn-p-tm-gmWv\n IqSpX {hWnXcmIpXv.?

2 . \n-fpsS ]m -fn -bn\npw IqSp -X -embn\n Bin-Xpw Bh-iy-sXpamb Imcyw FmWv?

3. \nfpsS ]mfntbmSpkvt\lw km[mcW {]ISnnm Xp\nbpXv Fs\bmWv?

Cu tNmZy--fpsS D-c-n \npw \nfpsS apJykvt\-l-`mj GXm-sWvXncn--dn-bm Ign-bpw. app\mev ImcyfpsSbpw apKW\mnI XmdmpI.

C\nbpw sNt-Xv ]m-fn-bpsS kvt\l-`mj Is-

pI F-Xm-Wv. AXn\vXmsg--d-bp tNmZy-vadp]Sn XmdmWw.

1 . ]mfn F-s\-bmWvFtmSv kvt\lw {]I-Sn-n-mdpXv?

2. antmgpw ]mfn Fns\--n -bmWv e`n-p-nFv ]cmXn ]dbmdpXv?

3. Fs ]mfn IqsS-qsSFtmSmhiysSp ImcywFmWv?

4. \n-fpsS Nn-Ifpwkvt\lhpw hmp-I-fn-eqsSthpwhn[w {]ISnnm\mhptam?

5. km\w hmn-sm-Sp -m\pw AXv Gp hmphcpsS apJs ktmj{]IS\w BkzZnm\pw CjvSamtWm?

6. Hcp Nmbbpw IpSnpsImv]m-fn -tbm-sSmw sImph-am\w ]d-n-cn-m\n B{K-lnppthm?

7. ]mfnbpsS BhiyLfn Ahsc klm-bn-mFtmgpw aptmv hcptam?AtXm X{]qw cwKp\nv Hgn-p-am-dptam?

8. kvt\l-{]-I-S-\-ambn CS-bvsms Hp sXmp XtemSmdptm?

C\n ]mfntbmsSmw CcpvCu Imcy ]ckv]cw ]phbvpI. Dul icnbmbn-cptm Fv tNmZnv a\-nempI.

Fv sNbvXp XmF\nv \ns ktm-jn-n-m\mhpw Fv Hcp Znhkw

Hm^o-kn \nv h-tmRms\s `mcy-tbmSv tNmZn-p. Ah ]dp, XpWn-sbmw hmjnwKv sajo-\nenvAen sImSp--W-sa-v.]nt... XpWn-b-e-p-Xpwkvt\l-{]-I-S-\hpw Xn-se-mWv _w? cmPo-h\vAXp sXpw a\nemIppmbncpn.

AXmWv {]iv\w. `mcybpsSapJy kvt\l-`mj cmPo-hv,C\nbpw \n Xncndnn

n-. Hm^o-kn\nv hcp-tm Ah \n FpsNbvXp Xc -W-sa -mWv\n B{K-ln-p-Xv?a\x-im-kv{X- cmPo-hn-t\mSv tNmZn-p.hmXnXpdv Fs kzoIcnv F\nsmcp Npw_\w XcWw.Hcp Npw_\w e`nptm`mcybn\npw \n A\p`hnp AtX kvt\lamWv

\n XpWn hmjnwKv sajo\nenSptm Ah A\p`hnpXpw.a\x-im-kv{X-s hmp-I tItm cmPohs adp]Sn Cs\bmbncpp.kXy-tam, Fn CpapX FmZnhkhpw XpWnIgpIp tPmen Rm GsSppw.

kvt\lw Hcn-epw]cmPbsSpn.

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