HOW TO SUCCEED AT BEING YOURSELF

Created for I M CONFIDENT NIAGARA CANADA By Brenda Silveira

HOW TO SUCCEED

Seek to know yourselfUnderstand how to choose wellCommunicate effectivelyChange negatives to positivesEsteem buildingSee your responsibilitiesSet and reach your goals

SEEK TO KNOW YOURSELF

Discover your strengths and abilities…..• Do you focus on the

negatives or positives?• Do you dwell on past issues

or future problems?• Do you accept yourself?

UNDERSTAND HOW TO CHOOSE WELL

• Take time to consider your choices

• Choose to do the right thing even if it is hard

• Never compromise

COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

• Listen with empathy• Think before you speak• Use your words carefully• Be aware of your body

language• Say something positive• Be encouraging and

supportive

CHANGE NEGATIVES TO POSITIVES

• Do you listen to your words?

• Are your thoughts negative or positive?

• Stop your negative thoughts and think positive thoughts

• Be careful what you say

ESTEEM YOURSELF

• Be confident in your abilities

• Say daily affirmations• Compliment yourself• Create good habits and

break bad habits• Accept yourself• Don’t compare yourself to

others

SEE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES

• Stop making excuses• Don’t blame others• Take responsibility for

your actions• Think about the

consequences• Help others• Be a good role model

SET AND REACH YOUR GOALS

• Make realistic goals• Work hard to achieve

your goals• Accept failure• Learn from your mistakes• Never give up

SUCCESSTo laugh often and much, To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends, To appreciate beauty, To find the best in others, To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition, To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

The Caterpillar to Butterfly Self-Esteem Workbook will help you get started on your journey to find success.

Building esteem is the key to becoming successful. Good esteem empowers you to move ahead in life and reach your goals.

The workbook contains 84 pages of information and activities. Order your copy today. Visit www.imconfident.com and click on the Bookstore page for more information on ordering.