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Page 1: RSVP Magazine April 2010

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CONT

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12MEMPHIS HEART GALAJevon and Dorothy Sisnett

34 TABLES OF CONTENT

Matt and Emily Robbins

20STREETSEENW.C. McDaniel

40 PHOENIX CLUB MARDI GRAS PARTYAmy Cain and Brendon Plumpton

46OSCAR NIGHT® AMERICARich and Jayn Lando

42OPERA MEMPHIS

WILD GAME DINNERJen Bradner and Jonathan Ealy

Cover PhotoDrs. Purvisha and Dharmesh Patel

at Memphis Heart GalaPhoto by Don Perry

ContentsApril 2010

From the Editor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8

Signature Memphis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10Art Gilliam became the first African-American radio station owner in Memphis when hebought WLOK in 1977, and he’s still the proud station owner today.

Memphis Heart Gala . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12Beatlemania resurfaced at the American Heart Association’s annual fund-raiser at ThePeabody.

StreetSeens . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18, 20 & 22She’s giving greyhounds retired from racing a home away from the track. Searching for rocksand fossils takes up most of this man’s spare time. Working at Shelby Farms reaffirms thiswoman’s commitment to greener living. StreetSeens highlight Vicki Cohen, W.C. McDanieland Sheri Monroe.

Onsites . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24, 50 & 51Gatherings that have earned an honorable mention.

RSVPeople . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26A trek across the city’s party landscape.

Tables of Content . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34Guests helped give the gift of reading by supporting a soirée held at the Memphis BotanicGarden for Shelby County Books from Birth.

Vox Popular . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .36Q&A with Laura Corby, the founder and CEO of the Autism Solution Center, Inc.

Phoenix Club Mardi Gras Party . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .40The Cadre Building was transformed into the French Quarter for the Phoenix Club’s yearlybenefit for the Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Memphis.

Opera Memphis Wild Game Dinner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42“Arias and Antlers” opened up a world of tastes to Opera Memphis supporters.

Oscar Night® America . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46The Oscars® were eagerly anticipated by those attending a watch party benefiting the RonaldMcDonald House® Charities of Memphis.

RSVPhillippi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .52Let’s Play Dress UpDennis Phillippi squirms at the resurgence of ‘80s female fashion.

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Volume XV Number VII

April 2010

P U B L I S H E R

Roy Haithcock

E D I T O R

Leah Fitzpatrick

C O N T R I B U T I N G W R I T E R S

Ruth CassinKelly Cox

Dennis Phillippi Lesley Young

A R T D I R E C T O R

Patrick Akers

P H O T O G R A P H E R S

Nathan BerryRoy Haithcock

Don PerrySteve Roberts

S E N I O R A C C O U N T E X E C U T I V E

Libby Huff

A C C O U N T E X E C U T I V E

Chris Pugh

A C C O U N T I N G

Ruth Cassin

RSVP Memphis is published monthly byHaithcock Communications, Inc. First class

subscriptions are available for $55.00 per year.Send name and address with a check to:

Haithcock Communications, Inc.2282 Central AvenueMemphis, TN 38104

For advertising information contactRoy Haithcock

Phone (901) 276-7787, ext. 101Fax (901) 276-7785

e-mail [email protected]

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www.rsvpmagazine.comFor editorial information or to request

coverage of an event, pleasecontact RSVP Magazine

one month prior to the event. Call 901-276-7787, ext. 105 or fax to 901-276-7785.

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Copyright 2010 Haithcock Communications, Inc.

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Iended my last column with

high hopes that spring was

just around the corner, and

while the season will have offi-

cially begun by the time this

issue comes out, it’s hard for me

to believe with highs in the

upper 40s predicted for a late

March weekend. So much for

putting up my cold weather

clothes! I don’t know about you,

but everyone I’ve spoken to can’t

stop talking about how Memphis

had the worst winter ever. To you

meteorologists out there, please, please predict the best summer we’ve

had in years.

What do my daydreams of summer entail? Well, I’d start by kick-

ing things off with a barbecue and watch party of The Endless Summer

(the quintessential surfer documentary), and I’d definitely try to take

advantage of every al fresco dining experience in town. Starting an herb

garden sounds nice too, but so do lazy days at the pool, Sunday-afternoon

drives to historic towns, wearing flip flops, watching sunsets over the

Mississippi, catching up on “beach books” and going on vacation (Napa?

Maine? Denver?). Since there are more daylight hours during summer, I

would also theoretically have greater opportunities to try a new outdoor

activity, so I’ll be thinking on that one.

As for charity parties, they will slow down a bit when kids get

out of school and families start traveling, but festivals and 5K runs seem

to take their place nicely. In this issue alone, I mention two festivals and

one dog-friendly event in the StreetSeen features, so flip to pages 18, 20

and 22 for more details. On April 24, the Memphis Brewfest, which bene-

fits the Memphis Redbirds Baseball Foundation and Parent Project

Muscular Dystrophy, will make its debut at AutoZone Park, and we still

have Memphis in May to look forward to next month.

Dust off your walking shoes and get ready for lots of adventures

in Memphis or beyond. I urge you to let the sun guide your footsteps to

fun.

Leah Fitzpatrick

[email protected]

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From the Editor

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LOOK NO FURTHERFOR MOONLIGHT SALE SAVINGS.

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Photo by Steve Roberts

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Memphis Heart Gala“All You Need Is Love”E

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Tommy and Terri Jackson Ron and Anise Belz

Kelly Jo and Mitch Graves Susan and Shahrokh Mokhtari

Drs. Brooke and Dwight Dishman Karin and Steven Gubin

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Kenny and Alicia Wong with David and Catherine KrausLiz and Patrick Hough Scott and Nada Fountain

See all the party photos atrsvpmagazine.com Password: RSVP

For those who spotted the Abbey Road sign, they knew they’darrived at the right place for the Memphis Heart Gala. And if thesign didn’t give the theme (“All You Need Is Love”) away, then

the Volkswagen Beetles, giant wooden hearts and gerbera daisiesinside The Peabody hotel did.

The American Heart Association (AHA) benefits from fundsraised at the affair, which drew 400 ladies and gents mostly outfittedin red attire or accessories. Blinking red guitar pins and heart pinswere handed out to partygoers upon arrival for a special touch and toremind patrons of the work the AHA does to fight cardiovascular dis-eases and stroke. In fact, local cardiovascular surgeon Dr. James Patewas recognized as the 2010 Heart Gala honoree for his commitment tothe cause, including being the first surgeon in the country to replacea heart valve with an artificial valve and implant a pacemaker.

Rebecca and Dr. Michael Ugwueke chaired the 34th annualevent that began with a groovy cocktail hour, complete with a cloudand rainbow bar. Silent auction items like a Memphis Zoo package, aSun Studio group tour, tickets to “The Dr. Oz Show” and a U of MTigers basketball package were spread throughout the area and posi-tioned among neon orange, blue and green draping. Event organizersalso set up a Heart Heroes Gallery to showcase the men and womenwho are survivors of heart disease or devote their time to helping pre-vent and treat the disease.

At half past seven, the crowd crashed the ballroom for a mem-orable night of Beatlemania. From the purple lights and the “Love”backdrop on the stage to the band Getback belting out Beatles’ hits,the vibe oozed 1960s cool. An “Open Your Heart” video in honor ofDr. Pate aired during dinner, and a live auction featuring vacationpackages, a quilt with art by Methodist Le Bonheur cardiac kids atcamp, exclusive dining experiences and Mednikow jewelry concludedthe agenda.

FedEx and Methodist Le Bonheur Healthcare served as thepresenting sponsors for an event that raised $300,000 to further theAHA’s research efforts. Maybe The Beatles should have sung, “All youneed is heart.”

Story by Leah FitzpatrickPhotos by Don Perry

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Houston and Frank Watson

Tim Robertson and Ginger Coleman Doyle and Eddie Jean Childress Leslie and Brett Kinman

Kim and Kevin Humphries Scott and Teri Barber Laura and Tom Withers

Bob and Dianne Laster

Beth and Keith Mitchell

Suzanne and David Baytos

Dr. Tom Greenwell and Kelly Greenwell Windschitz

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Dr. Thomas and Elizabeth Farrar

Anne Pate, Clair Cox, Jim Pate and Louis Britt

Earl Coleman and Kesha Whitaker

Margare and Jean-Claude Loiseau

Tanner Goodrich, Mansor Shahid and Scott Wansley

Sharon and Kelly Truitt

FINE STATIONERY AND GIFTS

The Stovall Collection

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MEMP

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Ed and Nancy Barnett

Trudy and Chip Pfister, Shane Waldroup and Chris Funke

Denise and Paul Tronsor

Joe and Jennifer Roberts

Joshua and Tracy Burgess with Brent and Heather Long

Hulesy Britt and Rosalyn Ross

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Vicki CohenTales Off the Track

From greyhound trainer to director of the Mid-South Greyhound Adoption Option (MSGAO)in West Memphis, Vicki Cohen has a vested

interest in the livelihood of dogs she touts ashaving “hysterical personalities.” Best recog-nized for their competitive racing at up to speedsof 45 miles per hour, greyhounds are often over-looked as good house pets, but Cohen, an ownerof two greyhounds herself, finds the reality quitethe opposite.

“First off, greyhounds are handled a lotfrom a young age, so they’re good socially, and Ipromise you’ll never have anything knocked off atable because racing makes them very sure-foot-ed,” she enthuses. “They even sleep 18-20 hoursa day.”

Owners should also know that contrary topopular belief, greyhounds only have quickbursts of energy, so they don’t have to be exer-cised any more than other breeds, and they pre-fer living indoors because of their thin skin thatdoesn’t tolerate heat or cold well. After retiringfrom competition, usually between ages 2-4,greyhounds still possess a strong instinct tochase, so they shouldn’t be let off a leash in anon-fenced area. If a greyhound ever was to runaway, most can be identified by ear tattoos dat-ing back to their racing days.

“The best piece of advice I can givesomeone looking to adopt a greyhound is to goto a race and see what they were like before theyretired, so you get a better sense of their back-ground,” Cohen says.

Located behind Southland Park, MSGAOroutinely stays open during race times becauseCohen likes to be accessible to out-of-towners orfirst time visitors who don’t know about theadoption facility that currently houses 36 grey-hounds. Southland Park has a hand in the adop-tion process by furnishing the MSGAO building,paying for some expenses and flashing info aboutMSGAO on signs during race days.

Another effort that will help spread theword is the MSGAO Bark in the Park at OvertonPark on April 17 from noon until 3 p.m. Cohensays, “I’m so excited about our first dog funwalk, which will basically be a time for humansand dogs of all breeds to socialize. We’ll alsohave vendors, box lunches and celebrity judgesBad Dog and Ric judge several contests.” Whenasked about what type of contests Bark in thePark will have, Cohen suggests “Best in Show”and “Tallest Greyhound” categories and lightsup at the idea of an “Owner/Pet Look-Alike”contest.

“We’re going to have fun with this,” shebeams. Mission off the track accomplished.

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W.C. McDanielRockin’ Away

W.C. McDaniel’s rock collection dates back tohis childhood when he began collectingarrowheads but has since grown in quantity,

quality and diversity, not to mention his additionof innumerable fossils. Nearly every room in hishouse is chock full of display cases, clear jarsand stands showcasing shark teeth, petrifiedwood, agate, fossilized poop, snail shells, cri-noids, amethyst and the list continues. Some-times the space feels more like a museum thanliving quarters, with school children often stop-ping in for field trips.

When asked about his décor, McDanielsays, “I tell people it’s based on nature, antiquesand good buys.”

McDaniel admits he’s not going to passsomething up he really likes, be that a masto-don’s molar he found in nearby NonconnahCreek 10 years ago or a shatter cone, which iscreated by a meteorite when it hits a rock, thathe retrieved near Clarksville, Tennessee. The for-mer piece happens to be his favorite, and the lat-ter is his most rare. If you’re wanting somethingunique, don’t ask him to part with these pieces,but do venture out to McDaniel’s other venture,the 32nd annual Memphis Mineral, Fossil andJewelry Show, on April 24-25 from 9 a.m.-6 p.m.each day at the Agricenter.

As president of the Memphis Archaeolog-ical and Geological Society, McDaniel is responsi-ble for chairing the show that attracts 30 dealersfrom 15 states and about 3,000 visitors. Not onlywill a portion of the proceeds benefit the RonaldMcDonald House® Charities of Memphis, but theevent will feature demonstrations, a professionalspeaker series, a Rock Zone for children and achance to see a giant cast of a flying dinosaurhanging from the rafters.

“The first time visitors come to ourshow, they’re awestruck,” McDaniel says.“Considering we have a 34,000-square-foot space,I encourage people to at least spend a few hoursto go through it, but some take all day.”

Being that the Memphis Archaeologicaland Geological Society is the second largest rockclub in the South, the group of roughly 400members puts on several more communityevents and usually embarks on a monthly excur-sion, outside of meeting once a month at ShadyGrove Presbyterian Church. McDaniel says theclub has access to places the general publicdoesn’t, and it’s not uncommon to see an 85year old next to a child on a rock/fossil hunt. Heeven brags on his female counterparts saying,“Some of the best rock hounds are ladies, mywife included.” You can sense this has turnedinto a family affair for McDaniel and rockedacross generation lines for many others.

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Sheri MonroePromoting Green Living

There’s something about Earth Day that’s gotSheri Monroe feeling nostalgic. It was in Aprilof last year that she embarked on a new job as

the Shelby Farms Park Conservancy’s manager ofevents and membership. Though 2010 marks herfirst time heading up the park’s ode to MotherNature, she hasn’t shied away from making itthe biggest ever, and for good reason.

“It’s the 40th anniversary of Earth Day,”Monroe proclaims.

For the past three years, park festivitiesassociated with the holiday for the eco-conscioustook place throughout the course of a weekend,but this year, a whole week of activities has beenplanned. Activities include the GreenTeen Gala(April 17, 6:30 p.m.) and SkyFest (April 24, 2-5p.m.), which will boast sky diving, fly fishing,model airplanes, kites, ultimate Frisbee andwind surfing. Monroe says many other ShelbyFarms’ sanctioned events will take place aroundtown during the week, and the traditional kick-off will remain the GreenShoe Gala (April 16,6:30 p.m.).

The grand finale known as the Down toEarth Festival (April 25, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.) has got-ten a facelift as well. People of all ages can nowlook forward to geocaching, which is akin to aneco-treasure hunt, guided park tours and hikescourtesy of guides from U of M’s EcologicalResearch Center and an increased variety of foodvendors, music and kids’ entertainment. TheEco-Marketplace is also unique to the event inthat it features items created from reclaimed andrecycled materials. Discussions will touch on top-ics such as composting at home and how to re-use household items.

“We’re trying to be an example of how tolive green in your daily life and why you shouldlive green in the park,” Monroe explains. “We’reeven going so far as to encourage people to bikeor take the free shuttle departing from CentralLibrary on Earth Day to the festival. I’ll add thatpeople can recycle by bringing old electronics toseveral receptacles we’ll have set up at the park.”

What matters most to Monroe is educat-ing visitors about sustainability practices, and ifspreading the message can be done in a funatmosphere, even better. In her own life, shedoes as much as possible to walk the talk abouthelping the environment.

She shares, “I already became a vegetari-an about 15 years ago, but I’m constantly tryingto expand my green impact and coming to thepark has allowed me to take that to the nextlevel. Also, listening to volunteers’ enthusiasm isexciting for me, and I truly think they are theunsung heroes of this movement.”

Story by Leah FitzpatrickPhoto by Steve Roberts

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MMeemmpphhiiss showroom for the event’s grand finale, TThheeSSiipp--nn--SShhoopp MMaarrkkeettppllaaccee. A fund-raiser for LLee BBoonnhheeuurrCChhiillddrreenn’’ss MMeeddiiccaall CCeenntteerr, the ultimate shoppingmecca for all things shoes (and fancy cars) drew 350attendees, who contributed $85,000 to benefit thosereceiving care from the only comprehensive children’smedical center in the region.

With an invitation that touted “TThhee BBeesstt GGiirrllssNNiigghhtt OOuutt EEvveerr,” the event had a lot of buzz goingamong Memphis’ female population. However, femalesweren’t the only ones in attendance since several youngmen had been tapped to carry silver trays featuringwine and the plat du jour—shoes. The servers obligedladies’ questions about the shoes, which were availablefor purchase along with other accessories like pursesand jewelry. Models, donning wigs of every hue, alsoshowed off footwear trends on the runway. Participatinglocal boutiques included CCrraazzyy BBeeaauuttiiffuull, PPeerriiaa,BBrreeaakkaawwaayy AAtthhlleettiiccss, RRuunnwwaayy BBoouuttiiqquuee, SSttrruutt MMeemmpphhiissand JJoosseepphh, and the three national partners were GGyyppssyyGGlloobbaall CChhiicc, LLiissaa MMaacckkeeyy DDeessiiggnnss and internationaldesigner AAnnggeelloo AAnnaassttaassiioo.

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Story by Leah FitzpatrickPhotos by Libby Huff

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Germantown Charity Horse Show

Royal Ball

Sense of place, history and tradition

were all alive and well at the 22001100

GGeerrmmaannttoowwnn CChhaarriittyy HHoorrssee SShhooww RRooyyaall

BBaallll, held at WWooooddllaanndd HHiillllss. Founded in

1948 by a small group of friends recently

returned from World War II, the

GGeerrmmaannttoowwnn CChhaarriittyy HHoorrssee SShhooww (GCHS)

originally aimed to extend local interest in

horses to participation beyond county lines.

Today, the GCHS is one of the top three all-

breed horse shows in the U.S.

Each year, various civic and sporting

groups choose young women to represent

them in the Germantown Charity Horse

Show Royal Court. These princesses, shown

wearing snow-white gowns by the glow of a

spotlight, commanded all eyes while

descending the steps to the ballroom. They

were SSaarraahh KKaatthheerriinnee SSttrraawwnn, SSaarraahh

CCoovviinnggttoonn SStteeeellee, JJaannee CCaammeerroonn BBaaccoonn,

MMaarryy PPaarrkkeerr RRiiccee, JJoosseepphhiinnee FFiittzzhhuugghh

BBrreennnnaann, CCaarroolliinnee AAnnnnee CCrroosstthhwwaaiitt, AAsshhllyy

KKaayy MMiittcchheellll, LLuuccyy WWaaddee SShhaappiirroo, GGrraaccee

EElllleenn HHaannkkss, KKeennddaallll WWaallkkeerr TTaayylloorr, AAnnnnee

CCaarroolliinnee MMiisscchhkkee, EElliizzaabbeetthh DDuunnnn LLaatthhaamm,

CCaatthheerriinnee GGrraaccee JJeerrnniiggaann, EElliizzaabbeetthh HHoowweellll

TTuurrnneerr, SSaavvaannnnaahh MMaacckkeennzziiee HHaawwkkiinnss,

KKaaiittllyynn AAnnnn AAnnddeerrssoonn, SSyyddnneeyy MMaarriiee

SSaannffoorrdd, MMeerreeddiitthh AAnnnnee RRoosseennbbeerrgg,

MMaarryyEElllleenn SSoouutthhaallll DDeeLLaasshhoo, MMiirraannddaa

MMaarriiee SSttrraaffuussss,, JJeennnniiffeerr LLyynnnn MMccPPhheerrssoonn,

KKaatthheerriinnee PPeeyyttoonn KKlleeppppeerr, CCaaiittlliinn FFoorrbbeess

MMccCCaasskkiillll and CCaammeerroonn MMaarriiee KKaawweellll. The

highlight of the ball, of course, was the

presentation of QQuueeeenn MMaarryy AAuubbrreeyy

LLaannddrruumm, daughter of MMrr.. and MMrrss.. JJoosseepphh

EEmmrriicchh LLaannddrruumm, who exhibited both poise

and presence in addition to her many

accomplishments.

This year, the Germantown Charity

Horse Show is again proud to sponsor the

EExxcchhaannggee CClluubb FFaammiillyy CCeenntteerr, which is ded-

icated to ending the cycle of child abuse

and domestic violence by providing quality

intervention, counseling and support servic-

es to families in need.

Among those attending the Royal Ball

were MMaayyoorr SShhaarroonn GGoollddsswwoorrtthhyy, LLiilllliiee KKaayy

MMiittcchheellll, BBrriiaann KKeellsseeyy, AAuugguusstt LLeeVVaannggiiee,

AAmmyy BBeetthh DDuuddlleeyy, AAnnggeellaa and CChhaarrlleess

HHeerrrriinn, SSiissssyy and RRoobbeerrtt CCrriissss, AAmmyy FFoooottee,

DDiiaannaa FFoooottee, SStteevveenn WWoozznniiaakk, KKaattiiee NNoorrtthh

and MMaaxxwweellll SScchhwwaamm.

Story and photos by Kelly Cox

HopeWorks Breakfast

“A Morning of Hope”

Though the HHooppeeWWoorrkkss BBrreeaakkffaasstt

started at 8:30 a.m. on a Saturday morning,

A Trek Across the City’s Party Landscape

Mary Aubrey Landrum and Rick Landrum

Kendall Taylor, Sarah Steele and Fitzhugh Brennan

Robert and Sissy Criss with Charles and Angela Herrin

Mayor Sharon Goldsworthy and Lillie Kay Mitchell

August LeVangie and Brian Kelsey

Vernita Allen and Ron Wade

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the early time slot didn’t keep

HHooppeeWWoorrkkss from doubling its

crowd, from 400 people last year

to 800 in its second go-around.

Board member HHaarroolldd RReedddd com-

mented that he hoped to continue

growing the event’s attendance in

the future and appreciated the

response to the organization,

which is helping break the cycle

of crime, violence and addictions

through its 13-week personal

career development program.

Events like these help spread the

word about the good deeds being

done in Memphis, so it’s only

appropriate that the theme be “AA

MMoorrnniinngg ooff HHooppee.”

This year, SSeeaann TTuuoohhyy was

tapped to serve as the featured

speaker, but before any of the

message by the father in The

Blind Side could be absorbed,

guests made a beeline to the buf-

fet of biscuits, pastries, sausage,

bacon, fruit and, of course, coffee

and juice. As guests found their

seats inside WWooooddllaanndd HHiillllss, the

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BBuuddddyy YYoouutthh SSyymmpphhoonnyy OOrrcchheessttrraa

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all to the gathering and asked

CChhrriiss AAllttrroocckk, the minister at

Highland Church of Christ, to

give the invocation.

TTrreenntt WWiilllliiaammssoonn, the

headmaster at New Hope

Christian Academy, took the floor

next and opened by saying,

“We’re here because of an organi-

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know about, but I believe it’s the

kind of thing that makes God

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happen to them?” As a testament

to the program’s success, many

HopeWorks graduates were in the

crowd, with some like VVeerrnniittaa

AAlllleenn even bringing a photo

album of her graduation class and

AAnnttoonniioo OOwweennss, who has become

a HopeWorks instructor, deliver-

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Pat Wileman, Ann Srnka and Holly Brinkley

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homeless teen relates to the non-

profit’s ideology, rounded out the

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family, Tuohy said that the two

words his wife, Leigh Anne, said

when they saw Michael Oher

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changed his life and could change

the country. Those words were,

“Turn around.”

Tuohy added, “Be careful

who you leave behind; be careful

how you value humans.”

Those supporting the

cause were JJooyyccee RReedddd, TTiiffffaannyy

SShhaarrpp, PPaatt WWiilleemmaann, AAnnnn SSrrnnkkaa,

HHoollllyy BBrriinnkklleeyy, PPaauullaa and MMiicchhaaeell

HHeeaadd, LLaauurraa BBeetthh HHaarrrriissoonn,

DDaanniieell WWaaddee, MMaarrkk LLuuttttrreellll, JJiimm

CCoolleemmaann, MMaayyoorr AA CC WWhhaarrttoonn,

AAuubbrreeyy WWiillssoonn and BBaarrbbaarraa BBeecckk.

Story and photos by

Leah Fitzpatrick

Soup Sunday

Benefiting Youth Villages

That Punxsutawney

Groundhog wasn’t kidding when

he predicted more winter weather.

The cold was getting old when,

just in time...SSoouupp SSuunnddaayy to the

rescue!

The FFeeddEExxFFoorruumm filled

with folks eager to taste the

warming creations of many of our

area’s most popular restaurants—

all while supporting YYoouutthh

VViillllaaggeess, which offers programs of

proven success to more than

15,000 emotionally and behav-

iorally troubled children each

year. PPaattrriicckk LLaawwlleerr, CEO of

Youth Villages, praised the event’s

more than 350 volunteers as

“unsung heroes” and estimated

that more than 2,000 people

would attend throughout the

course of the afternoon. Those

holding VIP tickets to the SSoouuppeerr

PPaarrttyy on the club level also

enjoyed a buffet provided by

DDrraappeerr’’ss CCaatteerriinngg, cooking demos

by Chefs KKiimm GGaauuggeerr and

NNaatthhaanniieell SStteewwaarrtt of LL’’EEccoollee

CCuulliinnaaiirree and music by FFiiddddlleerr

JJoonn.

All attending were invited

to cast a vote for their favorite

offerings. Winners of the People’sPatrick Lawler and Bill Lawler

Danni, Marian, Kali and Delaney Brun

Carolyn Barnett and Susan Sorrell

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Choice were RRaaffffeerrttyy’’ss for Best

Soup (cream of potato with

bacon); DDiixxiiee CCaafféé for Best Bread

(homemade rolls); DDrraappeerr’’ss

CCaatteerriinngg for Best Dessert (bread

pudding with vanilla sauce);

TTuugg’’ss for Best Seafood Gumbo

(with shrimp, crawfish and

andouille sausage); and CCeennttrraall

BBBBQQ for Best Specialty Item (bar-

becue nachos). The Spirit Award

went to BB..BB.. KKiinngg’’ss and IIttttaa BBeennaa.

This taster favored the slightly

sweet and savory chili from JJiimm

‘‘NN NNiicckk’’ss BBaarr--BB--QQ, served with an

awesomely hot fresh jalapeno

slice and a dollop of cooling sour

cream.

Among those spotted

soup-sipping the winter blues

away at this family affair were BBiillll

LLaawwlleerr, AAmmyy LLiinntthhiiccuumm, BBllaaiinnee

and HHaarrppeerr LLooyydd, LLaannaa and

SShhaawwnn DDaannkkoo, CCaarroollyynn BBaarrnneetttt,

SSuussaann SSoorrrreellll, SStteevvee CCoonnlleeyy,

KKaarreenn PPeerrrriinn, JJoohhnn FFoorrccee, JJaammiiee

CCoocckkrreelll, JJoosseepphh HHoollmmeess, AAmmyy

FFrriieerrss and DDaannnnii, MMaarriiaann,

DDeellaanneeyy and KKaallii BBrruunnss.

Story and photos by Kelly Cox

Madonna Learning Center

Gala and Auction

By 7:30 p.m. on a late

winter’s night, the line at the

door to CChhrriissttiiaann BBrrootthheerrss HHiigghh

SScchhooooll’s HHeeffffeerrnnaann HHaallll stretched

down the sidewalk and into the

parking lot as Mid-Southerners

eagerly awaited an opportunity to

sip, bid, nibble and mingle at the

41st annual MMaaddoonnnnaa LLeeaarrnniinngg

CCeenntteerr GGaallaa aanndd AAuuccttiioonn. The

rockin’ sounds of Memphis’ own

SSoouull SShhoocckkeerrss put an extra skip

in everyone’s step while attendees

drifted inside, and from room to

room, to bid on hundreds of

donated silent auction items.

FM 100’s RRoonn OOllssoonn

served as master of ceremonies

for an event where plates over-

flowed with stuffed turkey breast,

Steve Conley and Karen Perrin

Anita Couglin and Tootie Hagerty

Jamie Cockrell, Joseph Holmes and Amy Friers

Karolee Olsen, Virginia Weeks and Terry Olsen

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shrimp and grits and chocolate

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TTeennnneesssseeee CCoommmmuunniittyy CCoolllleeggee

culinary school students, dressed

in full chef regalia and never fail-

ing to deliver. Other than beer

and wine to sip on, the FFooxx aanndd

HHoouunndd EEnngglliisshh PPuubb aanndd GGrriillllee

donated two martini bars. In addi-

tion to the silent and live auction

items, which included two tickets

to see John Mayer and a private

suite to a Redbirds game at

AutoZone Park for 24 guests, sup-

porters could purchase their

table’s flower arrangement as

another way to support a good

cause.

The Madonna Learning

Center was established in 1969 to

provide education to special

needs students in the Memphis

area. Today, it serves 52 students,

ages 5 to 22, out of its German-

town facility. The gala helps raise

funds for the private school, and

each year it has grown in popular-

ity, with close to 500 guests in

attendance this year and close to

$200,000 in contributions.

“It is just a fun night,”

said chairwoman DDoonnnnaa GGlleennnn.

“We have such a great group of

parents and lots of support from

the faculty who help put this on.

We are very blessed.”

Also in attendance were

JJuulliiee and BBrraadd OOllsseenn, KKaarroolleeee and

TTeerrrryy OOllsseenn, VViirrggiinniiaa WWeeeekkss, BBeerrtt

and TToomm DDeeppppeerrsscchhmmiiddtt, MMaarrkk

DDeeppppeerrsscchhmmiiddtt, AAnniittaa CCoouugghhlliinn,

TToooottiiee HHaaggeerrttyy, JJaann VVooggeellffaannggeerr,

CCoonnnniiee TTiicchhyy, KKeelllleeyy and PPaauull

JJoorrddaann, JJaaccqquueelliinnee MMaajjoorrss,

MMiicchheellllee RReeuueerr, MMeerreeddiitthh

HHaasseellwwoooodd, SSaarraahh SSmmiitthh, AAnnnn and

DDrr.. SStteewwaarrtt BBuurrggeessss, BBeecckkyy

FFiisshheerr, CCaarrllaa FFiisshheerr, AAnnnn FFiisshheerr,

LLiill and LLaarrrryy WWrriigghhtt,, LLiissaa and

JJoohhnn BBoobbaannggoo, AAnnddyy DDuurrrr, DDrreeww

DDuurrrr, BBoobbbbiiee and MMiikkee LLaannddrreetthh,

DDoouugg BBlloooomm and BBeettttyy MMuusssseell--

wwhhiittee.

Story and photos by Lesley YoungPaul and Kelley Jordan

Jan Vogelfanger and Connie Tichy

Dede and Howard Eddings

Julie and Brad Olsen

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Tables of ContentBenefiting Shelby County Books from Birth

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What was your favorite book when you were a child? Was it by Dr.Seuss, Shel Silverstein or Beatrix Potter? Maybe it was about theBerenstain Bears. Whatever the title, whatever the generation,

there’s something special about the books that pave the way to a liter-ate life.

This is what drew 450 people to the Memphis Botanic Gardenfor the debut of Tables of Content, presented by First TennesseeFoundation and benefiting Shelby County Books from Birth. Alongsideitems like Mednikow jewelry and original art by local favorites such asMary Reed and Betsy Bird, the silent auction presented a bit of a plottwist in the form of unexpected offerings. How about a Grapes ofWrath wine tasting with Bill Huddleston? Or a dinner for eightthemed around Elizabeth Gilbert’s Eat, Pray, Love at the riversidehome of Gail and Karl Schledwitz? Literary references abounded inthe live auction as well, with bidding for items like an authenticated,framed leaf from a 1611 King James Pulpit Bible and a Fancy NancyTea Party for 40 lucky ladies of all ages.

As if these references weren’t enough, dinner was catered by AMoveable Feast (Hemingway, anyone?) and served around kid-lit-themed “tablescapes” competing for blue ribbons in five categories.Most Creative or Whimsical went to the Grandview Garden Club forits interpretation of The Very Hungry Caterpillar. Best Theme wasawarded to Ann Nelson and Debra Smith for their adorable The Taleof the Flopsy Bunnies. Most Elegant was bestowed upon Joe Tice forhis rendering of The Polar Express. Best of Show went to ShelleyMiller and Tricia Dudley for Fancy Nancy Tea Parties. Last, but notleast, People’s Choice went to Harrah’s Entertainment, MarilynMicheletti, Deb Blundell, Debra Hutchinson and Susanne Smith fortheir tablescape drawn from The Wind in the Willows.

Shelby County Books from Birth is the local affiliate of DollyParton’s Imagination Library. Each month, it provides a free hardcov-er, age-appropriate book to every local child enrolled in the program,from birth to age 5. More than 30,000 children are presently enrolled.

Story by Kelly CoxPhotos by Nathan Berry

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Vox PopularQ&A with Laura CorbyVO

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RRSSVVPP:: What initially motivated you to start the Autism SolutionCenter?

CCoorrbbyy:: I have two kids with autism spectrum disorders, and I haveAsperger’s Syndrome, which is a high functioning form of autism.My daughter and I were actually incorrectly diagnosed with bipolardisorder. I got diagnosed at 16 with bipolar disorder, and they putme on all of these psychotropic meds for 20-something years thatmade me very nonfunctional. I even quit school in 10th grade. Mydaughter was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and ADHD at age 7.They put her on psychotropic meds, which made her psychotic.Then, my son, who about that time was 1, got very ill. He ended upgoing to the hospital, and he came home and was unresponsive. Hequit talking, he lost all of his language, he stopped eating, he hadchronic diarrhea. People don’t realize a lot of the signs and symp-toms with some of these kidsbecause it’s not just about talk-ing and socialization. This is amedical problem that causesneurological consequences thathas behavorial outcomes. Whenyou just treat the behavior end,it’s like spanking a kid withcerebral palsy and expectinghim or her to get better. Wehave to look at the etiology ofthis disorder and look at whatthe underlying issues are thatare causing all these problems.

RRSSVVPP:: What are your thoughtsabout the causes behind autism?

CCoorrbbyy:: First, I want you to knowI’m not anti-vaccine at all, butI’m absolutely, positively onemillion percent convinced theyplay a role. I don’t think they’recausal, and I say that because ifthey were a cause, everybody that had shots would have autism.What we do know is that there is a subset of children that have agenetic predisposition, and that genetic predisposition is setting thestage. Genetics load the gun, and the environment pulls the trigger.It’s not just the shot in general, but there are a lot of differentthings. The mercury for some kids is a trigger, the live viruses (suchas MMR) in vaccines for some kids are a trigger, the combinationcan be a trigger and sometimes kids can get a bad bout of the fluthat’s a trigger. It can be environmental stuff, and you know thattoo because you look at places like New Jersey, where they have a lotof coal burning facilities, and you have pockets around those indus-

trial areas where the rates of autismare thousands of times higher than inother places, and it’s because coalburning emits mercury. There’s a lotto look at, and there’s really no oneanswer. We’re not telling families not to vaccinate, just to be edu-cated about their choices and vaccinate safely—thimerosal-free, sin-gle dose vaccines and spreading them out when there is a familyhistory.

RRSSVVPP:: What’s the difference in people who shows signs of autism atbirth versus those who show signs at a later age?

CCoorrbbyy:: Well, I’m guessing about 85 percent of kids we see now haveregressive autism, where they develop normally and somewhere

between ages 1-3, somethinggoes wrong. Even with thosegroups, you find parents say-ing, “Early on, I noticed someof the symptoms but never putit together.” You have to recog-nize that even in the regressivekids, there’s still a genetic pre-disposition that is there frombirth, which can still give thema lot of these characteristics,it’s whether or not they’repushed over the edge. What Ithink is interesting too is if youlook at the rates of at-birth kids10-15 years ago, which were onein 10,000 kids, you see thoserates are close to still intacttoday. That shows us that thoserates have remained pretty sta-ble, but we now have this wholenew plethora of kids that havethis new regressive form, andit’s often recoverable. In at-

birth kids, you don’t see a lot of recovery, improvement yes, but notoften recovery. However, these regressive kids are getting betterwhen they’re treated. If autism is truly genetic only, you don’t getbetter from genetic disorders. That tells me there’s a tremendousamount of environmental factors involved that are sending a wholegroup of kids over the edge. This is not just a genetic disorder.

RRSSVVPP:: What are the national rates for autism?

CCoorrbbyy:: We’re talking one out of 90 children. We have an entire gen-eration of children’s lives who are at stake right now and are not

Being that April is Autism Awareness Month, it seemed more than appropriate for RSVP editor LeahFitzpatrick to meet up with the founder and CEO of the Autism Solution Center, Inc., Laura Corby. Thisfacility helps children and adults with autism and autism spectrum disorders, like ADHD, ADD, Asperger’s

Syndrome and bipolar disorder, and was the first of its kind to offer services across all domains and at no cost.Though the center’s staff continues to treat patients in-house and online, times have been tough for the non-profit, forcing Corby to make a decision to start charging patients a small fee last month. She’s saddened tonot be able to help everyone that needs treatment and is on a mission to educate the general public about thenecessity of this center. Corby also plans to open an Autism Solution Center in all 50 states and hopes to turnher current Cordova facility into a multi-million dollar state-of-the-art treatment center in the near future.

Photos by Don Perry

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into genetic research, but who’s helping these kids now that havealready been affected?

RRSSVVPP:: How have doctors received your efforts to help those withautism?

CCoorrbbyy:: I speak all over the country at conferences and training/teach-ing workshops. The bottom line is you can tell me all you want toabout how what I’m saying isn’t scientifically valid because there’sno CDC placebo-controlled studies to prove it; well, yeah, nobodywill fund them because they don’t want to know the answers.Interestingly enough, there are plenty of studies out there support-ing this that have been dismissed. At the end of the day, you canmake studies say whatever you want to—depends on who’s fundingthem. What I really want to know is, “Arethe kids you’re treating getting better ornot because ours are?” If they’re not,isn’t it time we start doing something dif-ferent? It’s all about outcomes, andshould be. So, families love us, but manyin the therapeutic and medical communi-ty think we’re absolutely insane. Reallythough, at the end of the day, doingsomething that works and is getting kidsbetter does not seem like the insaneoption to me.

RRSSVVPP:: What’s some advice you give toparents if they suspect their child isshowing signs of autism?

CCoorrbbyy:: One thing I tell parents now is,“You have that instinct and that intuitionfor a reason, don’t you ever ignore it. It’snever wrong.” I never heard a mom comein here and tell me, “Oh well, I thoughtsomething was wrong, but it really was-n’t.” But, what I hear every day is, “I justfeel sick because I knew something wasn’tright, but I couldn’t pinpoint it and no one would listen to me.”Doctors need to learn to listen to that. There are autism checklistson our Web site (autismsolutioncenter.com) that parents can com-plete if there’s a concern.

RRSSVVPP:: Do public schools offer any programming for kids withautism?

CCoorrbbyy:: Good question. I had to learn the law and learn what, on afederal mandate level, these early intervention systems in schools arerequired to do for these children with special needs. We pay taxes forall these services, but my child, for instance, wasn’t getting them. Iactually went in to my son’s school and said he needs this and this,and when I asked the school if they had those services, they said,“Oh, we don’t have that here.” I told them that’s not what the lawsays, and I think they were floored I knew the law because I don’tthink anyone had challenged them before. My son ended up gettingeverything he needed. He got 35 hours of ABA in the home environ-ment, which is a behavior modification technique, which is how ourchildren learn and is what our kids need desperately. He also got fivehours a week of speech therapy, three hours a week of occupationaltherapy and an hour a week of music therapy, and we were the firstfamily through early intervention here that had ever gotten that. Allof a sudden, he started making these huge gains. Then all theseother families are saying, “Will you help me?” It was really empow-ering because the more I learned, the more I realized that I was driv-ing this bus. About that time, I opened the center. I worked out of

my house for two years, and then in 2003, we applied for nonprofitstatus after I leased a space just for the center. Then, we got theland donated for our current location, and we put up these tempo-rary buildings thinking we’d just raise funds for a building. Hownaïve was I? Here we are, still in these temporary buildings fiveyears later.

RRSSVVPP:: What’s your biggest challenge currently at the center?

CCoorrbbyy:: We’ve been doing this seven and a half years now, and untillast week, it was a no cost center. We did everything at no cost forfamilies because what I found is when you go to these DAN (DefeatAutism Now) doctors, who are a group of specially trained medicaldoctors who have expertise in metabolic issues and gastro andimmune issues that are common in kids with autism, you can easily

drop $2,000 or more in one day, like I didwhen I had to take my kid to a DAN doc-tor in Louisiana. If I didn’t have a creditcard and they hadn’t been willing to workwith me on a few things, I couldn’t havedone that. What do people do that don’thave an open credit card? The answer istheir kids don’t get helped. That’s why Idecided to incorporate the no cost policyat the center, and we hired a DAN doctorand started bringing him in to seepatients. I was doing biomedical counsel-ing, dietary counseling, teaching func-tional communication, behavior modifica-tion and pretty much doing everything,and he was coming in once a month tosee patients. We did that probably for fouryears off and on, and then he moved. Ihired another doctor for about a year, andthe original doctor finally came back.Unfortunately, I’m at the point that I’mhaving trouble just paying the bills, so weare charging what were suggested dona-tion rates now for services. Also, ourdonations have dropped almost 50 per-

cent in the last year. We need help. We need board members, volun-teers and help fund-raising. It makes me sick because I know if wego away, there’s no one else doing what we do. This is so desperatelyneeded, and people don’t realize what an epidemic autism is.

RRSSVVPP:: How many autistic people have you helped at the center?

CCoorrbbyy:: I can’t give you an exact number because I don’t know off-hand, but I can tell you from my database that we’ve helped close to1,800 people in the last five years. That’s not even counting howmuch I do online. I have on a continual basis thousands of e-mailsin my inbox, and our phones ring off the hook.

RRSSVVPP:: Where do patients at the center come from?

CCoorrbbyy:: We have one family now coming to us from Iraq. We haveothers from Canada, Australia and all over the place. You know, wewere the first organization worldwide that did everything under oneroof and did it at no cost. Of course, we can’t say anymore that wedo it at no cost, but maybe again soon.

RRSSVVPP:: What is your ultimate goal with the people you and your stafftreat?

CCoorrbbyy:: My goal is to get people with autism living independently. Idon’t want these parents when they die to have to worry about who’sgoing to take care of their kids.

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Purple, yellow and green Mardi Gras flags waved outside the CadreBuilding downtown, signaling the beginning of late night revelryat the Phoenix Club Mardi Gras Party. Though Memphis is a far

cry from New Orleans’ French Quarter, 1,100 guests didn’t seem tomind celebrating the king of all celebrations right here at home.

The Phoenix Club’s chosen philanthropy is the Boys & GirlsClubs of Greater Memphis, and while the Mardi Gras Party isn’t theclub’s largest fund-raiser for the Boys & Girls Clubs, it seems to bethe most popular. Event chair Gaines Conaway says, “The party’sever-growing popularity is a combination of word-of-mouth, the factthat it benefits such an important local cause and because it appealsto a very young, active and social group in Memphis.” This year,attendees contributed around $20,000 through ticket and raffle pur-chases.

Another spot where numbers mattered was at numerous casi-no tables, which were donated by Harrah’s Entertainment. Gamblershad their pick between blackjack, craps and roulette, and those in theVIP Room on the second floor had access to private gambling, aswell as their own bar and food. Winning was made even sweeter forattendees who picked up raffle prizes from donors such as BellaBridesmaid, Oak Hall, Tommy Bronson Sporting Goods, the MadisonHotel, Folk’s Folly, the Tower Room and Fleming’s Steakhouse.

No Mardi Gras festivity would be complete without livemusic, and this gathering didn’t disappoint. For a second year, LordT & Eloise returned to the stage to deliver their signature aristocrunktunes, quickly turning the room into a dance party. None other thanAl Kapone and Total Savage joined the group later in the night as theguest performers.

Last call might have been at one in the morning for drinks byD. Canale, Itta Beena and South of Beale and for delectables byRendezvous, but the good times will be had soon enough when thePhoenix Club hosts its annual end-of-summer luau.

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Nearly 200 opera buffs and wild game aficionados turned out forOpera Memphis’ annual Wild Game Dinner. Aptly themed “Ariasand Antlers,” the opera’s largest fund-raiser of the year, held to ben-

efit its outreach and education programs, shifted venues this year tothe beautiful Clark Opera Memphis Center.

Many guests were in the spirit of the wild, clad in animal printattire and some even sporting antler headgear reminiscent of aWagnerian Opera, as they sipped aperitifs and enjoyed such tasty horsd’oeuvres as breaded duck tenders with papaya orange glaze and mari-nated ostrich kabobs. Bidding soon began on an array of silent auctionitems, including those generously donated by Gild the Lily, Dermatol-ogy Realm, Memphis Botanic Garden, Hard Rock Café, Hal Jaffe, TheAlluvian, The Orpheum, The Memphis Symphony Orchestra and TheNational Ornamental Metal Museum. Mednikow Fine Jewelers display-ed David Yurman bracelets, rings and necklaces with 20 percent of thepurchase price going to the opera.

Replicas of safari animals stood throughout the hall, and din-ner tables were draped with camouflage cloths and decorated with leop-ard print candles, duck calls stamped with the Opera Memphis logoand copies of Chef Valerie Morris’ cookbook Flavorful Wild Game andDelectable Desserts. Marcie and Chuck Goldstein, Master Chefs andowners of Heart and Soul Catering, used their creativity in preparing afirst rate buffet dinner of braised duck breast topped with diced toma-toes and bell peppers, Cajun venison and turkey sausage jambalaya,Carolina trout stuffed with collard greens and herb roasted venisonloin, followed by desserts of peach cobbler and turtle cheesecake.

Works from Opera Memphis artists, as well as tunes from theJim Spake Trio delighted the crowd. Following dinner, a spirited liveauction took place, conducted by Jeff Morris. Up for bid were Rebecca“Cleopatra” earrings and necklace from Mednikow, Chef Mike“Bubba” Whitfield’s Wild Game Dinner for eight with wine paired byGary Burhop of Great Wines, a “Kill It and Grill It” half day hunt andlunch from The Willows and Harrah’s Tunica, a private home concertwith Kallen Esperian, a New Orleans trip for two with a stay and din-ner at Harrah’s NOLA and tickets to the New Orleans Opera.

Mayor A C Wharton served as honorary chairman, and JohnRyder and Laurie Brown were the chairman and auction chair, respec-tively. Christiana Leibovich, special events manager and developmentcoordinator, was ecstatic about the event’s success stating, “Only inMemphis would hunters, politicians and music lovers gather to sup-port the opera. For more than 20 years, Opera Memphis has had theprivilege of hosting the Wild Game Dinner, and this year we raisedalmost $20,000.”

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there was a lot to be excited about as viewers watched the 82nd annu-al Academy Awards®. Memphians didn’t even have to travel to theKodak Theatre in Los Angeles to experience the most glamorous ofaward shows thanks to the Oscar Night® America party at MinglewoodHall. Even better, the event benefits the Ronald McDonald House®Charities of Memphis.

No Oscars® broadcast would feel quite the same without a redcarpet for guests to show off the latest in black-tie fashions, so organ-izers delivered by rolling out the grand walkway for 500 attendees.Faux paparazzi even snapped pics in the wings, and movie characterslike Snow White, Cinderella and Belle waved their hellos. At the endof the entrance, flutes of Champagne were handed out while partygo-ers perused more than 100 silent auction items and answered movietrivia questions for door prizes.

By that time, the live telecast had begun in the AcademyAwards Viewing Room, but numerous television screens were posi-tioned throughout the main event hall as well. A live auction byMorris Auction Group took place later on, and in keeping with themovie madness, participating restaurants featured booths inspired bypopular films. Humdingers stole the show and the Food Star Awardfor Most Creative Movie Themed Booth for its interpretation of TheLost Boys’ Tree House from Peter Pan. Other awards went to the fol-lowing: Itta Bena (Star Cuisine), Lynchburg Legends (Star Dessert)and Interim (Food Star Chef).

Cameron Harper of ABC24/CW30 Eyewitness News emceedthe affair that raised in excess of $70,000 to support the “home-away-from-home” for families with children receiving treatment for cancerand other illnesses. The Bar-Kays also contributed by keeping thecrowd dance happy until the last golden statue was accepted.

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The Purrrfect Evening Creative Arts for a CureGold Tag Luncheon Fairways Dinner Methodist VIP Reception

Daannaa and KKeenntt FFaarrmmeerr hosted TThhee PPuurrrrrrffeecctt EEvveenniinnggto benefit MMiidd--SSoouutthh SSppaayy aanndd NNeeuutteerr SSeerrvviicceess. Assome guests perused a silent auction of artwork andjewelry provided by fused glass artist LLiissaa AAlllleenn,FFaarrmmeerr’’ss FFrroocckkss and MMeeddnniikkooww JJeewweelleerrss, others enjoyeddinner and desserts prepared by SSoonnddrraa LLeevviinnggssttoonn,GGaaiill SSiillvveerrsstteeiinn, JJaanniiss IIaannssmmiitthh and RRoobbeerrtt HHaayyeess.MMaarrnnee AAnnddeerrssoonn paired the evening’s menu with a vari-ety of wines during a three-room tasting that alsoincluded cordials, brandies, scotches and bourbon cour-tesy of VViiccttoorr RRoobbiilliioo CCoommppaannyy, SSoouutthheerrnn VViinneess,KKoobbrraanndd CCoorrpp.. and Kent Farmer.

Seven Memphis artists teamed up with KKaarryynnWWaaxxmmaann to raise funds and awareness for the PPoollyyccyyssttiiccKKiiddnneeyy DDiisseeaassee (PKD) FFoouunnddaattiioonn. Dubbed CCrreeaattiivveeAArrttss ffoorr aa CCuurree, the event took place at the TToomm CClliiffttoonnAArrtt GGaalllleerryy in the Broad Avenue Arts District. Recentworks by LLiissaa AAlllleenn, MMyyrrnnaa HHaallppeerrnn, JJooaann KKeellllyy, KKeennLLeeccccoo, LLiissaa MMeerrggeenn, DDoorrootthhyy NNoorrtthheerrnn, BBaarrbbaarraa OOlliivveeand JJeenn WWiinnffrreeyy were featured.

The LLee BBoonnhheeuurr CClluubb kicked off its GGoolldd TTaaggDDrriivvee with a luncheon at the UUnniivveerrssiittyy CClluubb. Thisyear’s campaign, called “BBrriinngg SSoommee SSuunnsshhiinnee IInnttoo aaCChhiilldd’’ss LLiiffee,” was aimed at bringing in funding for thegroup’s newest endeavor, the CChhiilldd LLiiffee EEnnddoowwmmeenntt.SSaallllyy PPeerrrryy and LLaauurreenn BBaarrnneetttt chaired the event, andTThhoommaass HHoobbssoonn served as guest speaker.

Local golf great LLoorreenn RRoobbeerrttss gave back to hissport by delivering a keynote address at the FFaaiirrwwaayyssDDiinnnneerr, benefiting TThhee FFiirrsstt TTeeee ooff MMeemmpphhiiss//MMiidd--SSoouutthh JJuunniioorr GGoollff AAssssoocciiaattiioonn. More than 100 support-ers gathered at SSoouutthhwwiinndd TTPPCC for the occasion andhelped chip in for a good cause by bidding on silentand live auction goodies. By night’s end, $22,000 hadbeen raised.

Doctors, donors and elected officials took a tripto the hospital not for their health, but for a VVIIPPRReecceeppttiioonn for the WWoommeenn’’ss aanndd CChhiillddrreenn’’ss PPaavviilliioonn atMMeetthhooddiisstt LLee BBoonnhheeuurr GGeerrmmaannttoowwnn HHoossppiittaall. RReenneeKKooooppmmaann tickled the ivories in the lobby, while theTToomm LLoonnaarrddoo JJaazzzz TTrriioo entertained the crowd from anoutdoor tent. Tours were offered throughout theevening so guests could preview the extra 208,000square feet of hospital space.

Story Submitted and by Leah FitzpatrickPhotos Submitted and by Joseph Martin

Mike and Renee Jordan with Kent Farmerat The Purrrfect Evening

Gary and Glenda Shorb with William and Carol Kenleyat Methodist VIP Reception

Thomas Hobson and Sally Perryat Gold Tag Luncheon

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LET’S PLAY DRESS UPCritics have been doing backflips for thatshow “Mad Men” for the last couple ofyears, praising the show for its design,

complex storytelling and attention to peri-od detail. I don’t buy any of that. “MadMen” is so cool because of one thing—dresses. The show is packed full of swelldames wearing dresses. Fitted, tailored,figure-hugging dresses. Boy, the ‘60s wereswell. Okay, the early ‘60s were swell. Thelate ‘60s were more androgynous, figureconcealing, “let’s not focus on gender,let’s just be people” junk. Forget thatnoise; let’s get back to swinging ladies.

In case you haven’t noticed, thecurrent big thing in women’s fashion isthe return of the ‘80s. Yes, the ‘80s. Theera of “Dynasty,” “Dallas” and Hall &Oates. Women are once again, and Godonly knows why, wearing high-waistedjeans, piled up hair, shapeless dresslikethings over leggings and shoulder pads.Overall, it’s very depressing. First off, thefashion of the ‘80s isn’t flattering. It wasanother misguided attempt to level theplaying field by manufacturing the idea ofthe women’s power suit and compensatefor the height differential through theprofligate use of hair spray. Women in the‘80s, not to mention Boy George, all woretoo much makeup and not enough midriffbaring hotness.

I lived through the ‘80s, and I’mhere to tell you the men’s fashions weren’tany better, in fact, they may have beenworse. We wore knit ties, sport coats withshoulder pads that rivaled those worn byNFL players and pleated pants. Multi-pleated pants no less. Thankfully, none ofthat seems to be returning. If thoseMichael Medved, Sally Jesse Raphaelgigantic horn-rimmed glasses start makingthe scene again, we’re all lost.

Please, women of the world, uniteand reject this horrible trend and give theearly and mid ‘60s a spin. Cast off theshackles of the fashion industry’s empirewaist recycling and slide into a dress and apair of heels. Men will be trailing you likebloodhounds. Be saucy. Be refined. Beprim. It will drive us insane. Make us onceagain ask ourselves the eternal question,“Are those stocking stockings?” Why doyou think Don Draper smokes so much?One word, dresses.

There was a terrifying moment ear-

lier this winter in our house when tracksuits suddenly appeared. I do the laundry,and out of the blue, several of the comfort-able, utilitarian, cult-wear ensembles madethe scene. It was a scary time. Had mywife decided it was time to accept the factthat we are well into the mid part of mid-dle age? Had she secretly become anacolyte of “Jersey Shore?” Was she goingto turn into that screaming mini trollSnooki? What an awful development thiswould’ve been. If she was going the track

suit route that meant I was going to haveto figure out how to bankroll a new redconvertible, buy a couple of gold necklacesand begin a tanning regimen. Thankfully,none of that was in the offing, she justwanted something warm to wear to thegym, where we go to forestall any talk ofour being middle aged. That’s what makesmy wife so cool.

Now, if I could just get her indresses. Oh, she’ll wear skirts, and I am abig fan of the skirts. Frilly, hippie skirts,flowing gypsy skirts, handcrafted, beadednumbers bought at street fairs, those areall super. But like all men, I secretly, well,not so secretly now, want her to dress likeLaura Petrie. I want her to be dolled uplike Grace Kelly in “To Catch a Thief.”When I tell her this, she says the samething she says about lingerie that I like,

“It’s uncomfortable.” To which I reply, “Idon’t care.” Because I don’t.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not advo-cating going back in time when womenwere expected to stay at home and behappy with their lot in life. Good heavensno. Mainly because that’s what I do. Mywife has outearned me most of the yearswe’ve been together. Considering the factthat I’m a middle-aged high school drop-out who can’t do math, there’s no placefor me in the business world. I’ll make thejokes, she brings home the bacon. Plus, asa well-informed man of the 21st century, Irespect and admire women and sincerelybelieve they’re every bit my equal, and inmost circumstances, my superior. Still,would it kill those same self-actuated, con-fident and successful women to take a runat a nice cocktail dress? Take a look at thepreceding pages of this magazine. Look atall those dreamy skirts and pretty dresses.They certainly don’t look downtrodden.They look yummy.

Let me also say that if there weresomething other than what I wear nowthat my wife wanted me to sport, I’d do itin a second. She just doesn’t seem to wantme to change. If she wanted me to makethe same deal, to wear sharp suits andcarry a cigarette case, I’d do it in a second.Mind you, she’d have to foot the bill forthe suits. Hell, if she wanted me to dresslike a cowboy, a soldier, a cop or any othermember of the Village People, I’d do it ifit would make her happy. What do I care?My personal style, as I’ve pointed out onthese very pages, consists of clothes thatdon’t go in or out of style and things thathave enough pockets. All I want is enoughpockets. But if she wanted me to strutaround in a loincloth and moccasin boots,I’d do it; I’d just have to carry a purse.

Yep, I’d wear whatever made herhappy. Except dresses. I don’t have thelegs for it, cross-dressing doesn’t hold anyappeal for me, and frankly, they’re uncom-fortable.

Oh Phillippi! You know us women have tokeep our love for Joan Collins’ Alexis andLinda Gray’s Sue Ellen alive with ourwardrobe ensembles. Too bad Phillippi for-got to mention the ’8os stilettos becausethose were—and still are—powerful andsexy.

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Students in the Roulhac Colonial Senior Kindergarten Class took their places for a class photo in 1960. Seated in the frontrow from left to right are Bill Wilder, Nancy Sternberger, Don Newman, Julie Kopald, Bobby Norton, Ricky Dichtel, CindyKretzer and Mark Harris. Standing in the back row are John Cergnel, Bill Cottam, Mike Molloy, Karen Wilson, Bill Eubanks,Walter Polk, Vicki Busby and Larry Busch. B.E. Busby (not pictured) taught the class.

PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIE KOPALD-FISHER

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