metrofamily magazine june 2012

June 2012

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Celebrating Dads!Local dads offer advice to their kids

Brendan Parker of Spaghetti Eddie shares his story

Why local schools need dads

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Summertime... and the living is not always easy. With sibling rivalry issues, camps and lessons, the unending cries of “I’m bored,” road trips and the dwindling family budget, what is a parent to do? Count on MetroFamily to help keep summer easy (and less expensive) with the resources you need. From report card rewards to summer reading programs and more, find them all at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/summer-fun (updated daily!).

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6 Dear MetroFamilyEditor’sNote.

8 Family ShortsCommunitynews,resources&otherfamily-friendlyinformation.

14 Real Moms of the MetroIt’saDadtakeover!MeetmusicianBrendanParker.

16 Oklahoma ReadsGreatreadsforallages.

18 Exploring Oklahoma VisittheDeepForkNationalWildlifeRefuge.

20 Ask the Expert Adviceforwhenyourchildgivesup.

27 Problem Solving Products

28 Focus on EducationWatchD.O.G.SinOklahomaschools.

31 Character CornerEncouragingfinancialstewardship.

32 Your Healthy FamilyLocalmomsweighinonbreastfeeding.

35 CalendarFunevents,activitiesandclasses.

46 Photo Gallery Readersshareimagesfeaturesdadsandtheirkids.

Whatareyourbirthdaytraditions?Bigorsmall,maketheirnextbirthdayaneventtorememberwiththeseideasformarkingtheoccasion.Also find our handy Birthday Party Directory on page 24.

ON OUR COVER AND ABOVE: Brendan Parker of local Kindie band Spaghetti Eddie, with 20-month old son James. Read more about Brendan on page 14.PHOTO BY: Kathryne Taylor.

ContentsJune 2012

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DearMetroFamily,

It’softenthelittlethingswedo,thosethingswedoalmostwithoutthinkingthatmakethegreatestimpact.

Asakid,mymomalwaysleftanoteformeonthekitchentable.EverytimeIcameinthehouse,ImadeabeelinetothekitchentoseewhatMomhadleftforme,whetherIwascominghomefromschoolorcominghomelatefromanightout.Thislittleactionmadeabigimpactonme,tothepointthatevenwhenImovedawayandgotmarried,I’dstillcheckthetablewhenIcamehometovisit.Tomymomitwasjustawaytocommunicatewithherchildren;tous,itwasareminderthatshelovedus.

Iwokeuponmybirthdayoncetoanoteonthetablefrommydad.Itwasasimplething,writteninmydad’shand,wishingmeahappybirthday.Iknowwedidallthenormalstuffthisbirthday(presents,cake,party),buttheonlythingIrememberisthisnoteDadhadwrittenonapieceofscratchpaper,shownhere.It’sbeenayearnowthathe’sbeengone,andIcherishit.

Ihavenoticedtheselittletraditions(quirks?)inmyownfamily—mykidsrelyonmetotellthemto‘becareful’aftertheyhurtthemselves,tosinganodetotoastinthemorning,andsomeday,whentheygetalittleolder,toleavethemtheirownnotesonthekitchentable.

Everydaywehaveanewopportunitytomakeabigimpressiononourkids—andonthepeopletheywillbecome.Whatwillyoudotodaytoimpactyourkids?You’veprobablyalreadydonemorethanyouknow.

Cheers,

P.S. Visit metrofamilymagazine.com/mari to read my blog, “Keeping it Real,” about my personal adventures in the ups and downs of parenting.

Weaskedourcontributors:What was the best advice your father ever gave to you?

Sarah Holmes Character Corner“Yourwordshouldbejustlikeapromise.”

Jennifer Geary Exploring Oklahoma“Don’tspendmorethanyouhave.”

Sarah Taylor Publisher“Anythingworthstartingisworthdoingright.”

Brooke Barnett Assistant Editor“Neverunderestimatethevalueofbeingprepared.”

Eric Urbach Dad feature“Youreducationissomethingnoonecantakefromyou.”

Shannon Fields Your Healthy Family“Youdon'tgetanythinginlifewithoutworkingforit.”


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Preventing Summer Learning LossWhenchildrenarenotengagedinlearningenrichmentthroughthesummermonths,alossofskillsoccurs.Howcanyouhelpyourchildrenavoidthissummerslide?1. Readtoyourchildrenorencouragethemtoreadontheirown.Participateinyour

library’sSummerReadingProgram,whichoffersincentivestoread.Findalistofsummerreadingprogramsatwww.metrofamilymagazine.com/summer-reading..

2. Explorelocalresourcesthatencouragelearning.Inadditiontolibraries,planoutingstoparks,museums,universitiesandcommunitycenters.

3. Playgamesthatusemathandreadingskills.Atthegrocerystore,tallyprices;inthecar,searchforshapes,colorsorlettersonsigns.

4. Schoolmaybeout,butyourschool’swebsitelikelyhasinformationaboutonlineresourcesordownloadableactivitiestoencouragelearning.

5. Limitscreentimeandgetactivewithamorephysicallearningactivity,suchasascavengerhunt.

Reprinted with permission by the Summer Matters (www.summermatters2you.net) campaign, a collaborative effort to expand and improve summer learning led by the nonprofit Partnership for Children and Youth (www.partnerforchildren.org).

Sugar Free AllstarsOklahoma’sownGrammyaward-winningKindierockers,theSugarFreeAllstars,releasetheirlatestfamily-friendlyCDJune12.All on a Sunday AfternoonfeaturesmoreofwhattheAllstarsareknownbestfor—agroovyMotownsoundwrappedaroundkid-friendlysongsthathavebroadappeal.ChrisWiserandRobMartinknowhowtoengagecrowdsofallages,makingmusicthatparentswillenjoyasmuchastheirkids.TheAllstarsareplanningaregionaltourthissummer,includingdatesinmorethan60librariesacrossthestateandaplannedmusicfestivalinOklahomaCitythisfall,WiggleOutLoud.LearnmoreabouttheSugarFreeAllstarsandbuyyourcopyoftheirnewreleaseatwww.sugarfreeallstars.com.

Teen Auto SafetyAccordingtoastudybyAAA,teendriversareabout50percentmorelikelytocrashinthefirstmonthofdrivingthantheyareafterafullyearofexperiencedrivingontheirown.AAAandothersafetyadvocatessaythatparticipationincontinueddrivingeducationiskeyforkidsavoidbeingindangerouscaraccidents.Tohelpteendriverslearntobeeducateddrivers,AutoMD’sTeenDriverCarRepairandMaintenanceGuideisafreeonlineguidetohelpyourteenstaysafeontheroadinawell-maintainedvehicle.Theguideincludesamaptothebasicpartsofacar,maintenanceandrepairchecklistsfordo-it-yourselfers,roadsidesafetyinformationandacarmaintenancequiz.Findtheguideatwww.automd.com/teen.

What is the greatest life lesson you learned from your father? • “Mindyourmother!”

Sheena P., Oklahoma City• “Alwaysputyourfamilyfirst”

Genia S., Oklahoma City• “Beanexamplebydoing,notjust

saying.”Erica R., Choctaw

• “Alwaysmaketimeforyourkids.Don'tmakethemfeellikewhateveryouaredoingismoreimportantthantheyare.”Rachel T., Edmond

• “Thatmostthingscanbefixed...withducttape,gorillaglueorastaplegun!”Shannon I., Yukon

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Chalk the Walk for CharityChalktheWalk,OklahomaCity’sfirstchalkartevent,isanamateurartcompetitionusingchalkasthemediumandpavementasthecanvas.TheeventishostedbytheParentsAssistanceCenterandwillbeheldinthesouthparkinglotofBassProShopinBricktown,SaturdayJune16from10:00am–3:00pm.Thefestivalisopentoartistsofallagesandexperiencelevels,andteam(uptofourpeople)orindividualentrieswillbejudgedinfourcategories:Child,JuniorHigh,HighSchoolandCollege/Adult.Registrationis$20persquare.“WechoseFather’sDayweekendforthiseventbecausethisisaninteractive,whimsicalactivitythatthewholefamilycanenjoy,”saidLauraGamble,ExecutiveDirectoroftheParentsAssistanceCenter.EventproceedswillhelpfurthertheParentsAssistanceCenter’smissiontostrengthenfamiliestopreventchildabuse,neglectandotherfamilyviolence.Formoreinformationortoregister,call405-232-8226orvisitwww.pacok.org.

Top 10 Reader Picks: Birthday Party VenuesTheperfectpartycanhelpmakeabirthdayevenmorespecial,butitissometimesdifficulttoknowwhichvenueoffersthebestbangforyourbuck.InMay,wepolledourreadersfortheirfavoriteplacestocelebrate.Here,inrandomorder,aretheirrecommendations:

• TheOKCZoo(2101NE50thStreet)• OrrFamilyFarm(14400SWesternAvenue)• BeWildforArt(100624thAvenueNWSuite

130,Norman)• BouncinCraze(14901NorthLincolnBoulevard,

Edmond)• TigerSafari(963SFriscoRoad,Tuttle)• SonderMusic(225EGrayStreet,Norman)• OklahomaGoldGymnastics(707CentennialBoulevard,

Edmond)• ScienceMuseumOklahoma(2100NE52ndStreet)• AndyAlligator’sFunPark(3300MarketPlaceDrive,Norman)• BlazersIceCentre(8000SI-35ServiceRoad)ThankstoAudrieB.,ShylaH.,JenniferS.,TracieC.,SaraR.,EricaS.LindsayA.,JeffD.andMayaT.forcontributingtothismonth’slist.Forotherpartyvenuesuggestions,visitourBirthdayPartyListingonpage24ofthisisueandthePartyGuideDirectoryatwww.metrofamilymagazine.com/party-guide.Visitwww.facebook.com/metrofamilytoshareyourthoughtsonnextmonth’slist.Haveavenueyou’dliketosuggest?Commentonourwebsiteatwww.metrofamilymagazine.com/party-venue-suggestions.

Smart Money ResourcesThismonth’sCharacterCorner(page31)isallaboutfinancialstewardship—teachingourchildrensmartmoneymanagement.Areyoulookingforwaystoteachyourchildrenabouthowtomanagemoney?Trytheseonlineresourcesasagoodplacetostart:• TheUSSecuritiesandExchangeCommission.Findtipstoteacholderkidsaboutfinancialintelligence.www.sec.gov/investor/students/tips.htm

• DaveRamsey’sFinancialPeaceprogramiswell-knownandnowadapatedforchildren.www.daveramsey.com

• TheMoonJarsystemhelpschildrenwiththeconceptsofresponsiblegiving,savingandspending.www.moonjar.com

• ProfessorofEconomicsSueLynnSasser(formerfinancialcolumnistforMetroFamilyMagazine)wrotethefinancialcurriculumforOklahomaschools.Findherarticleaboutteachingyourkidssmartmoneypracticesatwww.metrofamilymagazine.com/smart-money.

• OurownCharacterCornercolumnistSarahHolmesfeaturesalistoffunandfrugalsummeractivitiesonherwebsite,www.thecharactermom.com.

• LookupourSummerSurvivalGuideatwww.metrofamilymagazine.com/summer-survivalforalistofsummerfunideasonabudget.


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RinglingBros.BarnumandBaileyCircusperformersbringtheirelectrifyingperformerstoScienceMuseumOklahomaonWednesday,June27at1:00pm.TheScienceLiveshowwillbereimaginedwithplatespinning,opticalillusionandjugglingtoteachchildrenhowscienceisusedinthecircus.

TheRinglingBros.BarnumandBaileyCircuswillbeheldattheChesapeakeEnergyArenafromJune28–July1.Theall-newFullyChargedshowfeaturescircusfavoriteswithafunelectrictheme.Visitww.ringling.comformoreinformationaboutthecircusorwww.sciencemuseumok.orgtolearnmoreaboutScienceMuseumOklahoma.

Protect Against HeatstrokeAccordingtoSafeKidsUSA,morethan500childrenhavediedsince1998duetoheatstroke(hyperthermia)afterbeingleftinacarunattended.SafeKidsremindusalltoACTtopreventhyperthermia.1. AVOIDinjuryordeathbyneverleavingyourchildinacaralone

andalwayslockingthedoorsofunattendedvehicles.2. CREATEhabitssuchascontactingothercaregiverswhenyou

takeyourchildtodrop-off,placingothernecessities(suchasyourpurseorbriefcase)intheseatnexttoyourchildorsetacellphonealarmasareminder.

3. TAKEactionifyouseeanunattendedchildinavehicle—call911immediatelyandfollowtheinstructionsofemergencypersonnel.

Warningsignsofhyperthermiainclude:red,hotskin;nosweating;rapidpulseoraslowandweakpulse;nausea;confusionorstrangebehavior.Ifyourchildexhibitsthesesymptomsafterspendingtimeoutdoorsorinahotcar,coolyourchildandcall911.

Education NewsTheOklahomaStateDepartmentofEducation(OSDE)hasnewdevelopmentstohelpandsupportOklahomafamilies.• ParentPowerNight,partoftheVision2020SummerConference,

willbeheldattheCoxConventionCenteronJune11from6:00–7:45pm.Parentsandcaregiverscanattendtolearnaboutcollegeandcareerplanning,jobprofiling,parentalinvolvement,understandingthecyberwordanddrugabuse.Registrationisfreeandopentoallparents,guardians,caregiversandfamilymembers.Learnmoreat405-522-6225orhttps://register.wciconferences.org/ehome/index.php?eventid=40273.

• AnewiTunesUsiteexpandsdigitallearningandprofessionaldevelopmentresources.TheiTunesUsiteofferspublicaccesstofreeeducationalresourcesincludinghundredsofthousandsoffreelectures,videos,books,podcastsandcourses.AccesstheOSDEoniTunesUatwww.itunes.apple.com/institution/oklahoma-state-department/id493092792.

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Personally,Iwouldusethisopportunitytotellmykidshowimportantitistolistentotheadviceofferedbythosewho’velived—andseen—more.Ichallengemykidstoseekadvicefromothers,asthereisagoodchancethatthey’llfindsomeonewhohasfacedsimilarchallenges—andmightofferanewtakeonasituation.Yes,kidsoftenfallintothetrapofthinkingthattheyalonehavealltheanswers,buttrustmeonthisone:experienceprovidestheabilitytobetterpredictoutcomes.Gainingknowledgefromexperiencewillhelptobetterinformfuturedecisions.

Inthespiritofseekingadvicefromothers,weaskedlocalfatherstoweightin.Herearethelessonsthat10localfatherswouldgivetotheirchildren,toguidethemastheyjourneyfromchildhoodtoadulthood.

To My Children,I need to tell you a few things. I’m trying, day by day, to teach you the things you need to know, to be the best person you can be in this world. Most of the advice I have for you was given to me by my parents or some other adult, somewhere along the way. Please let me share with you what I’ve learned. May you accept these lessons with my love.

Honor those older than you. Youonlygetonechancetomakeafirstimpression.Youshouldalwaysaddressyoureldersrespectfullywiththeirpropertitle,suchasMr.,Mrs.,DoctororReverend.Theyhaveearnedthisrespectthroughtheirlife’sexperiencesandhardwork.Youwantthemtohearyourecognizeandrespectthatfact.Ifyouapproacheachpersonyoumeetwithproperrespect,theywillalwaysrespectyouenoughtorememberyourface(ifnotyourname),andwilllistenwhenyouspeaktothem.Andattheveryleast,youwillbeagoodrolemodelforthoseyoungerthanyou.(GeoffBice,fatheroftwo)

Be humble in victory and proud in loss.Winningseldomcomesfromtheeffortofasingleperson,andnoonewantstohearbragging.Whenyouwin,showrespectforyour

An Open Letter To My ChildrenDads,whatifyouweregivenoneopportunitytoimpartwisdomtoyourchildren?Justoneshottotellthemwhatreallymatters,theessentialinformationtheyneedtolearnbeforetheyleavehomeandventureoutintotheworld.Whatlessonswouldbethemostimportanttoyou?



teammatesandotherswhohavehelpedyoutovictory.Andshowingempathy(totheopponent)isalwaysagoodruletofollowinvictory.Rememberthatthereisnoshameifyoudoyourbestandcomeupshortofvictory.Itiseasytolearnwhenyouarewinning,butbothteamsandindividualsexcelwhentheylearnfromlossesandfocusonwhatcanbechangednexttime.Don’tfeelshamefortheloss,butratherprideintheeffort.(BrettBurleson,fatheroffour)

Share what you’ve been given. Yes,evenadultsneedtoberemindedofthisfromtimetotime.Alwayskeepyoureyesandheartopentothosethatneedhelporjustalittleencouragement.Youhavebeengivenmuch,andwiththatcomesaresponsibilitytohelpothers.Theworldwilltellyoutolookoutforyourselffirst;Isaytofirstinsteadlookoutforothersinneedofahelpinghand.(BradStone,fatheroffour)

Be quick to forgive.OneofthemostimportantthingsIwantyoutoembraceisforgiveness.Forgivenesskeepsyoufromanger,bitternessorholdingagrudge.Therewillbemanytimesinyourlifewhenyoufeellikesomeonehaswrongedyouandtheeasythingtodoistoretaliateinanger.Thisapproachwillonlyimpactyounegatively.OurChristianfaithtellsusthatGodwantsustoloveoneanother;whenwechoosetoloveeveryoneinandthrougheverysituationandtrytoseethemasGoddoes,thenwecantrulyunderstandandstarttoseethedepthofthislove.Forgivingothersallowsyoutomaintaingreatcharacter,mentalclarityandtrulybefreetobecomethepersonyouaresupposedtobe.(ChrisShepherd,fatherofthree)

Never take time for granted. Insideeachofusissomeoneelse’smiracle.YouhaveaGod-givenpurpose,andifyoucarelesslystrollthroughlifewithoutpayingattentiontothosearoundyou,youmaypassbyapersonwaitingonyou…theirmiracle.Beintentionalineverythingyoudoandlookforopportunitiestohelpsomeoneinneed.Youneverknowwhenyoumayneedamiracle.(JeffBuchanan,fatheroffive)

Take care of your body. Thehumanbodyisanincredibleworkmanshipthatiscapableofdoingamazingtaskswhenitisproperlytrained,nourishedandhydrated.Trytosetaside30to60minutesadayforvigorousactivitythatwillchallengeandimproveyourbody.Theresultsofsensiblelivingwillhaveanexponentialimpactathome,workandplaybecausepeoplewhofeelbetter,dobetter.Youhaveonelifeandonebody,takecareofit!(KevinPolcovich,fatheroftwo)

Save money for bad days. Icomefromagenerationthattendstospendmorethanwemakeandtousecreditcardstopayforthingsthatwecan’tafford.Mywishforyouisthatyouavoidthemistakesofmygeneration.Money—orlackofmoney—shouldnotcontrolourlives.Preparingwillhelpyou

toweathertheupsanddowns.Theoneconstantinlifeischangeandyouneedtobeprepared.Myadvicetoyouistoliveon70percentofyourhouseholdincomeandsavetherest.Putitawayanddon’ttouchit.Don’twaituntillaterinlife,dothiswithyourfirstpaycheck.Whenemergencieshappenyouwillbepreparedtoweatherthestorm.Ifyouareluckytoavoidthestorms,thenyouwillbeinauniquepositiontoserveotherswithyourgenerousheart.(ScottBell,fatherofone)

Believe in yourself. Itdoesn’tmatterifit’sinschool,sportsorlife;thetwothingsthatyoucancontrolareattitudeandeffort.Ifyouhavetherightattitudeandgivemaximumeffort,youcandoanything.Ifyoueverfindyourselffacedwithdoubts,questionsorfears,rememberthesewords:“Godbelievesinyou,Ibelieveinyou,yousimplyneedtobelieveinyourself.”Don’teverletanyonetellyouthatyoucan’tdoanything;yourdreamsareyourpossibilities.DreamBIG!(ScottWilliams,fatheroftwo)

Help others. Lifeismadeupofgoodtimesandbadtimes,andthroughitall,peoplearethemostimportantthing.Valuetherelationshipsyouhavewithothers.Payattentiontothepeoplearoundyou,andwhenyouseethatsomeone’sgoingthrougharoughpatch,dowhateveryou’reabletomakeiteasierforthem.Moneyandthingscomeandgo,butwhatpeoplereallyneedistoknowthatthey’renotalone,andthatthere’salwayshope.(RyanHukill,fatheroffive)

Believe in something bigger than yourself. Inthisworld,manypeoplelivetheirlifefocusedonlyonthemselves.Theythinkthatiftheymakemoremoneyorownmorestuffthattheywillbehappyandsatisfied.Whattheyfind,though,iscompletelyoppositeofthat.Nomatterhowmuchtheyhave,theyareneverreallyhappyandtheystillwantmore.Goddidnotintendforustolivethisway.Wefindtruehappinesswhenweseektohelpothers,especiallythoseingreatneed.YouwerecreatedbyGodtomakeadifferenceinthisworld,todosomethingveryspecialthatonlyyoucando,somethingbiggerthanyourself.Lifeisshort,andtheworldiswaiting.Godwantstodosomethingamazingthroughyouthatwillmakeyouhappierthanyoucouldeverimagine!(TrevorWilliams,fatherofthree)

I love you, Dad

Eric Urbach lives in Edmond with his wife Amy, where he is a father of three and step-father of two.



Localsinger/songwriterBrendanParkerhasdevelopedquiteafollowingintheOKCmetro—especiallywiththe6and

undercrowd.Theenergeticmusicianisthefrontmanofpopularkindie(“indie”rockforkids)bandSpaghettiEddie,inwhichhesings,playsguitarandevenrocksanelectrickazoo.AlongwithdrummerToddParsons,Parkercanbeseenateventsandfestivalsacrossthemetro,performingfun,educationalmusicenjoyedbybothchildrenandparents.

Parker,age31,releasedhisfirstfull-lengthalbum,Spaghetti Eddie! And Other Children’s Songs,in2010,withsongsdesignedtoteachkidsaboutcolors,daysoftheweekandmore.Spaghetti Eddie! And Other Children’s Songs Volume 2 followedin2011,whichcoverseverythingfromthemonthsoftheyearandvowels,tomonstersandmeatballs.ParkeralsoreleasedaDVDofmusicvideosforchildreninDecember2011.Hereismoreaboutwhatkeepsthislocalmusicianandfather(sonJamesis1)spreadingfunandlearningthroughmusic.

What are you passionate about? Livinguptomyfullpotentialandtryingtomakeadifferenceintheworld.

How has fatherhood changed you? Ithinkofmyselflessandmoreaboutthe

familyasawhole.Itryharder.IhadnoideaIcouldlovethesepeoplesomuch.

How do you banish stress? Mywifehelpsmegetridofstress.SheisagreatpersontotalktoandcanthinkofsolutionsfasterthanIcanstressaboutproblems.

What inspires you? Thatfeelingofgettinggoosebumpsfromhearingasongorwatchingsomethingunfold.

Along with your jobs as a dad and musician, what do you do? Ihelpmyoldmedicalequipmentcompanyfromtimetotime.Ialsohelpmywife’ssyntheticgrasscompany,AlwaysGreener.

What do you like most about your job? IlovetoseepeoplesmilingandhavingfunwhileI’m“working,”it’sprobablythemostfulfillingthingthatIhaveeverbeeninvolvedwith.Also,allofthegoodpeoplewemeetalongtheway.

What is on your wish list? 72degreesandsunny...everyday.

What are you most proud of? Mywifeandson.

What motivates you? LeavingalegacythatmyfamilyandIcanlookbackonandbeproudof.

How do you find balance in your life? Tryingtostayorganizedandalwayshavingatriporsomethingfuntolookforwardto.

Advice for other dads? Provideforthem,bethereforthem,givethemtime.Bethepersontheywantyoutobeandfillthemwithconfidencealongtheway.

Where are you from originally? IamoriginallyfromOklahoma,butwelivedinCaliforniaforfouryears.Wemadeourwaybackaftergettingmarriedinhopesofstartingafamily.

What’s the biggest challenge in your life? Enjoyingthemoment,whichIdomuchmorenowthanever,butit’sstillhardtonotthinkahead.

How do you help others? Ilikemakingpeoplelaugh.Laughtercanhelpinsomanyways.

What is your parenting style? Iliketobeboththe“goodcop”ANDthe“badcop.”

Favorite advice about parenthood? It’samarathon,andtheydon’thandoutmedalsuntiltheVERYend.ChrisRocktaughtmethis.

LearnmoreaboutBrendanandSpaghettiEddieatwww.thespaghettieddie.com.

Brooke Barnett is the Assistant Editor of MetroFamily Magazine.

Real Moms of the MetroMeet Kindie Rocker Brendan Parker

Quick Facts About Brendan1. What are five words that

describe you? Respectful, hopeful, thankful, helpful, fun.

2. What is your favorite indulgence? Chocolate. Specifically cookies with some form of chocolate in them.

3. What can’t you live without? Wife, son and immediate family excluded? My guitar.

4. What’s your favorite meal to cook for dinner? I can do a nice “big salad” or some spaghetti, but I'm more of a Saturday morning breakfast cook. French toast, eggs, bacon, sausage, fruit smoothies. It’s the most important meal of the day.

5. What’s your favorite movie? The Big Lebowski.

6. What’s always in your handbag? I don’t carry a handbag. When I do carry a bag, it usually has my planner, Spaghetti Eddie merchandise, gum and my wallet.

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Oklahoma Reads Great Reads for All Early ReadersChuckling DucklingsByAaronZenz(BloomsburyKids,hardcover,$16)Earlyreaderswilllovethebrightandwhimsicalpicturesofbabyanimals.Adultswilllovelearningtheanswerstothepressingquestionsoftoddlers(whoknewababy?wasa??).

Slither, Slide, What’s Outside?ByNoraHilbandSimonandSharonShapiro(FireflyBooks,softcover,$9)Afun,rhymingbookthatencourageskids(andadults)togetoutsideandinteractwiththenaturalworld,nomattertheseason.

The Buzz on HoneybeesByCathyKaemmerlen,illustratedbyKathyCoates(PelicanPublishign,softcover,$17)Areyourkidsafraidofbees?Teachthemthe

integralpartthatbeesplayinthefoodchainthroughthistale,toldfromtheperspectiveofBetty,theStorytellingHoneybee.

Grades 4+The Five Lives of Our Cat ZookByJoanneRocklin(AmuletBooks,hardcover,$19)Throughthepowerofagoodimagination,OonaimaginesalifeofadventureforhercatZook(shortforZucchini)assheandherbrothernavigatethesometimeschoppywatersoftheirlives.Animaginativetaleofresilience.

13 HangmenByArtCorriveau(AmuletBooks,hardcover,$17)Anadventurecombiningtime-travel,mysteryandtreasure.SetintheatticroomofanhistoricBostonhome,Tonyandhisfriendsworktogethertodecipherhistoricaleventsthatsolveapresent-daymystery.

AdultsJoy the Baker CookbookByJoyWilson(Hyperion,softcover,$20)Kickupyourbirthdaycakes—andallthetreatsyoumake—withthistreat-filledcookbookbyfoodbloggerJoy.Sweet(andsavory)recipestotakeyoufrombreakfasttomidnightsnack.

Dad, I Love You All the Way to God and BackByShannonShy(Authorhouse,softcover,$17)Parentsarechargedwithteachingtheirchildren,butthelessonstaughttothisauthorbyhisdaughtercapturethetruemeaningoffatherhood.

Dad’s Playbook: Wisdom for Fathers from the Greatest Coaches of All TimeByTomLimbert(ChronicleBooks,hardcover,$13)Sports-lovingfatherswillappreciatethisbookofadviceonfatheringthatechoesthelessonslearnedonthefield:motivation,mentorship,disciplineandlove.

100 Best Grilling RecipesByKathleenSloan-McIntosh(RobertRose,softcover,$20)Celebratesummerwithfoodonthegrillandthisbookofrecipesfeaturingingredientsfromaroundtheworld.Serveadifferentflavoreachdayofthesummerwiththiscollectionofsauces,marinades,startersandgrillingtips.

Let’s Let Kids Do Something BigByAnthonyRecenello(Charismatickid,softcover,$12)Anti-bullyingcoachRecenellobelievesthatkidsarecapableofgreatthings,andheshareshistipsforencouragingyourchildtotapintotheirinnerstrength.

Rabbi Rami: Roadside Assistance for the Spiritual TravelerByRamiShaipiro(Spirtuality&HealthBooks,softcover,$9each)ThroughaseriesoftitlesincludingForgiveness, Parenting, God andPsalm 23, RabbiRamioffersaccessiblelessonstocomplicatedspiritualquestionsforreadersofanyreligiousbelief.

Page to Screen: Pigeon, Knufflebunny and MoreMo Willems’ Pigeon & Pals DVD(Scholastic,DVD,$20)Withnearlytwohoursofquirkystorytellingfun,theseread-alongDVDsallowkidstojointheirfriendsPigeon,KnuffleBunny,NakedMoleRatandmorewhilesharpeningtheirreadingskills.Thetwo-discsetfeaturessixstoriesbasedonWillems'well-knownstories(includingDon't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus)thatencourageinteraction,cooperationandproblem-solving,plusaSpanishversionofoneclassicWillemsstory.



The entrance to the Cussetah Bottoms Boardwalk area.

Exploring OklahomaDeep Fork National Wildlife Refuge

WhenwestartedoffonourtriptotheDeepForkNationalWildlifeRefuge,my7yearoldaskedmewherewe

weregoing.“Well,”Ireplied,“it’skindofanatureplace.”ThatwasreallythebestIcoulddobasedonwhatIhadreadbeforehand,butthatdescriptionislikecallingtheGrandCanyonabigholeintheground.Thisisagorgeous,amazingplace!

TheDeepForkNationalWildlifeRefuge(NWR)wasestablishedin1993andencompasses9,000acresoflandsurrounding34milesoftheDeepForkRiver.Therefugeiscoveredwithbeautifulforestsandbecauseofitsclosenesstotheriver,thelandfloodsyearly.Thesewetlandsandforestsarehometoamultitudeofbirds,fishandotheranimals.

Getting ThereWhenIcalledbeforeourvisit,Iwaswarnedthattherefugeis“inthemiddleofnowhere.”Whileyoumayhaveabitofadrive,DeepForkNWRiseasytofind.FromOklahomaCity,headeastonI-40toHenryettaandthengoaboutfourteenmilesnorthoftownonHighway75.FromHighway75,followLavenderRoaduntilitdeadendsandyouseethesigndirectingyoutotheleft.Therefugewillbedowntheroadalittleoveramileandahalfonyourright.Thoughyou’reinthecountry,theroadsarepavedandeasytonavigate.

Cussetah BottomsThereareseveraldifferentpartsoftherefugethatareaccessibletothepublic,butthemostfamily-friendlyareaistheCussetahBottomsBoardwalkarea.ThisacreageisadjacenttotheDeepForkNWRoffices.TheofficeisopenMondaythroughFridayfrom7:30am–4:00pmandthestaffcanhelpansweranyquestionsyoumighthaveduringyourvisit.The1,200-foot-boardwalkareawindingthroughthewoodsisaccessible24hoursaday.

ActivitiesWhatistheretodoatawildliferefuge?Plenty!Mykids(ages2and7)bothenjoyedthemselvesimmensely.ThereareseveraltrailareasavailableattheCussetahBottomsarea.Theboardwalkandthepavedtrailsarestrollerandwheelchair-friendly,soeveryonecanhaveagoodtime.Thepavedsectionoftrailletsyouliterallygetrightinthethickofthings.Inseveralspots,thewatercomesrightuptotheedgeofthetrail,muchtothedelightofmykids!Thereisalsoasectionoftrailapproximately¼-milelongthatisnotpaved,soifyouwanttotrythatout,makesureyoubringgood,sturdyshoesandsomebugspray.

WildlifeWhileyou’reoutonthetrails,it’sagreattimetonoticealltheplantandanimallifeintherefuge.Afterwearrived,Irealizedthiswouldhavebeenagreatplacetobreakoutsomeofourbirdandplantguides.Thankfully,therearesomehelpfulsignsalongthewaytoshowyouwhattolookforduringspecificseasonsandwheretolookforsignsofcertainbirdsorotheranimals.IfyouvisittheDeepForkNWRwebsite,youcanfindachecklistfordifferenttypesofbirdslivinginthearea.Thisisanactivityeventheyoungestmemberofyourfamilycantry.Ifyou’reintonaturephotography,thereareseveralareasthathavewonderfulpanoramicviewsandaphotographyblind.Thissmallshedhastwodifferentwindowsandcancomfortablyseatafewpeoplewiththeir

photographyequipment.Afteryou’veexploredthetrails,takeabreakatthepicnicarea.Restroomsareavailable,alongwithportablesinks.

Hunting and FishingIfyourfamilyenjoyshuntingorfishing,visittheDeepForkNWRwebsiteorcalltheofficeforspecificrules.Theseactivitiesareallowedincertainareasoftherefugeduringspecifictimesoftheyear.Smallwatercraftarealsoallowedinsomeareas,thoughtherearenodocks.Campingisnotpermitted.

Planning Your VisitIfyouwouldliketovisitDeepForkNWRwithagroup,callaheadtospeakwithoneoftheofficestaff.TheyarereadyandwillingtohelpplanfieldtripsthatwillfocusontopicsofinterestandtheycanprovideinformationonanyoftheeightotherrefugesinOklahoma.Variouseducationalprogramsarealsoheldthroughouttheyear.Callaheadforinformationorcheckthewebsitefordetails.

Jennifer Geary is a homeschooling mom from Broken Arrow, formerly of Oklahoma City, who loves to have adventures with her family. Read her blog at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/adventures-in-homeschooling.

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Ask the ExpertsEncouraging a “Can-Do” AttitudeThismonth’squestion:My son is so hard on himself when he makes mistakes. When he missed a play in a game, he wanted to quit the team. How can we encourage him to persevere?

Kevin Tutty, LCSW: Motivationalspeechescansometimesfallflatwhenkidsfailatatask.Thisisoneofthethingsthatmakecompetitivesportsbuildsomuchcharacterinouryoungerones.Youmightbeabletothinkaboutatimewhenyoufailedandwereabletoperseverethroughadversity.IliketouseanexamplefrommyownlifeinwhichIwasunabletopersistwhenfacedwithachallengeandatimewhenIpushedthroughtotheend.IknowIhaveamuchbetterfeelinglookingbackonthetimeswhenIfinishedadifficultchallengethanwhenIdidn’tcompleteatask.Drawingontheseexperiencesinyourownlifewillhelpyoursonunderstandthatit’sbetterforhischaractertopushthroughdifficulttimes,aswellasshowthatweallhavedifficulttimesinourlives.It’snotafailuretofall—onlyifwedon'tgetupandtryagain!Kevin Tutty, LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor in private practice. Contact him at 405-431-6225.

Devonne Carter, LCSW: Showyourchildhowtopersevere.Talktohimaboutataskthatisdifficultforyou,andallowhimtowatchyouconquerthedifficulty.Talkabouthowgooditfeelstoovercomeachallenge.Ourself-esteemgrowswhenweareabletolearnsomethingnew,especiallyifit’ssomethingwethoughtwewouldneverfigureout.Thesamethinghappensforourchildren.Whenyourchildfails,remindhimthatwelearnbyfailing.Continuetohelphimstickwiththetask.Ifyouneedto,helphimvisualizethebigpicturebytellinghimstoriesthatrelatebacktosuccessfullycompletinghistask.Don’tdoitforhim—butdobehisbiggestcheerleader!Devonne Carter, LCSW, is a Clinical Social Worker in private practice in Edmond. Contact her at 405-326-3923 or www.carterscounseling.com.

Tamara Walker, RN:Nooneisperfectandthat’sokay!Learningthatfailureisasteppingstonetosuccessisa

valuablelifelesson.Whatheperceivesasfailures,suchasamissedplay,aretheverythingsthatcanteachhimhowtoimprovehisskillsandincreasehisknowledgeofthegame—oranyotherendeavor.Whenweareabletoviewmistakeandfailuresaslearningopportunitiesandteachablemoments,wearemuchmorelikelytosucceedinthefuture.Seekoutbooks,articlesorvideosaboutgreatathleteswhoplaythesamesportasyourson.You’resuretofindstoriesofperseveranceanddedication,athleteswhodidn’tgiveupwhentheymissedaplayorlostagame.Foreverysuccessfulgoalmadeorhomerunhit,therearealmostalwaysmanymoremissesinbetween.Eventhebestathletesdon’tplayperfectly.TheverybestNBAplayers,likeOKCThunder’sKevinDurant,stillmiss10percentoftheirfreethrows.Whenweletgoofperfectionism,whichbringsusdown,thenwecanfocusonenjoyingthegameandprogressingtowardssuccess.Tamara Walker RN is a talk show host and speaker in Edmond. Contact her at www.momrn.com.

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fromthemistakehemade.Ifyou’renotmakingmistakes,youarenotlearning.”

• “Ensurehimweallmakemistakes,thenrelatetohimonamistakeyoumaderecentlysohecanseeithappensandit’sokay.”

• “Talktohimabouttheideathatperfectionisunattainable,andaboutallwecandoitourpersonalbestinanysituation.Assurehimthatyourloveandapprovalarenotconsistentuponhimbeingtheverybest—butmerelybybeingthebesthecanbe.Remindhimthatthefunoflifeisinthejourney—andencouragehimtofocusonthemomentandenjoyeveryaspectofhislife,nomatterhowimperfect.”

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Growingupwiththreesiblings,oneofwhichhashisbirthdayonlytwodaysaftermine,myparentstriedtheirbesttomakeourbirthdaysspecial.Eachyearonourbirthdaywewouldarrivehomefromschoolandtherewouldbeballoons,giftsandhandmadecardsaroundthe“birthdaychair.”Assoonaswefinisheddinnerandgobbledupourcake,thebirthdaychildwasdirectedtositinthebirthdaychairandwouldproceedtoopenuptheirgifts.Itwasamagicalmomenteachyear!Onmy10thbirthday,Ireceivedabluethree-speedbike.Asidefromthat,theonlyothergiftIrememberreceivingwasasmallwoodentrinketboxmymotherhadpolyurethanedwithsomerandommagazinepicturesandagroovypictureofmewitha“shag”haircutandthedate1976ontheinside.Thatwas36yearsago—andIstillhavemytrinketboxtoday.NowthatI’mamotheroftwo,Ithinkaboutthosespecialcelebrationsofmychildhood.Familiesaresobusythesedaysthatfindingsimple,inexpensivewaystoturnanordinarydayintoanextraordinarybirthdaycelebrationmaytakealittletimeandcreativity,butitcertainlydoesn’thavetoemptyyourwallet.Whatchildrenwantmorethananythingontheirbirthdayistofeellikeitistheirownspecialday.Sofindwaystohelpcelebrateitwiththem.Hereare15waysyoucanstartyourownbirthdaytraditionstocreatesomemagicalmomentsthatyourchildrenwillrememberforyearstocome.1. Thenightbeforeyourchild’sbirthday,decoratethehouse

ortheirroomwithballoons,confetti,flowersorahomemadebanner.

2. Wakeupyourchildbysinging“HappyBirthday.”3. Startthedayofbymakingaspecialbirthdaybreakfast.4. Pulloutsomebabypicturesorotherbirthdaypicturesfromthe

yearspastanddecoratethehousewiththem.5. Stickaspecialbirthdaysnackornoteinyourchild’slunchbox.6. Havelunchwithyourchildatschoolandbringcupcakes.

Okay,theymaynotlikethiswhentheygetolder,butduringtheelementaryyears,youandthatboxofcupcakeswillbetheepitomeofcool!

7. Haveyourchildhelpyoumaketheirownbirthdaycake.It’smorefunforthemtodecoratethecakeandgetsugareduponeatingtheextrabatter,frostingandsprinklesthanitisactuallyeatingthecake—regardlessoftheirage.

8. Planafamilyoutingthatyouwilldoeachyear:atriptothebeach,apicnicinthepark,orevenatriptoyourfavoritepizzajoint.

9. Startascrapbookforeachyearonyourchild’sbirthdayanddecoratethecoverwithapicturethatwastakenontheirbirthday.

10. Takeapictureeachyearofyourchildattheexacttimetheywerebornorassoonastheywakeup.

11. Letyourchildpickoutallofthemealsthatday.Iftheywantspaghettiforbreakfastorpancakesfordinner—goforit—it’stheirday!

12. Givegiftsthatreflectthesamenumberasyourchild’sbirthday.Forexample,ifyourchildis5,howaboutfivemarkers,fivecoloringbooks,fivelollipops,fivepairsofsocks—yougettheidea.

13. Getcraftyandmakesomethingforyourchildeachyear.Aspecialpillow,frame,jewelryboxortoychest.Shemaynotappreciateitnow,butinyearstocomethosehandmademementosaregoingtobethegiftsshecherishes.

14. Createatimecapsule.Eachyearonyourchild’sbirthdayputaphotoofyourchild,anewspaper,perhapsadrawingyourchildmadeandanoteofallthatisgoingoninyourlife.Fileawayforthenextyearorforyearstocome.

15. Thebirthdaychair.Goonahead,it’sbeenatraditioninmyfamilyforyears,andtothisdayIstillgettositinthebirthdaychaircompletewithballoonsandhandmadecards—andnow,sodomyluckykids!

Regardlessofyourchild’sageorinterests,birthdaysareaspecialdayforthem.Eveniftheirbirthdayfallsonaschooldayortheyhaveextracurricularactivities,thekeytomakingthemfeelspecialisthatyourememberthewholedayistheirbirthday—socelebrateandletthemenjoyit.Bytakingsometimeouttocreateyourownfamilybirthdaytraditions,youwillbegivingyourchildsomethingtolookforwardtoallthroughouttheyearandperhapsforalifetime.

Kara Ferraro is a publisher and mother of two elementary school children. She is always looking for clever and inexpensive ways to start new traditions with her family as well as carry on the traditions from her childhood.

Achild’sbirthdayisoneofthemostanticipateddaysoftheyear.Andassoonasthepartyisover,they’replanningtheirnextbirthday—364daysaway!Everyparentwantstheirchild’sbirthdaytobespecial,andeachyear,asyourchildrengetolderandtheirwantsbecomegreater,it’seasytogetcaughtupinthehypeoftryingtooutdothepreviousyear’sbirthday.

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Birthday Party Resource GuideName Contact Description Ages Cost

Andy Alligator's Fun Park

3300 Market Place, Norman405-321-7275www.andyalligators.com

Party activities include go-kart speedway, Bayou Blaster Boats, batting cages and pizza.

All ages $130+

Be Wild for Art 1006 24th Ave NW Suite 130, Norman405-307-9971www.bewildforart.com

Choose a party package or create your own from pottery painting, glass fusing, and canvas painting packages. Includes party room, assistant, and all materials.

All ages $15–$35 per person

Bouncin Craze 14901 N Lincoln Boulevard, Edmond405-607-2020www.bouncincraze.com

Indoor Play Center offering private (facility is open to party guests only) and open birthday parties (held during regularly-scheduled open play times). Check website for more details.

Up to age 13 $160–$225

Creative Adventures 10455 N May Ave, OKC 405-751-1002www.creativeadventures ourchildrenarespecial.webs.com

90 minutes of creative birthday fun includes hostess, puppet show, story time, hands-on activity and $5 gift certificate for birthday child. Parties are for 10-20 children..

Ages 3–6 $10 per child

Dawn to Dusk Inflatables

OKC metro405-630-7275www.dawntoduskinflatables.com

Bringing the bounce to you with licensed and insured moonbounces, combo units, obstacle courses, slides, water slides. Cotton candy, popcorn and snow cone machine rentals also available.

All ages Up to $500

Dodge City Paintball & Outdoor Laser Tag

16425 NW 150th, Piedmont405-373-3745www.dodgecitypaintball.com

All equipment provided (building, bathrooms, grill). Bring your charcoal & food. 4-hour paintball or 2-hour laser tag (parents required for paintball under age 10). Rates charged per person, per hour of play for paintball or party size for Laser Tag.

All ages $16–$20 per person

Fine Arts Institute of Edmond

27 E Edwards, Edmond405-340-4481www.edmondfinearts.com

90-minute art parties include hands-on project with all materials provided plus paper goods and gift for the birthday child.

Ages 4+ $200+

Gattitown Family Entertainment

5833 NW Expressway, OKC405-721-4227www.gattitownokc.com

Three party packages to choose from that include a Party Hero (helper), food, drinks and game play for the arcade and attractions.

Up to age 12 $130+

Green Goodies by Tiffany

5840 N Classen, Suite 5, OKC405-842-2288www.greengoodiesokc.com

Natural cupcakes decorated for all occasions. Special diets accommodated (vegan, gluten free, sugar free). Frozen yogurt, coffee, & cookies also available. Patio area available for parties.

All ages Varies

Gymboree Play & Music

11928 N May Avenue, OKC405-755-3445www.gymboreeclasses.com

90 minutes of private party time includes one-of-a-kind guided activities, paper goods, juice boxes and balloons for 20 children.

Ages 1–5 $195+

HeyDay Entertainment

3201 Market Place, Norman405-310-3500www.heydayfamilyfun.com

Party activities include laser tag, rope courses and mini-golf. All packages include party table and server for 2 hours, paper goods, drinks, balloons and T-shirt for birthday child.

For all ages but some activities have height/weight restrictions.

$125–$400

Juggle Whatever OKC metro405-464-1060www.jugglewhatever.com

Kids learn to juggle with this family-friendly birthday concept. Based in OKC; travels to your party venue. Provides all needed equipment.

Ages 7+ $125–$300

Jump!Zone Party & Play Center

10400 S Western, OKC405-200-1691www.jumpzoneparty.com

The biggest inflatable party place in Oklahoma City includes 6 massive inflatables, 5 playsets and 4 party rooms.

Up to age 12 $140–$250

Mad Science OKC metro405-285-9643www.madscience.org/okc

60-minute party includes hands-on science fun at your location. All materials included. All we need from you is a table for our experiments and supplies.

Ages 3+ $185+

Marc Heitz Community Complex

1221 Ed Noble Parkway (I-35 Exit 108-b), Norman405-488-7971

Free option includes use of picnic area, play area, amphitheater, electricity & grill. Paid package ($50) adds balloons, activity pack for each child, bottled water, birthday/corvette t-shirt for child. Inquire about Outdoor Movie party ($100).

All ages Free–$100

Mobile Game Party Within 40-mile radius of Norman405-370-3491www.mgpokc.com

32-foot temperature-controlled mobile game theater brings the party to you. Includes high-definition TVs, surround sound, vibration seating and the latest games and systems for up to 16 players (beginner to expert).

Ages 7+ $225+


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Name Contact Description Ages Cost

Mobile Laser Forces OKC metro405-259-9300 www.mobilelaserforces.com

Customizable indoor/outdoor laser tag with different options of play available for varying prices.

Ages 6+ $150+

Musem of Osteology 10301 S Sunnylane, OKC405-814-0006www.museumofosteology.org

2-hour parties include private classroom, tour, hands-on presentation, free time to explore the museum exhibits and a T-shirt for birthday child. Bring decorations for room.

Ages 4+ $250

My Princess Party OKC metro405-445-8339www.myprincessparty.net

Costumed princess comes to your venue to tell an interactive story, play games, face painting and more. Each guest receives a treasure, special gifts for birthday child. Appropriate for girls or boys.

Up to age 10 $120+

Oklahoma City Zoo 2101 NE 50th, OKC405-425-0218www.okczooed.com

Six birthday party packages include party host, live animal encounter, themed room, guided tour, decorations, party favor and zoo admission. Ask for overnight sleepover ideas.

Up to age 13 $275+

Oklahoma Railway Museum

3400 NE Grand Blvd, OKC405-424-8222www.oklahomarailwaymuseum.org

Parties held in 1921 wooden caboose or 1927 passenger car. Coloring books and paper hats provided. Packages with or without train rides.

All ages $100–$200

Oklahoma WONDERtorium

308 W Franklin Lane, Stillwater405-533-3333www.okwondertorium.org

90-minute parties include an hour of play-to-learn exploration for up to 15 children, private party room, assistant, T-shirt for birthday child and free admission for adults with party. $50 deposit required.

Up to age 12 $150+

Paint ’N Station 7906 N May, OKC405-842-7770www.paintnstation.com

Creative parties for you & your group to enjoy 90 minutes of painting, eating cake and opening gifts.

All ages $10+ per person

Paint Your Art Out 100 N Broadway, Edmond405-513-5333www.paintyourartout.net

2-hour birthday parties including artist-led instruction, cake & gift time. 10 guest minimum; additional guests $17-$22 each, 30 maximum allowed.

Ages 5–16 $200–$250+

Pelican Bay Aquatic Center

1034 Bryant, Edmond405-216-7655www.edmondok.com

Party package includes cabana for 90 minutes. Choose Birthday Blast or Extravaganza package and enjoy swimming and cake.

All ages $200+

RedPin Restaurant & Bowling Lounge

200 S Oklahoma Ave, Bricktown405-702-8880www.bowlredpin.com

Parties include 2 hours of bowling, meals, soft drinks and optional space for cake and gifts plus waitstaff. Minimum 8 children.

Ages 4+ $19–$32 per child




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Name Contact Description Ages Cost

Sam Noble OK Museum of Natural History

2401 Chautauqua Ave, Norman405-325-4712www.snomnh.ou.edu

Package includes 30 minute activity with host, 30 minute tour, T-shirt for birthday child, admission for up to 12 kids and 13 adults plus party space. Deluxe package includes cake, ice cream, drinks and tableware.

Ages 5–12 $150–$250

Science Museum Oklahoma

2100 NE 52nd St, OKC405-602-3760www.sciencemuseumok.org

Birthday Party Packages at Science Museum Oklahoma include admission to the museum's exhibits, Planetarium and Science Live shows and access to a private birthday party room. Demonstrations can be booked for extra fee.

All ages $235+

SoccerCity OKC 4520 Old Farm Road, OKC405-748-3888www.soccercityokcity.com

Four party packages available that each include one hour of field time, one hour in the party room, a birthday child shirt and various amounts of food and drink.

All ages $175–$250

Sooner Bowling Center

550 24th Avenue NW, Norman405-360-3634www.soonerbowl.com

Bowling birthday parties include food, beverages, party host and separate party room plus free wifi also available.

All ages $149+

Stafford Air & Space Museum

3000 Logan Road, Weatherford580-772-5871www.staffordmuseum.com

Birthday parties include planetarium shows and party room to accommodate 15–100 guests.

All ages $50–$150

Unpluggits Playstudio

575 Enterprise Dr, Edmond405-340-7584www.unpluggits.com

2-hour party for the birthday child plus 15 guests in your choice of private party room (Fairy Cove or Treasure Island). Includes paint'n play admission, supervised craft to take home, invitations, paper goods and party assistant.

Ages 2–12

Paint your own pottery parties for ages 12+.

$225

Velocity Dance Center

11122 N Rockwell Avenue, OKC 405-721-8807www.velocitydancecenterokc.com

2-hour themed parties (choose princess, pop star, fairies, hip hop and more) include 45 minutes of instruction, 15 minutes of games or free dance and 1 hour for cake, pizza and presents.

Ages 3–12 $100+

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Problem: Mom! Can you make cake pops? Or those fancy cakes like on TV?

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OklahomaCityPublicSchoolshavetappedintotheFatherInvolvementInitiativeoftheNationalCenterfor

Fatheringcalled“WatchD.O.G.S.(DadsofGreatStudents).Thisinitiativeorganizesfathersandfatherfigurestopromotepositivemalerolemodelsforstudentsandtoenhanceschoolsecurity.WatchD.O.G.S.beganinSpringdale,Arkansasin1998—andhasquicklygrownto2,276activeprogramsin41statesandWashington,D.C.

Acrossourstate,schoolswithWatchD.O.G.S.programshaveanaverageof85daysthroughouttheyearwhereaWatchD.O.G.dadvolunteersintheschool.InOklahoma,therearecurrently53schoolsparticipatingintheprogram,includingClevelandElementaryinOklahomaCity,wherewespoketoafewoftheWatchD.O.G.dads.

Thomas CherryThomasCherry,aself-employeddadofakindergartenstudent,regularlyvolunteersonceperweekduringthemorningdropoff.Heopenscardoors,ensuresthesafetyofchildrenwalkingtoandfromschoolandgreetsparents.Mr.Cherryhashelpedwithbirthdayparties,readingtoandwithstudents,providingtransportationforfieldtripsandwithmailings.“Usuallythemomsarecalledupontodomanyofthevolunteerjobsintheschool,”saidMr.Cherry.“Beingself-employed,Iamabletosetasidesometimeeachweektohelpout.Itbenefitsmeasadadanditseemstobenefitthechildren,too.”

Paxton GrayPaxtonGrayworksthedrop-offlineforthemorningschoolrushaswellastheschoolpick-uplineintheafternoons.Healsoassistsatrecess,whichbothhelpsteacherswithmonitoringandwardsoffpotentialbullyingissues.Mr.GrayrecentlyhelpedstudentstrainfortheOklahomaCityMemorialMarathonKid’sMarathon.HewalkedandtimedthekidsonFridayafternoons,stayingwiththemuntiltheirparentspickedthemup.Hiscommitmenttothesekidsencouragedthemtoparticipateincommunityeventsandtocommittobeinghealthy.Evenwithallthathedoes,Mr.Graywasmodestinsaying,“ThereareseveraldadsandfatherfigureswhohelpatCleveland.IdowhatIcan,buttherearemanyothers,too.”Cleveland’sWatchD.O.G.S.dadsalsoserveastestingproctorsforstandardizedtestsandorganizedaflagfootballgametoraisefunds

fortheschool.ThesedadsareawelcomeandhelpfuladditiontothevolunteersatClevelandandseveralotherschoolsintheOklahomaCityPublicSchoolDistrict.

Positive ImpactsAccordingtoPrincipalMarshaStafford,about50dadsactivelyparticipateinWatchD.O.G.S.atClevelandElementary.“Wehavealistofdadsthatwecancallonanytimeweneedhelp,”sheexplains.“Theyhelpinthecafeteria,ontheplayground,withtutoring,withtestmonitoringandcommittees.Theyhaveevenshoveledsnowintheparkinglot!”StaffordnotesthattheWatchD.O.G.S.havebeenparticularlyhelpfulwiththeschool'seffortstointegrateSpanishintotheircurriculum.“WehavesomedadswhospeakfluentSpanishandarehelpingusteachthecurriculumandtutorstudentsafterschool,”Staffordsays.Butbeyondtheextrahandsandhelpwithspecialprojects,Staffordseesalargervalueinhavingdadsintheschoolsetting.“It'simportantforthesechildrentoseeapositivemalerolemodel,especiallyforthosewhomightnothaveamalefigureintheirlives,”Staffordexplains.“Theyareformingrelationshipswiththechildrenandmakingsurethechildrenfeelverysafeatschool.TheyhelpmaketheatmosphereatClevelandfriendly,warmandacceptingbymodelingcourtesyandrespect.Theyhelpsetthetoneforourschool.”Accordingtoresearch,increasedinvolvementbyfathershasshowntoresultin:• highergradesandhigherconfidencelevels

inthestudentbodyasawhole,• childrenwhoenjoyschoolandview

educationasimportantandworthy,• adecreaseinschool-relatedanxietyin

children,and• communitymembersworkinghardto

benefittheirneighbors.IfyouoryourprincipalwouldliketostartaWatchD.O.G.S.programatyourschool,accesstheNationalCenterforFatheringwebsiteatwww.fathers.com.I’mnotsurewholettheWatchD.O.G.S.out,butIamcertainlygladtheydid!

Kristen Hoyt is Assistant Professor and Director of Field Experience in the School of Teacher Education at MACU (Mid-America Christian University in OKC).

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Exploring Diversity Through the Arts

TheannualRespectDiversityArt&PoetryContestcelebratesthedifferenceswithinourworld.ContestentriesareshowcasedeachyearattheRespectDiversitySymbolExhibit,createdtohelppeopleofallagessuccessfullylive,learnandworkinourincreasinglydiversesociety.ThecontestissponsoredbyMetroFamilyMagazineandtheRespectDiversityFoundation(RDF),whichseekstohelpstudentsofallagesunderstandotherculturesandtheirown,createpositiveinter-grouprelationshipsandbuildstrongcommunitiesthroughoutthestateofOklahoma.The11thAnnualRespectDiversitySymbolExhibitwasondisplayatScienceMuseumOklahomafromMarch9–May9.TheexhibitfeaturedcollaborativeartworkcreatedbyOklahomastudentsandinspiredbyhistorical,cultural,ethnicandexperientialperspectives.“Behindeachworkofartisintegrationandcollaboration,aswellasadeepstory,saidJoanKorenblit,RDF’sExecutiveDirector.“EachentryisbystudentsfromacrosstheOklahomaCitymetrowhohavetakenthetimetotrulyexplorediversitythroughtheartsandhaveexpressedthisthroughthevariousmediums.”The2012winnersarepicturedfromtoptobottom,lefttoright:• PreK-K—We Stand for the Weak,

the Injured, the Silent, Oppressed (RanchwoodElementarySchool,Yukon)

• Grades 1-3—The Essence of the All (HeronvilleElementarySchool,OklahomaCity)

• Grades 4-5—We Are the World, We Are Oklahoma(StanleyHupfeldAcademy,OklahomaCity)

• Grades 6-8—Voices of the Next Generation(IndependenceCharterMiddleSchool,OklahomaCity)

• Grades 9-12—We Are the World, We Share the Same DNA (HardingFineArtsAcademy,OklahomaCity)

The2013ContestThemeis“TheBeautyofDiversity”andseeksvisualartandpoetrythatexpressesrespectforpeopleofdifferentculturesandethnicities,differentabilitylevels,differentages,and/ordifferentreligions.Prizeswillbeawardedforwinningentriesfromeachagegroup:pre-K,grades1–3,grades4–5,grades6–8,andgrades9–12.EntryformsareduebyJanuary7,2013andcanbedownloadedatwww.respectdiversity.citymax.com/entryform.html.Formoreinformation,call405-359-0369orvisitwww.respectdiversity.org.Brooke Barnett is MetroFamily's assistant editor.


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Character CornerLearning About StewardshipSpendingfunqualitytimewithyourchildrenwhileteachingthemaboutresponsiblemoneymanagementisoneinvestmentthatissuretopayoff.However,bereadytolearnsomerichlessonsofyourownasyournew“expert”financialstewardsquestionyourspendinghabits.“Mom,whydidyoubuythosedesignerdiamond-studdedflip-flopswithyourcreditcardafteryoutoldmeIhadtosavemoneyandpaywithcash?”

Help Your Family Become Better StewardsFamily tradition. Youdon’thavetogooutandspendlotsofmoneytohavefunortomakesomeonefeelspecial.Getyourchildinvolvedasyouplanandprepareaspecialhome-cookedmealforDad.Family outing. Oneofthebestplacestolearnaboutstewardshipisthegrocerystore.Bycomparingprices,stickingtoyourbudgetandonlypurchasingitemsonyourlist,youteachyourchildrenfinancialstewardship.Here’sagoodchecklisttodiscussspendingandsavingwithyourkids:• Doyoureallywantorneedit?• Willyoustillwantitinaweek?• Howwillyoupayforit?• Canyoufinditelsewhereforlessmoney?• Istheresomethingbetteryoushouldbeusingyourmoneyfor?Games. Classicboardgamesthatusemoney(likeMonopoly,LifeandPayday)aregreatopportunitiestotalktoyourkidsaboutstewardship.Object lesson: The power of compound interest. Howmuchdoesasliceofpizzacost?Wouldyoubelievenearly$65,000?Ifasliceofpizzacost$2,andyoubuyasliceeveryweekfor50years,you'llspend$5,200onpizza.However,ifyougiveupthatsliceofpizzaandinvestthemoneyinstead,earning8%interestcompoundedeachyear,you'llhaveover$64,678.87!ReadRock, Brock, and the Savings Shock bySheilaBairtoexplainthistoyourchildineasierterms.Resources. VisittheUSSecuritiesandExchangeCommissionwebsiteforideastoteachyourolderkidsaboutsavings(www.sec.gov/investor/students/tips.htm).ReadThe Berenstain Bears & Trouble with Moneywithyoungerkidstodiscussideasaboutfinancialstewarship.Seepage9formoreideasforteachingkidsaboutmoney.“I will” statements. Encouragestewardshipinyourhomebycommittingtothefollowingstatements.Saythese“Iwill”statementsaloudwithyourchildren,andencouragethemtoapplythemtosituationsintheireverydaylife.

Sarah Holmes lives in Norman and is the founder of Wildflowers Character Resources. Find more at www.thecharactermom.blogspot.com. “I Will” statements used with permission of Character First, www.character first.com.

I will: save more and spend less • budget my money, time, talents and energy • look for the best value • make good choices with what I have • not

confuse wants with needs.

Earn all you can. Save all you can. Give all you can.

~ John Wesley




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Your Healthy FamilyMetro Moms Talk Breastfeeding

Thesubjectofbreastfeedingisoftenriddledwithcontroversy.ArecentTIME magazinecoversparked

debatewithitsphotoofa26-year-oldmombreastfeedingher3-year-oldsonwhilehestandsonastepstoolinfrontofher.Interestingly,thearticlewasn’tspecificallyaboutbreastfeeding,butthephotodiditsjobwell…peopleboughtmagazines,andpeopleweretalking,includingme.Iwascuriousabouthowlocalmomsfeltaboutbreastfeeding,andIlearnedalotfromthelocalmomswhoweregraciousenoughtosharetheirbreastfeedingexperienceswithme.

BenefitsTheWorldHealthOrganizationrecommendsexclusivebreastfeedingforthefirstsixmonthsoflife,withcontinuedbreastfeedingandappropriatecomplementaryfoodsuptotheageof2.Why?Herearesomebenefitsofbreastfeeding:• Ithasbeenshowntoprotectbabiesfrom

illnessandreducetheriskofdevelopingasthma,obesity,type1and2diabetes,childhoodleukemiaandatopicdermatitisininfancy.

• ItalsoreducestheriskofSuddenInfantDeathSyndrome.

• Itiseasierforbabiestodigest,sobreastfedbabiessufferfromfewergastrointestinalsymptomsthantheirformula-fedcounterparts.

• Itcontainsexactlytherightamountoffat,sugar,waterandprotein,andisrichinnutrientsandantibodiesthatformulacompaniessimplycan’tmatch—and,bestofall?

• Itreleasesoxytocin,ahormonethathelpsmilkflowandhasacalmingeffectonthemother.

Local StatisticsNoneofthisinformationisnew,andyetinOklahoma,onlyabout67percentofnewmothersevenattempttobreastfeed,whichisonthelowerendofthenationalstate-by-statebreakdownpublishedbytheU.S.DepartmentofHealthandHumanServices.Onlyabout36percentofOklahomamomsarestillbreastfeedingtheirbabiesat6monthsofageDespiteabreastfeedinginformationmediacampaignbytheStateDepartmentofHealth,Oklahomaconsistentlyremainsbelowthenationalaverageinnursingrates.Parentingisallaboutchoices,andeveryparentisentitledtotherighttochoosehowtofeedtheirchild.Whatleadstothesechoicesvariesfromonemomtothenext.

Working MomsShanaworksfull-time,andhasadaughterwhojustturned1.“Ibreastfedmydaughterforthreemonths,motivatedbythefactthatitwasnutritionallytheperfectfood,itwasfreeanditallowedmemoretimetobond,”shesays.“Butitwashardtofindenoughtimetopumpatwork.BecauseIwasgoneallday,itseemedlikeshewasbreastfeedingconstantlyfromthetimeIgothomeuntilshewenttobed.Shewastakingverylittleatherdaytimefeedings,andseemedtobesavingitallupforwhenIgothome.”Shanaalsonotesthat,“IthinkitwouldbefabulousiftheUnitedStateshadpaidmandatorymaternityleave.Iwasgivensixweeksat70percentpay,anditwasjustnotenoughtimetoestablishbreastfeedingthewayIhadhoped.”Amyisalsoaworkingmother,butfounditlesschallengingafterhavingeightweeksoftimeoff.“IbreastfedmydaughterforninemonthsandIpumpedfor13.Webegansupplementingherdietwithcerealandbabyfoodatabout5½months,becauseourpediatriciantoldusthatexclusivelybreastfedinfantshaveadecreaseinVitaminDlevelsaroundthattime,”shesays.“Shebegantotakelessmilkatabout9months,andmysupplydecreased.Ithinkweaningthenledtoherhavingalittlemoreindependence.Weusedorganic,Omega-3fortifiedwholemilktowean.TeachingyourchildtofindnutrientsintheirdietsandnotrelyonbreastmilkorPedia-suretypesofdrinkssetsthemuptomakebetterindependentchoiceslater.”

Stay-at-Home MomsLindsayisastay-at-homemomtoa9-month-oldson,thoughsheworkedbrieflyafterhermaternityleavebeforedecidingtostayathome.Shewasn’tabletobreastfeedduetoamedicalcondition.Whileshefeelsitisamother’schoicehowshefeedsherbaby,whenspeakingoftheTIMEmagazinecoverdepictingamomwhopracticesextendednursing,shenotes“ThereisahippiemommovementthatIthinkcouldbebeneficialtooursociety.Atatimewhenchildhoodobesityisatanall-timehighandwearepoisoningourchildrenandourselveswithoverlyprocessedfood,isbreastfeedingforanextendedperiodoftimeREALLYanissue?”Martaisastay-at-homemomofa6-year-olddaughterand2-year-oldoldson.“Imadethedecisiontobreastfeedbeforemyfirstchildwasborn.Iknewmymotherhadbreastfedmeandshetoldmeaboutallthewonderfulbenefitsbreastfeedingwouldbringmeandmychild,”Martaexplains.“Isoondiscovered

thatIreallyenjoyedthetimethatwasjustformeandmybaby.Someofmymostpreciousmemorieshappenedwhenweweresharingaquietmomenttonurse.”BoththehealthbenefitsandthebondingitprovidedprovedimportanttoMarta.“Ineversetouttobreakanyrecordsortobreastfeedforacertainlengthoftime,butIendedupbreastfeedingbothmykidsuntiltheywerearound2½years.Forusitjustworked.Ofcourse,theywereeatingtablefoodbyage1,sotheactualfeedingparttookmoreofabackseattotheotheraspectsthatdon’tgetalotofmentionfromdoctors—thesoothing,bondingandjustbeingtogetherinaquietmoment.”

My Own StoryAsforme,Iamaworkingmotheroftwogirlsalso.Myfirstchild,whomIhadwhenIwasonly23andperhapsnotaswell-equippedtohandle—well,anything—Inursedforaboutfourmonths,butshewassupplementedwithsomeformula.Shehasalwaysbeenprettyhealthy,butstill,IwishIhadnursedherlongerthanIdid.Mysecondchildwasnursedalmostexclusivelyforsixmonths,andIcontinueduntilafewweeksbeforeherfirstbirthday.Ithinkweusedexactlyonecanofformulainherfirstsixmonths.Shehasalwaysbeeninrelativelygoodhealth,butnotquitetotheextentofhersister.Shewasslightlymorepronetoearandrespiratoryinfections,andwasdiagnosedwithasthmaatagefive.Withbothchildren,Iwasbacktomypre-pregnancyweightbymysix-weekcheckup.Thebottomlineseemstobethatmomsarehuman,andwhileyoucan’targuethatinvirtuallyeverycase,breastisbest,aslongasamomisDOINGherbestandherchildishealthyandthriving,there’snotmuchmoreyoucanaskfor.Nothingisfoolproof,andthere’snowaytoentirelypredictanychild’sfuturehealth,butthebenefitsofbreastfeedingaresubstantialandshouldbegivenconsideration,especiallygiventhenation’soveralldeclininghealth.Tolearnmoreaboutbreastfeeding,contactTheLaLecheLeague(www.llli.org)oryourhealthcareprovider.Anotherhelpfulsourceisthestate’swebsiteaboutbreastfeeding,www.ok.gov/strongandhealthy/Eat_Better/Breastfeeding.

Shannon Fields is a freelance writer from Edmond and a Certified Pharmacy Technician at Innovative Pharmacy Solutions.


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LibertyFestEdmond’s LibertyFest 2012 features 11 family-friendly festival events, including a car show, KiteFest, Chalk-It-Up, A Taste of Edmond, Concert in the Park, a parade and, of course, fireworks. Selected as one of the top 10 places to be in America on July 4th by CNN & USA Today, this week-long celebration hosts Oklahoma’s largest hometown Fourth of July parade and the largest fireworks display in the Metro. For a complete schedule of events, call 405-340-2527 or visit www.libertyfest.org.

For a complete list of Independence Day events in the metro and around the state, visit www.metrofamilymagazine.com/independence-day-fun.

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Jazz in JuneSix-time Grammy Award winner David Sanborn headlines the 29th annual Jazz in June music festival. The free, three-day, live jazz and blues event is scheduled for June 21–23 in Norman. Sanborn will headline

“Jazz in the Park” on June 23, 9:00pm, at Andrews Park (201 W Daws), which also features a performance by the Norman High School Jazz Combo. For a complete list of performances, visit www.jazzinjune.org.

Photo courtesy of Jazz in June.

2012 Endeavor Games The University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond hosts the 2012 Endeavor Games for athletes with physical disabilities from June 7–10 on campus and other nearby locations. A nationally-recognized, multi-sport, multi-disability event for athletes of all ages, the Games allow participants to compete in multiple sports and provides training clinics for aspiring athletes. Competitions include the adaptive archery, cycling, power lifting, sitting volleyball, shooting, swimming, table tennis, track and field and wheelchair basketball. Visit www.ucoendeavorgames.com to register for participation, volunteer or view a schedule of events.

Photo courtesy of Endeavor Games.

Safety TownSooner Mall’s Safety Town teaches children the importance of bicycle, fire and personal safety. Classes are 50 minutes in length and offered free to children who turn 5 years old by September 1. Classes are conducted in a

“safety village” located on the northeast corner of the Sooner Mall parking lot by the Norman Police Department, the Norman Fire Department and EMSTAT. One-week sessions are offered at various times throughout the day from June 4–29. Register by phone at 405-360-0360 or in person at the Sooner Mall Management office. For more information, visit www.soonermall.com/events.

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JUNE 2012

June 1 • FridayOKC Redhawks vs. Nashville Sounds baseball at the Bricktown Ballpark. 7:05pm. $5 & up. 218-1000, www.okcredhawks.com. Other home games this month: 6/2-5, 7-10, 23-26, 30.

June 1–6NCAA Women's College World Series at the ASA Hall of Fame Stadium, 2801 NE 50th St, OKC. 866-208-0048, www.ncaa.com/wcws.

Rock, Paper, Scissors interactive multimedia exhibit at Science Museum Oklahoma.

June 1–10Native American New Play Festival at the City Space Theatre in the Civic Center Music Hall features a new play by celebrated Native American poet, novelist & playwright Diane Glancy, staged readings & more. See website for schedule. 812-7737, www.okctheatrecompany.org.

June 3 • SundayFREE Summer Breeze Concert Series: Alegria Real features live Latin American folk music at Lions Park (Symmes & Flood, Norman) 7:30pm. 307-9320, www.pasnorman.org/programs/summerbreeze. Also held: 6/17 (Beau Jennings & The Tigers).

June 4 • MondayFREE Admission at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History on the first Monday of each month. 10am-5pm.

FREE Puppets with Joann McMillan at the Norman Library features puppets of all sizes in the show

“Wynken, Blynken, Venus, Neptune & Mars.” 2pm & 7pm.

June 4–29Safety Town at Sooner Mall (3301 W Main, Norman)educates children ages 5-6 about bicycle, street & personal safety. Upon completion of a week-long sesssion, each child receives a bicycle helmet, goody bag and more. 9am, 10:10am, 11:20am & 6pm (1st & 3rd week only). 360-0341.

June 5 • TuesdayFREE Family Night Out at Quail Springs Mall (2501 W Memorial) features family-friendly activities & themes in the Food Court. 5:30-7:30pm. 755-6530, www.quailspringsmall.com.

FREE Monthly Mini Model Build at Penn Square Mall’s Lego Store. Build a new model every month. Held the first Tuesday of the month. Quantities are limited. For ages 6-14. 5pm. 840-9993, www.Stores.Lego.com.

June 5–6Picadilly Circus at Arctic Edge Ice Arena (14513 N Kelly) a white tiger spectacular, circus clowns & acrobats. See website for details. 941-552-9952, www.thefuncircus.com.

June 6 • WednesdayFREE National Running Day 5K sponsored by RunHers, MetroFamily, Homeland Stores & DG Productions features family fitness events at Stars & Stripes Park (Lake Hefner), 7pm. www.metrofamilymagazine.com/running-day.

FREE Dream Boxes at the Village Library (10307 N Penn) invites teens to create a 3D dream box & explore surrealist images with the help of a local artist. Supplies provided. Preregister. 2-3pm.

June 6–1012th Annual deadCenter Film Festival showcases films from all across the country with panels, workshops & parties planned over five days in downtown Oklahoma City. 246-9233, www.deadcenterfilm.org.

June 7 • ThursdayBug Day at Science Museum Oklahoma provides an up-close & personal experience with SMO’s very own flat rock scorpion, centipede & Chilean rose hair tarantula. FREE with paid admission. 9am-5pm.

Second Annual Annie Oakley Society Luncheon at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum honors Reba McIntire with the Annie Oakley Society Award. Proceeds benefit children's initiatives at the museum. Preregister.

FREE Concerts on the Curve at Classen Curve in OKC features family fun with live music, food, art & more. 6pm. www.classencurve.com.

June 7–10UCO Endeavor Games presented by the University of Central Oklahoma at UCO, Edmond North High School & Lake Arcadia Outdoor Adventure Recreation Center features 11 sport competitions for athletes with physical disabilities. See website for details. 974-3160, www.ucoendeavorgames.com.

American Banjo Museum9 E Sheridan Ave, OKC604-2793, www.banjomuseum.org

City Arts CenterFair Park, 3000 Pershing Blvd, OKC951-0000, www.cityartscenter.org

Fine Arts Institute of Edmond27 E Edwards, Edmond340-4481, www.edmondfinearts.com

Fred Jones Jr Museum of Art555 Elm Ave, Norman325-3272, www.ou.edu/fjjma

Gaylord-Pickens Oklahoma Heritage Museum13th & Shartel, OKC235-4458, www.oklahomaheritage.com

Museum of Osteology10301 S. Sunnylane Rd, OKC814-0006, www.museumofosteology.org

Myriad Botanical Gardens301 W Reno, OKC297-3995, www.myriadgardens.com

National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum1700 NE 63rd St, OKC478-2250, www.nationalcowboymuseum.org

Oklahoma Aquarium300 Aquarium Dr, Jenks918-296-FISH, www.okaquarium.org

OKC Museum of Art415 Couch Dr, OKC236-3100, www.okcmoa.com

OKC National Memorial620 N Harvey, OKC235-3313, www.oklahomacitynationalmemorial.org

OKC Zoo2101 NE 50th St, OKC424-3344, www.okczoo.com

Oklahoma Children’s Theatre2501 N Blackwelder, OKC606-7003, www.oklahomachildrenstheatre.org

Oklahoma History Center800 Nazih Zuhdi Dr., OKC522-0765, www.oklahomahistorycenter.org

Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History2401 Chautauqua Ave, Norman325-4712, www.snomnh.ou.edu

Science Museum Oklahoma2100 NE 52nd St, OKC602-6664, www.sciencemuseumok.org

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June 8 • FridayWorld Oceans Day at the Oklahoma Aquarium (Jenks) celebrates water with fun, educational activities for kids. 10am-6pm.

World Oceans Day at the OKC Zoo invites guests to learn about water conservation & ways to help protect wildlife through special activities. 9am-5pm.

FREE Art a la Carte at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art provides live music, short films & an art activity in connection with Norman’s 2nd Friday Circuit of Art. 6-9pm.

FREE Norman’s 2nd Friday Circuit of Art is a monthly celebration of the arts connecting the downtown arts district with galleries, performance halls, & Campus Corner. Trolley service between venues available at minimal cost. 6-10pm. 360-1162, www.2ndfridaynorman.com.

FREE LIVE on the Plaza in the Plaza District (NW 16th between Classen & Penn) on the second Friday of each month includes art walk, local artists, live music & shopping. 7-11pm. www.plazadistrict.org.

June 8–1026th Annual Red Earth Native American Cultural Festival at the Cox Convention Center includes dance competition, art market & parade representing more than 100 tribes. 427-5228, www.redearth.org.

Ozarka OKC Nationals at the Oklahoma River Boathouse District features one of the largest drag boat races in the nation. $15 & up, FREE for ages 12 & under. www.okcmotorsports.com.

The Musical Adventures of Flat Stanley presented by ArtWorks Academy at Hillsdale College (3701 S Frontage, Moore) features students in K-7th grade. $8. 397-1824, www.ArtWorksAcademy.com.

2012 Oklahoma Senior Follies at OCU Kirkpatrick Auditorium (2501 N Blackwelder) benefits Mobile Meals of OK County. $25. Friday-Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 3pm. 208-5227, www.okcu.edu/ticketoffice.

June 9 • Saturday3rd Annual Stepping Out to Cure Scleroderma is a fundraising walk at Little River Park in Moore that benefits research to find a cure for Scleroderma. Preregister. 213-9230, www.firstgiving.com/scl-ok.

Walk for Wellness hosted by the OKC Indian Clinic at the OKC Zoo features a one-mile fun walk, information & vendor booths, light snacks & more. FREE zoo admission to walk participants who register by 8:30am. 8-11:30am. 948-4900 ext. 160.

College Tutors FREE ACT Practice Test at Edmond Learning Center (1333 N Santa Fe, Edmond). Space is limited, preregister. 8:30am. 513-6060, www.collegetutors.com/edmondok.

Building Bridges One Foot at a Time 5K at Bridges (1670 Stubbeman, Norman) benefits Bridges in their

efforts to help students living alone due to family crisis. Chip-timed 5K & 1-mile Fun Run. Preregister. $20 5K, $15 Fun Run. 7:30am. www.earlysignup.com/footpursuit.

All American Idol Pre-Auditions at Quail Springs Mall (2501 W Memorial) invites ages 16 & up to audition for a chance to win over $5,000 in cash & prizes. $3 donation benefits the Bethel Foundation. 9am. 286-3700, www.bethelfoundationusa.com. Also held, 6/23.

FREE Diaper Bazaar at Green Bambino (5120 N Shartel) invites guests to buy, sell, swap & browse gently used diapers, diapering accessories & baby carriers. 10am-noon. 848-2330, www.green-bambino.com.

Yoga for Real Life Workshop at St. Luke’s United Methodist Church (222 NW 15) features yoga guru Maya Fiennes as she takes participants through exercises that will stimulate the chakras. Includes lunch. $110. 10am-3pm. 609-1026, www.poteettheatre.com.

FREE Crafts for Kids “Flip-Flop Notepad” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up ot create a notepad that looks like a flip-flop. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

Central Oklahoma Hemerocallis Society (Daylily Club) Show & Sale at Will Rogers Garden Center (3400 NW 36). 1-4pm. 550-7632.

June 9–10Fort Reno Reunion in El Reno is for anyone who has lived or worked or had relatives who lived or worked at Fort Reno at any time in the past. Friday, 5pm; Saturday, 8am-2pm. 262-3987, www.fortreno.org.

Buchanan’s Vintage Flea Market in the Modern Living Building at State Fair Park features a large selection of quality antiques & collectibles. $5 adults, FREE children under 12. Saturday, 9am-5pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm. www.buchananmarkets.com.

June 9–15FREE Family Summer Camp at Bass Pro Shops (200 Bass Pro) features activities, workshops, crafts, photos, s'mores, catch & release pond. Kids earn a pin for every workshop completed. Saturday, Sunday, Tuesday & Thursday. 218-5200, www.basspro.com.

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June 10 • SundayPrix de West Perk at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum offers a Sunday morning stroll through the galleries & an opportunity to view the Prix de West art still available for purchase after the opening night sale. Complimentary coffee & admission. 9-11am.

FREE Family Day at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art invites the whole family to enjoy hands-on art activities and FREE admission to the museum. 1-4pm.

June 11 • MondayFREE Parent Power Night hosted by the Oklahoma State Department of Education at the Cox Convention Center features sessions on college & career planning, ACE for parents, Career Tech & more. Preregister. 6-7:45pm. 522-6225, https://register.wciconferences.org/ehome/index.php?eventid=40273&.

FREE See a Play, Dream a Dream at the Norman Library features the theatrical troupe Rhythmically Speaking as they combine music, drama & storytelling to enrich the spirit & enhance the mind. 2pm & 7pm. Also held: 6/12 (Moore), 6/13 (Blanchard & Newcastle), 6/14 (McLoud & Tecumseh.

June 12 • TuesdayStorytime Science at Science Museum Oklahoma invites guests to enjoy storytelling at its finest with SMO’s performer-puppeteer extraordinaire. FREE with paid museum admission.10am & 2pm.

Cupcake Party Session at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites children to create a cupcake stand & enjoy cupcakes from one of Norman’s own bakeries. $40 includes materials, instruction, use of tools & firing. 1:30-3:30pm. 301-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

Paseo FEAST (Funding Emerging Artists with Sustainable Tactics) at LOCAL (2262 W Main, Norman) features five artists competing for a small grant including the proceeds from the dinner. The audience will vote on which artist deserves the money based on their presentations. $30. 6-8pm, www.paseofeast.com.

Tuesday Night at Town Center at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) features a concert by guitarist Edgar Cruz, games & crafts. 7pm. 376-3411.

Weekly EventsFREE Discovery Room programs at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History. Usually held Saturdays and Sundays but see website for complete list & details.

FREE Art Moves weekdays (Monday-Friday) in downtown OKC (various locations), including performances, demonstrations, short films & discussions. Noon-1pm. 270-4892, www.artscouncilokc.com/art-moves.

Monday Evening Family Swim at the Mustang Town Aquatic Center (1201 N Mustang). $3 per person, $10 entire family. Mondays in June & July, 7:30-9:30pm. 376-9049.

Toddler Time playtime at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang). $2 or FREE with Town Center membership. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 9am-noon. 376-3411, www.cityofmustang.org.

Wild Tuesdays Story Time Safari at the OKC Zoo for kids 11 & under to hear stories & meet a zookeeper. FREE with paid admission. Tuesdays in June & July, 9:30am & 10:30am.

FREE Admission at Norman’s Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art on Tuesdays. 10am-5pm. Activities include Art Adventures for children ages 3-5 with adult (10:30am).

FREE Sooner Mall Outreach Storytime is an interactive story time held outside Sears at Sooner Mall for ages 9 & under. Tuesdays, 10am.

Story Time at Be Wild For Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) includes story & pottery activity. See website for details. Tuesday & Wednesday, 10:30am. 307-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

Family Fun Night at JumpZone (SW 104th &

Western) includes 2 adults, 2 children, 1 large pizza, 2 liter pop for $25. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 4:30-8pm. 200-1691, www.jumpzoneparty.com.

FREE Children’s Storytime at Quail Springs Barnes & Noble (13800 N May) every Wednesday & Saturday, 11am. 755-1155, www.barnesandnoble.com.

FREE Wednesday Night at the Movies at the Downtown Library. Held every Wednesday, 6-8pm. 231-8650.

Home School Bowling Days at Sooner Bowling Center (550 24th Ave NW, Norman) offers bowling for up to 6 people and much more, $15. Wednesdays & Fridays in June & July, 10am-3pm. 360-3634, www.soonerbowl.com.

FREE Thursday Noon Tunes at the Downtown Library, 11:30-1pm.

Family Fun Day at Celebration Station (509 Westline) features unlimited rides & a pizza buffet for $15.99 per person. Thursdays, 4-9pm. 942-7888, www.celebrationstation.com.

Cocktails on the Skyline at the OKC Museum of Art. Free for members; $5 for nonmembers. Cash bar, complimentary snacks & live music. See website for details. Thursdays through October 11, 5-10:30pm.

FREE Concerts in the Park at Chisholm Trail Park (500 W Vandament, Yukon) features music each Thursday eve (except July 5). 7-9pm. www.cityofyukonok.gov.

FREE Outdoor Concerts in the Park at Hafer Park Stage (1034 S Bryant, Edmond) offers live music outdoors each Thursday at 7:15pm. 359-4630, www.edmondok.com/parks/rec.


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June 14 • ThursdayMovie Mania Session at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites children to create a their own snack bowl. $40, includes materials, instruction, use of tools & firing. 1:30-3:30pm. 301-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

June 14–16The Jane Austen Festival presented by the Reduxion Theatre Company (1613 N Broadway) features readings, lectures, exhibits & workshops on Austen. $10 1-Day pass, $25 3-Day pass. 7:30pm. 651-3191, www.reduxiontheatre.com.

June 14–30Two Gentlemen of Verona presented by Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park at the Myriad Gardens Water Stage (100 Myriad Gardens) features Shakespeare’s clever comedy about jealousy & the fickle nature of love. $15. Thursday-Saturday, 8pm. 235-3700, www.oklahomashakespeare.com.

June 15 • FridayFREE Lights Out, Nights Out! at the Midwest City Library invites children of all ages to explore how nocturnal animals are well suited for night life & meet a nocturnal animal. Co-sponsored by the OKC Zoo. 3-3:45pm.

FREE Heitz Movie Nitez The Adventure of Rocky & Bullwinkle at Marc Heitz Chevrolet (I-35 & Lindsay, Norman) features family movies on the 3rd Friday of every month at dusk. Playground closed during movies. 488-7971, www.facebook.com/kcoyote.1Force.

Zoobilation at the Oklahoma City Zoo benefits the Oklahoma Zoological Society & features live music, food, drinks, silent auction & more. Must be 21 & older. $100. 7-11pm. 425-0613, www.zoofriends.org.

June 15–16Juneteenth Heritage Festival in Shawnee observes the emancipation of African Americans from slavery, with historical talks by community elders, gospel signing, parade & heritage craft demonstrations. 275-3999, www.visitshawnee.com.

FREE Green Earth Gang for ages 9-13 works on conservation projects in Martin Park. Fridays, 9:30am-12:30pm during the summer months. 755-0676, www.okc.gov/parks/martin_park.

The UCO Jazz Lab features performances each Friday & Saturday at 8pm. $7 adults, $5 age 12 & under. 359-7989, www.ucojazzlab.com.

FREE Summer Nights Music in the Park at Buck Thomas Park (1903 NE 12, Moore) provides live music appropriate for all ages. Fridays in June, 7pm. 793-4332, www.cityofmoore.com.

Train Rides at the Oklahoma Railway Museum leave the Oakwood Depot at 10am, 11am, noon, 1:30pm & 2:30pm on the first & third Saturday of the month. $10 ages 15 & up, $5 ages 3-14, FREE under 3. 424-8222, www.oklahomarailwaymuseum.org.

FREE Children’s Storytime at Full Circle Bookstore (1900 NW Expressway) each Saturday, 10:15am. 842-2900, www.fullcirclebooks.com.

FREE Children’s Story Time at Edmond’s Best of Books, Saturdays, 11am. 340-9202, www.bestofbooksedmond.com.

FREE Skating Lessons at Skate Galaxy (5800 NW 36) for beginner, intermediate, advanced & featured styles. Saturdays, noon-12:45pm. 605-2758, www.skategalaxyokc.com.

All-Star Bowling for Differently-Abled Individuals at AMF Yukon Lanes (500 E Main). $8/week includes 3 games & shoes. Saturdays, 1pm. Email [email protected] to verify schedule. 354-2516.

Drop in Art at the OKC Museum of Art features hands-on art activities. FREE with paid admission. Saturdays, 1-4pm.

Stay Late on Saturdays at the OKC Zoo. Open until 8pm on Saturdays through September.

History Cruises (Saturdays) & Shakespeare Cruises (Sundays) on the Oklahoma River depart Regatta Park & Exchange landings. Adults $6+, children $3+, FREE under age 6. Through August, noon & 12:45pm. 702-7755, www.okrivercruises.com.

Specialty Cruises on the Oklahoma River depart from Regatta Park or Exchange Landings & feature a different theme each month. Must be 21 & older. Saturdays, 7-8:30pm. www.okrivercruises.com.

FREE Open House at techJOYnt (8328 Glade) presents information about this hands-on, technology-based after-school education academy. Sundays, 2-4pm. 345-5010, www.techjoynt.org.

FREE Concerts in the Park at Joe B Barnes Regional Park in Midwest City each Thursday evening through August 2. 7pm. www.midwestcityok.org for lineup.

FREE Lower Bricktown Live Summer Concert Series in front of the fountain just South of Mickey Mantel & Reno each Thursday evening throughout the summer. 7:30-9:30pm. www.lowerbricktown.com.

FREE Summer Concert Series at the Outlet Shoppes at OKC (7624 W Reno) features music in the Center Court on Thursday evenings through July. 7pm. www.theoutletshoppesatoklahomacity.com.

FREE Sunday Twilight Concert Series at the Great Lawn Stage in the Myriad Gardens provides free, family-friendly concerts in an outdoor setting. Sundays June through August, 7:30-9pm. www.artscouncilokc.com for lineup.

FREE Sunset Cinemas at Charles J Johnson Park (7209 SE 29, Midwest City) features outdoor movies shown each Sunday night through August 12. Movies begin 20 minutes after sundown. www.visitmidwestcity.com.




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Babysitting Bootcamp at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) teaches skills needed for babysitting including first aid & CPR. $50. 10am-3pm. 376-3411, [email protected].

Bright Night of Grossology at Science Museum Oklahoma is an after-hours, overnight experience at Science Museum Oklahoma. Registration required. $35 members, $45 nonmembers. 6pm-8:30am.

FREE 14th Annual Farming Heritage Festival in Shawnee provides fun for the whole family. 623-2834, www.oktractorclub.com.

June 15–17Hairspray presented by ArtWorks Academy at Hillsdale College (3701 S Frontage, Moore) features students in 7th-12th grade. $8-$10. 397-1824, www.ArtWorksAcademy.com.

June 15–24The Music Man at UCOs Mitchell Hall Theater (100 N University, Edmond) features the story of a fast-talking traveling salesman. $20 adults, $15 students, FREE ages 4 & under. $5 discount for matinee performances. Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm & 8pm; Sunday, 2pm. 974-3375, www.summerstockok.com.

June 16 • SaturdayFREE “Hooked on Fishing” Classes presented by the OKC Parks Department at MetroTech Springlake (NW 36 & Springlake) invites participants ages 5-15 with adult to learn fishing basics. Equipment provided. 8-10:30am. 297-3903, www.okc.gov/parks.

Chalk the Walk in the South parking lot of Bass Pro Shop (200 Bass Pro) benefits the Parents Assistance Center. Preregister. $20 per square. 10am-3pm. 232-8226, www.pacok.org.

Riley’s Run 5K at Oakdale School (10909 N Sooner, Edmond) includes a 5K & 1-Mile Fun Run benefitting the American Partnership for Eosinophilic Disorders. $15 & up. 8am. www.rileysrun.com.

Walk to Remember at Hafer Park (1034 S Bryant, Edmond) is a 3K walk to remember victims of drunk driving as well as to raise awareness & funds for victims’ families. $25 adults, FREE kids under 15. 9am-1:30pm. www.facebook.com/TheZachariahProject

Decorate for Dad at the OKC Museum of Art invites kids ages 3-5 to share a story & make a special paper tie for Father’s Day. Preregister. $7.50 members, $10 nonmembers. 10-11am.

FREE Crafts for Kids “Key Keeper” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a gift for Dad for Father’s Day. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

Daddy Daughter Dance at the Moore Community Center (301 S Howard) for Dads & Daughters ages 4-14. Two separate dances. Tickets must be purchased by 6/14. $5 per person. 5pm & 7:30pm. 793-5090, www.cityofmoore.com.

Fabulous Father’s Day at the Orr Family Farm (14400 S Western, OKC) offers FREE admission for dads. 10am-6pm. 799-FARM, www.orrfamilyfarm.com.

Glenn Miller Orchestra at the Rose State Performing Arts Center (6420 SE 15, Midwest City) features big band music. 7pm. 297-2264, www.okciviccenter.com.

Fort Reno Ghost Tours at Historic Fort Reno (7107 W Cheyenne, El Reno) includes tales of the fort & paranormal research teams. Third Saturday of the month through November. Preregister. $8 adults, $7 seniors, $5 children ages 5-12. 7:30pm. 262-3987, www.fortreno.org.

June 16–17FREE Central Oklahoma Cactus & Succulent Society Annual Show & Plant Sale at Will Rogers Garden (3400 NW 36) features cactus, succulents & more. Saturday, 9am-5pm; Sunday, 9am-4pm. http://sites.google.com/site/cocssok.

June 17 • SundayFREE Admission for Father’s on Father’s Day at the following venues (most venues require on paid admission per complimentary admission):• Oklahoma Aquarium, 10am-6pm• OKC Zoo, 9am-5pm• OKC Museum of Art, noon-5pm• American Banjo Museum, noon-5pm• Fred Jones Jr Museum of Art, 1-5pm• OKC National Memorial Museum, noon-6pm• Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art, 1-4pm• Science Museum Oklahoma, 11am-6pm (with the

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Drawing with Dad at the OKC Museum of Art invites dads & their children ages 6-9 to create a treasured art piece using a variety of drawing media. Preregister. $10 members, $15 nonmembers. 2-4pm.

June 18 • MondayFREE Rock to the Moon & Back at the Norman Library features the Grammy Award Winning Sugar Free All-Stars & their kid rockin’ funky music. 2pm & 7pm.

June 19 • TuesdayFREE Tuesdays at Town Center “Woofstock” at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) features a Frisbee dog demonstration, vendors, contest for dogs, music, pictures & games. 7pm. 376-3411.

June 20 • WednesdayPet Love Session at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites children to create a glass frame for their pet’s picture using frit, noodles & stringers. $40 includes materials, instruction, use of tools & firing. 1:30-3:30pm. 301-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

June 20–24The Little Big Top presented by the Oklahoma Children’s Theatre (2501 N Blackwelder) tells the story of a sad little town where nothing fun ever happens until the day the circus came to town. $9 adults, $6 students & children ages 2-12. Wednesday-Friday, 10am & noon; Saturday-Sunday, 2pm. 951-0011, www.oklahomachildrenstheatre.org.



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June 21 • ThursdayMother Son Pirate Party at Mustang Town Center & Aquatic Center (1201 N Mustang) features games, snacks & activities followed by time in the pool. $5. 6:30-9pm. 376-3411.

June 21–23FREE 28th Annual Jazz in June in Norman features three days of music. See website for details. Thursday-Friday, 7pm; Saturday, noon-1am. 325-3388, www.jazzinjune.org.

June 21–30Willy Wonka by Upstage Theatre at the MAC in Edmond. Thursday-Saturday. $12 adults, $6 students, FREE kids 4 & under. 285-5803, www.upstagetheatreok.com.

June 22 • FridaySleep with the Sharks at the Oklahoma Aquarium includes movie, scavenger hunt, snacks & overnight stay in the Aquarium. Group discounts available. $45 nonmembers, $35 members. 7pm-8am.

June 23 • SaturdayFREE “Hooked on Fishing” Classes presented by the OKC Parks Department at Dolese Youth Park Pond ( NW 50 & Meridian) invites participants ages 5-15 with adult to learn fishing basics. Equipment provided. 8-10:30am. 297-3903, www.okc.gov/parks.

FREE Sugar Free Allstars in Concert at Uptown Kids (5840 N Classen). 10:30am. 418-8881, www.uptownkidsstyle.com.

National Wildlife Federation’s Great American Backyard Campout invites families to enjoy camping out in their backyard to raise awareness & funds to support NWF’s efforts to connect children with nature. Register online for recipes, activities & crafts for your campout. www.backyardcampout.org.

FREE Crafts for Kids “Summertime Door Hanger” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a beach scene to hang on their door.11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

At Snack Wars at the Downtown YMCA (1 NW 4), kids have 12 minutes to create a healthy snack in the mock kitchen. Features Marshall Reid, co-author of Portion Size Me: A Kid-Driven Plan to a Healthy Family. 4pm. 297-7700, www.ymcaokc.org.

Family Fun Night at KickingBird Golf Club (1600 E Danforth, Edmond) invites families to play 9 holes with special junior tees. Tee times required one week in advance. FREE putting course, $6 green fees, $6 carts, $2 range tokens. Tee times start at 5pm. 341-5350, www.kickingbirdgolf.com.

June 23–24Overnight Family ZooSnooze at the OKC Zoo features a guided night hike for ages 4 years & up with parent to experience nighttime zoo animals, sounds, smells & stars before bunking down in the Zoo classrooms. $25 per child, $10 per parent. 7pm-9am.

June 23–July 4Liberty Fest in Edmond is a week long celebration featuring 11 family-oriented events, including a concert, road rally, kite fest, rodeo, car show, food fest, pageant, parade & fireworks. Named by CNN & USA Today as one of the top 10 July 4th festivals in the US. 340-2527, www.libertyfest.org.

June 25 • MondaySanta Express Golf Tournament at the Moore Athletic Golf Club (920 SW 19, Moore) benefits the Moore Firefighter’s Santa Express that provides Christmas gifts for children. Preregister. 9am. 833-5389, www.cityofmoore.com.

FREE Greg Rogers Native Storyteller at the Norman Library tells stories that highlight the importance of having a dream, living the dream & telling the tale. 2pm & 7pm.

Lorie Line—Live in the Sunshine at the Civic Center Music Hall highlights music from Line’s three newest albums & features world-class musicians. $44 & up. 8pm. 297-2264, www.okciviccenter.com.

June 26 • TuesdayTuesdays at Town Center “Family Luau” at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang, Mustang) features luau themed games followed by a movie in the pool. Purchase tickets by 6/25. $5 per person. 376-3411.

FREE Stage Combat workshop at the Edmond Library invites teens ages 14 & up to learn the basics of hand-to-hand grappling, punching, kicks, throws, falls & grabs with a focus on the teamwork & safety necessary for these techniques. Supervised by Reduxion Theatre Company’s Artistic Director & Stage Combat veteran, Tyler Woods. Preregister. 7:30-8:30pm.

June 26–30Bye Bye Birdie presented by Lyric Theatre at the Civic Center Music Hall. $33 & up. Tuesday-Thursday, 7:30pm; Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm & 8pm. 524-9312, www.lyrictheatreokc.com.

June 27 • WednesdayScience of the Circus at Science Museum Oklahoma features the performers of Ringling Bros. Barnum & Bailey to teach children how science is used in the circus. FREE with paid museum admission. 1pm.

June 27–July 2World Cup of Softball VII & Border Battle Slow Pitch at the ASA Hall of Fame Stadium. www.asasoftball.com.

June 28 • ThursdayLadies Night Out at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites ladies to enjoy a night out with friends & bring snacks & beverages of choice. $4 studio fee. 6-9pm. 307-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

June 28–July 1Ringling Bros. & Barnum & Bailey: Fully Charged at the Chesapeake Energy Arena. $22 & up plus fees.




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Thursday-Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 3:30pm & 7:30pm; Sunday, 3pm. www.chesapeakearena.com.

29–30Iolanthe presented by the Cimarron Opera at the Nancy O’Brian Center for the Performing Arts (1809 Stubbeman, Norman) is a comic operetta featuring participants from organization’s Theatre Camp. $10 adults, $5 children. 2pm & 7:30pm. 364-8962, www.cimarronopera.org. Also held 7/6-8.

June 30 • SaturdayFREE Crafts for Kids “Star Spangled Shaker” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a patriotic shaker for Independence Day. Ages 3 & up. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

June 30–July 1Stars & Stripes River Festival in the Boathouse District on the Oklahoma River will include children's activities, bounce houses, face painting, games, Olympic Day, food & beverage vendors, live music, fireworks & more. www.oklahomariverevents.org.

JULY 2012July 1 • SundayScience Live Birthday at Science Museum Oklahoma celebrates the birthday of Science live with cake, singing & more. FREE with paid admission. 11am-6pm.

OKC Redhawks vs. Memphis Redbirds baseball at the Bricktown Ballpark. 7:05pm. $5 & up. 218-1000, www.okcredhawks.com. Other home games this month: 7/1-3, 12-15, 24-31.

July 1–August 26Morning Zoo Rise at the OKC Zoo features an early opening at 8am daily to allow guests to enjoy the Zoo during the cooler morning hours. 8am-5pm.

July 3 • TuesdayFREE Family Night Out at Quail Springs Mall (2501 W Memorial) features family friendly activities & themes in the Food Court. 5:30-7:30pm. 755-6530, www.quailspringsmall.com.

FREE Monthly Mini Model Build at Penn Square Mall’s Lego Store. Build a new model every month. Held the first Tuesday of the month. Quantities are limited. For ages 6-14. 5pm. 840-9993, www.Stores.Lego.com.

July 3–4Art in the Park 2012: A Celebration in the Heartland at Buck Thomas Park (1903 NE 12, Moore) features live music, children’s tent, a giant sand pit, food, wineries, fireworks, arts, crafts & more. 793-4332, www.cityofmoore.com.

FREE Freedom Fest 2012 at Yukon City Park (2200 S Holly, Yukon) & Chisholm Trail Park (500 W Vandament, Yukon) features live music, fireworks, car show, United Freestyle Stunt Team Show & more. 350-3911, www.cityofyukonok.gov.

July 5 • ThursdayFREE A Day with Benjamin Franklin at the Oklahoma History Center features special activities with a Benjamin Franklin impersonator. 7pm.

Water Balloon Day at Science Museum Oklahoma invites guests to come launch water balloons on SMO’s west lawn. FREE with paid admission. 10am, noon, 2pm & 4pm.

July 6–7FREE First Friday Gallery Walk in the Paseo Arts District features more than 60 artists in 17 galleries. Friday, 6-10pm; Saturday, noon-5pm. 525-2688, www.thepaseo.com.

July 7 • SaturdayFREE Crafts for Kids “Sunny Day Visor” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a visor to keep them safe from the sun. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

Ongoing Events June 8–August 5Prix de West Invitational Art Exhibition & Sale at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum in an annual exhibition featuring more than 300 works by the finest contemporary Western artists. Opening activities June 8-10 feature art seminars, demonstrations, & awards banquet. Preregister for opening activities.

June 8–September 3Faces of Bettina Steinke at the National Cowboy & National Heritage Museum features the work of renowned portraitist, Bettina Steinke.

June 8–September 9Vernet to Villon: Nineteenth Century French Master Drawings from the National Gallery of Art at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art features the first exhibition lent to Oklahoma by DC’s National Gallery of Art including drawings & watercolors representing each of the major 19th-century movements.

June 8–September 16The Cult of Personality: Andy Warhol, Harold Stevenson & Portraiture at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art features portraits by Andy Warhol with a special focus on the Polaroids he used as preparatory studies for the portraits he produced.

June 12–August 25Soaring Voices: Recent Ceramics by Women from Japan at the City Arts Center (3000 General Pershing) features ceramic works by 25 women artists. 951-0000, www.cityartscenter.org.

June 14–September 9Fusion: A New Century of Glass at the OKC Museum of Art features glass sculptures & installations from the

twenty-first century that embrace the diversity & depth of the human experience.

Through June 30The Return of Elegance exhibit at the Oklahoma History Center features historic eveningwear.

Through June 24Katherine Liontas-Warren: Oklahoma Perspectives art exhibit at the Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art.

FREE Julie Ayres Exhibit at the State Capitol features print works from the Choteau-based artist.

Through July 28Enoch Kelly Haney Art Exhibit: Touching the Past at the Gaylord-Pickens Oklahoma Heritage Museum.

Through August 10The Summer Movie Fun series at Harkins Bricktown Cinemas 16 features family-friendly movies. 231-4747, www.harkinstheatres.com/smf.

Through August 31FREE Admission at the Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art (1900 W MacArthur, Shawnee) through August. 878-5300, www.mgmoa.org.

Through September 3Blue Star Museums provides FREE admission for active military members & their families to participating museums across the country from Memorial Day through Labor Day. Available to military ID holder & five immediate family members. See website for details & full list of participating locations. www.arts.gov/bluestarmuseums.

Through September 16Chinasaurs: Dinosaur Discoveries from China at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History features a dozen rare cast dinosaurs as well as fossil dinosaur eggs, nests & bones.

Through December 9The Oklahoma & Infamy exhibit at the Oklahoma History Center features a display of military artifacts. Also at OHC is a new exhibit, Oklahomans @ the Movies, that shows filmmakers, actors and historic theaters in our state.

Visit www.metrofamilymagazine.com/calendar today for more

fun upcoming events!

And for the best in Summer Fun, go to www.metrofamilymagazine.

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To register and �nd details about the contest and prizes, including more about each of these generous businesses, go to

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1Dodge City Paintball & Outdoor Laser Tag, party package for 10 people for either paintball or laser tag ($160 value).

Juggle Whatever will provide a juggling session for 3 people at your home ($45 value) and Paint'N Station "Paint'N Take" party for 8 ($80 value).

Paint Your Art Out, two-hour birth-day party for 10 children ages 5-16 ($200 value).

RedPin Bowling Lounge, TenPin party package for 8 kids ($152 value).

SoccerCity OKC, Scrimmage Birthday Party Package ($175 value).

With the generous support of the following partners, MetroFamily brings you the opportunity to win one of these great party packages:

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Jump!Zone, Weekend Classic! Party for 25 kids ($250 value).

Science Museum Oklahoma, admis-sion for 35 people, private party room and host ($235 value).

Marc Heitz Community Complex, Movie Night birthday party for unlim-ited number of guests ($100 value).

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For July, we want to see your family having fun in or near water. Submit your best splash pad, pool, river or lake photos by Friday, June 15. For August, we want to see your favorite first day of school photos. Photos are due by Thursday, July 19.

Guidelines and a photo submission form can be found at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/mfm-photo-galleries.

We Love Dads!To celebrate Father's Day, we asked our readers to submit their favorite

dad and child photos.

View all submissions at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/

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Levi W., age 1, Seth W., age 4, Finn W., age 6, and dad Daryl W. of Norman

Keelan H., age 1, with dad Christopher H. of Oklahoma City.

Wyatt B., 4 months, of Oklahoma City with grandfather Johnny J. of Cashion

Addyson D., age 6, with dad Matthew D. of Edmond.

Geoffrey B. and daughter Ainsley B., age 7, of Oklahoma City.

Jenna B., age 12, Sarah B., age 11, Lauren B., age 9, Kyle B., age 8 and Ben B., age 5, with dad Max of Mustang. Robert W. with daughter, Zoey, age 1, of Choctaw.


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