ppt on personality development
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Personality Development is actually the development from the organized pattern of attitudes and behaviors which makes an individual distinctive.Personality of a person contains his behavior, attitude, value system; his mentality and his decision making process.
A man is identified by his personality public image.It is the totality of the person and not merely external looks, but character, behavioral traits and attitude towards life. Personality development is the improvement of behavioral traits such as communication skills, interpersonal relationships, attitude towards life and restoring our ethics.
TYPES OF PERSONALITYNine Types
PerfectionistsHelpersRomanticsAchieversAssertersQuestionersAdventurersObservers and Peacemakers.
Perfectionists are realistic, conscientious and principled Ex: Narayan Murthy.
Helpers are warn, concerned, nurturing and sensitive to other peoples needsEx: Mother Teresa.
Achievers are eneagetic, optimistic, self assured and goal oriented Ex: Sachin Tendulkar
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptiveEx: M. F. Hussain great Indian Painter
Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical and insightful.Ex: Amartya Sen - Great economist
Cont..Questioners are responsible and trustworthy.Ex: Shabana Azmi
Adventurers are energetic, lively and optimistic. They want to contribute to the world Ex: Vijay Mallya - NRI businessman.
Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self confident and protective.Ex: T. N. Seshan - Chief Election Commissioner.(never back down)
Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them Ex: Atal Bihari Vajpayee.
BODY LANGUAGEBody language communicates much more than words. Body language signals are called leakages because you may try to tell something, but the truth will leak out visually.
AVOID SUCH BODY LANGUAGECrossed arms or legsCarrying books or papers across your chestSitting perched on the edge of the chairWringing handsTapping footRocking legsDrumming fingersBiting nails
Cont..Fiddling with the jewelry or hairCovering your mouth with your hand while talking Rocking in your chairScratching a lotClearing your throat too muchStraightening your tiePlaying with watch or cufflinksHands in the pocket
LOOKING AGGRESSIVEArms folded across the chestStaring PointingMaking a fistLeaning over someone
BEHAVING RUDELYWorking when someone is talking to youPuffing SmirkingWhisperingCracking knucklesGrooming yourselfStanding too closePacking up folders and papers well before the meeting is overShaking hands too hard or limp handshakes
Cont..Yawning when the meeting is in progressLooking at your watch repeatedlyBlinking a lotFiddling with rings, watches, earrings and chainsTapping or clicking pensPlaying with paper clipsJingling money in pocketPicking at fingernailsTwiddling bits of hairSmoking
LEADERSHIP QUALITIESCourageSelf-controlA keen sense of justice and fairnessDefiniteness of plansThe habit of doing more than being paid forA pleasing personalitySympathy and understandingMastery of detailsWillingness to assume full responsibilityCo-operation
Things to enhance your Personality
Dont compare your lifeDont have negative thoughts or things you can not control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.Dont waste your precious energy on gossip.Dream more while you are awake.
How can you win people to your way of thinking
Show respect for the other persons opinions.Never say, Youre wrong.If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.Begin in a friendly way.Try honestly to see things from other persons point of view.
Keep a smart head and keep cool.Dont shout or be aggressive.Dont doubt yourself.Be executive in dress.Create your own personal style.Dont copy anyone.