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WelcomePositivity in the WorkplacePositivity is as contagious as negativityBetter communication decreases negativity and increases positivity in your workforceWork toward creating a positive attitude among your peers, employees, customers and clientsPositivity in the WorkplaceBe likeableBe respectfulDont aggravate the situationDont force people to be defensiveDont always try to nd faultBe willing to lose a battle to win a warBe patient!mile"ips #or Building a Positive Work $ttitudeBuild a positive attitude in another environment"alk about positive things%ook for good things in the people you work with%ook for good things in your organi&ation$void nancial problems$void negative attitude traps of fellow workers'ake fre(uent self)assessmentsBe *areful of "oo 'uch Positivity*hinese Philosopher %ao "&u !aid$lways we hope someone else has the answer+!ome other place will be better+!ome other time it will all turn out++,o one else has the answer+,o other place will be better, and it has already turned out+$t the center of your being you have the answer-!earch your heart and see the way to do is to be+Positive Work .nvironment$ /appy and Productive Workforce doesnt happen by itself + + +0t takes a lot of hard work and a great deal of e1ort by everyone+"he reward is worth the e1ort+- Dog eat dog . . . everyone fghting to get ahead- No one appreciates your contributions - Too much work . . . not enough help- Deadlines are unrealistic- Longer hours . . . additional work- Budget Constraints- Competition is eating us alive- oor management ! direction- "ob insecurityNegative WorkEnvironmentNegative WorkEnvironmentOther Peoples BehaviorOther Peoples BehaviorBulldozers Bulldozers#nipers#nipers$%ploders$%plodersClamsClamsPatroni&ersComplainersControllersBackstabbersWalking Wounded,egatives&ossips&ossipsBrown Nosers#lu'ers #lu'ersWhinersCHANGE . . . CHANGE . . . Challenges our paradigmsAlters the way we thinkMakes life more difficult for a whileCauses StressIs an ongoing fact of lifeChallenges our paradigmsAlters the way we thinkMakes life more difficult for a whileCauses StressIs an ongoing fact of lifeChanging EnvironmentChanging EnvironmentThe only person who alwayslikes change is a wet babyPast ExperiencesPast ExperiencesOuch!Ouch!Ouch!Ouch!Ouch!Ouch!Ouch!Ouch! Ouch!&$N$T(C)'y 2randparents did it to me+ 30nherited traits4#*C+(C)'y Parents did it to me+ 35pbringing4$N,(-.N/$NT0L)'y !pouse, my Boss, the *ompany, the .conomy, etc++ is doing this to me+3!urroundings4Determinism heor!Determinism heor! Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE? Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE?Li1e2s Little 3uestion Li1e2s Little 3uestionChoose the -ight LuggageChoose the -ight LuggageDodge BulletsBe Bulletproo1Youre going to get hitThe roblem 4ith Dodging BulletsThe roblem 4ith Dodging BulletsChoice 56Choice 56 Wear B"lletproo# Armor Wear B"lletproo# ArmorBulletproo1 0rmorComes 1romBulletproo1 0rmorComes 1romSELF CHANGESELF CHANGE utting on the 0rmorutting on the 0rmorChange $

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