personal transformation and success
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Transformation begins with meAshu Khanna
Leadership Coach
“Be the change you wish to see”, Gandhi
VUCA world• Overwhelm • Fear of failure • Sense of Inadequacy• Time crunch
Where is VUCA – within us or outside us
“Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties. Conditions for creativity are to be puzzled; to concentrate; to accept conflict and tension; to be born every day; to feel a sense of self.”
Erich Fromm
To transform…
• Coaching is powerful tool to build awareness & explore new insights and perspectives
• Coaching different from – Mentoring– Feedback– Advise/ Consulting– Counseling/Therapy
Typical thought pattern • Element of dependency as it is based on– Teaching – Telling – Advising – Information
• Limited sense of responsibility • Individual winning oriented • Decisions are often made from emotions
Self Discovery process
• Element of independence as it is based on– Introspection/ Reflection – Analysis– Awareness of insights
• Clarity and conviction• Actions arise from insights• You are the EXPERT of your life
Ask yourself
• Who Am I as a person• What do I want most of• What do I want to be known for• What do I need to do differently • What do I need to do more of or less• What is stopping me from taking that leap
To be agile
• Inquire into Beliefs• Complement & collaborate• Seek clarity of vision and motivation• Recognize cluttered thoughts• Shed sticky habits and patterns • Live in the present
Some Tools
• Simple To-Do’s – – Reflect for 15 minutes everyday – Consistently review habits, seek feedback– Write down – Share experiences – Focus on lessons from experiences – Take a break– We are all human