Success will kiss me today

“for my efforts”

Youth are not useless

they are used less

A fool with great money is one big party

Everyone wants to go to heaven

but no one wants to die

Leadership means acting from your commitment,

instead of what is convenient

In life to work ,

Putting yourself in the other’s shoes

Make others feel special

Do what You love to do

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Change Focus, Look for the Positive

You can win starts here:-

Make a Habit of Doing It Now

If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, get into the habit of living in thepresent and doing it now. “ He slept beneath the moon He basked beneath the sun He lived a life of going to do and died with nothing done.”

Develop an Attitude of Gratitude

Count your blessings, not your troubles

Get into a Continuous Education Program

honesty, compassion, courage, persistence and responsibility--

Get into a Continuous Education Program:-

1.Many times we confuse intelligence with good judgment.2. A person may have high intelligence but poor judgment.3. Choose your advisers carefully and use your judgment.4. A person can and will be successful with or without formal education if they have the 5Cs:¨ character¨ commitment¨ conviction¨ courtesy¨ courage

Eduacated meansEduacated means those who manage well the circumstances

which they encounter day by day. those who are honorable in their dealings

with all men, bearing easily what is unpleasant or offensive in others,

those who hold their pleasures always under control and are not unduly overcome by their misfortunes, bearing up under them bravely and in a manner worthy of our common nature.

those who are not spoiled by their successes,

Feed Your Mind:-

Just like our bodies need good food every day, our minds need good thoughts every day

Build a Positive Self-Esteem

Do something for others who cannot repay you in cash or kind.

Stay Away from Negative Influences

Learn to Like the Things That Need to be Done

Start Your Day with a Positive

1.What you want to achieve

2. How you expect to achieve it

3. When you plan to achieve it

ACTION PLAN:-

the result of consistently applying some basic principles

SUCCESS:-

success is a journey, not a destination.

OBSTACLES TO OBSTACLES TO SUCCESSSUCCESS

Ego Fear of failure success ; lack of self esteem No plan Lack of formalized goals ¨ Life changes ¨ Procrastination ¨ Family responsibility ¨ Financial security issues ¨ Lack of focus, being muddled ¨ Giving up vision for promise of money ¨ Doing too much alone ¨ Over-commitment ¨ Lack of commitment ¨ Lack of training ¨ Lack of persistence ¨ Lack of priorities

"A smooth sea never made a skillful mariner."

EVERY SUCCESS STORY IS ALSO

A STORY OF GREAT FAILURE

Nature's greatest gift to man is the ability to think

Hecan create his own environment.

QUALITIES THAT MAKE A PERSON SUCCESSFUL

Desire Commitment Responsibility Hard Work Character Positive Believing Give More Than You Get The Power of Persistence Pride of Performance Be Willing to Be a Student--Get a

Mentor

"Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, the mind canachieve."

Playing to Win Requires Commitment

A duty which becomes a desire will ultimately become a delight.

The duck keeps paddling relentlessly underneath butappears smooth and calm on top.

Character is a combination of integrity, unselfishness, understanding, conviction,courage, loyalty and respect.

Positive believing is an attitude of confidence that comes withpreparation

Persistence comes from purpose

Excellence comes when the performer takes pride in doing his best

Half-hearted effort doesnot produce half results; it produces no results.

Life is like a ten speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use.

A man is a hero not because he is braver than anyone else, but because he is brave forten minutes longer.--

Can I afford it?¨ Do I really need it?¨ If I have it, will it give me peace of mind?

TO AVOID GREED…ASK URSELFTO AVOID GREED…ASK URSELF

Faith without action is delusion. Faith does not wait for miracles but produces them. Ifyou think you can or if you think you can't, you are right.--

PEOPLEPEOPLE

People who make things happen ¨ People who watch things happen ¨ People who wonder what happened

Change is nature's law

Laws of Attraction

Everyone has a will to win but very few have the will to prepare to win

Preparation means tolerating failure but never accepting it

PREPARATIONPREPARATION

admit it quickly ¨ not dwell on it ¨ learn from it ¨ not repeat it ¨ not assign blame or make excuses

LUCK FAVORS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES

A CRASH COURSE FOR SUCCESS

¨ Play to win and not to lose. ¨ Learn from other people's mistakes. ¨ Associate with people of high moral

character. ¨ Give more than you get. ¨ Don't look for something for nothing. ¨ Always think long term. ¨ Evaluate your strengths and build on

them. ¨ Always keep the larger picture in mind

when making a decision. ¨ Never compromise your integrity.

Inspiration is changing thinking

motivation is changing action

A few steps to motivate others

Give recognition ¨ Give respect ¨ Make work interesting ¨ Be a good listener ¨ Throw a challenge ¨ Help but don't do for others what

they should do for themselves

ACTION PLAN 1. Develop a sense of pride through training. 2. Reward performance. 3. Set well-defined, clear goals. 4. Set high expectations. 4. Set clear, measurable benchmarks. Evaluate

the needs of others. 7. Make others part of your big picture. Set a

good example by being a positive role model. Build the self-esteem of others.

High Self-Esteem Low Self-Esteem Talk about ideas Talk about people Caring attitude Critical attitude Humility Arrogance Respects authority Rebels against authority Courage of conviction Goes along to get along Confidence Confusion Concerned about character Concerned about reputation Assertive Aggressive Accepts responsibility Blames the whole world Self-interest Selfish Optimistic Fatalistic Understanding Greedy

Solitude Lonely Discuss Argue Believes in self-worth Believes in net worth only Guided Misguided Discipline Distorted sense of freedom Internally driven Externally driven Respects others Looks down on others Enjoys decency Enjoys vulgarity Knows limit Everything goes Giver Willing to learn Know it all Sensitive Touchy

Positive Self-Esteem

self-respect 2. self-confidence 3. self-worth 4. self-acceptance 5. self-love 6. self-knowledge 7. self-discipline

Discipline is not something you do to but you do for those you care about

Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired but controlling the desire

Become Internally Driven, Not Externally Driven

No one can make you feel inferior without your permission

TO AVOID TENSIONTO AVOID TENSION

Why did I get upset? ¨ Why am I angry? ¨ Why am I depressed?

Develop a Mindset That Brings Happiness

StepsSteps Look for the positive in every person and in every

situation. ¨ Resolve to be happy. ¨ Set your own standards judiciously. ¨ Develop an immunity to negative criticism. ¨ Learn to find pleasure in every little thing. ¨ Remember all times are not the same. Ups and

downs are part of life. ¨ Make the best of every situation. ¨ Keep yourself constructively occupied. ¨ Help others less fortunate than yourself. ¨ Learn to get over things. Don't brood. ¨ Forgive yourself and others. Don't hold guilt or

bear grudges

Give Yourself Positive Auto-Suggestions

AttitudeAttitude

I can handle it. ¨ I can do it. ¨ I am good at SPEAKING. ¨ I have a good memory

I will pay more for the ability to deal with people than for any other ability under the sun.

LIFE IS AN ECHO

WE SEE THINGS NOT THE WAY THEY ARE BUT THE WAY WE ARE

"When you are good to others, you are best to yourself."

AVOID PHRASESAVOID PHRASES

everyone else does it, ¨ or no one does it, or ¨ it is all your fault.

Talk less; say more

a wise man thinks before speaking

Don't Criticize and Complain

Smile and Be Kind

A smile costs nothing, but it creates much.

Put Positive Interpretation on Other People's Behavior

"They never cared toreturn my call" or "They ignored me." That is negative. Maybe:¨ they tried, but couldn't get through¨ they left the message we didn't get¨ they had an emergency¨ they never got the message

Be a Good Listener

Be Enthusiastic

Live while you are alive. Don't die before you are dead

ACCEPT UR MISTAKEACCEPT UR MISTAKE

It appears to me ... ¨ I may be wrong ... Why do you feel that way? ¨ Can you explain a little? ¨ Can you be more specific?

Don't Gossip

Forgive and Forget

When people tell lies, they lose credibility.¨ Once they have lost credibility, even when they tell the truth, no one believes them.

ACTIONS; SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

Be Understanding and Caring

Money will buy a great dog but only kindness will make him wag his tail.

Develop a Sense of Humor

Don't Be Sarcastic and Put Others Down

To Have a Friend, Be a Friend

True friendship. This is based on mutual respect and admiration

Show Empathy

Be a Better Person

Anything we do repeatedly becomes a habit. We learn by doing

By behavingcourageously, we learn courage

Good habits are hard to come by but easy to live with.

the kind of books we read;¨ the kind of movies and TV programs we watch;¨ the kind of music we listen to;¨ the kind of company we keep

THE GIGO PRINCIPLE:-

The computer phrase GIGO (garbage in, garbage out) is very sound.

Negativity in; negativity our. Positivity in; positivity out. Good in; good out.

DREAMSDREAMS

direction ¨ dedication ¨ determination ¨ discipline ¨ deadlines

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot beseen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

Money will buy:¨ Amusements but not happiness.¨ A bed but not sleep.¨ Books but not wisdom.¨ A clock but not more time.¨ Companions but not friends.¨ Finery but not beauty.¨ Food but not appetite.¨ A house but not a home.Medicine but not health.¨ A ring but not a marriage.

HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED?

IS YOUR LIFE WORTH SAVING

Study as if you were to live forever. Live as if you were to die tomorrow

WINNING IS AN EVENT; BEING A WINNER IS A SPIRIT

Many people know how to be successful . Very few know how to handle success

In fact, competitionmakes competitive people grow

You don't put in 100% but you put in 200%.

A person becomes good when he actually does goodrather than not doing wrong.

We need to dream beyond what is possible

VISION :-

winners don't do different things, they do things differently