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Rabbi’s Message Service Schedule Temple Emanu-El News Bulletin Ira L. Korinow, D.D., Rabbi Nancy J. LaFleur, Temple Administrator Mindy Harris, Cantorial Soloist Debra Levasseur, Religious School Director Affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism & the Synagogue Council of Massachusetts. A beneficiary of the Merrimack Valley Jewish Federation. ìà-åðîò úìéä÷ úåùãç ïåìò “He who loves Torah is never satiated.” — Midrash Rabbah Vol. LXXI No. 5 Iyar – Sivan 5773 dg May 2013 Friday, May 3 Candle Lighting 7:28 pm Tot Shabbat 6:00 pm Saturday, May 4 – Parashat Behar-Bechukotai Shabbat Morning Service 9:30 am Bar Mitzvah of Andrew Eisen Son of Amy & Edward Eisen Shabbat Shiur 12 noon Friday, May 10 Candle Lighting 7:36 pm Saturday, May 11 – Parashat Bamidbar Shabbat Morning Service 9:30 am Shabbat Shiur 12 noon Friday, May 17 Candle Lighting 7:43 pm Confirmation Service 7:00 pm Saturday, May 18 – Parashat Nasso Shabbat Morning Service 9:30 am Bar Mitzvah of Ethan Gofstein Son of Rona & Mark Gofstein Shabbat Shiur 12 noon Friday, May 24 Candle Lighting 7:50 pm Saturday, May 25 – Parashat Be’ha-alotcha Shabbat Morning Service 9:30 am Israel Chavurah 12 noon Friday, May 31 Candle Lighting 7:57 pm Membership Recognition and Installation Service 7:00 pm May, June & July birthday blessings will be given Saturday, June 1 – Parashat Shelach Shabbat Morning Service 9:30 am Shabbat Shiur 12 noon Dear Chaverim, Each academic year ends with the Confirmation Service. The Confir- mation of the 9th grade students is the highlight and raison d’être of the service. But what exactly is “Confirmation?” Confirmation was begun by the early leaders of Reform Judaism in the 19th century. In fact, Re- form Judaism in its genesis had abolished Bar Mitzvah because it was for boys only. The early reformers created Confirmation as a way to bring an egalitarian life-cycle event into the Jewish cycle of life which would recog- nize the entrance into adulthood of both young men and young women. They saw how the Jewish calendar fits so well into the academic calendar of the year as observed by most aca- demic institutions. Simchat Torah, the day on which we consecrate our new students into Jewish education oc- curs in the Fall, anytime from late September to the mid- dle of October. Shavuot, which celebrates our receiving the Torah at Mount Sinai and falls in the late spring, was the natural time to mark this new life-cycle event called Confirmation. Confirmation is not meant to be the end of Jewish edu- cation but rather an important milestone. I think of Con- firmation as the time on which our young people confirm what they had affirmed a couple of years earlier at their Bar/Bat Mitzvah, i.e. that they are ready to continue to live a life of Jewish values and rituals; a life which is guid- ed by the mitzvot, the commandments and the teachings of the Torah. Just as our ancestors willingly received the Torah at Mount Sinai, the Confirmands are willingly ac- Shavuot Service Schedule Wednesday, May 15 Shavuot Morning Service 9:30 am Thursday, May 16 Shavuot Morning Service (includes Yizkor) 9:30 am Rabbi’s Message continued on page 2

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Rabbi’s Message Service Schedule

Temple Emanu-ElNews Bulletin

Ira L. Korinow, D.D., Rabbi Nancy J. LaFleur, Temple AdministratorMindy Harris, Cantorial Soloist Debra Levasseur, Religious School Director

Affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism & the Synagogue Council of

Massachusetts. A beneficiary of the Merrimack Valley Jewish Federation.

ìà-åðîò úìéä÷úåùãç ï åìò

“He who loves Torah is never satiated.”

— Midrash Rabbah

Vol. LXXI No. 5 Iyar – Sivan 5773 dg May 2013

Friday, May 3Candle Lighting 7:28 pmTot Shabbat 6:00 pm

Saturday, May 4 – Parashat Behar-BechukotaiShabbat Morning Service 9:30 am

Bar Mitzvah of Andrew Eisen Son of Amy & Edward Eisen

Shabbat Shiur 12 noon

Friday, May 10Candle Lighting 7:36 pm

Saturday, May 11 – Parashat BamidbarShabbat Morning Service 9:30 amShabbat Shiur 12 noon

Friday, May 17Candle Lighting 7:43 pmConfirmation Service 7:00 pm

Saturday, May 18 – Parashat NassoShabbat Morning Service 9:30 am

Bar Mitzvah of Ethan Gofstein Son of Rona & Mark Gofstein

Shabbat Shiur 12 noon

Friday, May 24Candle Lighting 7:50 pm

Saturday, May 25 – Parashat Be’ha-alotchaShabbat Morning Service 9:30 amIsrael Chavurah 12 noon

Friday, May 31Candle Lighting 7:57 pmMembership Recognition and Installation Service 7:00 pm

May, June & July birthday blessings will be given

Saturday, June 1 – Parashat ShelachShabbat Morning Service 9:30 amShabbat Shiur 12 noon

Dear Chaverim,Each academic year ends with the Confirmation Service. The Confir-mation of the 9th grade students is the highlight and raison d’être of the service. But what exactly is “Confirmation?”Confirmation was begun by the early leaders of Reform Judaism in the 19th century. In fact, Re-

form Judaism in its genesis had abolished Bar Mitzvah because it was for boys only. The early reformers created Confirmation as a way to bring an egalitarian life-cycle event into the Jewish cycle of life which would recog-nize the entrance into adulthood of both young men and young women.They saw how the Jewish calendar fits so well into the academic calendar of the year as observed by most aca-demic institutions. Simchat Torah, the day on which we consecrate our new students into Jewish education oc-curs in the Fall, anytime from late September to the mid-dle of October. Shavuot, which celebrates our receiving the Torah at Mount Sinai and falls in the late spring, was the natural time to mark this new life-cycle event called Confirmation.Confirmation is not meant to be the end of Jewish edu-cation but rather an important milestone. I think of Con-firmation as the time on which our young people confirm what they had affirmed a couple of years earlier at their Bar/Bat Mitzvah, i.e. that they are ready to continue to live a life of Jewish values and rituals; a life which is guid-ed by the mitzvot, the commandments and the teachings of the Torah. Just as our ancestors willingly received the Torah at Mount Sinai, the Confirmands are willingly ac-

Shavuot Service ScheduleWednesday, May 15Shavuot Morning Service 9:30 amThursday, May 16Shavuot Morning Service (includes Yizkor) 9:30 am

Rabbi’s Message continued on page 2

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Community NewsSPeedy recovery

Bonnie ColtinMazal Tov

Barbara and Robert Berman on the birth of their granddaugh-ter, Abigail Rebecca Hanson. Proud parents are Rachel and

John HansonJacqueline Berman on the marriage of her daughter,

Simmie to Andrew LeachRonnie Cohen, on her granddaughter, Meredith Baker, daugh-

ter of Dr. Christopher and Robin Baker, graduating with honors from University of Cincinnati Medical School,

Meredith will be a resident at the Beth Israel Hospital in general surgery

Sandra Kassin Deardorff & Andy Deardorff on their son Alex receiving his commission in Military Intelligence from the U.S. Army and on his graduation from Fordham with a Bachelor’s

in Middle Eastern Studies and Political Science Rita & Jonathan Harris, on the marriage of their son,

Alexander to Johanna SchweitzerShirley Holber on her special birthday

Ann & Michael Jacobson, on their son, Ramie graduating from University of Pennsylvania with a double

major in Communications and ItalianJane Rosenston on her special birthday

Barbra Forman Salladay & John Salladay on their daughter, Laurel graduating from Ithaca College, Laurel will

be continuing her studies at Ithaca College towards her Doctorate in Physical Therapy

coNdoleNceSSusan Hantman, on the death of her father,

Phillip Chapman

oNeg/KidduSh SPoNSorSApril 5 Members and Parents of Grade 7April 12 Parents of HEFTYApril 13 Michele Howard, in memory of her father,

Michael RosenbaumApril 27 Janet Kopel

Rabbi’s Message continued from page 1

cepting this important responsibility to perpetuate Juda-ism and Jewish living in the future.So where does Bat Mitzvah come from? The early re-formers did not think of making Bar Mitzvah egalitarian and hence they began Confirmation for that reason. Bat Mitzvah was actually begun in the Conservative move-ment when Rabbi Mordecai Kaplan, a Conservative Rab-bi who began the Reconstructionist Movement, called his daughter, Judith, to the Torah at the age of 12 back in 1922. Bat Mitzvah was gradually adopted first by the Conservative Movement in the middle of the 20th cen-tury, followed by the Reform Movement (which had re-introduced Bar Mitzvah in the early 1900’s) adopting the practice as well.Today, Confirmation, marking a milestone in Jewish edu-cation, is a common practice in Reform, Conservative, Reconstructionist and even some Orthodox synagogues. The ritual of Bat Mitzvah for girls is commonly practiced by all the movements as well. However, what the girl does for her Bat Mitzvah differs between the Orthodox and the non-Orthodox movements.At Temple Emanu-El, the custom of recognizing a mem-ber who has contributed tirelessly to our congregation as “Volunteer of the Year” has been a practice here for over a couple of decades. I am pleased to announce that this year’s “Volunteer of the Year” is Sharyn Russell. A geri-atric social worker by profession, Sharyn helped begin the Temple Emanu-El Chesed Committee several years ago. Through her commitment to having our congrega-tion truly be a welcoming one to all, she has guided the Chesed Committee to be a vital resource for those in need. Providing rides to those no longer able to drive, creating and delivering packages of holiday goodies to the homebound members of Temple Emanu-El and pro-viding resource materials for life’s challenges through the display of helpful Lifelight pamphlets inside the Brindis Entrance on 10th Avenue are just some of the important activities in which the Chesed Committee has been en-gaged and by which it has communicated that we are a caring community.Please join us for the 72nd Annual Confirmation Service on Friday, May 17th at 7:00 pm when we wish a hearty Mazal Tov to the 9 members of the 2013 Confirmation Class and again on Friday, May 31st at 7:00 pm for our Annual Membership Recognition Service when we say Yasher Koach in honoring Sharyn Russell as our “Volun-teer of the Year.”

L’shalom, Rabbi Ira

Todah Rabah! Thank You to: CAn anonymous donation towards the Accompanist for the Yom Ha Shoah ServiceNancy Rubenstein, on her donation toward the Yom Ha Shoah Accompanist

Annual MeetingSunday, May 5, 2013, 9:30 am

Election of OfficersBoard Reports addressed at this meeting:

Rabbi Religious School Director President Reports read from Temple Administrator Committee Chairs Treasurer

This is your chance to come and listen to everything that is hap-pening at Temple, and to offer your comments as to what we did correctly and what we need to improve.

Voice your opinion and vote on new officers and Board Members

A light breakfast will be served

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May is an exciting month here at Temple Emanu-El with much to celebrate.On May 5th, 9:30am we will hold our Annual Meeting to elect new Board Members and review the year. It is very important that as many Members as possible at-tend.

On May 17th, we will have our Confi rmation Service. We will also wish our High School students the best of luck as they graduate and head off to new future studies and new adventures. This service also rewards our Religious School students for their hard work all year: they will re-ceive their Religious School Awards. I encourage every-one to attend this very important service to honor our children.On May 31st, we will have our Installation of offi cers and Volunteer of the Year Service where we will award this year’s recipient: Sharyn russell, chesed committee chair. Sharyn has tirelessly led this new and very active Committee which explores ways in which we may pro-vide comfort and support to each other in times of need, as we face life cycle events. A few of the services they provide are: helping to organize food and minyans for Shiva, rides to Temple events/services and holiday food deliveries to the home-bound. Please join me as we in-stall our New Board Members and celebrate with Sharyn the success of her committee.As always, please feel free to contact me with any ques-tions/comments.

Best regards,Lynn Dreyfuss Martin

President's Message Temple Emanu-El PicnicFor all Ages at:

Camp Tel Noar(Route 121 in Hampstead, NH)

Sunday, June 9, 2013 12:00 – 4:00 pm

The Temple will provide: Hot dogs and hamburgers

What can you bring?:Salads, Drinks, Pareve (non-dairy) Desserts

And for fun, bring:Bathing Suits, (there will be a camp bunk open in which to change), Blankets, Beach Chairs, Boats,

Canoes, Kayaks, Sports Equipment

Please RSVP by June 3, 2013 to Nancy (978-373-3861)

or e-mail: [email protected]

Sponsored by the Membership Committee of Temple Emanu-El

chesed committee announces the launch of Lotsa Helping HandsAs announced during the High Holiday services, there are times when there is a need for help in our Temple com-munity.Temple Emanu-El through its Chesed Committee is launching a new program called Lotsa Helping Hands that will enable all of us to lend a helping hand. Even beyond helping others with serious needs, there are many times to communicate, to ask for and give help in ordinary community relations. Be part of a group that can occasionally offer help at a special minyan or lend a hand with a special project.An important letter from the Rabbi will be coming soon on how to help and how to log into LotsaHelpingHands through our Temple website. All that we ask is that you sign in (no obligation is incurred on signing in) and become part of our caring Temple community. For more information regarding Lotsa Helping Hands, please contact: Chesed Committee member Fred Feldman, [email protected] or 603-580-5779. Or Chesed Committee Chair, Sharyn Russell, [email protected] you have a Chesed need or interesting project with which you want help, please let Rabbi Korinow know at [email protected].

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HEFTY NewsOur last Hefty event was at the Jew-

ish Film Festival in Concord, New Hamp-shire. We learned about the Jewish infl uences in

the show, “The Simpsons.” It was a sold out movie and very fun. Last month’s Creative Service was based on our theme, “Jews in Entertainment.” HEFTY ran a wonderful Shabbat evening service. I would like to personally thank all of HEFTY for their participation in the service.Our next event is a trip to Wasabi Restaurant, a hiba-chi grill in Salem, NH. We will be meeting at Wasabi at 6:30pm on May 11th. Lastly, our closing event is the end-of-year barbeque. We traditionally end the year with a time to cement all of the friendships we have made over the year. This is also when the 2013-2014 Executive Board is voted in by the membership. After the barbeque is the Old Board/New Board meeting. Information and tips that have been learned are passed on to their re-spective successors. Hope that most Heftyites are able to attend the fi nal 2 events for the year.

Ben ShalekHEFTY Programming

& Communications

creative ServiceHighlights

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What a wonderful time we had at the 2013 Spring Basket Auction! The room looked beautiful, bas-kets and silent auction items were set and ready to go and the food was delicious. I am happy to an-nounce we raised $2500 for our family education programs for you and your children. A special thank you to our committee co-chairs –

Marie Katzen and Lisa Desberg who worked so hard to make this event a success. Thank you also to our “MC and Auctioneer extraordinaire”, Rabbi Korinow who, with his charmingly persuasive techniques made sure we raised as much as possible for each basket. Thanks to Alan Katzen and Eric Tracy for manning the registration table, selling tickets for the 50-50 raffl e (congratulations to Jackie Berman our raffl e winner) and for coordinating and collecting the money for the items purchased. Thank you to all who donated and purchased baskets and silent auction items to benefi t the Adeline B. Watnick Religious School Children’s Fund. Thank you to Emily’s Bakery in Haverhill (Building 19 Plaza) who donated the very deli-cious cheesecake deserts. When you go to Emily’s for your challah or other baked goods, please let them know you are from Temple Emanu-El. If you haven’t been to Emily’s – it’s worth the trip.May is here and that means the end of this religious school year. Wasn’t it just yesterday when classes be-gan? As I write this article we are looking forward to our fi rst Lag B’Omer celebration with outdoor games (weath-er permitting) and a picnic snack. Each participant will receive a “medal” for participation. This should be fun for everyone!Please join us for the very beautiful and moving Confi r-mation Service on May 17, 7:00pm. This service will also include graduation for our 12th graders and Religious School Awards will be presented. I look forward to seeing you at Confi rmation.

Morah Devorah

Religious School

Sisterhood Cooks Mitch’s Placeand Community Meals

Our wonderful cooks for Mitch’s Place for the month of April were:

rita harris, claire Koffman, zach Koffman, and amy Sherr

Thank you all for this wonderful mitzvah we continue to need volunteers and anyone able to help is greatly appreciated.

Marilyn [email protected]

Sisterhood Gift Shopgiftshop hours:

Sundays from 11am – 12 noonor by appointment

NeW Programs, NeW opportunities

Chesed CommitteeIn today’s world, many of us seem to be pressured by time – having enough time for work, for family, for friends, for ourselves. It has been my greatest pleasure to work with Chesed volunteers who also fi nd time for others – time to bake hamantashen, time to deliver a holiday food package, time to make a friendly phone call, time to put a few extra items in your food cart to deliver to some-one experiencing a medical crisis, or time to help set up a home for a shiva meal. Most of these mitzvot can be done in less than an hour. I do hope that all of you will consider offering to lend a helping hand when you have the opportunity to sign up for LotsaHelpingHands over the coming months. Fred Feldman is making it painless and simple to sign on, and learn how you too can make a difference to someone by volunteering even an hour once in a while. “The gift is in the giving.”

Sharyn RussellChairperson

Temple emanu-el in haverhill, Ma

J o i n u s o n :

Welcome New MembersLarry & Sherry Cann

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DONATE A CAR!!

Looking for a new tax deduction? Got an old clunker you want off your hands? Want to help the Temple? Did you know that you can donate your car to the Temple? It is quick and easy. They will even come and get it, so you do not have to bring it anywhere. It’s a win-win situation for everyone! Here’s why: You don’t have to worry about selling your car

and having the buyer invoke the Lemon Law The car does not even have to be running They will come to your house and take it right out of your driveway You get a tax deduction for the full amount of

selling the car You make a donation to the Temple that

doesn’t cost you any of your own money You get an IRS form 1098 listing the Temple

as the recipient, that you use for your tax de-duction

What could be easier? You get rid of a car that you don’t want anyway, and the Temple gets a donation.If you are interested, call the Temple to help you through the process. Or, better yet, call me, and I will personally help you make the donation.

Kevin Miller, (603) 893-5421uPdaTe: The Temple just received their fi rst

check for over $1700 on only 1 car donation!!!

Collecting Labels to support Religious School

The PTO is collecting labels in order to purchase special educational materials for your children.Check your cans and boxes and please drop the labels off at the Temple offi ce or Religious School offi ce.

Thanks for your support!

The Temple is recycling phones and print cartridges. Please drop

them off at the Temple offi ce or Religious School offi ce.

Thank you for recycling

Fu n d r a i s i n g at Te mp l e E m a n u-E lScrip Comes to Temple Emanu-El!Shop with Scrip is an easy way to support Temple Emanu-El. Sim-ply purchase gift cards (or “scrip”) for places where you plan to shop, and use those cards instead of cash or credit. The Temple purchases the gift cards at a discount and sells them at full face value; you use them at full face value at your favorite retailers. The beauty is that you put your regular shopping dollars to work. You earn money for the Temple without spending a single additional penny. Keep cards for Shaw’s, Kohl’s, Starbucks, Target, CVS, Dunkin’ Donuts and many other retailers in your pocket to use just like cash. Scrip can be used for all your household purchases: groceries, clothes, household supplies, gasoline, entertainment, dining, and gifts, to name just a few.Our fi rst three orders, though small, were quite successful. As we increase our participation, this has the potential to be a great fund-raiser for the Temple.

Now that we have several orders behind us and are more familiar with the process, we are moving to a regular sched-ule. Orders will be collected and submitted on the 10th of each month (or the next business day if the Temple offi ce is closed). For inclusion in our next order, forms and payments should be submit-ted to the offi ce no later than May 10, 2013.Our Scrip vendor is continually adding new retailers. We’ll use this space, as well as reminder emails, to let you know when new gift cards are available.Order forms and additional information are available on the wall outside the Temple offi ce, in the library, and on our website at www.TempleEmanu-El.org/fundraising. You may also order scrip online at www.shopwithscrip.com. If you have any questions, please contact Paula Breger at:978.373.8846 or [email protected].

amazon.com fundraiserDid you know that the Temple earns a percentage of

every purchase made at amazon.com?how To order:

1. Visit www.templeemanu-el.org (don’t forget the dash!)

2. Click on Fundraising tab and scroll down to:

3. Order online as usualIf you would like help, please ask Paula

in HaSifriyah for assistance.

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Claire Ayala Breger-Belsky Alyssa Jaime Helman Wise Huston Chabot Chloé Jean Isabelle-Alper Shaina Nicole Gilks Evan Hans Larsen Noam Seth Hantman Emilee Ryann Nathan

Zachariah Abraham Bouchard Shalek

Temple Emanu-Elcordially invites you to attend

The Seventy Second Annual ConfirmationFriday, May 17, 2013 • 7:00 P.M.

Service includes High School Graduation:

Religious School Awards will be givenA Festive Oneg will follow in the Winer Auditorium

Isabel Frances Allen Maxwell Mateo Koffman

Annual Membership Recognition and Installation Service

Friday, May 31, 2013 • 7:00 pm

honoring

Volunteer of the Year

Sharyn Russelland Members of Elijah’s Table, Tzadikim and Amoodim

for their generous contribution to Temple Emanu-El

Installation of new Officers and Members of the Board of DirectorsJune, July & August birthday blessings will be given

A Festive Oneg Shabbat Will Follow the Service

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Adult EducationPresents

While the history of Jewish communities in Europe is well known to many American Jews, there are many Jewish communities in the world that are little known to us.The Adult Education Committee invites you to attend a program on The Jews of Cuba.Laurie Tishler Mindlin, Director of the Merrimack Valley Jewish Federation went on a Mission to Jewish Cuba along with 25 other Directors of small Jewish Federations from across the US this past February. She returned filled with enthusiasm after observing and enjoying the Jewish community’s history and resurgence of Jewish life. They visited the sites of Jewish Havana and met with a host of committed Jewish leaders who are reviving and rebuilding Kehillot after 40 years of “anti-religion” communist rule. They learned about their challenges and opportunities, what the American Jewish commu-nity has done to help out, and how we, in the Merrimack Valley, might be a part of their future. They were changed by this experience and would like to share it with you.

This is a real opportunity to learn about Jewish history and experi-ence outside the diaspora that we’re familiar with.As always, a breakfast will be served at 9:30 am and the pro-gram will start at 10 am.Please RSVP to Nancy 978-373-3861 or [email protected] for planning purposes although “drop-ins” are always welcome.

Sunday, May 19 • 9:30amBorn Again: The Jews of Cuba

“Night Words” Airing May1st

Haverhill Public TV, Channel 22 will air “Night Words – A Midrash on the Holocaust,” on Wednesday, May 1, 8pm

The play was presented by Temple Emanu-El as a special Yom HaShoah Commemoration at Cascia Hall on the campus of Merrimack College.

• Donatenotionsandlotions.DropoffattheTempleofficeorReligiousSchooloffice.TemplewilldelivertotheFamilyShelterofEmmausHouse.

• SponsoranOnegorKiddush,calltheofficetoschedule

• InsteadoforderingflowersforyourSimcha,makegiftbasketsofhygieneitems,towelsandsheetsornon-perishablefoodtodonatetoahomelessshelter

• JoinaTempleCommittee.Seecommitteelist,page14

A Mitzvah a Day Keeps the Frown at Bay!

Have you done a Mitzvah today?

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Israel ChavurahThe Discussion ContinuesSaturday,May 25at 12 noon

The Israel Chavurah meets once a month on Saturday as that week’s Shabbat Shiur (Bible Study Class). Each session begins with a kiddush/luncheon following the Shabbat morning service. Join with other members of the community to help develop a bet-ter understanding of the issues concerning Israel and the Middle East.

Save the following dates, too: Saturdays, June 15 & July 27, 2013

May Shabbat Services

Tot ShabbatFriday, May 3 • 6:00 pm

Confi rmation Service Friday, May 17 • 6:00 pm

Membership Recognition and Installation Service May, June & July birthday blessings will be given

Friday, May 31 • 7:00 pmBookNotes &As I announced recently, we in HaSifriyah are in the midst of plans to upgrade our cataloguing and circulation sys-tem. our current library software is obsolete and no longer supported by the developer, thereby placing our data at risk in the event of a hardware crash. our hope is to obtain donations of approximately $1500 to allow us to purchase new software and a new computer. One of my priorities for the new cataloguing software is to fi nd a package that will allow members of Temple Emanu-El to search our database online. If you are able to assist us by making a donation for this up-grade, please contact Nancy in the offi ce.Our book group met once again last month to discuss Once We Were Brothers, by Richard Balson. Part legal thriller, part historical fi ction, Once We Were Brothers travels from Nazi-occupied Poland to present-day Chi-cago, exploring themes of identity, family and betrayal. Thanks to everyone who participated! We’ll be taking a break for the summer and will meet again on Sunday, September 29th. Watch your email for an announcement of the title to be discussed.recent acquisitions in haSifriyah include:The Band’s Visit (DVD)Lebanon (DVD)The Forgotten Refugees (DVD)I Have Never Forgotten You (DVD)My Dictionary: Hebrew-English Illustrated Dictionary for ChildrenYiddish with Dick and Jane, by Ellis Weiner and Barbara Davilman

As always, I’d like to thank everyone for continuing to support our fundraising efforts through the Amazon.com Associates Program. All funds are used to acquire books, magazines, music, videos and supplies for the library. This is a year-round program, so please keep the link handy or access it from the website:

www.templeemanu-el.org/hasifriyahlibrary and tell your friends and family.

Paula Breger, Librarian

Do you like to sing?

Join the Temple Emanu-El ChoirAll adults and teens over the age of 13

are invited to participate.

For more information, or to sign up, please contact:

Mindy Harris 310-663-0054 or [email protected].

The choir participates in the High Holy Day Services and other ser-vices throughout the year.

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Federation Upcoming Events

Honor your Mother and your FatherThe Torah tells us that we must always honor our parents. Our Jewish tradition extends that law to say that we must honor all our loved ones, and remember them in death. There is no better way to remember and honor the memory of your departed family members than to have a Memorial Yahrzeit Plaque on the wall of the Temple sanctuary.

You have seen the plaques on the wall of the sanctuary. Each week, the plaques belonging to our beloved departed, whose Yahrzeit, or anniversary of death, is that week, are lighted. This is to recognize the anniversary of that person, and to give us an opportunity to lovingly honor the memory of that person, at least once every year. Also, three times per year, on Yizkor, all the plaques are lit to remember all the loved ones of our Temple.

The plaque contains the name of the deceased, both in English and Hebrew, as well as the date of the person’s death. The plaques are available whenever the sanctuary is open, so someone can always see the name and remember the loving memories of the departed family member. This is a loving way to remember a parent, spouse or child.

The cost of a memorial Yahrzeit plaque is a one-time cost of $250. This cost includes the engraving of the plaque, placing it on the wall, in alphabetical order, and having it lit on Yahrzeit and Yizkor to perpetuity. To purchase a plaque, contact Nancy or the Rabbi at the Temple, (978) 373-3861.

Jewish Film Festival 2013

Sunday, May 5, 20133:30 – 7:15 pm

Osgood Landing • 1580 Osgood StreetNorth Andover (South Entrance)

The other SonIn Hebrew, French and Arabic

with English subtitles.

hava Nagila (The Movie)“Fascinating! A fun and fanciful frolic.”

Call 978-688-0466 for informationPurchase tickets at www.mvjf.org

General Admission $18

Save the Date

A co-ed day camp for children ages 4-16 Captain’s Pond, Salem, NH

For more information, visit www.camphadar.org or questions call the Camp office at 978-688-0466

Quality Jewish Day Camping for an Affordable Price!

Camp Hadar

Camp Begins Monday, June 24, 2013

New for 2013~ Tuition Discounts up to 15% off, Dedicated Bus from NH for ALL 8 weeks of Camp, Israeli Dancing (Artist-in-residence), Jewish

Story-Telling (Artist-in-Residence)

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iSaBelle r. & BurToN J. alTer FuNdBetsy Kehoe, in loving memory of

her mother, Isabelle Alter on her yahrzeit

Brody FaMily FuNdPearl Shyavitz, in loving memory of

her mother and father, Beatrice & Abraham Gerber on their yahrzeit

coWaN FaMily coNTiNuiTy FuNdLarry & Janet Cowan, in loving

memory of his uncle, Malcolm Brown and in loving memory of Morris Burakoff

raBBi’S diScreTioNary FuNdStephanie Brooks, in honor of Hannah

Heifetz’s 89th birthdayFred Feldman, in memory of his

parents, Frieda and Mendel Feldman, Holocaust survivors

Sumner Kalman, wishing the Rabbi and Gail a chag sameach

Lee Greenberg, in appreciation of the Rabbi’s services at the funeral for his brother-in-law, Norman Bushner

Hedva and David Shikes, in memory of their parents, Rivka & Abraham Rose and Selma & Melvin Shikes, on their yahrzeits

david & leNa FiShBeiN FuNdSandy Channen, in loving memory of

her brother, Jerry Fishbein on his yahrzeit and in loving memory of Bernie Siller

eva & BeNJaMiN grad FuNdLucille Traister, in loving memory

of her mother, Eva Grad on her yahrzeit

JeWiSh coNTiNuiTyIn loving memory of Morris BurakoffCorinne Wyard and her sons, Michael

& Adam JosephsonMr. & Mrs. Ronald WeinfieldJoan & Jim KrasnooLillian BirnbaumGeoffrey LewisMitch & Judy Kroner, in honor of Rita

& Jonathan Harris on the birth of their grandson, Emerson Bourne Marr

Shirley & Samuel Yanku, in loving memory of Mariam Weisberg

alMa & george KliNeTSKy FaMily FuNdAlma Klinetsky, in honor of Shirley &

Samuel Yanku on the birth of their great grandson, Matthew Jacob Weintraub and wishing a speedy recovery to Bonnie Coltin

raBBi ira l. KoriNoW chariTy FuNdStephanie Brooks, in honor of Hannah

Heifetz on her birthdayMarilyn Berlin, in appreciation of

CHESED delivering Purim goodies Gwen & Steven Larsen Robert Levine M’chiret Chametz: Stuart Mandell Nora & Douglas Cannon Jay Roaf David & Pauline Fisher Amy & Michael Sherr Sandra Kassin Deardorff & Andrew Deardorff Ruth KletnickGerda Kalman, in loving memory of

those remembered at YiskorBeverly Sidel, in loving memory of

her husband, Norman Sidel on his yahrzeit and in loving memory of her father, Edward Gilman on his yahrzeit

MaNdell FaMily FuNdStuart Mandell, in loving memory of

his father-in-law, Benjamin Vinecour on his yahrzeit

PaSSover FuNdraiSerBrian & Anita AdlerAllen Alper & Cheryl Isabelle-AlperMelvin & Adele AshNorman Axler & Dr. Joan GitlinDavid & Dorothy BakerTheodore & Ellie BarattDavid Belsky & Paula BregerRobert Bender & Sandra VennerLaura BendetsonMargery BendetsonJoel & Barbara BergRobert & Barbara BermanJacqueline BermanGenia BrindisMichael & Kimberly CallanDouglas & Nora CannonRichard & Irene ChalekSandra Channen

Sheldon CohenJoyce CohenRonnie CohenLarry & Janet CowanRon Herskowitz & Fran EisenmanEvelyn FeinmanFred & Rhoda FeldmanJeffrey & Laura FliederBette Freedson (Amidon)Steven & Cindy GilksCharlotte GofsteinRussell GoldbaumEthel GoralnickNeal & Amy GordonVivian GordonDavid GordonBessie GradLee GreenbergNorma HalpernBarry & Susan HantmanHoward & Caren HantmanBenjamin & Elaine HartmanHannah HeifetzWilliam & Patricia HermanJeffrey & Debra HirschShirley HolberJoe Hull & Elizabeth RoseGerman & Arlene IosifLaurie JacobsMichael & Ann JacobsonGerda KalmanJesse & Siri Wilbur KamienStacy Karlin-SmithMitchell Kary & Sharon Kennedy KaryMarc KleinJay & Claire KoffmanJanet KopelMitchell & Judith KronerAndrew Lee & Heather Gadon LeeMindy LichtmanStuart MandellLynn MartinMerrill & Gloria MezikofskyKevin & Eunice MillerJudd & Martina NathanNorton & Karen NewbornRobert Portney & Stacey ChanningThomas & Andre RosebachEsther RosenRichard RosengardIrwin & Jane RosenstonNancy RubinsteinSharyn RussellStephen SallJoel & Sara Schwindt

PASSOVER FUNDRAISER continued on page 12

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PaSSover FuNdraiSer (coNTiNued) Brian & Essie ShumanSusan ShwomScott & Diane SzycherCarole TautLucille TraisterGary & Shirley TreffDorothy TyeJohn Wessler & Fredi Anne HurwitzMarilyn WinerDonald Chabot & Wendy WiseSamuel & Shirley YankuMitch & Trudy ZakinBuddy & Robin ZarembaHowie Zidel

MuSic FuNdCarole Taut, in appreciation of the

choir during the Yom Ha Shoah Service

JeroMe & SelMa roSeNgard FuNdHoward Ross, in loving memory of his

brother & Sister-in-Law, Jerome & Selma D. Rosengard

adeliNe B. WaTNicK religiouS School childreN’S FuNdGwen & Steven Larsen, in loving

memory of Elaine Mandell, mother of member, Debra Levasseur and in honor of the Religious School Staff

Heather Gadon Lee & Andrew Lee & family in loving memory of her grandparents, Rose & Morris Shultz on their yahrzeit

BerTha & Paul WilNer FuNdBessie Grad, in loving memory of her

sister, Ann Biberman on her yahrzeit

WiNdoWS To The FuTure caPiTal caMPaigNCarole Taut, in honor of Rhoda & Fred

Feldman on the Adult Ed Yom Ha Shoah Program, “Night Words”

iSadore & roSe WiSe FuNdJoseph Wise, in loving memory of his

grandfather, Isadore Wise on his yahrzeit and in loving memory of his father, Harry Wise on his yahrzeit

yahrzeiT FuNdJoel Hervitz, in loving memory of

his mother, Miriam Hervitz on her yahrzeit

Mildred Freedman, in loving memory of her husband, Herman Freedman on his yahrzeit

Pauline Fisher, in loving memory of her mother, Ella Garber on her yahrzeit

Anne Freedman, in loving memory of her brother, Sidney Klickstein on his yahrzeit

Ronald Weiss, in loving memory of his grandmother, Rose Douglas on her yahrzeit

Wendy Boswell, in loving memory of her grandmother, Eva Gorevitz on her yahrzeit

Karen Endler, in loving memory of her father, Nathan Berman on his yahrzeit

Fred Coltin, in loving memory of his father, Edwin Coltin on his yahrzeit

Ellyn Eder Murphy, in loving memory of her grandmother, Bernice Sternberger on her yahrzeit

Rhonda Spencer, in loving memory of her father, Moses Beden on his yahrzeit

Arthur Bloom, in loving memory of his father, Benjamin Bloom on his yahrzeit

Marc Klein, in loving memory of his mother, Miriam Klein on her yahrzeit

Merton Greenstein, in loving memory of his father, Philip Greenstein on his yahrzeit

Ira Korinow, in loving memory of his father, Maurice Korinow on his yahrzeit

Lillian Zeller, in loving memory of her brother, Michael Swartz on his yahrzeit

Have You Remembered Temple Emanu-El?A bequest to Temple Emanu-El is an excellent way of fulfi ll-ing the mitzvah of securing a future for our community. When preparing your will or when making changes, please remember the Temple. Your gift will provide for you and your loved ones a lasting way of supporting Jewish life in the greater Haverhill area.

For the sake of Jewish continuity, remember Temple Emanu-El!

Hospital VisitsRabbi Korinow visits the Merrimack Valley Hospital in Haverhill weekly or as needed.

The Rabbi wants to visit any member who is in a hospital. If you know that a member of Temple Emanu-El is hospital-ized in any hospital, please call the Rabbi to let him know.

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Trusts, Wills and BequestsIf you are interested in discussing gift and

naming opportunities, please call Larry Cowan at:

(978) 372-1451 (offi ce) or (978) 685-4535 (home)

or speak directly with Rabbi Korinow through the Temple offi ce. Thank you!

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May 4 24th of iyar

Linton BaulingAnne BendetsonFrances BoyleEli CaplanGus CohenNathan FieldSara Bella FrankelSadie GarfinkelAbraham GoldbergSophie GordonSadie GorodetskyRalph Max GrodbergVera GronnerFannie HarsfaldDora HartmanMiriam HervitzMinnie HodesRalph L. IsaacsEdward KaplanMiriam KleinLouis KremerDavid LabzofskyShirley LarksHarold MandellAlfred MildenEthel MyersIsaac PollackGeorge S. RalbyEgon SchwartzHansa SegalHarry ShafmasterKatie ShermanLillian SilvermanLillian SpackLouis SwartzIda TenenbaumBenjamin VinecourMilton Zidle

May 11 2nd of Sivan

Edward BassDora BayerMoses BedenBenjamin BloomBernard BrindisElliot CastenNorman N. CohenMaurice FreedmanSarolya FriedmanAlexander GofsteinFrank GoldmanGertrude GoralnickBeatrice GordonDr. Jacob GreensteinJack GrossmanLouis JacobowitzFreida KaufmanSadye KirshenbaumMorris KlinetskyIda LunenfeldMorris RalbyEdward SandlerAngelique SchuttMollie ScolnickFlorence SegalSelma ShikesRichard TornickHarry Waks

May 17 & 18 9th of Sivan

Moses AlmanJennie BellJoseph BlotnerLena BlusteinGoldie BrownsteinMax CheinsteinPhilip Cohen

Freda CohenMerle CowanShirley DarlingBessie FloydMax FriedmanBeatrice GerberEdward GilmanLouis GordettJack GorodetskyHannah HartmanJudith KaplanMina LeshinSheldon MerkerJulius PamisBessie RakofskyCurt Alan RattnerIda RicklessHarry L. RitterSidney RobbinsMildred SalovitchFrances SegalPhyllis SheldonNorman SidelPauline SnyderHarry S SnyderMildred SteinbergHyman StolzbergMichael SwartzJoseph TammannFrederick TornickLotte TreitelLouis VigmanSamuel Winer

May 25 16th of Sivan

Abraham AptekerLena BakermanWilliam BermanJulia Berman Cohen

Jesse BierClara CohenJeanette CoopersteinFanny DensenFrieda FeldmanMartin FogelFannie FoxAbraham GerberBernard GoldbergCelia GoldsteinRebecca GoodmanLawrence GotliebWilliam GreenbaumMyron GurardLillian HallHyman KabachnickLouis KaufmanFaye LeibermanGertrude LoewJerome RosengardLillian RubinJacob SidemanAbraham SilvermanRachel StolzbergMollie StolzbergMoses StreisfieldEdward TreshinskyElizabeth WaksCelia Zembler

May 31 & June 1 23rd of Sivan

Dora AlterMaida BailieSamuel BakerShirlee BellElmer BermanSamuel BernsteinAnne BibermanAnne Birnbach

Jacob BoorsteinZiporah BourkettHarry BrownFrieda BuckmanHarry CohenWolffe CohenJames EdelsteinSophie FleetDora GensonMax GlazerGertrude GoldbergEva GottesmanEva GradDavid GreenePhilip GreensteinFannie Levine

KantofskyBessie KarelitzMaurice KorinowBertha KremerHarry LunenfeldJames RabinovitzCharlotte M. RalbyElizabeth RobinAlbert SaronFreida SheldonSarah ShrenskerDavid ShufferLevi StolzbergEfim WeisbergHarry WiseIsadore Wise

The following names at yahrzeit will be read on Shabbat

If you are interested in talking about a potential gift to the Campaign as well as payment options, please call me at my office (978) 372-1451 or at home (978) 685-4535.

Thank you! Larry Cowan, Chair

Windows to the Future Campaign

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Members of the executive committeeLynn Martin President 603-382-8771David Belsky 1st V.P. 978-363-8846Larry Jacobs 2nd V.P. 603-458-1884Judd Nathan Secretary 603-362-6293Larry Cowan Treasurer 978-685-4535Kevin Miller Assistant Treasurer 603-893-5421Loren Goldstein Past President 603-373-7494Stuart Mandell Life President 978-372-3514

Temple committeesAdult Ed Rhoda/Fred Feldman 603-580-5779Budget Larry Jacobs 603-458-1884Brotherhood Jay Koffman 978-521-5148Chesed Sharyn Russell 978-372-5777Communications Director Fred Feldman 603-580-5779Dues Larry Jacobs 603-458-1884Fundraising TBD HaSifriyah (Library) Paula Breger 978-363-8846House Loren Goldstein 978-373-7494Membership Outreach Eric Jacobs 603-329-4441PTO TBD Religious Practice Kevin Miller 603-893-5421Religious School Rita Harris 978-352-6842Renovations Kevin Miller 603-893-5421Security David Belsky 978-363-8846Sisterhood TBDSocial TBD Social Action TBD Trusts/Wills/Bequests Larry Cowan 978-372-1451Windows to the Future Larry Cowan 978-372-1451Youth Trudy Zakin 978-475-8170

Members of the Board of directorsJackie Berman 2014 978-521-0903Nora Cannon 2013 978-352-6334Sandy Channen 2015 978-374-0813Fred Feldman 2014 603-580-5779Rhoda Feldman 2014 603-580-5779Eric Jacobs 2013 603-329-4441Jesse Kamien 2013 603-898-6630Jay Koffman 2013 978-521-5148Mark Messinger 2015 978-374-0700Eunice Miller 2015 603-893-5421Harriet Peick 2014 978-689-4517Barbra Forman Salladay 2014 603-329-5359Paul Shalek 2014 603-382-5487Vincent Van Der Linden 2015 978-609-8044Pat Whitman (z”l) 2015 603-362-4258Doug Zimon 2015 603-382-5329

Temple administrationRabbi Ira Korinow, [email protected] Levasseur, Religious School Director, [email protected] J. LaFleur, Temple Administrator, [email protected] Harris, Cantorial Soloist, [email protected] Giannopoulous, Bookkeeper, [email protected] Hill, Religious School Administrative Assistant, [email protected]

Temple emanu-el514 Main Street, Haverhill, MA 01830 • E-mail: [email protected]: 978-373-3861 Fax: 978-373-7995 • www.TempleEmanu-El.org

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May 2013 – Iyar / Sivan 5773

Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday1 21st of Iyar

Religious School 4-6pm

Choir 7:00pm

2 22nd of Iyar 3 23rd of Iyar

Tot Shabbat Service7:00pm

4 24th of IyarParashat Behar-

BechukotaiShabbat Morning Service 9:30amBar Mitzvah of Andrew EisenShabbat Shiur

12noon5 25th of Iyar

Last Day ofReligious School

4-6pmHEFTY 1:00pm

Annual Mtg 9:30am

6 26th of Iyar

High School6-8pm

7 27th of Iyar 8 28th of Iyar

Last Day ofReligious School

4-6pmChesed Mtg 7:00pm

Choir 7:00pm

9 29th of Iyar 10 1st of SivanRosh Chodesh Sivan

11 2nd of SivanParashat Bamidbar

Shabbat Morning Service 9:30am

Shabbat Shiur12noon

HEFTY Event6:30pm

12 3rd of Sivan 13 4th of Sivan

Last Day ofHigh School

6-8pm

Religious School Committee Mtg

7:30pm

14 5th of Sivan

Erev Shavuot

15 6th of Sivan

Shavuot Day 1Service 9:30am

Offi ce ClosedChoir 7:00pm

16 7th of Sivan

Shavuot Day 2Service 9:30am(includes Yizkor)

Offi ce Closed

17 8th of Sivan

Confi rmation Service7:00pm

18 9th of SivanParashat Nasso

Shabbat Morning Service 9:30am

Bar Mitzvah of Ethan Gofstein

Shabbat Shiur12noon

19 10th of Sivan

Adult Ed9:30am

HEFTY BBQ4:00pm Offsite

20 11th of Sivan 21 12th of Sivan 22 13th of Sivan 23 14th of Sivan 24 15th of Sivan 25 16th of SivanParashat Be’ha-

alotchaShabbat Morning Service 9:30amIsrael Chavurah

12noon

26 17th of Sivan 27 18th of Sivan

Memorial Day

Offi ce Closed

28 19th of Sivan 29 20th of Sivan 30 21st of Sivan 31 22nd of Sivan

MembershipRecognition and

Installation Service 7:00pm

7:50pm

7:36pm

7:43pm

7:28pm

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Temple Emanu-El 514 Main Street Haverhill, MA 01830

Tzadikim Elijah’s Table AmoodimWhen you become a member of either Tzadikim, Elijah’s Table or Amoodim, you are doing an act of loving kindness by helping one of the families in our community who cannot afford to pay full dues.

Tzadikim 5773:Members who contribute $475 over the $1900 Family Membership Full Dues or $238 over the $950 Single Membership Full Dues.

Anonymous Ronnie Cohen Alma KlinetskyLaura Bendetson Marilyn & Mike Goldberg Howard PaulMargery Bendetson Caren & Howard Hantman Gina & Robert Vega

Elijah’s Table 5773:Members who contribute $950 over the $1900 Family Membership Full Dues or $475 over the $950 Single Membership Full Dues.Janet & Larry Cowan Patricia & Bill Herman Essie & Brian ShumanAnonymous Janet Kopel David Watnick

Amoodim 5773:Members who contribute $1900 over the $1900 Family Membership Full Dues or $950 over the $950 Single Membership Full Dues.Stuart Mandell Mattie & David Paul Stephen SallLeona Paul Nancy Paul