Leaving Positive Impression

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<ul><li> LeavingPositive Impression (DoesBodylanguagematter?) </li> <li> YesBodylanguagematter </li> <li> Researchhasactuallyproventhat Research has actually proven that confidentpeople,thosewhosmile oftenandthosewhomaintain aboveaverageeyecontactare usuallyperceivedtobemore attractivethantheirpeers. </li> <li> Ifyousucceededinleavinga If you succeeded in leaving a positiveimpressionyourchanceof g gettingajobwillbecomehigher, g j g yoursocialrelationswillimprove andpeoplewilladmireyou. </li> <li> Expressionareimportant </li> <li> BeConfident </li> <li> BeGoodlistener </li> <li> Thesearetheeffectiveand practicaladvicesthatarebacked y by Deeppsychologicalprinciples </li> <li> Ifyoufollowedtheseadvices y thefirstimpressionyouwill p leavewillbepositive99%ofthe time. </li> <li> Whynot100%? </li> <li> becausesometimesthe impressionpeopleformofyou p p dependsontheirownpast experience. </li> <li> Forexampleifyousaw someonewholooksjustlike h l k j t lik yourarrogantbossyouwilltend tothinkofhimasarroganteven t thi k f hi t ifhewasnot. </li> <li> GeneralPsychology </li> <li> GeneralPsychology General Psychology Apersontakesabout5to10 A person takes about 5 to 10 secondstoformanimpression ofsomeoneelseAndthenhe of someone else And then he usestheother510minutesto confirmhisjudgment. confirm his judgment. </li> <li> GeneralPsychology General Psychology Soifyoumadeagooduseof y g thefirstfivesecondsthenyour g p chanceofleavingapositive impressionwillbecomemuch g higher. </li> <li> GeneralPsychology General Psychology Iknowyoumaybethinkingthat5 or10secondsisaveryshortperiod 10 d i h i d oftimeandthatnothingmuchcan bedoneinthembutifyoureadthe be done in them but if you read the followingsectionyouwilldiscover thatlotsofthingstakeplacein that lots of things take place in thesefivesecondsbutyounever usedtofocusonthem. </li> <li> Thingstoremember </li> <li> EyeContact </li> <li> EyeContact Thefirstthingyoucandoisproper eyecontact.ProperEyecontactshows respect,interestandthatyouarenot shy.Propereyecontactmeansthat theeyecontactshouldbearound70% y to80%ofthetime. </li> <li> Handshake </li> <li> Handshake Anotherthingthathappensinthefirstfew secondsisthehandshake,afirmhandshake seconds is the handshake a firm handshake combinedwithpropereyecontactleavesthe impressionthatyouareaconfidentperson. peoplewhodon'tshakehandsinafirmway willmostlikelyleavetheimpressionthatthey ill lik l l h i i h h arenotconfident. </li> <li> Smile </li> <li> Smile Ifyoudidtheprevioustwopointsyouwill appeartobeconfidentbutinthesametime pp youmayappeartobealittlecoldandthats whyyouneedtoaddasmileonyourface.This smilewillnotonlymaketheotherpersonthink thatyouhavegotasenseofhumorbuthewill that you have got a sense of humor but he will alsofeelmorecomfortableindealingwithyou. </li> <li> SitStraight </li> <li> SitStraight Sitwithyourbackstraightandyourshoulders stretched.Astraightbackleavestheimpression thatyouareconfidenthappyorinterestedinwhat that you are confident happy or interested in what youarelisteningtoNeverevercrossyourlegsor foldyourarmswhensittingbecausethisleavesthe impressionthatyouarenotthatcomfortableor impression that you are not that comfortable or evenafraid.Don'tplaceanobjectlikeabagorafile betweenyouandtheinterviewerbecausethis p gy leavesthesameimpressionthatfoldingyourarms leaves </li> <li> DonotScratchnose </li> <li> DonotScratchnose Ifyoufeltlikescratchingyournosedonotdoit becausethisshowsthatyouarenegativeevaluating something,afterallyouremotionsareprivateand youshouldn'tletanyoneknowwhatareyou thinkingaboutunlessyouwantthat </li> <li> Wearbluecolorclothes </li> <li> Wearbluecolorclothes Ifyoucanwearblueclothesthendoit,inthe psychologyofcolorsbluegivestheimpressionof loyaltyandhonesty,wearingbluewillleavean unconsciousimpressioninthemindofotherpeople thatyouareloyalandhonest. th t l l dh t </li> <li> TotalImpressions99% p </li> <li> References 1.WikiencyclopediaforBodylanguage 1. Wiki encyclopedia for Body language 2.Picturesfrom www.flickr.com </li> <li> Thankyou, www.amirsaiftaz.blogspot.com amirsaiftaz@gmail.com amirsaiftaz@gmail com </li> </ul>