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Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

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Page 1: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia

Marianne TalbotUnderstanding the Person with Dementia: Study DayOxford Brookes University11th June 2013

Page 2: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

This is my Mum and Dad, Philip and Lesley Talbot, on their wedding day in November 1939

Page 3: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

My parents had been married for 61 years 19 days when my Dad died in 2000

Page 4: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

Caring for Dad would have been a lot easier if he had had an Enduring Power of Attorney

(Now called Lasting Powers of Attorney)

Page 5: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

In 1999 Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s

rdash.nhs.uk

Page 6: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

In 2003 Mum came to live with me

Page 7: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

Social Services became involved

wlga.gov.uk

Page 8: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

Things became more difficult as Mum’s mind fragmented

actionforageing.com

Page 9: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

I was exhausted

lifeischange.wordpress.com

Page 10: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

A time came when I couldn’t care for Mum at home any more

carehome.co.uk

Page 11: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

Mum was in the home until, in April 2009, she died

Page 12: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

Caring is not all doom and gloom…

Page 13: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

www.keepingmum.org.ukTwitter: @keeping_mumFacebook:keeping mum book

Page 14: Keeping Mum: Caring for Someone with Dementia Marianne Talbot Understanding the Person with Dementia: Study Day Oxford Brookes University 11 th June 2013

I am delighted to talk to you today

You have chosen an honourable profession and I wish you all the best

I should be delighted to take questions