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Keeping Mothers in Mind: Trauma informed approaches to supporting mothers who have experienced violence and their young children Angelique Jenney, PhD Director, Family Violence Services, Child Development Institute BASPCAN, April 15, 2015

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Keeping Mothers in Mind:

Trauma informed approaches to supporting mothers who have experienced violence and their young

children

Angelique Jenney, PhDDirector, Family Violence Services, Child

Development Institute

BASPCAN, April 15, 2015

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Presentation Overview

How violence and trauma impact on women, parenting and child development

The impact of domestic violence/trauma on infants and young children

Considerations for assessment and intervention

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911 Call with 6-year-old Lisa

911 Emergency(crying and screaming) My mommy and daddy are having fight!Is he hitting her?Stop it! I’m talking to the police Mommy! Don’t hurt the baby! Don’t take the baby! Stop it, stop it!What’s happening? They’re having a fight because this has been going on forever and everWhere are they now?They’re in the bedroom. I don’t want him to do nothing strange to the babybecause if they drop – because he’s a newborn baby he’s very delicateWhat do you mean do something strange? What do you think he’ll do to your baby?I think he’s going to take the baby and do something because he’s drunk and he might go off and drop the babyHow old are you?I’m six and my little sisters four. Okay, could you just send the police please...

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A Powerful Paradox

Children are often the reason that women stay in abusive relationships, entrenching parenting patterns over significant periods of time under the stressful influences of living with violence…but are often the most powerful motivator to leave (Hilton, 1992).

Mother and child can sometimes serve as constant reminders to each other of earlier traumatic experiences (Lieberman & VanHorn, 2005) …and yet the child’s relationship to the mother is the most powerful predictor of positive outcome for the child….(McGee, 2000)

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Practice Principle:

• In the majority of situations, the child’s caregiver is the most important resource in the child’s healing process.

• Parental involvement and interaction is very important and should be incorporated at all levels of intervention

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Mother-Blaming:A Word of Caution

• Need to consider trauma and parenting within the context of a gendered analysis of inequality

• ‘Burden of motherhood’ socialization/expectations of women have left fathers absent from intervention dialogue

• This is not about Mother-Blaming – must keep focus on the social conditions that have placed women in such important positions without the necessary resources for success

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Traumatic Events Impact Children and Adults Differently

• Adults have more well developed internal and external resources to cope

• Stage of brain development has an effect - determining the extent of impact developmentally

• Important to recognize that adults were children once and may have other early life experiences

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Why Where You Come From is Important:

• “The quality of the environment directly influences the quality of parental care”

• This care then “influences the development of the brain and in particular, alters the development of particular genes (largely responsible for stress/danger response).”

• “Under conditions of poverty, animals that are most likely to survive are those who have an exaggerated stress response”

(Meaney, as cited in Begley, 2007 p.175)

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Woman Abuse & Pregnancy

• 21% of abused women assaulted during pregnancy– 40% indicated abuse began in

pregnancy (Stats Canada, 1993)

Risk factors• Lack of prenatal care• Fetal trauma, miscarriage• Impact on fetus’ nervous system

Infant may be born ‘challenging to soothe’

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IMPACT OF WOMAN ABUSE/TRAUMA• Post Traumatic Stress Symptoms/Depression• hyper-arousal (poor response to stress/red alert)• aggression or withdrawal in response to minor

stimuli“I remember one time he was crying and his Dad was late coming from work and I was like

shut up your Dad’s not here and I don’t know what to do.”

• emotional numbing (appearance of indifference/ambivalence/feeling detached)

“I wasn’t scared. Maybe a little bit scared. But not so much.”

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IMPACT OF WOMAN ABUSE/TRAUMA

• maladaptive coping strategies (substance abuse)

• chronic health problems• issues of financial hardship and social isolation• ongoing relationship issues with abusive

partner (potential for chronic lack of safety)

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IMPACT ON PARENTING

INCREASED RISK OF:• Permissive parenting due

to fear of control• Mother’s sense of guilt• Inappropriate discipline• Negative attributions• Using children as

confidants• Parentification of child

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IMPACT ON PARENTING CONTINUED…• Diminished economic

circumstances• Children suffering the

effects of exposure• Separation/Custody issues• Attachment difficulties• Emotional regulation

issues

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Impact of Domestic Violence on Mother-Infant Relationship

Mother-child relationships maybe impacted by difficulties with• maternal sensitivity,

responsiveness and attunement • absence of

expectancies/contingencies related to child development

• frightened/frightening caregiver• Caregiver’s response to child’s

distress

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THERE IS AN INCREASED RISK OF:• negative maternal attributions• perception of conflicting needs leading to lack

of attunement and responsiveness• reliance on infant as source of comfort• difficulties with soothing, comforting infant in

distress• experience of child as ‘difficult’• emerging attachment issues

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“She does not really look like her father so I’m still okay with that, but I can’t be if she looked more like her father. But she’s not really like her father, so she won’t remind me of a lot of things.”

MIM™ Participant

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Violence & Trauma and its Impact on Mothering

A Mother may:• Believe she is an

inadequate mother• Use her child as a source

of comfort• Use unhelpful parenting

strategies

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Video Cliphttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSe40tX-oTA

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AREAS OF CONCERN FOR INFANTS AND YOUNG CHILDREN:

• anxiety, fear, depression, withdrawal, • excessive crying, difficulty with

soothing• PTSD symptoms (exaggerated startle

response, emotional numbing, dissociation)

• eating/sleep disturbances• emotion regulation issues• dysregulation of stress system• decreased levels of social interaction

(doesn’t initiate)

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FACTORS THAT INFLUENCE THE IMPACT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON YOUNG CHILDREN:

• intensity/duration of violence

• proximity of child to violence

• physical harm to child• availability of responsive

caregiver• witnessing harm to

caregiver

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FACTORS THAT INFLUENCE THE IMPACT OF DV ON CHILDREN

• age and level of cognitive development• relationship with siblings• relationship with mother• child’s gender• co-occurrence of maltreatment/caregiver mental health

issues• relationship/contact with abuser

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Trauma Symptoms in Young Children

• Gaze aversion• “Re-experiencing” or playing out

memories of the event• Toileting problems• Sleep problems• Eating problems • Verbal or language difficulties• Developmental regression• Withdrawal• Onset of new fears• Aggressive outbursts or increased

activity level• Increased clinginess/separation

• Anxiety• PTSD• Relationship problems –

including poor attachment or attachment disorders

• Depression• Dysregulation of stress system• Low self-esteem• Preoccupation with the traumatic

event such as bringing up the episode repeatedly or uncontrollably

• Increased and prolonged stress

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Practice Principle

• Important to clarify impact, rather than type or extent of abuse – (level of physical violence alone is not adequate – some forms of abuse can be very psychologically devastating with low levels of violence)

• The damaging effects of prolonged periods of fear for children – regardless of the acts of violence witnessed is what is often overlooked

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How Can We Make it Better?

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What Are We Looking For?

RESPONSIVITY• Attunement• Bonding• Attachment

IMPACT• Stress• Competence

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Early intervention is essential and...there is time!

“it’s never too late to repair”

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Practice Principles

Mothers want healthy relationships with their children

Working with mothers and their children together is key

Healing and repair are possible

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Mother-child work

• encourages awareness of and empathy for the child’s experience• facilitates interactions• provides opportunities for positive reinforcement• builds relational competence

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Benefits of Group Work• decreases isolation and builds social supports• reduces secrecy/shame and self-blame• increases opportunities for learning

“I remember them talking, other mothers

talking about their struggles and feeling like…okay, I’m not the

only one whofeels like that.”

MIM ™ Participant

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Goals of Mothers in Mind™

1. Reduce mothers’ stress related to parenting.

2. Provide opportunity for women to access trauma-informed parenting supporting in a safe and supportive environment.

3. Support women in connecting with other mothers with similar experiences.

4. Support the positive development of the mother-child relationship.

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Mothers in Mind • Mother-child play group

– fully interactive• Relationship focused• Trauma-informed approach

• Parenting within the context of trauma – does not process individual

maternal trauma directly

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Mother-child work within group intervention

• 10 session, closed group• 2 to 3 facilitators for 6 to 8

mothers and their children mother-child work • 1.5 to 2 hours in length• Timing of group essential!

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Eligibility• Mother indicates history of

violence/trauma that she feels may be impacting her ability to parent

• Child under the age of four• Safety—Are they safe?• Custody

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Resources

• Mothers in Mind curriculum and training• Mothers in Mind website: parent friendly

materials www.MothersinMind.ca

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Questions?

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For more info about MIM or to find out about running a program in your area, please contact:

Lisa Sura-Liddell, M.S.W.Manager, Program Development & ImplementationFamily Violence ServicesChild Development Institute416-603-1827 ext. [email protected]

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Thank YouCONTACT INFOAngelique Jenney, PhD. R.S.W.Director, Family Violence ServicesChild Development Institute197 Euclid AvenueToronto, Ontario Canada M5B 2P7416-603-1827 [email protected]