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Inspiring quotes for singles.Here is a startling fact: The selection you make of a marriage partner may well have more to do with the quality of your marriage than anything you do after getting married. Neil Clark Warren

Olufemi Fasanya 08037257479, 08083906405 www.femi-fasanya.blogspot.com

Introduction

Knowledge is power; it does not leave the person who has it the same way. One reason that this is so is the motivating influence that it gives to those that have it. People have gone to wars seemly because they were influenced by the information they were given by power drunk leaders in the past; the rate of immorality, crime and violence have increase at an alarming rate because of the information that we are exposed to through the media. People are so influenced by what they hear that their actions are based on it. There is a Nigerian adage that says, It is better to commit suicide than to pass through certain shame, and because of this statement some Nigerians have committed suicide in the past. The following article from the Punch newspaper of Wednesday, July 20, 2005, with a headline captioned, Four commit suicide weekly in Lagos, An average of four reported cases of suicide or unnatural deaths are recorded weekly in Lagos, investigations have revealed is a prove of the power of influence by information.

In the first book I wrote, 21 never singles must observe, in the 15th never; Never hold on to a person, when it is time to let go, I was told by one of the people that got inspired by the saying of Pastor Bimbo Odukoya who said, Never insist on marrying someone who does not want to marry you, and had to quit a relationship that she was in. Such is the power of influence from information that had a positive effect on making people to choose the right decisions to take. Inside of this book are the quotes of fallible men like you and me; men with weaknesses, but in a moment of their lives made statement that did not conflict with the truth from the Word of God and yet has an impacting positive effect on those that heard them when they made it. Such statements are still relevant to as many who want do great and positive things in their generation. My prayer is that the quotes of these men will inspire you as a single to making the right choices in life and especially in the choice of who to get married to and the way you live your life as a single. I also pray that it will stop you and make you to have a rethink on your life and the direction it is heading.

Choosing a partner

Your choice of a marriage partner is entirely your decision and, moreover, you are free to choose anyone you like. That, however, is as far as your freedom goes, for once you have chosen, you are bound by the responsibilities that go with your choice. Pastor Bimbo Odukoya You may not know this, but when it comes to love, sex, and relationships, the typical Brother is an intuitive cast director who knows what role, if any, that you will play in his life long before you do. Zondra Hughes Are you single and searching, be singled out for Christ search in Christ because anything searched outside of Christ will be filled with crisis. Dotun and Bunmi Okanlawons wedding programme

God

The only person you cant do without is Jesus. Pastor Bimbo Odukoya Many singles do not even know God, and they want Him to find the person they should get married too. Pastor Wale Aiyanyo It takes loving God for a man not to be involve in extra marital affair after marriage. The love for ones spouse is not strong to make one faithful to ones marriage vows. Oluseyi Fasanya

The word of God

When you receive the truth in truth, it does not only inform you, it transforms you. Bishop David Oyedepo The Bible is so simple you have to have someone else help you to misunderstand it. Charles Capp Truth is heavy, so few men can carry it. Jewish adage

Character

The qualities you need to be a good husband or wife is what you need to be a good Christian. Pastor Bimbo Odukoya The measure of a persons real character is what he will do if knew he never be found out. John Mason You show me a man of character; Ill show a leader. Pastor Taiwo Odukoya

Love

Love that flows in one direction is not enough to sustain a meaningful relationship. Pastor Bimbo Odukoya Love is not a matter of what happens in life. It's a matter of what's happening in your heart. Ken Keyes Love must be learned, and learned again and again; there is no end to it. Katherine Ann Porter

Purpose

If you are a young lady, for instance, and you are asking me how to know a man I want to marry, I will say, look, ask the man, what is your vision in life? This because where ever you are going or whatever your vision is, is where you are taking me. I may not want to go there. Isaac Digi The wealthiest place on the face of the earth is the cemetery, where lie in visions that were never fulfilled, potentials that were not tapped. Dr Myles Munroe Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life. Every one must carry out a concrete assignment that demands fulfillment. Therein he cannot be replaced nor can his life be repeated. Thus everyone's task is as unique as his specific opportunity to implement it. Psychologist Victor Frankl

Little beginning

Sometimes very great things have a way of starting in a corner, and a person must approach a marriage relationship with faith. Where there is faith, where there is conviction, where there is love, then nothing would be impossible for a couple like that. Dr Okey Onuzo Life is so interesting, we all will not start from the same stage, but we can all get to the same level. Pastor Wale Aiyanyo You will know a certain level which your relationship gets to before you can be of assistance financially or otherwise. Dont meet a guy today and start giving him all your money just because you want a home Nothing wrong with loving and giving but that giving must be done with discretion. Kemi Dayo-Aiyetan

Perception

Many decent Christians make mistakes in the area of a choice of partner when in their arrogance they believe they know what is best for them than God. Pastor Wale Aiyanyo Two people cannot define the same concept the same way. The way a person understands a concept depends on the circumstance surrounding his/her experience e.g. for two people to define the word love, you will discover that it can never be define the same way because the way and manner the individuals feels and experience it is different. Idowu Oluwole Eyes that looks are common, eyes that sees are rear. J. Oswald Sanders

Mistake

Missing the step to take, or taking the step to miss. Pastor Sam Ajana To err is human, to forgive divine. English adage To err is human but when you wear the eraser out ahead of the pencil you are overdoing it. Jerry Jenkins

Proposal

If any of these men come to you to say, the Lord said we should get married; tell them: yes I have heard what the Lord has said, but what do you say yourself? Pastor S. G. Elton A lady would rather hear that you love her very much and would like to marry her, rather than that God has sent you to marry her. Dr Okey Onuzo You dont dig milk from the ground. First you have to domesticate a cow. Then when all of that has been done, you are ready to milk. God can give a cow but the rest is left to you. Dr Myles Munroe

Relationship

Show me your friend and I will show you your destiny. Pastor Bimbo Odukoya Whenever there cease to be a relationship there will always be separation. Dr Sherman S. Watkins The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people. Theodore Roosevelt

Words

A woman that is too big to say thank you will be too big to say I am sorry. Do not marry her. Segun Olisa It is people who do not say I am sorry to their spouse that have broken homes the most. Segun Ojo Behind every successful man is a woman that nagged and behind every man that failed is a woman that kept quiet. Olufemi Fasanya

Dating

Dating is the process of being friends, before being lovers. Olufemi Fasanya When you invest all of your energy and self esteem in getting a date or having a relationship, you dont have a life. When it comes to decisions about relationships, you should choose the head over the heart every time. Ben Young & Dr Samuel Adams

Avoiding date rape

They usually occur when a man is alone with a woman (mostly an adolescent) in a mans room, apartment, or his car. Dr (Mrs.) P. I. Idigbe Careful, thoughtful decisions generally yield better dating results. Guard against trusting the untrustworthy; suitors must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable, forthright behavior. Take all the time you need to test for a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way. If you suspect someone is lying, he or she probably is, so act accordingly. Regardless of where you meet someone, dating is never a riskfree activity, but a little caution will reduce your risk in matters of the heart. Trish McDermott

Courtship

Do not substitute prayer for courtship because you need to know who you intend to marry. Pastor Bimbo Odukoya In courtship people reveal their best, but marriage reveals the rest. Pastor Sam Ajana There is a sense to which courtship implies discovery. It is essentially a time when two people engaged to marry, try to discover each other in other to reduce areas of friction in the early period of marriage. Dr Okey Onuzo

Pre-marital sex

If you allow a man to have his way with you, you will never, ever be respected by him. Ben Young & Dr Samuel Adams Sex is designed to be a response to love, not a foundation for it. It was to be the cement and seal of an already established commitment made in the presence of wit