Inner Peace : Inner Discipline

Presented by:Meg GustafsonMichael Swett

• Teacher

• Author

• Public Speaker

Barbara Coloroso

Inner Discipline

Win/Win with Consequence

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Punishment VS Discipline

Assertive Confrontation

Bullying

Brickwall

Backbone

Jellyfish

Teacher Types

RESULT OR EFFECT OF AN ACTION

Consequence:

• Reasonable

• Simple

• Valuable

• Practical

Consequences: Natural VS Reasonable

Natural Reasonable

Punishment VS Discipline

• Adult orientated

• Imposes power

• Focuses on blame and pain

• What they should have done

• Ownership of the problem

• Options for solving

• Leaves dignity intact

The Three R’s of Discipline

• Restitution

• Resolution

• Reconciliation

Aggressive Confrontation

Rules of Assertive Confrontation

• Speak in a straightforward manner

• State your feelings• State your belief• Give direct feedback• State what you ultimately

want• Be open• Negotiate

Bullying

• Imbalance of power

• Intent to harm

• Threat of further aggression

• Terror

The Bullying Cycle

• The bully• Followers/henchmen• Supporters (passive

bullies)• Passive supporters

(possible bullies)• Disengaged onlookers• Possible defenders• Defenders of the target

The Target

Cyber Bullying• Highly confident in

anonymity

• Removed from the immediate reaction

• Not accountable for their actions

Cyber Bully Lingo• HHOJ

• POS

• YRDM

• YBS

• ASL

• LMIRL

• F2F

• Ha ha only joking

• Parent over shoulder

• You are dead meat

• You’ll be sorry

• Age/sex/location

• Let’s meet in real life

• Face to face

Where Could it Lead???

Worldwide Bullies

The Three P’s

• Policies

• Procedures

• Programs

Kid’s Are Worth It!!!