Improve Your Listening Skills

Improve Your Listening SkillsWe have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more than we say.

Genuine listening has become a rare gift

Tips to Develop Effective Listening Skills

1. Face the Speaker and Maintain Eye-contact

2. Be Attentive but Relaxed

3. Keep an Open MindOnce you indulge in criticizing, jumping to conclusions or trying to speed up by interrupting and finishing other persons sentences, you have compromised your effectiveness as a listener.

4. Listen to the Words and Try to Picture What the Speaker is Saying

5. Dont Interrupt and Dont impose Your Solutions

6. Wait for the Speaker to Ask Clarifying Questions

When you dont understand something, of course you should ask the speaker to explain it to you. But rather than interrupting, wait until the speaker pauses.

7. Ask Questions Only to Ensure Understanding

8. Try to Feel What the Speaker is FeelingEmpathy is the heart and soul of good listening.

9. Give the Speaker Regular Feedback

10. Pay Attention to What isnt Said To Nonverbal Cues

When your spouse is talking; turn off the television. When your child is talking turn off the world. Crystal DeLarm Clymer