How to Use Marriage How to Use Marriage Separation to Save Your Separation to Save Your

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By Lisa PennBy Lisa Pennhttp://how-to-save-http://how-to-save-marriage.orgmarriage.org

That’s itThat’s it. . It’s really It’s really overover. . That’s what That’s what you thought when you thought when your spouse decided your spouse decided to split to split ((or already or already diddid). ). Marriage Marriage separation is just a separation is just a pit stop in the way pit stop in the way to divorceto divorce. . Everyone Everyone knows that, right? knows that, right?

WRONG.WRONG.

I know that what I’m I know that what I’m about to claim goes about to claim goes against everything against everything you believe in, but you believe in, but marriage separation marriage separation is your is your golden golden opportunityopportunity to not to not only save your only save your marriage, but marriage, but make make it better than it it better than it ever wasever was. .

Can Separation Save a Can Separation Save a Marriage?Marriage?

Your spouse has Your spouse has given upgiven up. . He or she He or she are tired of the are tired of the bickering, the bickering, the tension, the lack of tension, the lack of communication, communication, the fact that you the fact that you never do anything never do anything fun together fun together anymoreanymore. .

Even worse, he or Even worse, he or she are may she are may already be  in love already be  in love with someone else, with someone else, and left you to be and left you to be with himwith him//herher. .

““I’m not in love with you I’m not in love with you anymore”, anymore”, he or she saidhe or she said, , and and your whole world, your whole your whole world, your whole life as you know it, collapses life as you know it, collapses around you, making a huge around you, making a huge

noisenoise..

It seems there is It seems there is no hopeno hope. . Your Your marriage is marriage is terminally broken, terminally broken, and there is and there is nothing you can do nothing you can do to change itto change it. .

But you couldn’t be more wrongBut you couldn’t be more wrong. . Separation can save your marriage, if Separation can save your marriage, if you know exactly how to use it to you know exactly how to use it to your advantageyour advantage. .

3 Critical Mistakes You’ve 3 Critical Mistakes You’ve Probably Already MadeProbably Already Made

Here’s what most of us will do when we Here’s what most of us will do when we desperately try to stop separation and desperately try to stop separation and divorcedivorce::

1. We try to give them reassurance1. We try to give them reassurance – “I – “I can change. I will stop nagging. I will stop can change. I will stop nagging. I will stop being controlling. I won’t lie to you ever being controlling. I won’t lie to you ever again”.again”.

This almost never works. They will not believe This almost never works. They will not believe you.you.

2. We Argue2. We Argue – “I don’t believe that you – “I don’t believe that you don’t love me. You owe me love because we don’t love me. You owe me love because we are married. I can change the way you feel are married. I can change the way you feel right now”.right now”.

This never worksThis never works. . This is exactly what they This is exactly what they expect to hearexpect to hear. . More arguing and More arguing and inacceptance of their feelingsinacceptance of their feelings. . This is why This is why they want to pull away in the first placethey want to pull away in the first place..

3. We tell them how much we love 3. We tell them how much we love themthem – “I love you. You are the only one – “I love you. You are the only one I’ll ever love. You’re the only one I can be I’ll ever love. You’re the only one I can be happy with”.happy with”.

You’re basically telling them “I have no self You’re basically telling them “I have no self esteem. I have nothing with you. Do you esteem. I have nothing with you. Do you want me?”want me?”

But don’t lose hop just yetBut don’t lose hop just yet. . Even Even if you made all of these mistakes if you made all of these mistakes ((in less then 30 minutes…in less then 30 minutes…)), there , there are ways to repair the damage are ways to repair the damage ((if if you use the right marriage you use the right marriage separation advice from now onseparation advice from now on).).

Go HEREGo HERE to see 3 Little Known Ways to see 3 Little Known Ways to Use Marriage Separation to Save to Use Marriage Separation to Save Your Marriage!Your Marriage!

Hurry, before it’s too late!Hurry, before it’s too late!

Rooting for ya,Rooting for ya,

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