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How to go from“I can’t”

To “How Can I”By

Jody Maley

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Objective

• There are so many People using• The Words “I Can’t”• I can’t find the right job…• I can’t get the money I need…• I can’t find the time in my day…• Take a couple of min’s and write

out 3 I can’t statements

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My name is Jody Maley

• Mom of 6 of a blended family (2, 2, 2)• I’ve been in DS and Retail Sales 21yrs• Been told I can sell ice to Eskimo• Trained and motivated consultants and

leaders for over 20 yrs• Awarded several national awards in

both sales and leadership• Love LOVE to help others/their goals

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How can YOU do this?

• How?• Take your

Statement and turn it to a “HOW”

• It’s usually a lack of $$$

• Or a lack of Time• Lack of clarity?

I can’t?

How $$$

Time

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Here are the 3 Ways I turn this around

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Key #1

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Key #1 Identify/Dream

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Key #1 Dream

• Be clear on Your What I need to do• What YOU really want? /don’t want

• Ex: when I was looking at a new business, I focused on what I didn’t want for my new business

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Didn’t Want

• Didn’t want something really costly/per month cost I wanted below $200mth

• Hard to understand and took lots of time to learn

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Didn’t Want

• Didn’t want something really costly/per month cost I wanted below $200mth

• Hard to understand and took lots of time

• I didn’t want something I had to explain over and over again

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Didn’t Want

• Didn’t want something really costly/per month cost I wanted below $200mth

• Hard to understand and took lots of time

• I didn’t want something I had to explain over and over again

• Didn’t want to bug my friends and family

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I was burned out

• 21 yrs of selling products/both retail and direct sales had took it’s toll

• And I wanted something that I could do from home yet not having to do calls/sales pitches myself

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I was burned out

• 21 yrs of selling products/both retail and direct sales had took it’s toll

• And I wanted something that I could do from home yet not having to do calls/sales pitches myself

• Completely online where I could reach a larger audience

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I was burned out

• 21 yrs of selling products/both retail and direct sales had took it’s toll

• And I wanted something that I could do from home yet not having to do calls/sales pitches myself

• Completely online where I could reach a larger audience

• Something that really benefited the people I want to help

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I was burned out

• 21 yrs of selling products/both retail and direct sales had took it’s toll

• And I wanted something that I could do from home yet not having to do calls/sales pitches myself

• Completely online where I could reach a larger audience

• Something that really benefited the people I want to help

• As well as being Duplicatable

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Enter a $25/mth Basic program

• After searching for several months and I was on Unemployment Insurance

• What I found was a $25/mth blogging platform business which is the basic program

• When I found what worked for me, I then went about the HOW

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Step #2 Believing

• How was I going to afford this $25/mth

• I decided to cut my 2-3 a week Starbucks coffee out and replace with this!

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Step #2 Believing

• How was I going to afford this $25/mth

• I decided to cut my 2-3 a week Starbucks coffee out and replace with this!

• Cost $32/mth, is $5 for 8, so I $28/mth

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Step #3 Living as if!

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Turning your Can’t into How

• List of what I didn’t want

• What I wanted

UpgradedLooked for a BusinessThat met that need

Made List of whatI wanted

Made list of whatI didn’t want

$$$

Basic

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The next steps

• List of what I didn’t want

$145

UpgradedLooked for a BusinessThat met that need

Made List of whatI wanted

Made list of whatI didn’t want

$$$

How I could makeThat happen /mth

$25/mth

Basic

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The next steps

• List of what I didn’t want

• What I wanted (the company to do the selling not me)

$145/mth

UpgradedLooked for a BusinessThat met that need

Made List of whatI wanted

Made list of whatI didn’t want

$$$

How I could makeThat happen /mth

$25/mth

Basic

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The next steps

• List of what I didn’t want

• What I wanted (the company to do the selling not me)

What do I need to do to getAll IN? Recruiting a few

How could I makeThis money?

$145/mth

UpgradedLooked for a BusinessThat met that need

Made List of whatI wanted

Made list of whatI didn’t want

$$$

How I could makeThat happen /mth

$25/mth

Basic

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When I decided to go “All-In”

• I wrote out what I couldn’t afford• Mthly Visa/MC payment• When I phoned to tell them I got a

nice surprise• This actually caught me up to date,

and paid for my costa-rica $500 program and I did a marketing campaign $400

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Deciding to Go all in

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When I decided to go “All-In”

• I wrote out what I couldn’t afford• Deleted a bunch of stuff in paypal• Mthly Visa/MC payment• When I phoned to tell them I got a

nice surprise• This actually caught me up to date,

and paid for my costa-rica $500 program and I did a marketing campaign $400

• And I took my fam for dinner

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Meeting the Needs

• List of what I didn’t want

• What I wanted• Decided to go All-

In• Once I believed

that there was a business that I wanted, it (the how) really just showed up for me

Believe mthly $$$

Recruited a fewWhich pays mthly

How to make the Mthy and go ALL IN

$145/mth

UpgradedLooked for a BusinessThat met that need

Made List of whatI wanted

Made list of whatI didn’t want

$$$

How I could makeThat happen /mth

$25/mth

Basic

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Big Picture

• You can turn any “I can’t” in your life around

• Then Determining it to What do I need to to mentally get “all in”

• And the How will show up

• Dream, Believe, Live

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Next Steps

• Take a look again at your 3 “I can’t” statements you made at the beginning of this short seminar

• Go “All-in” mentally to change that

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Next Steps

• Take a look again at your 3 “I can’t” statements you made at the beginning of this short seminar

• Go “All-in” mentally to change that• If any of your “I can’t” statements

were things that I overcame & you feel relate to them…then

• In a few seconds I’ll give u a link

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My passion

• To help women entrepeneurs (and men) stop jumping from biz to biz

• Spending thousands of dollars doing so

• Really helping you make money online each and every month like I’m doing

• I spend about 2-3 hrs per day doing this….so

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What do YOU do?

• So whether you are looking for a new business….or

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What do YOU do?

• So whether you are looking for a new business….or

• You already have an existing business…I want to help you! I want to help you make money online

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What do YOU do?

• So whether you are looking for a new business….or

• You already have an existing business…I want to help you! I want to help you make money online

• I hope that what I’ve shared today has given you a few a-ha moments…and

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What do YOU do?

• So whether you are looking for a new business….or

• You already have an existing business…I want to help you! I want to help you make money online

• I hope that what I’ve shared today has given you a few a-ha moments…and

• Big thanks to my son• CLICK HERE for MORE info JODY

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What do YOU do?

• So whether you are looking for a new business….or

• You already have an existing business…I want to help you! I want to help you make money online

• I hope that what I’ve shared today has given you a few a-ha moments…and

• Big thanks to my son• CLICK HERE for MORE info JODY in

Beautiful BC….make it a great DAY!• See you on the other side