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Page 1: How to tell the difference between your inner critic and negative thoughts

How to tell the difference between

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your Inner Critic and actual thoughts.

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Your mindset and its beliefs

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can be totally unconscious.

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It's not always easy to identify them.

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For many people, a negative mindset manifests itself as an "inner critic."

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This is an inner voice or private conversation that occurs in your mind on continuous repeat mode behind your conscious thoughts

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Exercise to become aware of your inner critic

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Schedule 15-20 minutes today to do exercise.

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Make sure it is during a time

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when you have no distractions.

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Close your eyes and imagine the type of life you'd love to have if anything were possible.

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Does your ideal life include more vacations, more money, or better relationships?

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Write down the characteristics of your ideal life.

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For each characteristic, close your eyes and

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think about what each looks like for you.

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For example, if you have "financial freedom" as one characteristic,

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what does that actually mean for you?

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Does that mean having your house paid for by the time you are 45?

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Does that mean having your children's schooling paid for?

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Does that mean travel three times a year?

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Does that mean earning a six-figure salary?

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Write these down.

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As you are thinking about each of these,

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pay close attention to the thoughts that come.

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Are all your thoughts positive?

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These could be thoughts like "I've got a steady pipeline of new business."

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"I can get to six figure income."

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Or are there other intrusive thoughts that pop up?

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These could be things like:

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"Yeah, right - incoming new business!

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Who do you think you are?"

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This is your inner critic speaking.

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Write all of your positive and

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negative thoughts down.

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This exercise may take some time.

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Many people have trouble differentiating

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between the inner critic and their actual thoughts,

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so if you have not uncovered any inner critic thoughts, this may be the case for you.

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You need to be aware of your inner critic in order to remove those thoughts of negativity.

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So, good job, if you get negative thoughts coming up from your unconscious as the more aware you

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are of your inner critic, the more you can train your brain to remove your inner critic thoughts.

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The key to this exercise is to become aware of your inner voice.

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Next time we will look at how to remove your inner critic thoughts from your mindset.

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For more on training your success mindset, go to http://jgtips.com/smindset.