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How to Make Relationship Strong – Education for Love A pleasurable mix of feelings is like roll coaster ride. It makes it hard to live life peacefully. But this cannot be termed as love. No one can be given education for love. More than one million youngsters every year face the consequences of divorce; sixty percent of these parents belong to the age group of twenty five to thirty nine. The love demonstrated by these couples is the model for their children. It is very confusing and utterly unfortunate. People model what they see. They aim for what they believe to be possible. They just do not realize that they have not been given proper education for knowing what a fulfilling experience is. How do the loveless couples affect the children? The unfavorable behavior of the couples who are no longer in love and there treatment towards each other is unconscious but the respect one expects from his or her partner is definitely not there. You will also find couples who put up together only for the sake of their children, financial needs, or religious faith. But chances of their children learning about love are still very low. Then there are the romantic filmy couples who come out straight from the books and movies. The best relationships of such couples portrait the most perfect relationships. They set a benchmark of expectations which might lead to a drastic failure in the life of some people. A romantic relationship in which people depend totally upon each other for making themselves complete, do not last long. In today’s times they may come to an end very easily. Sometimes just after a few days of marriage the relationships are broken. Is it possible for a human being to give you a feeling that you complete him or her? They would love someone in every possible way and yet if they are made responsible for the love being felt. When the expectations of people are not met or when the communication is not understood. There are chances of misunderstanding to happen. These misunderstandings might be very dangerous for relationships. More than anyone else they affect the children of the loveless couple. Even though the couple decides to stick to each other for the sake of their kids they might be doing more harm than good to their children. Because when people who do not love each other stay together they

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How to Make Relationship Strong – Education for Love

A pleasurable mix of feelings is like roll coaster ride. It makes it hard to live life peacefully. But this cannot be termed as love. No one can be given education

for love. More than one million youngsters every year face the consequences of divorce; sixty percent of these parents belong to the age group of twenty five

to thirty nine. The love demonstrated by these couples is the model for their children. It is very confusing and utterly unfortunate. People model what they

see. They aim for what they believe to be possible. They just do not realize that they have not been given proper education for knowing what a fulfilling

experience is.

How do the loveless couples affect the children?

The unfavorable behavior of the couples who are no longer in love and there treatment towards each other is unconscious but the respect one expects from

his or her partner is definitely not there. You will also find couples who put up

together only for the sake of their children, financial needs, or religious faith. But chances of their children learning about love are still very low.

Then there are the romantic filmy couples who come out straight from the

books and movies. The best relationships of such couples portrait the most perfect relationships. They set a benchmark of expectations which might lead

to a drastic failure in the life of some people. A romantic relationship in which people depend totally upon each other for making themselves complete, do not

last long. In today’s times they may come to an end very easily. Sometimes just after a few days of marriage the relationships are broken.

Is it possible for a human being to give you a feeling that you complete him or

her? They would love someone in every possible way and yet if they are made

responsible for the love being felt. When the expectations of people are not

met or when the communication is not understood. There are chances of

misunderstanding to happen. These misunderstandings might be very

dangerous for relationships. More than anyone else they affect the children of

the loveless couple. Even though the couple decides to stick to each other for

the sake of their kids they might be doing more harm than good to their

children. Because when people who do not love each other stay together they