how to force yourself to do what you fear
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The Craziest way to force yourself to dowhat you are afraid of
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Hi thereI'm James from possibilitist.org
Tofay we'll be discussing how to actually force you to do that thing
you fear so much… with a
crazy tactic
It can be so frustrating It can be so difficult and I know because I've
been there. It so hard to face that particular thing. It might
be approaching a woman, going for a job interview or cold calling
But… Whatever it is... .
You'll do it! Help is here!
I had an experience last few months that forced me out of my shy
miserable shell and funny enough it was a Quora question!
The thing is that I've grown a lot in confidence and assertiveness in the past few months but this question
set off an alarm in my head Because I realized that there are some specific activities in my life
that I've being postponing…
I realized I was afraid! Imagine! Because of one
simple emotion I was destroying my future
I decided
screw it! I either do this or I
die. Yh I'm serious…
Cos’ I wanna be a badass!
I want to share how I kicked fear and anxiety in the face and how I achieved epic shits with my friends and kids
I don't wanna be a boring old guy with a woowoooo stinky life when I'm sixty
So I went crazy and... ... …
I was desperate because I know
Willpower won't work. What I
needIs survival power and my stomach
was it. It's either I do
what I fear or I Starve and suffer
.. I placed my
stomach on the line!
I was desperate because I know Willpower won't
work. What I need
Is survival power and my stomach
was it. It's either I do
what I fear or I Starve and suffer
Introducing
Do it or suffer!
Do it or suffer
“do it or suffer is a tactic in which you elevate the importance of doing what you fear to a do or die affair.
You plan to reward handsomely yourself for doing it and punish yourself deeply for not doing it everytime
till it becomes an habit”
This is the real deal for killing your fear!
And there so many way to use this
❏ Refuse to eat unless you do that thing you fear
❏ Hire a boxer to beat you up every week unless you show evidence of doing the thing!
This is the real deal for killing your fear!
And there so many way to use this
❏ Empty your wallet to a stranger everytime you chicken out
❏ Hire and give you credit card to a babysitter. He is to follow you around and get $50 every time
you hesitate
You get the Gist? The trick is to create a
scenario where doing the thing you fear seems far
better than experiencing the punishment for not doing itYou can be creative at it tooEmail your experience to Me
The trick is to make sure that henceforth Something bad and Unpleasant happens you everytime you fail to do the thing
And reward yourself handsomely for doing
it. Everytime.
Make the reward irresistible!(tip: your
favorite meal or TV series! )
Infact this is what I treated myself to after starving for two days before I eventually forced myself grim faced to approach two
girls for their numbers!
Will this work?
Absolutely! As a matter of fact I used this crazy tactic to force myself to... ... ..
Approach women
and get phone
numbers
Cold Call great people who I desire their mentorship
Start making
public videos and
slides presentation
But I should warn youThis won't be easy(starving yourself or losing money sint) so you have to take this as your only chance
It's should become a do or die for you
But I should warn youYou must be ready for the change or else don't even bother.
Tip: I advice you tell as many people as possible about the thing and if you can't. Try out do it or suffer to force yourself to tell your friends about doing the thing you fear. It works😉
And That's not all!
You can use this crazy tactic to force yourself to do things you hate but really need to do like exercising, traveling, socializing and on... .
Let me wrap it up with these 3 badass
quotes
Remember! You don't have to be great to start but however you have no other option but
to start. So start using this tactic already!
Don't live a boring life you're gonna regret ...
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