How To Create Real,

Lasting Transformation

Jeff Nthiwa

- Destiny Life Coaching -

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1 All too often we find ourselves and our clients

feeling…

OVERWHELMED by the daily to-do's and

responsibilities

TRAPPED in a career we thought we loved

but it's barely paying the bills and we can't

get up the courage to raise our coaching fees

UNWORTHY of happiness, beauty and

love

TERRIFIED of being seen and heard

STUCK spinning in the same rut - in our

businesses or our personal lives - and can't

seem to make a change

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Turning the World’s Formula for Success Upside Down

Transformative coaches turn the world’s outdated

formula for success upside down. Instead of trying to

do, create or get more, new or different stuff to make

you feel better on the inside, I assist you to experience

the most profound feeling of well-being available to you.

And do you know what the really great news is… you

get to live from that place for the rest of your life if you

choose it. You get to see and understand for yourself

that happiness really is ‘an inside job’. You will

experience that living from the ‘inside out’, connected to

your essence and wellbeing leads to amazing

possibilities previously untouched and untapped. You

free your mind of old limitations, habits and fears and

you see with unimagined clarity of mind how you will

create and live your best life.

When you see these new possibilities, suddenly new

ideas and actions unfold, you find you have more

energy, you are more creative, you feel an increased

sense of peace, calm and joy, you experience less

stress and a lightening of the load. You follow your

purest desires and wants and start to make better

decisions that nourish the whole of your life.

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In this paradigm you see that happiness leads to success, security leads to wealth, and your thoughts create your experience. The moment you glimpse the ‘inside-out’ nature of our human experience, you see that we are not interpreters of our reality, we are the creators of our reality. Suddenly life stops seeming so scary as you realise that there is nothing you need to do or get to be happy. Any changes to be made in your life become obvious and while not always easy, are remarkably straightforward and the next steps are crystal clear. Nothing has changed, yet everything is different.

Testimonials

“When you meet Jeff, he becomes an indelible presence in your life. As a coach he holds you with the greatest respect for your own wisdom and brilliance. he challenges your thinking when it is cloudy and lights the way in the direction of a deeper connection to that wisdom from which all insight is found, so that you will take the inspired action to move your life powerfully forward. he wakes you up to a deeper understanding of the nature of human experience and in the process you see what is truly possible for you. he is the shining presence of unconditional love and acceptance, and fearless in his pursuit of what is true for all of us. Being coached by him is the most wonderful gift.” Martin K, Nairobi Kenya

Why can't we seem to get

lasting transformation?

The problem is, most coaching models are built on giving

information and advice. What happens when you give a client

advice? They don't follow through! Advice is not what motivates a

client to follow through.

Most coaching models are missing a *key element.* And this key

element is the thing that will determine whether someone will or

will not get the results they want and whether those results will

last.

It doesn't matter how much you KNOW about losing weight,

finding a life partner, or making more money. If this key element

isn't addressed, no amount of knowledge will be able to get you

the results you desire, for yourself or your clients.

After coaching for over 10,000 coaching hours, I've discovered

how to create change, and how to create change that sticks. I've

seen it happen me.

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“I was living on this earth but I was not alive. For the whole of

my life I had not recognised that I lived as the ‘victim’ of my

own thoughts and feelings. Coaching with Jeff I uncovered

and shed years and layers of negative thoughts, beliefs and

feelings about myself and others. The quality of my life

changed immeasurably when I gained insight and

understanding about how I create my ‘reality’ through

thought, this has been the most profound learning for me.

This alone has created a feeling of enduring freedom and

revitalized purpose in my life. A Joy.”

Faith M

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For most people, even if life is ‘going OK’ or ‘going

well’, they often know that there is more to life, that

life could be so much better, easier, more enjoyable.

Imagine waking up every day feeling amazing,

knowing you are doing what you love and

experiencing creativity, calm, abundance, love and

wellbeing in your life?

To live this way you do not need more ‘self-help’

books, courses or therapy, you just need more

clarity, and that is what transformational coaching is

all about….

Transformational Coaching is simply the art and

science of awakening the whole of your potential.

As a transformational coach I bring out the absolute

best in you by assisting you to uncover and unleash

your full magnificence into the world. We start this

journey together by asking: ‘what would you love to

create’? In exploring your answer to this question

we tap into your innate wisdom and resourcefulness

which leads you to an inspired sense of your own

possibility, power and potential.

So How Does Transformational Coaching Work?

Many coaches work from what we would call an ‘outside-

in’ perspective, working with their clients on their external

world issues and goals to achieve their best life possible.

Coaches work this way because like most of us, they

believe in the misguided notion of an ‘outside-in’ world;

that we will be happier when… we get a better job, a more

beautiful partner, a bigger house, or are on a self

improvement quest to become a ‘better’ version of

ourselves. The assumption being that the path to our

wellbeing, joy and peace of mind is through ‘doing’ –

achieving goals, ‘getting’ – the constant acquisition of

things, or ‘having’ – the right relationship, job, or amount of

money in the bank.

In this ‘outside in’ paradigm we live as if success leads to

happiness, wealth leads to security, and circumstances

dictate our experience. We live our lives as if the better we

can make our outside world, the better we will feel on the

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Contact Jeff

Let’s Connect If you would like to get in touch or have any questions about coaching with me, please contact me on jeff@dlc.co.ke I aim to respond to all emails within 48 hours. Or simply call me on my personal number 0722992111 www.dlc.co.ke