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How decisions relate to injunctions?

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We have emphasized that a parent’s injunction cannot make the child write her script in a particular way. It is the child who decides what to do with the injunction she receives.

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How decisions relate to injunctions?

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Prepared By Manu Melwin JoyResearch Scholar

School of Management StudiesCUSAT, Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114

Mail – [email protected]

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How decisions relate to injunctions?

We have emphasized

that a parent’s injunction

cannot make the child

write her script in a

particular way. It is the

child who decides what

to do with the injunction

she receives.

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How decisions relate to injunctions?

One child may accept an

injunction as it stands.

Another may modify it

ingeniously to ease its

impact. Still another may

simply refuse to accept

the injunction at all.

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How decisions relate to injunctions?Another possibility is that the child may make a magical early decision to shift the impact of Don’t exist by deciding to kill someone else instead of killing himself. This results in a harmatic script in which the payoff is homicide instead of suicide.

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How decisions relate to injunctions?

Alternatively, the magical

belief may be of the form

: “If I can stop existing as

a sane person, maybe I

wont actually have to

die.” This gives the script

the harmatic payoff of

“go crazy”.

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How decisions relate to injunctions?

At the other extreme from

these tragic decisions, the

infant may already be able to

realize: “ This message is my

mother’s problem, not

mine” and thus reject the

don’t exist injunction

altogether.

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Children who do this may, in

the Gouldings words, “…

become little psychiatrists or

priests, as they study the

family and attempt to cure

it, while saving their own

lives by recognizing the

pathology is not of their

doing.”

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How decisions relate to injunctions?The child always have the option of turning an injunction around in this way to create positive instead of negative outcomes. For instance, a little boy who gets “ Don’t be the sex you are” may grow into a man rich in positive qualities that are conventionally pictured as feminine – sensitivity, physical warmth, openness to feelings.

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How decisions relate to injunctions?Another way to avoiding the impact of injunctions is to make compound decisions. This means that the child uses little professor ingenuity in combining different script messages, with the objective of staying alive and getting her needs met as well as she can.

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How decisions relate to injunctions?These compound decisions come up frequently in script analysis, and are important in understanding how the script works. Practical experience suggests that Don’t exist is the message most often defended against.

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Thank You

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