finding ways to find myself andrew oostdyk. keys to finding my identity ■- establishing what...
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FINDING WAYS TO FIND MYSELF
Andrew Oostdyk
Keys to Finding My Identity
■ - Establishing what motivates me
■ - Experiences through my motivation
■ - Evaluation of experiences
■ - Understanding lessons learned
■ - Forming a purpose for my life based on lessons and morals learned
■ - Applying what I have learned to all areas of my life and gaining knowledge of what makes up my character
Passions and Motivations
■Sports (Football, Baseball, etc.)
Benefactors of participating in team sports
■ - Working with others toward a common goal has provided a sacrifice of self-interest and unselfishness
■ - Gaining depth in experiences through challenges
■ - Establishing a will to work through challenges to achieve goals
■ - Learning to stay motivated and focused through both hard and easy times
■ - Working through challenges and gaining a sense of triumph individually as well as with others
■ - Triumphing and establishing a determination and dedication to achieving goals in other areas of life
Experiences
■ Positive and Negative in sports, translates to Winning and Losing in both personal and team areas
Learning from winning
■ - Experiencing an successful result of the work put in
■ - Gaining an understanding of what it takes to experience winning
■ - Building a work ethic and a consistent routine to guide myself toward success
Learning from losing
■ - Handling the disappointment of a negative outcome
■ - Fighting discouragement and continuing successful habits
■ - Gaining perspective and finding my will to experience success
VS.
My Experience■ Injury = a barrier between myself and pursuing
success and experiences within my passion
■ Overcoming injury and the challenges presented
■ - Handling and working through pain, both physical and emotional
■ - Maintaining my will to succeed with an additional challenge
■ - Fighting through adversity and learning to thrive in adversity – applies to all areas of life and has provided myself with knowledge backed by experience to overcome presented adversity
What I Learned About Myself■ My Experience helped establish the tools and qualities that
apply to my life every day.
■ - My desire to compete with others toward a common goal
■ - My desire to be apart of something bigger than myself
■ - Learning the aspects of challenge and how to overcome adversity
■ - Established my determination to achieve success in something that gives me pride
■ - Provided a moment of growth and development of my character to build on
■ - Gave me perspective on what I want, my will to achieve what I want, and the length I would go to achieve it
■ - Helped me define a part of my character, allowing me to develop and seek the clearest form of my identity