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1: Dave: You'relisteningBulletproofradio.Today'scoolfactofthedayisthat

whenyou'rebookingflightsorhotelsonline,youshouldenableprivatebrowsing,becausetravelsitesquiteoftentrackyourvisits,andthey'llraisethepricethattheyofferyoujustbecauseyou'vebeentherebefore.Speakingoftravelsites,ifyou'regoingtobetravelling,andyouhaven'theardaboutthenewInstaMix,checkitout.InstaMixisamixofbrainoctaneoilandgrass-fedbutterinapowder,soyoucanjustopenupapacket,dumpitintoyourfreshbrewedcoffeemadewithBulletproofupgradedcoffeebeans.ShakeitupinoneoftheBulletproofTravelMugs,andyou'veactuallygotBulletproofcoffee,fullyTSAcompliant,travelsanywhere,andnowyouneverhavetoworryaboutbeinghungryagain.It'swhatIdowhenItravelnow.

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Today'sepisodeisabreakfromwhatyouareusedtohearing.SofarIhavealwaysinterviewspeople,butthistimeI'mgonnashareaconversationwithyouthatcostme$25,000.I'mamemberofJoe

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Polish'sGeniusNetwork,whichisa$25,000annualfeeopportunitytoworkwithJoewho'soneofthemarketinggeniusesontheplanet,andalsotospendsomequalitytimewithagroupofotherveryexperiencedentrepreneursoIcanlearnhowtodotheBulletproofthing,soIdoevenbetter,soIcanhelpmorepeople.Thereasonthisconversationisprettyamazingisthatit'sJoePolishinterviewingnotjustone,but2peoplewhoIreally,reallyadmire.TheyareTonyRobbinsandPeterDiamandis.

PeterwroteaquoteforthefirstBulletproofbook,TheBulletproofDiet,andisapersonalfriend.PeterDiamandisistheguybehindtheXPRIZE.Privatespacetravelishappeningnowbecauseofhim,justanamazingguywhoisactivelychangingtheworldinsomeofthebiggestways,spendsalotoftimewithElonMusk.TonyRobbinsjustaboutneedsnointroduction.He'sworkingonfeedingabillionpeople,doinghugeamountsofnon-profitandcharitablework.Ifyouhaveachancetoactuallyseethevideo,thevideoisevenbetter.Justgotobulletproofexec.com/youtube.Youcancheckoutthevideo,buttheaudioisjustfine.You'regoingtohear2thingsaboutdisruption.Thisisallabouthowtohelpyourself.Honestly,thisisoneofthemostinspiringconversationsthatI'vehadachancetositoninthelastdecade.

Justtoseethesizeofthischangewillactivelyupgradeyourabilitytothinkreallybig,tothinkbold.Thesearesomeofthebiggestandboldestthinkersoutthere.Thisstuffwillruboffonyou.I'mreallygratefultoJoePolishandtoTonyRobbinsandtoPeterDiamandisforbeingcoolwithsharingthisonBulletproofRadio.Thishasn'tbeenpublishedbeforethatI'mawareof.Ididn'tthinkI'deverhaveachancetoshareit.IrememberwhenIsatinaroomofabout200entrepreneursandwatchthisjustamazinginterviewgodown,Iwasthinking,"IwishIcouldsharethis."becauseinspiringyourselfisoneofthebiggestthingsyoucandotojustperformbetter,justtoseewhereyoucango,seehowbigyoucanbe.Theseguysinspiremeregularly,andIhopethattheyinspireyou.

Specialthankstomygoodfriend,JayAbraham,whoisthefounderofEntrepreneurMagazine,andsomeonewhomentorsme.HeistheonewhosetthewheelsinmotiontogetJoePolish,andTonyRobbins,and

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PeterDiamandisalllineduponallowingthistobereleased.Thankssomuch,Jay.ThanksJoe,thanksTony,thanksPeter.Iamindebttoallofyou.Enjoytheshow.IwishI'dbeenonstageinterviewingtheseguys,insteadofJoePolish.However,Joedidafantasticjobandyouwillbeblownawaybythis.It'saspecialeditiononthenextshow.Youwillhearmeinterviewingournextguestlikenormal.ThisissomethingI'mpleasedtobeabletobringtoyou.Itcostme$25,000.It'swortheverypenny.It'syoursforfree.Thankstothegenerosityoftheseguys.

Tony: Gosh,there'salotofthingsI'minvolved.I'mverypassionateaboutfeedingpeople.Ithinkyouknowmystory.WhenIwas11yearsold,wehadnomoney,nofood,andstuff.Agentlemancameandfedmyfamily.Hewasjustadeliveryboy,butitchangedmylifebecauseitmademebelievestrangerscare.Myfatherdidn'trespondverywelltothesituation.Hewasveryangry.Heleftourfamilyshortlythereafter.Forme,itleftandindeliblemarkthatpeoplereallycare.Strangerscareaboutmyfamily.Icareaboutthemandmaybewanttodosomething.Ipromisedtomyself,somehowI'lldowellenoughtofeedotherpeople.WhenIwas17,Ifed2families,andthen4,andthen8,andthen100,000,andthenamillion.In7yearswe'vebeen2millionthroughthefoundation,andI'vematcheditwith2million,so4millionayear.

Ifed42millionpeopleinmylife.ThenIstartedworkingonthisbook4yearsago.Thankyou.Thankyou.Thankyou.Istartedworkingonthisbook,andI'veinterviewed50ofthesmartestfinancialpeopleintheplanet,peoplelikeJohnPaulson.I'vedoneaninterviewin10years,andI'vegotoneofthefirstoneswithhim,RayDalioandpeoplelikethat.Theseareallpeoplenotformtheluckyspermclub.Thesearepeoplethatdiditontheirown.Theybuiltitfromscratch.Noonegavethemabreak.

I'mgettingalltheseinsights,andI'mwatchingCongresspasstheselawswheretheychangethebudgetandtheycutfoodstamps,Idon'tcallitfoodstampsanymore,butthat'sbasicallywhatitis,by$18.2billion,whichbasicallymeanseverypersonthatneedsfoodinthiscountry,who'snotinthepositionanybodyinthisroomisin,hastogowithoutfood1weekamonthfor12monthsoutoftheyear,unlesstheprivate

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sectorpicksitup,whichistheirhope.Mostoftheprivatesectorisreallystressed.IwenttoFeedingAmerican,Isaid,"WhatifIgaveyoualltheprofitsofthisbook,allthemoneyI'mgetting,allthemoneyI'lleverget,howmanypeoplecanIfeed?"Theysaid10millionpeople,andIsaid,"I'min."ThenIgotmoreexcited,andIaddedabunchofmoneytoit,soI'daddedupto50millionpeople.ThenIsaidI'lldomatchingfundsto100million,whichalsoworkedout.

Peter: Awesome.Thankyou.

Joe: We'refocusingon3things.OneistheXPRIZE,andTonyhasbeenextraordinarilygenerousasaphilanthropist.AnumberofyouintheroomherewhoaremembersofInnovationBoard.Thankyouforthoseofyouwhoarepartofthat,someofourtrusteesintheroomhere.Thestorythere,again,Ithinkyouguysallknowthis,ismy9yearolddreaminmyselfwaswantingtogointospaceandgivinguponNASAbeingthewayIwasgoingtogettogothere,andsaying"There'sgottobesomeway,somewhere,somebodycanbuildaspaceshipthatIcangoonto.Iorganizea$10millionprize."AsmydearfriendDanSullivansays,"Ididn'thavethe$10millionatthetime,buthadeveryfaiththatIwould.Itjusttookme6yearstofindit."

That$10millionprizelaunchedaprivatespaceflightindustrythatRichardBransonisnowcommercializingandanumberoftheirteamsaredoing.Ontheheelsofthat,wesaid,"Thisideaofaskingtheworld,whatdoyouwanttosolve?Whatisaproblemthatshouldbesolved,thatyouthinkit'sasinthatit'snotsolvedyet?"realizingthatthereissomuchbrilliancearoundtheworld,thatakidtodayhasmorepowerthanthePresidentoftheUnitedStatesdid20yearsago,intermsofthecomputationalpower,ortheknowledgetheyhave,andthatitusedtobeonlythekingsandqueensthatcouldsolvethingsinthepast.Nowit'sanyofuscansolvesomething.

Whatwedoisweworkwiththetopphilanthropists,andcorporations,andinsomecasesgovernments,andputuptheselargeprizes,amillionorafewmilliondollarsactually.ChristianCotichiniwhorunsHeroXhasspinoutthesmallerprizesweredoingthese10million,$20-30million

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prizesandsaying,"Idon'tcarewhereyouwenttoschool,whateveryou'vedonebefore.Yousolvethisandyouwin."I'lljustmentiononethatwedidtogether.ItwasTonyRobbins,theDeVosfamily,andElonMuskthatfundedagloballearningXPRIZE.250millionkidsaroundtheworld,nearly700millionwomenaroundtheworldcan'tread,write,ordoarithmetic.Weputupaprizethatsaid,"Ifyoucanbuildanappthatcantakeachildwherethere'snothing,noschools,noadults,nothing,andtakethatchildfromilliteracytobasicreading,writing,andnumbersin18months,youwin."

600teamsenteredthatcompetition.We'redownat200deliveringsoftwarethat'llbeinTanzaniainabout14months.Withthat,andactuallyJohnRaymonds,alsooneofoursponsorsinthat,willbe...Thatwinningsoftwarewillbeopensourcedtotheworld,sothateverydevicebecomesateacher.AtXPRIZE,reallyexcitedaboutthat,andreallyfocusedonmappingtheoceanfloors.Thankyou.

Withmydearfriend,EricAnderson,inthebackhere,co-foundedPlanetaryResources.Theconcepthereisthatwethinkofthingsasscarceonearth,andcertainthingsare.Thebeautifulthatwehave,weshouldn'trapeandpillagethem.Weliveinasolarsystemfilledwithresources.TheconcepthereofPlanetaryResourcesiswe'reusingthemostadvancedtechnology,3Dprint,spacecraft,AIonboard,sensorsthatneverflowinorbitbeforetogoouttoprospectnear-earthasteroids,whicharerichinfuels,platinumgroupmetals,constructionmaterials.Thosesamespacecraft,whenpointeddowntowardstheearth,we'vejustdiscovered,andwe'rereallyexcitedaboutthis,canactuallymapandpredicttheyieldofeveryacreofcroplandonplanetearth,andreallyhelpusfeedtheplanetmuchmoreefficiently.

Wejustlaunchedourfirstspacecraft,nextonegoesupinthefirstquarter.Thelastone,whichisIthinkrelevanttoallofus,istheideathatwecanalllive30or40morehealthyyearsinourlife.ToDan'spointearlieraboutlivingto95,butnot95,livingto195,whateveritmightbe.We'reatamomentintimewherewehavetorealizethesoftwarethatrunsourbody,ourgenome,whathappenstoyou,isn'thappenstance.Itisn'tlike,"OhmyGod.Ihappentocomedownwith

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that."Yourdestinyisinyourgenes.It'salsointheenvironmentandallthosekindsofthings.ThisisoneofTony’soneofourinvestors.WecreatedacompanycalledHumanLongevity.CarigVenter,whosequencedthefirsthumangenome,andBobHaririandIfoundedittogether.

It'sbuilttheworld'slargestgenomesequencingfacilityintheplanet.We'vesequencedmorehumangenomesthantherestoftheworldcombined.Notjustthegenome,yourmicrobiome,afullbodyMRI,2,300chemicalsinyourbloodstream.themostmassivedatasetaboutyou,weminethatdatatoactuallyhelpyouunderstandwhatisgoingon.It'sthemostcompleteinformationdatasetintheworld.We'vealsojust...AfewofyouintheaudiencehereIknowarebenefitingfromthisinourHealthNucleus.We'renowactuallysequencingcancerstohelpyouknowwhatdrugsspecificallyworksforyouinyourcancer,notjustforeverybodywhohappenstohavethatgenericcancer.

That'sthebigone.Ithinkthat'ssomethingthat'sgoingtoimpactallofus,ismaking100yearsoldthenew60.Yougetyounger.

Peter: Awesome.Whatarethebiggesttradeoffsthatbothofyouconsidermaybenegativeinordertodowhatitisyoudo?Becauseyou'rebothincrediblydriven,whatIwouldconsiderinsaneschedules,butatthesametimeyou'remakingmassivecontributionstohumanity.Whatarethetradeoffsthatyouwouldconsiderlike,"Youknow,weworkourassesoff.Wedoalotofstuff,butthisiswhatwehavetosacrificeinordertodoit."ifyouthinkofitthatway?

Tony: Ithinkifyou'rethinkingofitasasacrifice,thenyou'regoingtobuildfrustrationorresentment.Ifyouthinkit'sasacrifice,youshouldn'tdoit.Ithinkthechallengeisthatmostpeoplehavethisillusionaboutlife-workbalance.Ithinkthat's...Ifyou'regoingtoaccomplishdoingit...Peoplearelaughingbecauseisyouknowit.Right?What'strueislife-workintegration.Iwasjustin7countriesin21days,butwho'swithmeismyfamily,who'swithmyismyfriends,andI'vedonewellenoughtohaveaplane,andbedrooms,andallthatkindofcoolstuffthatmakesit.WhenIdidn't,westillpuffedittogetherandbeginningdaysitwas

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coachanddraggingourselvesaround.Ithoughtitwasgreatformykidstohaveschooling,butIthoughtaneducationwasmorevaluable,andtravelingtheearthwasapartofthat.

We'reinamiddleofthiscrazyschedule,butit'snotwork.It'samission.Whenit'swork,it'sthat.Ialwaysaskpeople.Isaid,"Howwouldyoudescribewhatyoudo?"People,Isay,"Isitwork?Isitcareer?Isitmission?"Mostpeoplesayit'swork,andthat'sexactlywhatitis.It'sheavy.Ifit'syourcareer,itgivesyousomethingmore.Yourmission,itdoesn'twearyouout.Itbringsenergytoyou.It'sfulfilling.Ifyoucantieyourmissioninwiththepeoplethatyoulove,it'sprettycool.There'speopleinthisroom,they'remyfriends,IseeDeanhereinthefrontrowhere.We'reallalongthismission,andwefindtimetoconnectandbewitheachotherandhaveablastwitheachother,butwe'resharingaboutthingsthatmatter.I'mnotapersontogoapartyandgointhecornerandchitchat.It'slike,"Youwanttotalksomethingdeep?Let'srock.Ifyoudon't,letmegohomeandbewithmyfamily.Letmegodosomethingfun,somethingofthatnature."

Ifyoucancombineyourmissionwithyourfamily,combineyourmissionwithsomeofyourfriends,thenyou'regoingtoaccomplishamilliontimesmore.Ifyouthinkit'sasacrifice,don'tdoit,becausethenallyou'redoingisyou'regoingtohaveresentmentlateron,andfrustrationlateron.Youreallyaren'tcontributing,becauseyou'retradingoff.You'renotgiving.

Peter: Great.

Joe: I'ma9yearoldkid.ThoseofyouknowmeknowI'ma9yearoldchildinmybody,pinchingmyselfeverydaythatIgettodothisshitthatIgettodo.Itisextraordinary.Icouldnot,wouldnotwanttobedoinganythingelse.There'shardwork,andit'slikeI'mpushingmyselfmorethananybodyelse,butIloveit.Iloveit.Iloveit.Icannotimaginedoinganythingelse.That'sthechallenge.Thequestionisalotofpeoplearedoingsomethingtogettosomethingelse.That'sjustwrong.

Tony: Iagree.

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Joe: It'samatterofdon'tdoitbecauseyourparentstoldyou,becauseyou

hearditonaninfomercial,becausewhatever.Dowhatisyourhighestcallinginlifeandloveit.Idon'tworkatall.Ireallydon'twork.Danhasoldmetogetridofit,andsoIgetridofit.

Peter: Thisroomisfilledwithsomeveryhighachievers.ObviouslywhatIwantedtoderivefromyouguysissomeinsights,somehow-tos,whatitisyoudotojustgivethemaperspectiveandstuff.Icarefullychosesomequestions.Yourbothmastersatachievingwhatmostpeopleconsiderimpossible.Really,whatyouguysdo,mostpeopleconsiderabsolutelyimpossible,whensomethingisconsidered"impossible",howdoyoureframeitsoitbecomespossibleinyourmind,andhowmuchofthatismindset?

Tony: Ithinkimpossibleisnotafact,it'sanopinion.Whensomeonetellsmeit'simpossible,Ialwaysjustlookatthem.Anybodyaroundmeknowsthattheycan'tdothat.That'spartofit.Iftheydidnowme,it'syouropinion,andI'llsaynoscienceshows...I'llsay,"Howmanytimesascienceshowsomethingisimpossible,nowscienceshowsispossible?"Thingsareimpossibleuntilsomebodydoesit.Ifindthatmostofyoubusinesspeople,youlookatbusinessesandwhatdoesittaketomakeabusinessgrow.It'snotimpossibleforabusinesstogrow.Businesshasbeenshrinkingforalongtime,orit'sbeenstuck.Therealproblemisalways,thechokeholdisalwaysthepsychologyandtheskillsoftheleader,always.80%ofthatispsychologyand20%ifthemechanics.

Ifyoudon'tknowhowtoreadyourfinancialsandyou'retryingtoflytheplaneofyourcompany,comeon.Ifallyoudoisgodownandyoulookatprofitloss,andyouseewhatitis,andyouhaveabeer,etherway.Youeithercelebrateitorgetdepressed,something,you'regoingtobeintrouble.Ifyouhavetheskillsets,that'sonething,butyoucangetanyskillsetifyouhavethepsychology.AnytimeAbusinessisnotgrowing,itisnotbecauseit'simpossible.It'sbecausetheyareinnovating,andthey'renotinnovatingbecausetheybelieveit'simpossible.Ifweallknowwhatdoesittaketotransform...Obviously,peopletakes3thingstocreateabreakthroughinanything,inyour

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personallife,inyourbusiness,anywhere.

Youneedastrategy,butthat'snotthefirstplaceyoushouldlook,andit'sthefirstplaceallofuslook,metoo.It'sourinherentthing,youwanttoloseweight?Well,howdoIdoit?Iwanttogrowmybusiness.HowdoIdoit?It'sinstinctively.You'vebeentrainedtothinkthatway.Theproblemisthehow-toisusuallynotthatcomplex.Comeone,70%ofAmericaiswhat?75%ofAmericanowisoverweight.Isthatbecauseit'ssocomplexhowtobefitandstrong?Onlythethe1%knowtheanswer.Theyhideitfromyou.Youhavetoworkyouassofftonothearwhatittakes.Right?

IrememberIwenttoaTEDMEDCenterandIwatchedabout12doctors,oneafteranothergetupanddothesestoriesabouthowwecouldjustgetpatientstotaketheirmedicationsandtrytofigureoutthewholething.Iwasjustlookingandgoing,"You'realltalkingaboutstrategyandyou'veforgottenpsychology."Strategyiswonderful.I'mastrategist.Ihavemywholelifethinkingoutstrategies.Aswebothknow,astrategycouldsaveyoudecade,andabusinessstrategycouldmakethedifferencebetweensuccessandfailure.Mostpeoplehavestrategiesavailable,ortheycouldgetthem,oryoucouldcreatethem.Theproblemisyougotastory.Yourstoryiswhyitisn'tworking.ThestoryisI'vetried,what?Everything.

Ifyou'vetriedeverything,you'dbefit.Ifyou'vetriedeverything,you'dbeprofitableifyou'vetriedeverything,you'dbethere.Peoplesaid,"I'mbigboned."That'swhatI'musedtosay.I'mstillbigboned,butI'm38poundslighterthanIwas25yearsago,andInevergaineditback.WhenIwasbigboned,thatwasmystory.Allofthegoodonesaregone.That'swhyI'minarelationship,oragaintheyare,oragaintheyare,whateverthestoryis.There'salwaysastory.WhatItellpeopleis,"Ifyoucanjustdivorcethestoryofyourlimitationandmarrythetruthofyourunlimitedcapacity,thenthewholegamechanges."

It'shardtodothatbecausewhenyou'reinyourstory,youdon'tevenrealizeit,soyouneedathirdpieceforbreakthrough,andthat'sreallywhatmylifeisabout,whichischangingpeople'sstates.Inadifferent

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state,we'redifferentpeople.Canmeanpeoplebenice,yesorno?Yesorno?Ofcoursetheyare,whenthey'reinanicestate.Cannicepeoplebemean?Sure,togetameanstate.Reallylearningtotrainyourselftobeinanidealstatewherethebestofyoucomesoutforyourself,foryourfamily,foryourmission,foryourworld,foryourco-workers.Tome,that'soneofthemostimportantdecisionsinmylifetomake.Youjustaskmeof,outofallthepeopleI'vemet,allthingsI'veseen,whatcreatesamagnificentlife?

Everybodyhasgoalsanddreamsthataredifferent.Somepeoplewantpicketfence.Somewanttomakeabilliondollars.Somewanttohavethishugebreakthroughintechnology.Somepeoplewanttowritepoetry.WhateverisrightforpeopleiswhatIwantthemforthemselvesIdon'twanttobelikemeoryouoranybodyelse.Iwantthemtohavetheirdream.Tohavethat,youneedto2skills.Youneed,number1,tohavethescienceofachievement.It'sascience,youhavetokonwhowtotakeyourvisionandmakeitreal.Mostofthepeopleassumedthey'vealreadyfiguredthatout.Thisguysureashellhas.YouhaveandIhave.Mostofusknow,andwecanallrefineourskillsinthatarea,butweknowhowtotakewhatwedreamabouttomakeitreal.Ifyoudon't,youcanlearnfromsomebodywhodoes.

Thesimplestthingisgetcrazilyhungryforsomething.Weallknowwhenyougetsohungry,sodesirous,yourbrainstartstocomingupwithanswers.Thenit'smassiveactionbuteffectiveexecution,whichisallmodeling,whichiswhatIassumewhatthisisabout.Findthebestexample,compressthetime.Letsomeoneelsetake20yearstofigureout,youdoitin2weeksor2months,orwhateverperiod.Weshouldallbestandingtoshoulderswithpeoplearoundus,insteadofreinventingthewheel.Thenthere'sthingcalledgrace.Ifyouworkyourassoff,yourtotallyfocused,you'retryingtoservesomethinglargerthanyourself,andyoureallyareexecutingwhatworks,youneedalittlegrace.Youmightwanttocallitluckifyouprefer,God,theuniverse,butit'sthere,andwecanallachieve.

Ithinkthemoreimportantskill,ifyouaskme,tohaveanextraordinarylife,istheartoffulfillment,andit'sanart.It'snotascience,because

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there'sasciencetomakingmoney.Idon'tcarewhoyouare,ifyoudocertainthings,you'regoingtohavetoomuchfinancialstress.Ifyoudotherethings,you'regoingtohaveanabundance.There'sasciencetoyourbody.Everyonehereisbiochemicallydifferent,theyhaveagenome,buttherearecertainfundamentalpatternsthatifyouandIfollowthem,you'regoingtohavetonsofenergyinafieldthatifyoubreakthem,you'regoingtopaythepriceandhavelowenergyordisease.

Fulfillmentisanart.What'sgoingtofulfillyouisdifferentthantheothernexttoyouyou'renotgoingtolearnthatfromanybodyelse.Yougottofindit,becausesuccesswithoutfulfillmentistheultimatefailure.Igetthosephonecallsallthetimeforthemulti-billionaireentrepreneur,orpoliticians,orbusinessperson,orapersonwhojustwontheiracademyaward,andthey'redepressed,andtheycan'ttellanybody,becausetheygotalltheirgoals,butthey'renotfulfilled,becausetheyreallydon'thavethatsenseofmeaningintheirlife.Theywentforsomethingandtheygotit.Theyachieved.IfyoudoubtjustwhatI'msayingisrelevanttoyou,orus,oranyone,justthinkingaboutit.Aboutamonthago,welostwhatIconsiderbeanationaltreasure.RobbinWilliams.

HowmanyofyoulovedRobbinWilliams?Putyourhandsupandkeepyourhandsandlook.Mostofyoudidn'tknow.Anywhereyougointheworld,peopleloveRobbinWilliams.Bytheway,washegreatatachievement?OhmyGod,thatguy.Hesaidhewanttobecomeagreatcomedian,hedidthat."Iwanttomaketheworldlaugh."Hedidit."IwanttomakemyownTVshow."Hedidit."Iwantedthenumber1TVshow."Hedidit."Iwanttomakemovies."Hedidit."IwantanAcademyAwardfornotbeingfunny."nothisskillset,drama,andhedidit."Iwantabeautifulfamily."Hedidit,andthenhehunghimself.

Makeeverybodyhappy,butyourself,notagoodplan.IfIhadagifttogiveyou,itwouldbemaybemakeadifferentdecision.Thedecisionisthatnomatterwhathappensinyoulife,you'regoingtoliveinabeautifulstate.Thatcouldbehappy,thatcouldbegrateful,thatcouldbebeinggenerous.Thoseareallbeautifulstates,aren'tthey?Itcouldbe

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curious.Itcouldbefun.Itcouldbeplayful.You'renotlimitedtoonestate,butit'sdifferentthansuffering.Mostpeoplesuffering,andallsufferingI'veeverseen,Itraveled100countries,I'vedealtwithpresidentsofcountriesandpresidentsofbusinesses,CEOs,I'vedealtwithpeopleinprison,I'vedealtwith,younameit,averagepeople,sufferingalwayscomesbecauseyou'reobsessedaboutsomethingrelatedtoyou.

Youcanonlybedepressedifyou'refocusingonyourself.Yousay,"Oh.I'mdepressedbecausemykids,andthey'renotdoingwell."No,you'redepressedbecauseyoufeelyoufailedyourkids.It'saboutyou.It'sabouthowyouthinkwhatshould'vedoneorshouldn'thavedone,orwhatsomeonedidtoyouordidn'tdotoyouinthepastorthefuture,whichdon'tevenexist.Ihaveasimple.Mygoalishelppeoplemakeadecisionthatsays,"Idon'tknowwhat'sgoingtohappen."Youmightgetadivorce,eventhoughyoudon'tthinkso.Youmightfindthenoneofyourfamilywithcancer.Youmighthaveyourhousegetburneddownorhaveatornadogobuy.Ifyouliveinthesameplace,ithappensevery2yearsandyoumoveback,weshouldtalk,butsomepeopleseemtodothatforsomereason.

Youcan'tcontrolthosethings.Ican'tcontrolthosethings.Idon'twantthosetohappentoyouroranybodyIlove,oranybodywho'sevenastrangertome,butthey'regoingtohappen.True?Notpositivethinking,justthetruth.Ifthat'sgoingtohappen,I'dsaymakeadecisionnowthatsays,"I'mgoingtoliveinabeautifulstate,andI'mgoingtofindbeautyinwhateverlifebringsme,becauselifeistooshortnotto."IseealittlebuddyoverherenamedSean.IrememberwhenIgotaphonecallfromtheMakeAWishfoundationandsay,"Ihaveayoungmanthat'sabouttodieandhewantstomeetyou."HecametoaseminarandthenItookhimoutafter.Intime,ifhecoughedtoomuch,theysaid,"Youcan'tgrabhim."Isaid,"Iwanttotakehimacrossthefire."Theysaid,"Takehimacrossthefire?"Theysaid,"Ifhecoughshebreakarib."Isaid,"I'llbereallygently.We'regoingtodothisthing."

Hedidit,andafterwardsIsatdown,andIsaid,"Man,Idon'thavetheanswers,butifyourbodyis...You'rejustcoughingandit'sgoingto

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makeyoubreakarib.Youbodyissoacid."Isaid,"Youshouldgetalkaline.Letmeputyoutogetherwithadoctor."Howmanyyearsagowasthat?

Sean: I'mFrom36,andthatwas19

Tony: Youwere19andyou'renow36.Ilikeseeingyouhere,brother.Givehimahand,thisbeautifulman.Sean,maybeSeanwasinabeautifulstate.Hecouldbebitchingandcomplainingandwhining.Whatdoeshedo?Hiswholelifeisnotabouthimself.That'swhyhe'ssohappy.Hedoesn'tliveinhimself.Helivesoutsideofhimself,servingthingsheloves.Hestilltakescareofhimself,andhe'sfunny.HeliketoseducewomenandthingslikeIcan'ttalkaboutrightnow.

Sean: I'mmarriednow.

Tony: Ohyou'remarriednow.Okay.Well,that'sgood.I'mgladtohear.It'saboutfreakingtime,rightSean?It'sgoodtoseeyougrewupnow.Thebottomlineisthisyoungmanoverherenowisinadifferentstageoflife,he'salwaysbeen...Ithinkhelivedbecausehelivedformorethanhimself.I'msureit'sallpain,butweonlysufferwhenwethinkaboutwhat'sbeingdonetous,orwhatpeoplearegoingtothink,orwhattheyshould'vedoneandhaven'tdone.Youcan'tcontrolthatstuffanyway.Whybepissedwhenpeoplearegoingtodo...Arepeoplegoingtobemean,yesorno?Arepeoplegoingtobeunfairandunjust,yesorno?Arepeoplegoingtobebeautifulandgenerous,yesorno?

Youjustneverknowwhenthat'sgoingtohappen,somightaswellenjoyyourselfalongtheway?Isuggesttoday,ifyouwant,ifthere'sanygiftIcamebytogiveyou,it'stotellyouwhatyouknowalready,butgetyoutomakeadecisionaboutit,toactuallydecide,"I'mgoingtoliveinabeautifulstate."Thatdoesn'tmeanIdon'tgetangryortired.Sufferingarises,andyouenditthemomentyougo,"I'mthinkingaboutme.IfIdothis,I'llalwaysbesuffering."Thehumanmindisalwayslookingforwhat'swrong.Thehumanbrainisnotdesignedtomakeyouhappy.It'sdesignedtomakeyousurvive.Happiness,that'syourjob.Youonlygetitifyoudrawalineinthesand.That'showit'sgoingtobe.

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Icantellyou,thefewpeoplewhodoit.Iknowafewpeoplethathave

doneit.Theyhavemagnificentlives.Whenyou'reinabeautifulstate,thebestideaiscoming.ThismanwasinabeautifulstateeverytimeItalktohim.IloveseeingPeter.Peterisjustalwaysonfireaboutsomething.Notice,he'sdoingunbelievablywell.There'snothingwrongwiththat.Almosteverythinghe'sdoingisaboutmorethanhimself.That'swhyhefeelsoalive.He'snotsufferinganounce.He'sinecstasy.He'snotlucky.He'slivinglifeacertainway.It'sabeautifulway.I'mhonoredtohaveyouasafriend.

Joe: Thankyou,brother.

Tony: howmanymetthismanbeforeandhewasinawonderfulstate?Showyourhands.Idon'tI'veeverseennotawonderfulstate.I'veseenhimhavesomepainfulchallengingplaces,buthedoesn'tstaythere.Lookwhathe'sabletocreatebecauseofit.Heisa9yearoldboywho'sonfire.He'sonfiretolighttheworldonfirewithwhat'spossible.It'sbeautifulthing,andIhonoryou.

Joe: ThecontributionI'llmake...Thankyou,Tony.Ithinkitwasaboutimpossibleinmindsetandsoforth.Therealityisthereisverylittlethat'simpossible,period.Itjustis.Yourmindset,assoonasyousaysomethingisimpossible,thenyoushutdowneverypossibilityforsolvingit.Weallknowthis.Thechallengeisthatit'sreallyhardnottobeinthatstatebecausewegetthrownstuffallthetime.WhatIwanttosharewithisanexperimentwhichistosay,"Okay.NotonlyhowdoImakeitpossible,buthowdoIactuallygo10timesbigger?"You'veheardmespeakaboutthis,moonshotthinking,boldthinking,whateverthecase,whateverterminologyyouwanttogiveit.

Mostofusinourlifearetryingtomakea10%improvement,andweknowthis.Thisis,"I'mtryingtoincreasemyrevenuesby10%.I'mtryingtoincreasemysalesby10%,save10%moreofthelandsoutthere."Whateverittrulyis,weallhavethisbeatingintousbylifeandbytherestofuniversethatyoucanmakethesmallincrementalimprovements.Thefactofthematteristhattherearethoseintheworld

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thatgo10timesbigger.Everyoneofuscanbethat.Assoonasyousay,"Iwanttonotonlysolvethisthing,butgo10timesbiggerinmywork,inthethings."CanIsaythis?Insomethingthatyou'retrulypassionateabout,notjustaboutburningalittlebitmoremoney,itreallyshouldbeinsomethingthatyoucaretrulyabout,thatisbiggerthanyourself,thatimpactingtheworld.

Assoonasyoutryandgo10timesbigger,3magicalthingshappen.Number1,evenifyouhavenoideahowtosolveit,notideahowtogetthere,you'llbeamazedatwhatyoucomeupwith.What'sinterestingisourlegacy,ourpastanchorsustowherewearetoday.Youhavetoletgoofthat.Youtrulyhavetoletgoofallthestuffinyourpast,whatyouthoughtyou'vedone,alloftheinfrastructurethatyoubuilttoletyourselfgo.WhenElonMuskbuildTesla,thereasonTeslawassuchanamazinglybettercarishedidn'thave100yearsofDetroittoholdonto.Hestartedwithacleansheetofpaperandimaginewhatitcouldbe.

Thesecondthingiswhenyoutryandgo10timesbiggerversus10%bigger,it's100timesthevalueproposition,andit'snever100timesmoreexpensiveor100timesharder.Yougetthisincreasedcapability.Thethirdthingiswhenyoutryandgo10timesbiggertosolveaproblem10timesbigger,yougottoreinventstuff.Youhavetoactuallygoandfigureout,"Okay.IhavenoideahowI'mgoingtosolveit."You'regoingtostarttoreinventthings.WhenEricandIwereworkingonasteroidmining,wehadtoreinvent.Wehadtohavesomuchcomputationalpoweronboardthespacecraft.Wehadtocomeupwithbrandnewsensorsandhyperspectralandmid-waveIRthatdidn'texist.Itneverbeenlicensed,becausethesespacecraftswe'regoingtooperatingat200millionmilesaway,anditforcedustocomeupwithnewkindsofcapabilitiesthatwerenotcurrentlypossible.You'llbeamazedwiththosecapabilitiesthatyoucreateinyourbusiness,inyourlife,enableyoutodo.

There'sthismassivebenefit,thispayoff,thedividendthatcomesfromexpandingyourmindandnotbeinganchoredtothepast.Ithinkthatthereareveryfewthingsthataretrulyimpossible.Ithinkthatimpossibleisastateofmind.I'llsayoneotherthing.Thepeopleinyour

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lifearepartofthatanchoring.Howdoyouanchoryourselfwithanewsetofpeople?I'mlookingatmydearfriend,NadineJane,herewithwhomwe'veopenedupXPRIZEIndiaandarereallyworkingonsolvingwomen'sandgirls'issuesinIndia,andprovidingabunchofdrinkingwaterinIndia.Howdoyousurroundyourselfwithamazingpeoplewholiveinthestateofanythingispossible?I'mblessedatXPRIZE,atSingularityUniversity,atHLI,andPRI.Iliveoutconstantly.Howdoyoudothat?Whereareyoudoingthat?Whatisyournothingisimpossiblecommunity?

Itistrulyhere.That'sreallycriticallyimportant.Onceyougetintothatmindset,thenyoustartfreeingyourselffromtheother...Thenyoutellyourselfandpeopletellyou,becausewearelivinginaworldwhereconstantamazingmiracleshappen.Theotherthing,becauseIputmycommercialintothis,stopwatchingthenews,stopwatchingthenews.Youcouldnotpaymeenoughtohavethecrisisnewsnetworkwiththeconstantnegativenewswork,whateveryoucallCNN,pollutemymind.Really,Ihavesocialnetworks.IhaveGoogleFiltersandsoforth.IwasjusttellingAriannaaboutthis,andhopefullyshe'lldothis.IwantonthefrontpageofHuffingtonPost.Isaid,"IwantasliderwhereIcancontrolthepercentageofpositivenewsstories."Howdoyoulikethat?

Rightnowit's10to1negativetopositive.It'strue.It'slike,"Whywouldyoupossiblyinvestintheworldandintolifeandallthesethings,iftheworldisfallingapart.IfthecrisisnewsnetworkisshowingyouairplanexintoairplaneXandairplanex.Theproblemisthatthenewsnetworksnevertellyou,"Therewasnoschoolshootingtodayatthisschool."or"ThisairplaneactuallyflewLAtoNewYorkandactuallymadeit.Everybodysurvived."That'snotnews.Wegetthisdisproportionateview.Ourmindsareconstantly..Themindsetyouhavewhenyouwatchthenegativenewsisawful.It'snotgoingon.It'snotthatthere'sthisamazinghardshipandlivesthatareontheprecipiceofhungeranddeatharoundtheworld,buttheworldisgettingbetteratanextraordinaryrate.Youcanmakeadifferenceinit.Thereisnoproblem.Thereisnoproblemwecannotsolve,period,endofstatement.

Peter: Awesome.Allright.Sincebothofyouare2ofthegreatestachieversand

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thebiggestthinkers,atleastthatIknow.

Tony: Inthehistoryofhumanity.

Peter: Well,honesttoGod...Youknowwhat?No.Inaveryseriousway.It'sfunny.Ican'timaginetherewilleverybeanotherTonyRobbins.Youareafreakingfreakofnature-

Tony: That'strue.

Peter: Aforceofnature.OneofthemostamazingthingswhenIwenttoDatewithDestiny.He'llask,"Howmanyofyoucamehere,you'rethinkingaboutcommittingsuicide?"Literally,Idon'tknow,anywherefrom6to12orwhatever,Idon'tknowtheamount,standup,andyouliterallytakethatshiton.Idon'tknowanotherhumanbeingthatcould...It'smindbogglingandyouflipit.Youtakeapersoninahorriblehopelessstateandthey'recomingtoyourseminarmaybeasthelast-ditcheffort,butthere'sthathope,andyoujustchannelit,butthenyousharethatwithfreakingthousandsofpeopleliveonthespot.That'sjustoneofhundredsofthingsthatyoudothataremindboggling.

Joe: Everyonethere’sthinkingthere'snowayhecandothis.There'snowwayyoucan...Howcanyoupossibly...Boom.It'sdone.Youdoit.Itistrulyablessingtohaveyouontheplanet

Tony: It'sablessing.

Peter: Wereyoubornthisway?That'sastupidquestion.I'msayingitforotherpeople.YoubuiltyourselftoTonyRobbins.

Joe: Probablyit'syourgenesequence.

Tony: IwasakidfromaAzusaswhohadnocertainty.Wehadnofoodandhavetobeinchargebecausemymotherwasalittlecrazy.Ipromisedtomyselfthatmyfuturefamilywouldnevergothroughthis,andsoIdecidedIhatedsufferingasIexperiencedit,andIwantedtoendit.Ireadsomeofherbooksintheareaofhumandevelopment,psychology,

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andphysiologywhenIwasstill17,18,19to21,22yearsold.IwassayingIwasgoingtoreadabookaday.Ididn'tdothat,butIamstillimmersed.Iwenttoeveryevent.Ilistenedtoeverything.Igotimmersed.Whenitcomestopeople.I'vebeendoingnow,I'vebeendoingthisfor38yearsandI'vebeenwith50millionpeopleand100countries,sothere'snothingIhaven'tseenatthispointifsomebodystandsup.

It'sbeautiful.Ithappensdifferenteverytime,anditcomesthroughme.Ireallybelieveingrace.Ireallybelieveit'sthere,butpreparedatalevelmostpeopleneverdreamof.Ialsoknowthatthere's...Whateverhumanbeingsfeel,wearenotourfeelings.Wearenotourpatterns.Thosearethingswemightidentifywithbutwe’renotthat.WhenIseeapatternthatdoesn'twork.Idon'tthinkthepersonisbroken.Idon'tthinkanybodyisbroken.I'mnotheretofixpeople,butIamheretobreakthepatternsthatdon'twork.I'veneverlostasuicide,knockonwood,andthousandsfor38years,andwefollowup2yearslater,3years.They'remakingadocumentaryrightnow.

Peter: Howdoyoubothdealwith,orthinkabout,orevenchannelextremelevelsofstress,adversethecriticism,publicopinion,orfailure?Bothofyouhadthingsthatjustflatoutdidn'twork,butyou'requite...You'republicfigures.Howdoyouhandleit,ordealwithit,orthinkaboutit?

Joe: Ireallyletgoofcriticismreallyfast.Imightprocessitinthemomenttotryandfigureout,istheresomethingthatItrulylearnfromtheirfeedback,butIletgoofitreallyfast.IfI'minafight,apersonalfightorwhatever,timeissoprecious.Timeissoprecious.Failure,God,I'vehadawonderfulseriesoffailures.IbuiltthelaunchFICOcompanythatwewonthishugecontractandcouldn'tfinanceit,andhadtocloseitdown.Ibuiltamultitudeofcompanies.Luckily,athirdhavebeengreat,athirdhavebeenokay,andthethirdhavebeenlifelessons.IhavetobelievethatwhatI'mdoinginmyheartofheartsistherightthingtodo.IfI'mdoingtheverybestIcan,andIbelieveitissomething...Itakeadollarfromsomebodyasadonation,orasaninvestment,thoseofyouwhoareintheroomherewhohavesupportinmeorinvestedinmeknowthat.

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It'sme.It'slikeyougotmycellphonenumber,andIcare,andIamsocommittedtodelivering.IwoulddoeverythingIpossiblecan.Ineedtoknowthatformyself.Icansleepatnightifsomethingfails,butIknowIgaveiteverythingIcanpossiblycould.There'salsothosetimeswhereshithashit,it'slikenosedive.IwillstopeverythingelseI’mdoingandI’llgolaserlightonthat.100%,24hoursaday,7daysaweek,andIwilldoeverythinghumanlypossible,andittakesthatalotoftimes.Itabsolutelytakesthatalotoftimes.That’sforme.

Peter: Awesome.Thankyou.

Tony: IwouldsayIlovetolightpeople.SinceIwasthislittlekid,Ilovetolightpeopleup.EarlyonIwanttomakeeverybodyhappyallthetime.Icomeinthispackage.Iwas5'1"andnextthingyouknowI'm6'7"Igrew10inchesinayearbecauseIhadatumorinmybrain,andIdon'tevenknowit.Igrow,soI'mbig.I’mquiet,andassumingIhaveahardtimeexpressingmytruefeelings,soitmakesitdifficultforpeopleunderstandwhatI'mreallylike.I’mprettyloudandintense,andwhathappenedformeinthebeginningasIwasjusttryingtomakeeverybodyhappyallthetime,andthenjustrealizednobodywantstobehappy.

Gradually,Ibegantorealizeopinionsaredimeadozen,butimpactisallthatmatterstome.Youknowwhenyou'vehadtheimpact.Youdon’tneedeverybodyelsetotellyou,andyoudon’tneedtosomebodyelsetoacknowledgeyou,putstarsinyouchart.Youdowhat'sright,youknowit,youknowit.Noonecouldtakethatfromyou.Theycantakeawayanythingyouhave,buttheycan’ttakeawaywhoyoubecome.Youbecomesomethinguniquewhenyoufindawaytogrowandyoufindawaytogive.Youdothatconsistently.Itcreatesanextraordinarylife.SoI’dbelyingtosay:Idon’twantpeopletohatemeordislikeme,butitwouldn'tbeaccuratetosayIdon’tcare,butIdon’tcareenoughtochangewhatI’mdoingifwhatI’mdoingisvaluable.

Ithinkthatasfarasfailureisconcern,ohmygod,there’sjustsomanyfailures.Ijustdon’tholditthatthatway,andit’snotatechniqueorbeingpositive.It’sjustbeingintelligent.Failureiseducation,ifyouuse

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it.Ifyoulearnsomething,it’snotafailure.Ifyoudidn'tlearnanything,thenit’sfailure,butifyoulearnsomething...Howmanyofyouhaveyouhadsomethingupinlifethatwashorrific,youhatedit,you’dneverwanttogothroughitagain,you’dneverwantsomebodyyoucareaboutgothroughit?Lookingbackonit5,10yearslateryousay,"I’msogladIwentthroughthatbecauseitmademesomuchstrongerorsomuchsmarter,ormaybecaresomuchmore."Whocanrelate?I’mcurious.

Ifthat’strue,thenwhynotadoptthephilosophythatlifeisnothappeningtome,it’shappeningforme?Everythingishappeningforme,evenwhatIthoughtwasfailureandnowmyjobistofigureoutwhereisthebenefitanduseit,useitforgreatergood.Icouldprobablylistunlimitedfailures,butIwouldbeinsincerebecauseIdon’treallylookatthemasfailure,andthat’snotbecauseI’mpositiveIworkmyassofftofigureoutwhatcanIlearnfromthat,howcanIusethat.I’dliketomakepeoplehappy,butI’vealsolearninbusiness.Ifirecustomers.Idon’tneedthem.It’saprivilegetodobusinesswithus,becausewewillmorethandeliverytimes10,andsoIteachmyteam.It'ssorarewehavetodoitanymore.

Wefirecustomerandyousay,"Listen,we’renotgoingtobeabletomeetyourneeds."clearlybecausethereareotherpeopleouttherethatnomatterwhatyoudo,they’regoingtobeunhappy.Yesorno?Whyareyoudoingbusinesswiththemandtakingthelifeenergyofyourorganizationfromit.Igetridofthemsofast,andthentheyalwayswantbackin,andIneverletthemback,never.Thentheybecomeapublichangingandotherpeoplego,"Thisishowyouplayhere."Intheworldoftheinternet,we’velostanyformofkindness.Peoplesaythingsthatarethemostharsh,horrificthing.Thestuffpeoplewrite...Allitisispeoplewhofeelinsignificantwhowouldneverhavethegutstosaysomethingtoyourface,butwe’vecreatinganenvironmentwhereit'stolerated.

Ithinkreversingthatisreallyimportant.Youhavetodefineyourenvironment,yourbusiness,yourworld,yourfamily,becauseweallgetwhatwetolerate.Iwon’ttolerateit.I’llgivemysoultoastranger,butIwon’ttoleratesomebodybeingabusivetoanymemberofmyteam,orto

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people,myaudience,ortome,certainlynottomyfamily.Yougetwhatyoutolerate,yougottodecide.Youalsogetwhatyoutolerateinyourself.Ithinkifyoucanlookatwhatyoutolerateinyourselfandsay,"I’mnotgoingtotolerateanymoreinmyself."thenit’seasiertoleadotherpeople.Ifyoujusttellotherpeopleyouwon’ttolerate,they'lllookatyouandgo"Yeah.Youdon’ttolerate,butlookhowyouare."

Youdon’twanttobeperfect,butpeopleseehow...Youdon’thavetoknowwhoIam,youdon’thavetowatchmylipsmove.Youcanseehowmyfeethavemovedfor38years,that’sTonyRobbins.That’sprobablythebestsignatureyoucangive,that'sthebrandthatyouputoutthere.That’sthewayyoulive.

Peter: Thethingyousaid,thelinewhichIlove,“Lifeisnothappeningtome.It'shappeningforme.”Isitpartofthattrickyplanyourself,ordoyoutrulybelieveeverythingyouareabletotakethatasingredientsof“Thisisallhappeningforme.Thismostmosthorrible,mosthorrendousthingfromdiseasestosuffering”?That’sanimportantline,andIliketo-

Tony: It’snotjustaline.There’sawomanthatIjustsaw,thatI’vemet15yearsago.Shejustshowedatmyseminar,andshewassuicidalbecauseoneofherdaughtershadgottensick,andshebroughthertothehospital,andthedoctorssaidshebroughtyouhomeandthechilddied.Shewasgoingtokillherself,andshehad3otherkids.Ireallytrulyhadtoworkwithher.Irememberworkingwithherbackthen.Ilookeditup,becausewehaveallstuffI'veeverdoneonfilm.

Iaskedher,Isaid,"Whatareyourspiritualbeliefs?"Shesaid,"Ibelieveeverythinghappensforareason."SoIsaysoyou'regoingtoabandonwhatyoubelievespirituallybecauselifedidn'tturnoutthewayyouwantrightnow."Shesaid,"No,no,no."Isaid,"Ifit'sthetruth,it'llbethetruthwhenit'spainful,it'llbethetruthwhenit'spleasurable.IwouldlietoyoutosayIjumpedupandgo,"Oh,thisishappeningformerightnow."Idon'tdothat.Ithink,"Whatthehellishappening?"ThenIcatchmyselfandIgo,"There'ssomegoodinthis."

Mycorebelief,myrealcorebeliefunderneaththatiseverythingI've

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everbeenabletohelppeopleisbecauseIfacedunfortunate.IfIhavetofaceadivorce,IdecidedIneededtogothroughadivorce,Ididn'twantto.Noonewantstoafterpickingyourpartnerafter14years,itwasmostterrificthingintheworld.IthoughtifIcanfigureouthowtodothiselegantly,intelligently,lovingly,nomatterwhattheotherpartyislike,thenIcanhelpanybodyelse.I'vehadseveralbusinessesoverthedecadesthatwerenearthevergeofbankruptcyoutofresortinFiji,andtherewasacoup,it'skindinconvenient,andI'mlosingamilliondollarsamonth,andIdidn'thaveamilliondollarsamonthtobelosingitthattime,becauseIwantedtocreatethisgreatplaceforpeople.

Inthemidstofallthoseelements,I'dcomebackandsay,"IfIcanfigurethisout,Icanhelpanyotherbusiness."AlmostallmyskillhavecomebecauseofsomethingIhadtosolveinmeorhelpsomeoneelseof.MyviewisifIcanfigureitoutforme,Icanhelpmillionsofpeople.Thatmakestheprobleminspiring,asopposedtotheproblembeing,"Whydidithappentome?"becausewe'reallgoingtoexperienceproblems.Theonlythingthatweallhaveincommoniseveryoneisgoingtoexperienceseverepain.Idon’tcarehowrichyouare,moneyisnotgoingtocreateimmunitytopain.

Suffering,youcangetimmunityfromfromthedecisionItoldyouabout.We'reallgoingtohaveproblems,we'reallgoingtohavechallenges.Theonlydifferenceiswhatthehellareyougoingtodowiththem?Ifwejustdealwithourownproblems,theygetreallyboring,andsomepeopleneedproblemstohavedramaintheirlife,tocoverthefactthey'renotdoinganything.Ithinkit'smuchmoreinterestingtosolveitandmoveon,andhelpotherpeopledothesame,becauseyou'veactuallydoneit,notbecauseyou'vetalkedaboutit.

Peter: Yeah.Gotyou.WhatIloveis...RobinSharma,whowedidacallwith,he'sintheroom.Hehasthisthing,The5amClub,aguynamedHalElrodhavewroteabookofMiracleMorning.Youdopriminginthemorning.Ilovetohearwhatyouguysfeelareyourbestritualsorwhatitisthatyouaredoingthatjustmassivelyimpactsyoutobeaseffectiveasbothofyouare,ifthere'ssomethingsimpleorsomethingthatyoujustdothatmakesyourlifework,startingbethemorningritualor

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anythingthatpeopleheremight-

Joe: Doeswatchingcartoonswithmykidsat7amcount?

Peter: Maybethatcould.

Joe: Formeit'sanchoredinmydesiretomaketheimpossiblestuffIsetouthappen.It'sanchoredinthisinfinitychallenge.I'mneverbored.TheseproblemsI'vetakenonwithanamazinggroupofpeopleareinfinite,andthere'snogettingthere.Forme,theyaremyguidingstars.It'slike,"Okay.WhatamIgoingtodorightnowtomovethegameforwardthisday?"IwishIcouldsayIwasagreatmeditatorofyogapersonandsoforth.Thatwillcome,butnotrightnow.Forme,it'sdedicationtothechildinsidemeandwhatIcaredeeplyabout,whichismakingthesesucceed.Ultimately,it'stryingtobeclearaboutwhatI'menjoyingdoing.It'ssurfingthestuffIlove,versus,"Thisiswork.I'mprobablynotgoodatthiswork.WhoelsecanIfindthatcandoit,anddoingthisstuffthatItrulylovebetter,anddoingmoreofthat?"There'snothingsophisticatedthere.Tony,whatdoyougot?

Tony: Ithinkanyonewhosucceedshassomethingthattheyaspireto.There'samission,there'sadirection,there'sadesire,andtheybringitupregularly.Youdothat,eventhoughyousayyoudon'tdoitinasophisticatedway,attackinghumangenomeandfiguringouthowtogetmeteorstofeedyouwhatyouneedisafairlylargevision,somewhatsophisticated.Mineisreallysimple.Mineissimple.Ibelievethatthebodyistheplacethatdrivesthemindsthefastest.Youcaninsideyourheadalldaylong,tryingtoresolvethings,andmakeexcusesorfreakout.Ilearnedearlyoninmylifethatinordertomakemyselfdothings,IhavetotriggerthisbodytofeelstrengthandtoknowthatwhenIsaysomethingImeanit.

Ihaveasimpleritual,butit'sactuallyenjoyable.Itmaynotsoundenjoyable,butitisnow,whichIgetupeverymorning,andI'mprivilegedtohavemultiplehomes.IfI'minthosehomes...OneofthehomesIhaveariver,therestofthemIhavecoldplunges.Igointoa56degreetemperaturejustforabout60seconds.Ijumpstraightin,orI

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wasjustinSunRiverandtheriveris38degrees,alittlebigcooler.Itookmynephewinstead,"you'reabouttolearnhowtostartyourday."Ibringallmyfriendswhentheycome.Theyallhavetodothis.Everycell,everynerveinyourbodyexplodes,andit'sphenomenalforyourlimpsystems,phenomenalforyourhealth,butitalsoisjustasimpledisciplinethatsays,"Isayit,ithappens.I'mgoingtodothis,Idoit."

I'vehaditsomuch.It'sthere,andit'sinvigorating.Ido,asyousaid,somethingIcallpriming.Youwakeupandyou're22hoursoffyournormaltimezone,andyou'vegottogetupandtakecareof2,000ofpeoplefor3daysandnightsfor14to15hours.Youdon'talwayswakeupfeeling,"Wow.Thisisthecoolestthingintheworld."SometimesIwakeupandgo,"Whatuniverseismybodyin?"Idomyphysicalritual,butthenIalsodothispriming.PrimingformeisjustIdon'thopethatI'mgoingtoshowupatmybest.Icreateastateforit.Mostofyouknowprobablytheprincipleofpriming.They'reprovenitinsomanyscientificstudies.Weallthinkwemakeourdecisionsconsciouslywhenmuchofourdecisionsmakingthatwethinkisconsciousisbeingmadebycontextualenvironmentalmanipulationthatwe'renoteventhinkingabout.

Ononestudy,theytooksomepeopleandtheyhiredactorsthatwouldgoto100people.They'dwalkuptoyou.You'retrainedtodotheexactsamelook,sameexpression,andthey'dsay,"Wouldyouholdthis?"Theyhandyouacoffeecupandtheyreachintheirpocket,andgrabbedtheirphone,putthembackandsay"Thankyouverymuch."Theyjustkindofassumetheaction.Theywoulddothesameway,samefacialexpression.100peopleoneway,100peopleother.Whatwastheonlydifference?Coldicedcoffeeversushotcoffee.Anhourlater,theycomebackwithsomedifferentpeoplewhogotlittlecapson,they'resaying,"Listen,we'llgiveyou$10ifyou'llgiveus2minutesifyoureadthis3paragraphstoryandgiveus2questionsandanswers."

Theyreadthislittlestory.Everyonereadsthesamestory.Attheend,theyaskedthem,"Howwouldyoudescribethemaincharacter?Whataretheylikeasaperson?"80%ofthepeoplethatgotwarmcoffeesaidthey'rewarm,theirgenerous,theirloving.Warmisalwaysoneofthe

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languagepatterns.80%likeclockworkofpeoplegottheicedcoffee,samestory,saythatthey'reverycold.Thelanguagelikebeingobsessedorbeingaboutthemselves,selfish,thingsofthisnature.I'dgiveyoudozensofexamples.WhatIdoeachmorningisdoabreathingpattern.It'sanexplosivebreathingpatternthatIlearnedinIndia.Breathing,breathinandexplodingitout,fromthegutoutthenose.Idothat3setsof10,pause,3setsof10,pause,3setsof10.

Italtersmystate,andIjustdo3thingsfor10minutes,becausehavethisdealwithmyself.Ifyoudon'thave10minutesforyourself,youdon'thavealife.Who'swithmeonthis?Isaid,"Youknowwhat?Idon'tneedtohave20-minute,30-minute,40-minutemeditations.Iwant10minutes,andIdon'tneedtomeditate.Idon'tknowifI'mgoingtomeditate.Tonotthink,Idon'tknowiftoomanypeoplecandothat.Idon'tevenknowifIwanttonotfreakingthink.Ithought,"WhatIwanttodoisIwanttofocusontheemotionsthatwillcausemetobethebetterme."The2emotionsthatmostpeoplearemessedupbyareangerandfear.Whenyou'regrateful,youcan'tbeangry.Trytobegratefulandangrysimultaneously.It'llneverwork.Youcan'tbefearfulwhenyou'regrateful.

WhenIlookatpeople,almostalways,they'rereactingoutoffear,orthey'rereactingoutofanger,someversionofthose2.Gratitudetomeistheantidote.Ispend3minutes,just3minutes,andIthinkof3thingsthatI'mgratefulfor,3people,3situations3people,butIstepintoit.Idon'tremembertherollercoasteroverthereridingit.Iputmyselffromthefrontseatgoingovertheedge,soIfeelthemoment.Imakesure1ofthe3thingsI'mgratefulforissomethingreallysimple,likethewindonmyface,orsomethingbeautifullikemychild'ssmile.ThereasonIdothatisbecauseIrememberinterviewingsomeoftheastronauts,BuzzAldrinandtheseguysthatmostofyouprobablyknow.

Youcanimagine,tobeanastronaut,thismanknows,toaspiretodothat,andthengotothethousandsofpeopleandbepicked,andthentoactuallygotothemoonandstandonthemoonandlookbacktoandseethatpicturewe'veallseen,thatbluegreenearth.Imagine,thenyoucomehome,andwhathappens?There'satickertapeparade,andyou

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shakethepresident'shand,andnowwhatthehellareyou?You're32.Whatthehelldoyoudofortherestofyourlife?Youknowwhat?Ifyouknowthestoryofmanyoftheseastronauts,mostofthemhavesomemajoremotionalchallenges,right?Somehaveusedalcohol,somedrugs,andtheyhadareallyroughtimebecausetheyforgottofindadventureandasmile.Theythoughttheonlywaywastothemoon.

Itrainmyselftomakesurenotjustthebigbeautifulthingsthatareapartofmylife,butthelittlethings.Ifeelthatfor3minutes,thenIdo3minutesofablessing,ascornyasitmaysound.Iimaginelife,God,energy,comingintomybody,healingeverymuscle,everynerveinmybody,strengtheningeverythingashestrengthenthebestofme,mypassion,mylove,mygenerosity,mycreativity,myhumor,mylove.ThenIseeanyproblemthatneedstobesolvedjustbeingsolved,becauseotherwise,IhadtothinkIgottodoitall.ThenonceIfeelthatfully,theenergycomesthroughmeandbackthroughmemultipletimes,andthenIdoacircleofmyintimatefamily,mykidsandmywife,myfriends.

Thislittlecharacteroverhereisonmylist,andIjustcircleoutallthewayouttomyclients.Isendthatsameenergytothem.ThenIimagine,ascornyasitsounds,they'rebeinghealed,they'regettingwhattheyneedenergy-wise,they'rehavingthelifethattheydeserve.SoIdothatfor3minutes.Inthelast3minutesaremy3tothrive.Ithinkof3specificoutcomesthatmatteredtome,andIdon'tthinkaboutachievingthem.Isee,feel,andexperiencethemasdone,andIseetheimpactthatithas.Iseepeople'slivestouched.Iseethejoy.Ifeelitasdone,andIfeelgrateful.It's10minutes,buthonestly,itusuallygoes15or20,becauseI'mhavingadamngoodtime.

Byhavinga10-minutelock,there'snoexcusenotdoit,andIdoiteveryday,andIdon'thopeI'mgoingtofeelgood.Thenwhathappensisyou'reprimed.Literally,youseethingsinthroughadifferentsetoffilters.Youmakedecisions,someofthefilters.Also,thinkofit,mostpeoplearewiredforstress,they'rewiredforfrustration,they'rewiredforfeelinglonely.Theygotthehighwaytopissedoff,andthey'vegotdirtroadstohappiness.IdecidedI'mgoingtowiremyselftohappening.I'mnotevenbornthatway.MyviewisIhavetochangethewholeearth

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tobehappy.Today,that'sdifferentforme.NowIcanjustwakeupandbehappy,becauseI'vewiredmyselfinadifferentway,neurologically.ThenIshowotherpeoplehowtodothisaswell.

Peter: Youguysareawesome.Ireally,reallyappreciateyoubothcomingtothis.Thankyousomuch.Thankyou.Thankyouguys.


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