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    letters to the editorthe rabbis turn

    Everything is very real its a mystery, but there are vampires, ghosts and werewolves, etc., who play in.

    Librarian extraordinaire Nancy Pearl, who is speaking at the Jewish Federations Connections event on Sunday, about what shes reading these days.

    Luchot vshivre luchotmenuchim baaron Te

    whole tablets and the broken

    tablets rested inside the Ark

    o the Covenant (Babah

    Batra 14b). Te whole and the

    broken rest together in our

    sacred covenant.

    Tis past week we read in

    our orah portion Yitro about

    the receiving o the en Com-

    mandments. And in a ew

    weeks, we will read in the orah portion Ki

    isa about Moses coming down the moun-

    tain, bringing rom God the tablets. Beore

    the tablets can be given to the people o

    Israel, they become broken, as Moses hurls

    them in his anger as part o his response to

    the building o the golden cal.

    Tis is one o our national low points

    having quickly lost condence in our leader

    and having demanded an idol be built, and

    Moses acting upon his anger to destroy

    that which had been written by God. And

    yet, our tradition teaches us to redeem this

    low point, these broken shards, and to place

    them in our sacred ark with the new, whole,

    unbroken second set o tablets.

    I requently reect on this teaching o

    the broken and whole tablet pieces being

    housed together in the ark. I wonder about

    how the broken tablets made it into the ark.

    Did Moses pick them up himsel, or was he

    too angry or disappointed that he could not

    help collect them? Was there one person or

    a team o people working on it together?

    Did they get cut picking up the shards or

    were they able to collect them without get-

    ting hurt? Were they aware o the sanctity

    amongst these shards?

    One o our greatest challenges today is

    allowing the broken and the whole to live

    peaceully together. I see this problem on

    two dierent levels in the internal and

    the external.

    How do we enable the broken and the

    whole within our souls to coexist? How are

    we kind to the broken bits o our souls?

    How do we give them attention, attend to

    them and see them as a source o growth

    and vision into our souls, rather than run

    away rom them or bury them deep.

    And how do we create sacred commu-

    nities to allow the broken souls and the

    whole souls rest side by side? It is so easy

    to label people who appear dierent as

    broken, overlooking their humanity and

    their wisdom, orgetting they too are cre-

    ated in Gods image, and how our commu-

    nities are richer when they welcome and

    treasure the diversity o our population,

    welcoming all and the gis they bring.

    Te rabbis o the almud understood

    how easy it was to dismisswhat appeared as shards and

    brokenness. R. Yehoshua ben

    Levi cautions his children:

    Be careul regarding how

    you treat an elderly individ-

    ual who has orgotten his

    learning due to an extenu-

    ating circumstance (i.e., old

    age, sickness, accident, strug-

    gle, to make a livelihood, as

    opposed to where his learning may

    have deserted him due to lack o inter-

    est, belie, or regular review). As we

    say, Te ablets as well as the broken

    pieces o the ablets were placed in the

    Ark. (almud Berachot8b andMena-

    chot99b)

    Te arks contents are not complete

    without both, and yet we so oen ool our-

    selves into believing we are complete when

    we cut o or deny the brokenness within

    ourselves, and when we close our com-

    munities to those who seem more broken,

    more in need, than we are.

    Experiencing brokenness does not make

    us less holy, less worthy, less the object o

    Gods love. Our brokenness may enable us

    to reach higher than we ever did beore.

    he almuds discussion o Moses

    broken tablets continues: he broken

    tablets were set at the bottom o the ark,

    and the complete set was arranged right

    on top, the broken set orming a steady

    base, a oundation or the new set.

    Not only are the broken and the whole

    together in the ark, but the broken orm

    the oundation or the new set. hese

    broken tablets may even be allowing the

    new tablets to reach higher than they

    would have on their own, and bring with

    them their own richness and importance.

    Tis teaching o the important roles

    both broken and whole vessels play is

    shared by many cultures. Yose Jacobson

    tells the story o an elderly Chinese woman

    who owned two large pots:

    Each hung on the end o a pole,

    which she carried every day on her

    shoulders to ll with water rom the

    stream located at the end o the vil-

    lage. One o the pots was complete and

    always delivered a ull portion o water;

    the other pot was cracked and arrived

    home each day only hal ull.

    O course, the complete pot was

    proud o its accomplishments. he

    poor cracked pot, on the other hand,

    was ashamed o its own imperections

    and that it could only do hal o what it

    Th whl and th brknrst tgthr

    Rabbi Jill boRodin Congregation Beth Shalom

    had been made to do.

    Aer six years o what it perceived to

    be bitter ailure, the humbled broken pot

    nally opened its heart to the woman at

    the stream. I hate mysel, the cracked

    pot cried, I am so useless and value-

    less. What purpose does my existence

    have when each day I leak out hal o my

    water? I am such a loser!

    Te old woman smiled and said,

    Did you notice that there are owers

    on your side o the path, but not on the

    other pots side? Every day while w

    walk back rom the stream, you hav

    the opportunity to water them.

    For six years I have been able

    pick these beautiul owers to decora

    our home. Without you being just th

    way you are, we would have never cr

    ated this beauty together.

    May we too see and be able to integra

    the holiness o both our ragmented an

    whole pieces.

    in defense of our defenders

    David Shaynes otherwise excellent column defending the IDF against the truly scurri-

    lous charge of war crimes has a statement that I strongly object to (Dishonest message

    could have promoted hate crimes, Jan. 14). He writes, If the IDF deserves to be singled

    out, it is for having a remarkable absence of the kind of incidents that plague other mil-

    itaries engaged in warfare, including our own U.S. military, which has its own shameful

    record of war crimes against civilians (My Lai, Haditha).I am a combat veteran of the U.S. military. Our record is not shameful, it is exem-

    plary and every American should be proud. The attack on Poland in 1939, the bombing of

    English cities and the Holocaust were war crimes, as were the Rape of Nanking and the

    treatment of captured combatants and civilians by the Japanese. These atrocities were

    carried out on a national scale as a matter of policy and cannot be compared to an inn -

    itesimally small number of isolated cases of individual soldiers whose character was not

    up to the stress of war.

    Shaynes comment adds to the clatter on the left, especially in our educational system,

    to damn the U.S. as an evil empire and an aggressor nation. That is an intolerable revi-

    sion of history and a complete loss of perspective. America is a nation with a moral pur-

    pose that ghts against war criminals to preserve freedom and peace in the world, and I

    will not sit quietly while anyone slanders our military.

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    Clarifying the defense

    Re: Mr. Wilkes letter (whom, for sake of full disclosure, I consider a dear friend) in

    which he took understandable umbrage at my remarks about My Lai and Haditha, I am

    truly sorry my words were understood the way he did. He states, I am a combat vet-

    eran of the U.S. military. Our record is not shameful, it is exemplary and every American

    should be proud, and I could not agree more. The men and women who risked (and still

    do) their lives or actually gave their lives are, in my mind, forever enshrined in the roles of

    the ultimate American heroes, as people who did the hardest thing any person can ever be

    called on to do ght and risk death and injury for our country. I certainly never meant

    to cast dispersions of any kind on the U.S. military as whole.

    Having said that, it is a sad but undeniable fact that My Lai and Haditha happened

    unforgivable mass murders carried out by U.S. soldiers aberrations, very uncharacter-

    istic of the glorious and proud history of our armed forces when viewed in totality. Indeed,

    Im sure many of the thousands of U.S. soldiers who have died in Iraq and Afghanistan

    died as the result of policies of restraint intended to minimize civilian deaths.

    The IDF in its past history also has some events for which it should be ashamed, in

    1948 and later years. But, to the best of my knowledge, it has been many decades since

    any IDF unit carried out mass murders, and certainly no such thing happened in Cast

    Lead. As such, the IDF has, in my opinion, perhaps the cleanest record of any modern

    army facing actual combat conditions, at least in the last two or three decades, completely

    opposite of the impression Ed Masts group tried to convey (Provocative bus ads go to

    highest levels of county government, Dec. 24).

    So, again, I apologize to my fried Robert and any one else who thought I meant to

    belittle the U.S. Armed Forces. I am very proud of both the U.S. Armed Forces, and of the

    Israel Defense Forces, and Americans and Israelis are all fortunate to be so well served

    by their ghting men and women. And to my friend Robert, thank you a thousand times

    over for your sacrices and your service.

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    RobeRt Wilkes Special to JTNewsRobert Wilkes is a political columnist who

    writes from a conservative viewpoint. Roberts

    column this week concerns matters of Jewish

    survival and is not about American politics.

    I you think American politics is dis-cordant, Israels is a cacophony. Since the

    beginning o the Zionist movement and

    continuing aer independence, the loci o

    political philosophies regarding the mean-

    ing, mission and destiny o Israel have

    been arther apart than our parties ever

    have in America.

    Herzl and his political heirs ought a

    erce battle over the idea o a Jewish state

    against actions that, among other visions,

    wished or nothing more than an intellectual

    and cultural center or the Jewish people. Te

    debate was eventually won by David Ben-

    Gurion on May 14, 1948, when Jews became

    sovereign over their land once again.

    Founding arguments resuraced in the

    late 1980s as Israel attempted a rapproche-

    ment with Palestinians in their midst

    aer the Six-Day War. Te doves came to

    power under Yitzhak Rabin and Shimon

    Perez with high hopes or peace. Instead,

    they gave the world Araat, the debacle o

    Oslo, and all that ollowed including

    the withdrawal rom Gaza and subsequent

    Hamas totalitarianism.

    he Israelis have since learned their

    bitter lesson and awakened to reality. Tey

    are quietly supportive o Benjamin Netan-

    yahus wary but realistic policy toward peace

    negotiations. Te American administration,

    we may hope, is coming to recognize its

    own limitations aer a bad beginning.When events such as Oslo leave us bewil-

    dered, we ask, What were they thinking?

    Tis is precisely the question answered in

    Kenneth Levins brilliant book, Te Oslo

    Syndrome: Delusions of a People Under

    Siege. I discovered the book during a talk by

    George Gilder, author oTe Israel est.

    In his speech, Gilder made three inter-

    esting observations: Palestinian negotiat-

    ing strategy can be explained in terms o

    game theory; Israels obsessive pursuit o

    peace to the point o jeopardizing its own

    security at Oslo and aer can be under-

    stood in terms o a psychological delu-

    sion; and nally, animosity toward Israel

    can be understood as envy and resentment

    o Israels success. I leave it to the reader

    to learn more about game theory and the

    Israel test rom Gilder himsel.

    Levin, a polymath, scholar, and psy-

    chiatrist, elucidates the Oslo delusion this

    way: Chronically besieged populations sub-

    ject to bigotry, denigration or assault suer

    delusions in which they believe their accus-

    ers are right, and believe they must accom-

    modate and change themselves to win

    acceptance rom the society at large. He

    illustrates his thesis by charting eorts at

    assimilation (and, in many cases, abandon-

    ment o Jewish identity) among German

    Jews in the century beore the Holocaust.

    Fast orward to the early 1990s. Occupa-tion atigue and an overwhelming hunger

    or peace and security created a national

    delusion during Oslo. Israel brought Araat

    and his 7,000 armed gunmen rom unisia,

    hoping to make them peace partners. Te

    Peace Now movement promoted its leaders

    into the government, and Yossi Beilin, a lead-

    ing dove and deputy oreign minister under

    Rabin, held secret talks with Palestinian coun-

    terparts. Beilin oered everything and any-

    thing to the Palestinians, the Golan Heights,

    East Jerusalem even the Western Wall.

    Araat responded with suicide bomber

    attacks and continued incitement ollow-

    ing his Plan o Phases, a deception with

    the goal o destroying the Jewish State.

    Te ruse was evident to a small number

    o Israelis monitoring Palestinian media,

    yet Israeli media, the American Jewish

    press, and the Israeli government publicly

    ignored it. Israel continued to educate its

    schoolchildren to believe in the possibility

    o a nal and enduring peace.

    Israelis have awakened with heavy

    hearts rom their delusion. Tey under-

    stand the sel-evident reality that they

    can do nothing by themselves to reach

    ormal peace with the Palestinians. T

    Palestinians will not abide it short o ann

    hilation o Israel as a Jewish state.

    Tose who think dierently remai

    aicted with the Oslo Syndrome. ManAmericans do, and many o them ar

    Jewish. hey support pro-Palestinia

    groups and the BDS movement (boy

    cott, divest and sanction), and seek t

    delegitimize Israel. Tey employ trope

    such as apartheid and Israeli-Naz

    war machine to create a smokescreen o

    twisted acts and history giving currenc

    to Lenins adage, A lie told oen enoug

    becomes the truth.

    Among them are Seattle blogger Richar

    Silverstein, Rabbi Michael Lerner oikkun

    Naim Ateek o Sabeel Institute, Noam

    Chomsky, Norman Finkelstein, the Inter

    national Solidarity Movement the li

    goes on. Tey hyperbolically depict Isra

    as a Nazi state inicting a Shoah on the Pa

    estinians. Well meaning? I cannot assum

    otherwise. Deluded? Without doubt.

    Now that we know what they are think

    ing, the question remains, Why are the

    doing that? Dr. Levins keen psychoan

    alytical paradigm has them pegged. Te

    adhere to ar-le ideologies that despis

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    yiddish lesson

    by Ruth PeizeR

    Az men hot gelt, iz men i klug, i sheyn, i men ken gut zingen.

    I youve got money, then youre smart, and handsome, and you can sing well, too.

    Remember When

    From the Jewish ranscript, Jan. 22,

    1993, Page 1

    Te joy o bagels: A baker loads up

    the oven at the Bagel Oasis in Seattles

    Ravenna neighborhood in a story about

    the bagel craze sweeping the nation.

    Eighteen years later, Bagel Oasis is still

    making the areas avorite, as voters made

    clear in the annualJNews Best o Every-

    thing 2010 survey, which can be ound

    on page 10.

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    The ads critical o Israel were cancelled rom running on the sides o Seattle Metro buses, but that doesn

    mean the saga is over. Last week, the ACLU led suit against King County to have the ad campaign

    reinstated.

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    Education directors rom Reorm temples will be in town next week or their annual convention. This years

    theme: Teaching the iPhone generation.

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    You voted. We listened. And now the tallies are in. The best o everything Jewish, rom corned bee to

    comedian, can be ound here.

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    Dr. Izzelden Abuelaish, who visited the area earlier this month, lost three daughters and a niece when his

    house was shelled during the Gaza War two years ago. The book he completed ater that tragedy, howeve

    preaches not revenge, but peace.

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    Librarian Nancy Pearl has long held celebrity status in Seattle, and she was just named Library Journals

    2011 Librarian o the Year. Plus, shell be speaking at this Sundays Connections event. JTNewscaught u

    with Pearl in anticipation o the event.

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    Assa Nisenboym is spending six months in Seattle as a ellow or StandWithUs Northwest, talking to

    students and synagogues about lie in Israel and how theres more to it than confict.

    a e dee

    Debbie Friedman and her music are among the most infuential contributions to the current generation o

    Jewish liturgy. Her death this month inspired mourning and in true Debbie ashion poetry. We invite

    you to add to the tribute that begins on page 20.

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    Hope or Heroism, a local organization that helps injured Israeli soldiers deal with their physical and psy-

    chological wounds, took leaders rom around the state to visit these soldiers in Israel and possibly create a

    similar program at home.

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    spiritual renewal, and a time to connect with other Jewish women? Te men have had their

    Schechter weekend o poker and boating or years. Now its the womens turn. For the rst

    time, Camp Solomon Schechter is oering its Reresh, Renew and Reconnect womens

    retreat rom March 2527.

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    Te controversy over ads critical o

    Israel banned rom King County Metro

    buses last month became a legal matter

    on Jan. 19. In conjunction with the Seattle

    Mideast Awareness Campaign, the ACLU

    o Washington led suit in U.S. DistrictCourt requesting an injunction that would

    place the ads on buses as soon as possible.

    Te 12 ads, which read Israel War

    Crimes: Your ax Dollars At Work, were

    slated to run or our weeks beginning on

    Dec. 27, 2010. On Dec. 23, King County

    Metro announced the ads would not be

    run, and that an interim policy or non-

    commercial advertising would be imple-

    mented.

    At a press conerence announcing the

    suit, SMEC spokesman Ed Mast cited

    other controversial bus ads run by King

    County Metro, including one related to

    the Israeli-Palestinian conict in Gaza.

    We rejected stronger language, said

    Mast. We abided by King County guide-

    lines or what was appropriate speech in a

    public orum. What we want is not some

    kind o punitive action. We want our

    ads back up as they were approved and

    accepted.

    Attorney Jerey Grant, who represents

    SMEC in the suit, said that legally the case

    boils down to ree speech.

    Tis case is about more speech, not

    less, said Bender. People have compet-

    ing views on this, strongly held. But thats

    the whole idea about the First Amend-

    ment; that people should get their ideas in

    the marketplace and let people talk aboutthem.

    Rob Jacobs, director o Israel advo-

    cacy organization StandWithUs North-

    west, said he is concerned that the bus ads

    would not necessarily amount to a serious

    dialogue.

    We had hoped that this would go away

    and that there would be an opportunity

    or dialogue and serious communication

    thats more than slogans on the sides o

    buses, Jacobs said.

    A statement released by the Jewish

    Federation reinorced the organizations

    support or the Metro decision not run

    the ads, calling them inammatory and

    destructive.

    Tis kind o demonization o Israel

    is contrary to reconciliation and does not

    contribute to urthering the peace process.

    Our core values direct us to seek ways to

    build bridges, not to destroy them, the

    statement said.

    Te case may rest on King Countys

    claim that the running the ads and cor-

    responding response ads submitted by

    groups such as David Horowitzs Freedom

    Center would be disruptive to Metro ser-

    vice. Te county is currently in the process

    o creating a new policy or dealing with

    non-commercial metro ads.

    Te county sells advertising to raiserevenue or the provision o bus service,

    said Frank Abe, director o communi-

    cations or King County Executive Dow

    Constantine. Te escalation o this issue

    rom one o 12 local bus placards to one

    o widespread and oen vitriolic inter-

    national response introduced a new and

    legitimate risk o harm to or disruption o

    our bus system.

    I the injunction sought by ACLU and

    the Seattle Mideast Awareness Campaign

    is granted, then Jacobs said his group

    would run ads encouraging a ocus on the

    peace process. He also suspects that nega-

    tive ads would be run by parties on both

    sides o the Israel-Palestine issue.

    Mast acknowledged the controversy

    surrounding the ads but explained that he

    would remain unsatised until they were

    accepted by King County Metro as appro-

    priate and nally run.

    Certainly the controversy spread the

    slogan wider than we had anticipated,

    Mast said. But at the same time we need

    to stand by it as appropriate speech.

    aCLu ses cn ve s s

    eRic nusbaum Assistant Editor, JTNews

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    Israel, whom they judge troublemakers an

    oppressors. Tey adopt utopian universa

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    dreamy Imagine theres no countries

    assuage their particularist Jewishness.

    Te Oslo Syndrome is a threat to Jewissurvival. Clarity on this point can be oun

    in the question, What does it mean to b

    a Jew? For me, there are three pillars

    Jewish lie: God, orah and Israel. I a

    proud o our history and our people, an

    I nd it difcult to imagine Judaism su

    viving i Israel is deeated. A blow so de

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    ate o cultures and religions over the cent

    ries that have been overcome by raw powe

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    but as Jews we must do everything we ca

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    gave the world the one God and the law.

    O 257 countries rom Aghanistan

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    In the hopes o helping teachers shrink

    the tech divide in the classroom, the

    National Association o emple Edu-

    cators, an organization associated with

    the Reorm movement, will meet or

    its annual conerence at the W Hotel in

    downtown Seattle starting on Jan. 30. Te

    conerence is titled Imagineering Jewish

    Education in the 21st Century.

    Te world o education is changing so

    dramatically, rom moment to moment,

    that the experience o youth growing up

    today is undamentally shited, Beth

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    Jewish education directors attending and a

    conerence co-chair, toldJNews rom her

    home in Coral Gables, Fla., where she is

    the director o education at emple Judea.

    Young has been associated with NAE or

    the last nine years.

    We no longer live in an age where the

    teacher is the person who has knowledge

    and imparts that knowledge to students,

    said Young. Te role o the educator

    becomes one o helping students navigate

    inormation. Its much more o a coach-

    ing-modeling role.

    A pre-conerence, one-day boot

    camp will give education directors, dayschool teachers, and regional education

    representatives who dont eel completely

    comortable with technology a chance to

    have some hands-on experience with the

    basics. Darim Online, a national com-

    pany that provides technical solutions or

    Jewish organizations, will acilitate.

    Still, NAE executive director Rabbi

    Stanley Schickler cautions that Jewish edu-

    cators shouldnt throw the baby out with

    the bath water.

    I believe that the use o technol-

    ogy denitely has the potential to attract

    Jewish youth to Jewish learning, Schick-

    ler toldJNews via e-mail, but technology

    is only the hook. I there is no substance

    behind the technology, then I dont believe

    that the youth will stay.

    Rabbi Melissa Buyer, a NAE board

    member, conerence co-chair, and the

    director o religious school, youth and

    camp programs at Stephen S. Wise emple

    in Los Angeles, Cali., told JNews that

    more technology in the Jewish classroom

    really can orge increased bonds with

    todays students and their parents.

    te ne Jes ecn: helpn sensnve ec-lle l

    Janis siegel JTNews Correspondent

    Buyer implemented a digital report

    card system at her temple with weekly

    parent updates, and a 4th-grade distance

    learning program called iLearn, where stu-

    dents spend one day a week at the school,

    and one day in a session via a Webinar

    chat room.Many o our students have not known

    lie without technology and it is relevant

    and ever-present in the lives o the next

    generation o Jewish learners, Buyer said.

    While I dont believe technology is the

    magic bullet, I do believe technology can

    help us rethink and reshape Jewish educa-

    tion and perhaps community.

    I think people are being pushed by

    whats going on with the kids because it is

    their world and were responding to their

    reality, said Elizabeth Fagin, a longtime

    supplementary school teacher who served as

    director o education at emple Bnai orah

    in Bellevue or nearly 10 years. She said

    she had to switch her own communication

    strategies to students when she realized that

    kids just dont read e-mail anymore.

    I started texting them, Fagin said. I

    I was a director today, I would be using

    Facebook or tweeting them.

    Locally, more than 20 education direc-

    tors will be attending the conerence,

    thanks to a $2,000 grant rom the planning

    and community services department o

    the Jewish Federation o Greater Seattle.

    So how can congregations aord

    upgrade their classrooms, make lapto

    computers and the Internet availab

    to students, and compete with some

    the best Jewish Web sites out there, lik

    JewishRockRadio.com, where mus

    becomes a teaching tool?Te act o the matter is that mo

    o our students carry smart phones, an

    have small computers on their person

    Buyer said. Its time to move away ro

    labs [and ask], What more could we b

    doing with mobile technology? Tat real

    doesnt cost us anything except or th

    training o our aculty.

    Fagin agreed.

    It doesnt require that classrooms hav

    technology, she said. You can provid

    homework experiences with their amilie

    in the library, or in their schools, and sen

    kids on Web searches.

    Largely, NAE conerence organize

    want the conerence educators that atten

    to leave Seattle with something any pa

    o a program they interact with here th

    they can bring back to their schools an

    teach their teachers.

    Its a way o stretching the day an

    asking, How can we expand the day by ut

    lizing technology that students and am

    lies are already using 24/7, Young sai

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    1Its become harder and

    harder to be a physicianin private practice these

    days, especially in primary

    care, as Dr. Mindy Blaski

    can attest. We chatted on the

    phone last month about her

    recent retirement. It wasnt

    just about the challenges o

    the current health-care envi-

    ronment she admits shes

    reached retirement age.

    Mindy didnt always plan to be a

    doctor. Born into an Orthodox amily in

    Budapest just aer World War II her

    parents survived Auschwitz (separately)

    she struggled against their expectation

    to marry young to become the rst in her

    amily to go to college. She was majoring

    in Poli-Sci at Brooklyn College with only

    one basic science class on her transcript

    when she decided to go to medical school,

    adding two years o pre-med courses to

    her education.

    Sexism in medical school was still

    strong in the 1970s, she remembers,

    but she orged ahead, ueled by ideal-

    ism and the eminist idea

    that women needed to be

    treated better in the health

    care system. welve years

    o yeshiva education at Beth

    Jacob schools in New York

    also shaped her sense o jus-

    tice.

    Ater medical school at

    SUNY Bualo, and a three-

    year amily medicine resi-

    dency at the University o

    Caliornia at Irvine, her hus-

    bands love or the Paciic

    Northwest brought them to

    Seattle. Like many, we came or a visit, saw

    Mt. Rainier on a beautiul sunny day, and

    bought a house.

    It was hard, she says, getting her career

    on track in a new town, and aer a ew

    years working or other practices, she

    decided to open her own in 1985.

    Mindy loved seeing patients and help-

    ing people, but her practice became over-

    whelmed dealing with multiple health

    insurance companies and competing with

    larger organizations or sta recruitment.

    I tried to nd alternatives to retiring,

    but I really couldnt, she says.

    Hospitals and larger practices can hire

    ull-time administrators to handle insur-

    ance paperwork but most small groups

    cant. She calls this insurance company-

    imposed burden way out o line Its all

    about their huge executive salaries, and

    stock-holder prots, she says.

    She points out that health insurers

    made their largest prots ever last quarter

    while primary care doctors are working

    harder to treat patients in less time.

    Te American public

    paying more and gettinworse outcomes than oth

    industrialized countries, sh

    adds.

    Mindys unwillingness

    give up the time she neede

    to spend with patients

    provide the best care, oe

    caused long waiting tim

    or patients and late nigh

    or me.

    Although the doctor is ou

    Mindy is not completely retire

    It takes time to close a practice and pape

    work is still being processed. She serves o

    the board o the Western Washington chap

    ter o Physicians or a National Health Pr

    gram (www.pnhpwesternwashington.or

    and continues to advocate or a single-pay

    system. Shell do ll-in work or other do

    tors, too.

    From the perspective o retiremen

    Mindy marvels at the trajectory o her li

    From the ashes o Auschwitz, sh

    says, thats how Im thinking o it.

    Although she let the ultra-Orth

    dox liestyle in which sh

    grew up, she says it was

    grounding Jewish exp

    rience. Despite her ather

    authoritarian nature, she w

    inspired by his determin

    tion to achieve a better lie o

    his amily, and by the wor

    ethic o both her parents.

    In addition to spendin

    winter hiking and dryin

    out in ucson, and the kni

    ting shes always enjoye

    Mindy is an active memb

    o emple Bnai orah, whe

    she has ound great support rom the cler

    and community, and learned to leyn (chan

    orah. Her husband Paul is the Northwe

    regional rep or the International Union

    Rooers and Waterprooers. Tey have tw

    grown daughters living in the Bay Area.

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    2010. Te WDLs members are 800 law

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    other members o the organization

    and nal selection was made by the WD

    board.

    Jim is not only a Jreader (or ra

    script as he wrote, and we ondly remem

    ber), but a member o a multi-generation

    Seattle Jewish amily. His great-grand

    ther Solomon Rogers was a ounder

    emple De Hirsch in 1899.

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    Dear Rivy,

    Are Chinese mothers

    elbowing out Jewish moth-

    ers in the super-crazed,

    ambitious, drive-your-child

    department? How did we letthis happen? I thought that

    Jewish mothers were frmly

    planted in the top slot o

    wild parental determina-

    tion. Are we sliding? Do you

    think Jewish mothering has

    changed? Is this a good thing? Is there an

    accepted model or Jewish mothering?

    Amy Chua is grabbing headlines with

    her shocking revelations o hours o com-

    pulsory, epic-long piano practices, harsh

    treatment or B+ grades, not to men-

    tion ongoing merciless sleepover depri-

    vation meted out cruelly to her children.

    Everyones got something to contribute

    in the way o Amy Chuas instant notori-

    ety. Youve got the pro-Chua team, as in,

    She knows what shes doing! Why didnt

    I do that? versus the con-Chua team

    she is cruel and inhumane, with varying

    degrees ranging rom she is damaging her

    children at one end to she has denied her

    children real lie experiences at the other.

    Whats a mom to think?

    And what then is the Jewish angle in

    all o this? We are used to being the ones

    grabbing the headlines in the area o psy-

    chotic mothering. Do I hear Sophie Port-

    noy rolling over in her grave? Is that

    Marjorie Morningstars mom chuckling

    up there in heaven, giddy with delicious

    schdenfreude as the attention deects

    rom tomes dedicated to the demoniza-

    tion o Jewish mothers en masse, shied

    over to a whole other ethnic group? Say it

    isnt so! I wish I could but as with many

    other matters in this world, the Chinese

    are pulling ahead. Woe are we.

    On second thought, lets be glad. Te

    glory days o Jewish mother mocking are

    over let the word go orth no more

    Jewish mother jokes! On to the next exploi-

    tation o an immigrant stereotype! Tank

    you, Ms. Chua, or dethroning us! Jewish

    mothers o the world, it is sae to come out,

    we have been relegated to the realm o the

    normal it was only a matter o time.

    Now would be a good time to pause

    and regroup. Most o us were not thrilled

    with the archetypal Jewish mother o pop-

    ular culture. Its ading away gives us an

    opportunity to recast ourselves. What is

    Jewish mothering? Is there such a thing?

    Where would we go to nd it?

    Let it not be le to the Ayelet Wald-

    mans o the world to set the new Jew tone

    to mommy redux. It is time to hit the col-

    lective reresh button and locate a work-

    able image o Jewish mothering that will

    resonate or the 21st century.

    Who knows our? Four Jewish moth-

    ers who can speak across times and con-

    tinents our mothers whose lives speak

    to the needs o the uture,

    the challenges o the pres-

    ent while having lived in the

    past? A composite sketch is

    in order, as we peruse the

    pages and pictures rom thepast to pinpoint Magnii-

    cent Moments in Matriarchal

    Mothering; Four Foremoth-

    ers, with our big Jewish ideas

    in Jewish mothering.

    First, Your Voice. As God

    exhorts Abraham to ollow

    the advice o his wie Sarah

    regarding a precarious domestic situation

    details o which we will not enter into

    here God Almighty adjures Abraham,

    to shema bekolah, listen to her voice. Te

    rst tenet o mothering: Find your voice

    and do not hesitate to use it. Tis new

    mothering upon which you are embarking

    must be an authentic expression o your

    own deep belies; as such, they must be

    voiced and notpassive aggressively com-

    municated through olded arms over the

    chest and side-swiping comments.

    Second, Your Search. From whence

    has come that voice, one might ask? As

    Rebecca experiences her challenging preg-

    nancy, she goes lidrosh et Hashem to

    seek answers rom God. Tis short narra-

    tive teaches an important idea: Answers

    are not simply ound. Te action required

    o us is lidrosh, a determined search that

    involves doggedly seeking answers, some-

    times rom a Higher and Deeper place

    than we may conventionally turn to. o

    raise Jewish children, a spiritual quest is in

    order. What are your deep belies and how

    will you pass them on to your children?When did you last set aside time or study

    and contemplation?

    Tird, Your ears. Te prophet Jere-

    miah depicts mother Rachelcrying or her

    lost children. Tis is not an easy undertak-

    ing. We may be tempted to make light o

    all the mothering shenanigans, but this is

    serious stu. Raising up the next gener-

    ation o Jews cannot help but be raught

    with drama. Pictures o sel-sacriic-

    ing Jewish mothers be they, Hannah and

    her seven sons o Hanukkah or mothers

    whose children were grabbed rom them

    during painul moments in Jewish his-

    tory, mothers who poignantly adjured,

    Gedenk du bist a Yid remember, you

    are a Jew to their young sons as they were

    conscripted into the zars army, or moth-

    ers who sent their children on the Kinder-

    transport rescue mission to Great Britain

    rom 19381940, these loom large in our

    Jewish minds. Tough we live in blessed

    21st-century times we cannot help but

    harbor uncertainties about our childrens

    continued engagement in Judaism. It

    may take a leap o aith, but ear not, God

    assures Rachel, be comorted, your chil-

    dren will return.

    Fourth, Your Appreciation. Upon th

    birth o Judah, matriarch Leah declar

    joyully, Tis time I will thank God

    Te name reects a very special gratitud

    Rabbi Yochanan, quoting Rabbi Shimo

    bar Yochai, says, From the day that Gocreated the world there was no huma

    who thanked Him, as it says this time

    will thank God.

    Leah is the rst person to walk th

    earth to turn to her Maker and say

    simple thank you. She teaches us grat

    tude. Her motherly thank you becom

    the name Judah, the name o the Jewi

    people. It took a Jewish mother to teac

    the world appreciation let its lesso

    not be lost on us. Trough all the rus

    o carpools, bedtime bedlam and morn

    ing meshugas, dont orget to slow dow

    and say a quick thank you or all the bles

    ings tumbling around you. In days o ou

    where the lie o rush and the tides o ce

    phone rings, texting and Facebook pos

    ings bring a everish pitch to lie, we nee

    to say a Leahs thank you or all we hav

    as messy and as complicated as it may b

    its ours.

    Rivy Poupko Kletenik is an internationally

    renowned educator and Head of School at

    the Seattle Hebrew Academy. If you have a

    question thats been tickling your brain,

    send Rivy an e-mail at

    [email protected].

    Jwish tigr mthrs

    Rivy PouPko kletenikJTNews Columnist

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    The people have spoken. The results are in. Beore weget too wrapped up in 2011, lets pause or one last lookback at the things we loved in 2010. The results o our

    annual Best o Everything Survey might look amiliar insome places Island Crust pizza, anyone? but theyare also even more reective o our Jewish communitythan ever beore. How is that, you ask? Its simple: Morepeople flled out the survey than ever beore, shatteringthe record set just last year. But enough introduction andonto the best o Jewish Washington...

    Mazel Tov!Pi Cbti

    Best Place for a Wedding

    Well kick things o with a wedding celebration. This yearthe people said, I do to the Seattle Sheraton, locatedright in the heart o downtown. Outdoor suggestions likethe Arboretum and Ballard Locks were popular, but thiscorrespondent suggests that anybody considering thosevenues wait a ew months or the weather to clear up.

    Best Place for a Bar MitzvahStep right up, Congregation Beth Shalom. Well behearing more about you soon.

    Best local Party Band or dJ

    Mazel Tov to DJ Nicky B aka Nick Barrat, a frst-timewinner.

    Best Place to Buy a Wedding/

    engageMent ring

    Seattles most amous Jewish jewelers are at it again.This category goes to Ben Bridge. Although one reader(obviously looking or something more dangerous than

    a wedding ring) said hed head over to a BMWdealer: Id get a motorcycleinstead.

    Best KetuBah artist

    The voters expressed their own creativity with this vote,once again, or Joan Lite Miller, who designs classic and

    contemporary ketubot, incorporating calligraphy, collage,and exotic papers.

    Best PhotograPher

    In an upset pick....just kidding. Perennial winner DaniWeiss Photography is the peoples choice. Go Dani!

    Best videograPher

    Our winner or videography is Edit 1 Media based inTacoma, but operating throughout the region. Also aspecial mention that bears passing along one personvoted or Josh Isaac, not an event videographer, but aflmmaker and mensch who passed away this past year.

    Best florist

    I you saw this action ick The Townthis year, you knowhow orists can pack a surprising punch. Anna Brandt,

    however, reserves her talents or the task at hand,starting with a ree consultation and working all the waythrough the event.

    Best hotel for a siMcha

    Why i it isnt the old Seattle Sheraton again...

    Best extreMe Party sPace

    Our frst tie is as extreme as this category: A three-waydraw between the Space Needle, Camp Kalsman, andthe Georgetown Ballroom. I it were me, Id do all three:a sunny aternoon at camp ollowed by dinner at theNeedle and dancing until dawn.

    Best caterer

    The winner is Nosh Away, in a category that always

    gets the competitive juices (and competitive appetites)owing. Speaking o which, I think Im going to go grabsome lunch...

    Best Wedding caKe BaKer

    Nosh Away takes this one, too with a nod to pastryche Rumi, who received special mention rom amultitude o voters.

    DelI-CIousBest corned Beef sandWich

    Some o our voters in this category reached beyondSeattle with their choices, but i you want that New Yoravor, you can fnd it at I Love New York Deli, withlocations in the Pike Place Market and the U-District. Pathe brown mustard!

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    Best sMoKed fish

    One reader suggested one location or whitefsh andanother or lox. But no matter how you smoke it, the

    winner is Dressel Collins o South Seattle.

    TraDITIon!Best rugelach

    Unortunately, my grandmothers rugelach was not anominee in this category. But it still may not have beateNosh Away, whose pastries let the rest o the feld in aproverbial twist.

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    Best challah

    Once again, Nosh Away wins the day. It turns out that thecaterers are beloved or more than sweets. Although Igive bonus points or confdence to the person who wrotemy own.

    Best Bagel

    In a battle that came down to two kosher titans, BagelOasis o Ravenna repeated as champion in a ver yclose match-up over Noahs at University Village. But a

    contender has entered the ring. Up-and-comer Eltana,serving their Montreal-style bagels up on Capitol Hill, willbe a orce in next years vote.

    DInIng ouTBest Burgers

    Red Mill burgers are decidedly not kosher but theyare decidedly delicious, as voters chose them by a widemargin. Especially popular was the Veggie Verde burger. Idig their onion rings and taste or playing nothing but theRolling Stones. Remember to bring cash.

    Best Pizza

    We have a tie! Deending champion Island Crust Pizzaand Seattle icon Pagliaccis were all-even in this category

    where the competition is sti but the crust never is. Keepin mind, however, that Island Crust is the kosher option.

    Tutta Bella came in a close third.

    Best sunday Brunch

    And yet another tie! This one between Portage BayCa and Saltys on Alki. In my book, Saltys wins in theambiance and view departments, but Portage Bay gets anod or its organic and locally sourced ingredients.

    Best foodie-style restaurant that

    KnocKed your socKs off

    In a category that does service to the old two Jews, threeopinions joke, the oodie-style restaurant that knockedthe most socks o was Jerry Traunelds Poppy on CapitolHill. Readers love their veggie options and their Thali(small dishes served on a large tray) concept.

    Best neW asian/fusion

    The runaway winner is Bellevues red-hot Spiced: Truly

    Chinese Cuisine. They ocus on the Asian, serving upauthentic Szechuan recipes loaded, as you mightguess, with spicy red peppers.

    Best roMantic dinner

    I used to always wonder why there were alwayslimousines parked on the edge o the Aurora Bridge inQueen Anne. Then I realized, Oh, thats a restaurant.

    Then I realized that it must be popular and ancy.

    Delicious ood. Delicious wine. A stunning view. Ladiesand gentlemen, Canlis.

    Best Kid-friendly restaurant

    O course the best kid-riendly restaurant winner is a pizzaplace. It could also very easily be called the best dude inhis early- to mid-20s restaurant. The winner here notie this time is Island Crust Pizza in Mercer Island. Tothe reader who picked Camp Kalsman: Remember thatmeals are only supposed to be a small part o the camp

    experience and not even the best part at that!

    Best sushi

    As a Wallingord resident, my heart is with the sushi(and the prices) at Musashi on 45th St. But the peoplethink otherwise; perhaps I ought to get in my car androll (ahem) over to Lake City to try Toyoda Sushi arunaway winner.

    Best MoBile food trucK

    This category is hard to keep up with. One, the trucks alwaysmove around. Two, it seems like a new delicious ood truckappears every week. The winner is Marination Mobile, theKorean/Hawaiian truck you might have seen in Belltown, orin Fremont, or in West Seattle, or on Beacon Hill....

    Best BBQ

    The Pacifc Northwest has a wonderul culinary tradition,

    but other than the propensity or Seattleites to put onshorts and start grilling when its 50 degrees in Marchbecause the suns out, we have no great barbecuetradition. However, i you do want it, look south toColumbia Citys Jones BBQ and SODOs Pecos Pit.

    Best Middle eastern

    Cedars in the U District oers a delicious Indian menu inaddition to gyros, hummus and baba ghanoush. Make areservation it gets crowded.

    Best indian

    Voters went the kosher route in this category, declaring a

    strong preerence or Pabla. The Golden Samosa goes tothe two locations, in Issaquah and in Renton.

    lChaIM!Best Wine list or Wine Bar

    The downtown location o Purple is an all-glass cubethat looks like a giant fsh tank. Except instead o water,JTNewsreaders apparently preer to swim in wine. Theca and wine bar, which opened in Woodinville a decadeago and also has locations in Kirkland and Bellevue, was a

    huge hit in this category. Pour mea glass o Cab, please.

    Best local

    Bartender

    What makes a good bartender?Familiarity? Sti drinks?

    Theatrics? JTNewsreaders seemedto fnd the right combination inMurray Stenson at Zig Zag andAndrew Friedman at Liberty.

    Best cocKtail

    When the Beatles came to Seattlein 1964 they stayed at theEdgewater Hotel on Pier 67. I Ihad to guess, I would say at leastone o them probably wet his gullet at the hotel bar while

    staring at the waters o Elliott Bay.

    Best haPPy hour

    Monas in Greenlake is a Mediterranean-style bistro.What better way to celebrate the Mediterranean liestylethan by spending an aternoon eating and drinking? Withdrinks starting at $3 and ood items or $5, count me in.

    Best Place to Meet friends or

    Watch a gaMe

    The winner here is Montlake Ale House. With 15 rotatingbeers on tap, maybe this category could have been BestPlace to Have a Beer. I youre into those less traditional

    sports, you could heed the advice o one voter and heato Camp Kalsman where there will surely be room orspectators at the gaga and capture the ag matches.

    sWeeT TooThBest BaKery

    The regions best pastries are in West Seattle, says you.Head to Bakery Nouveau or delicious treats both sweetand savory, then take a walk along Alki Beach to burn the calories.

    Best chocolatier

    Our readership, whatever itspolitical belies, has at least onething in common with PresidentObama: a love or FransChocolates. But o course, Fransmakes high-end, delectable treatthat anybody can enjoy.

    Best ice creaM,

    gelato, or frozen

    yogurt

    This wasnt even close. I youveseen the lines that orm outsideo the Molly Moon locations inWallingord and Capitol Hill, you

    know the winner. Ive heard rumors o people who will

    avoid walking past altogether because the smell o resice cream and wae cones is too overpowering.

    Best cuPcaKes

    Trophy, with a location just two blocks rom Molly Moon (aat U Village and The Bravern in Bellevue) is the winner.

    CoMMunITY MaTTersBest local JeWish organization

    Jewish Family Service, with its deep programmingoptions, counseling, ood bank, and so many otherservices resonates across all parts o the community, anonce again takes the prize.

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    Best youth organization

    The options or Jewish youth in this town are plentiul.The close race between USY, NFTY, NCSY, and BBYO thisyear exemplifed that all our organizations remainstalwarts. But this year, USY came out on top.

    Best JeWish caMP

    And here it is. Garnering more votes than ever y othercategory, the meanest, toughest, scrappiest competitiono em all. In one corner: Camp Solomon Schechter. In

    the other: Camp Kalsman. The winner, ater going eightrounds is...Camp Solomon Schechter.

    Best JeWish WeB site

    It makes sense that the Best Jewish organization wouldalso have the Best Jewish Web site, and that JFSSeattle.org

    would be our winner. Check it out or anything you need toknow about the goings on at Jewish Family Service.

    Best Place to volunteer

    JFS is the pick or volunteering, not just because o allthe organizations good work, but because it oers avolunteer so many dierent ways to help. Be a mentor,tutor an English learner, help prepare holiday baskets, orlend a hand in the ood bank.

    The realITYof The sITuaTIon

    Best local food BanKAnd speaking o the JFS ood bank, it pops up again!

    Thankully, Seattle has a great deal o organizationshelping eed the hungry, like JFS, Helpline, Hopelink, andNorthwest Harvest.

    Best counseling services

    And the winner here, once again, is JFS. Their counselingservices were the clear avorite among voters.

    Best vocational/training

    servicesJFS takes it again, but not all the way. Seattle CommunityColleges rounds out the tie or frst place. Each has itsadvantages, depending, o course, on the specifc natureo the training.

    Best free activity for Kids

    Our avorite answer in this category was being togetheras a amily. Assuming that, the winning suggestion wasa walk around the Seward Park loop. Perect or a sunnyday and ree all days except SeaFair.

    Best source for local cheaP

    stuff to do

    The best source or cheap stu is, o course, The CheapBastards Guide to Seattleby local Jewish writer andhumorist David Volk. Its only $15, or i youre reallycheap, fnd the Cheap Bastards cheap deal o the day onFacebook. For ree.

    relIgIousrefleCTIons

    Best congregationIn this category voter turnout matters more than any other.Thats because most people rightully think highly otheir own synagogue communities. This year, CongregationBeth Shalom takes home the prize. Mazel Tov!

    Best JeWish suPPleMental school

    As Maimonides once said, where there is a strongcongregation, there is also a strong Jewish religious school.And this, perhaps, is why Congregation Beth Shalom is our

    winner despite heavy competition rom so many others.

    Best adult education

    Once again, Congregation Beth Shalom is numberone. With a ull slate o classes with titles youd neverexpect rom your athers shul, and a teacher who hasbeen recognized nationally or her work, o coursereaders chose Beth Shalom.Best Mohel

    Rabbi Simon Benzaquen is an artist with a paintbrush and more importantly or young Jewish boys in Seattle,hes not bad with a knie, either. The Sephardic BikurHolim rabbi is also no stranger to this honor; this is yetanother notch in his toolbelt.

    Best local JeWish hero

    Beth Huppin is a hero on behal o the people who say should value teachers, doctors, and frefghters insteado actors, athletes, and rock stars. She teaches at Seattl

    Jewish Community School, Congregation Beth Shalom,and based on her votes in this category, she certainlymakes an impact. A special shout-out to nominee LeaHanan, who graciously donated a kidney to her ather.

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    relaxaTIon afTerBest fitness cluB

    The voters kept things within the tribe, selecting theStroum Jewish Community Center as a great place toexercise (and gossip). The lavish Pro Club came in a verclose second, though I can relate to the voter who wroteFitness? Are you kidding me?

    Best sPa exPerience

    Ater a long day at the gym or or some o us, a veshort day what could be better than a relaxing spa

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    JoEL MAgALNiCK

    Cheap bastard David Volk was so cheap he got

    a likeness of his new book, The Cheap Bastards

    Guide to Seattle, printed onto the cake at his

    launch party instead of putting on a real-live

    version of the book. Then again, isnt printing

    images onto a cake kind of expensive?

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    session? The top spot or spa experiences in this years pollgoes to Olympus Spa in Lynnwood. But not i youre a guy.Regardless, its a ar cry rom the shvitz my grandatherused to visit in Jersey.

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    shoPPing for clothes for Myself

    The voters went with a classic in this category, namingMacys. But is it Macys they love or do they miss the oldBon March?

    Best KidsWear

    Voters this year chose The Gap or their kids clothes. Oras I call it, the number one destination or kids who dressbetter than most adults.

    Best indePendent shoes and

    accessories

    The Shoe Zoo has been in business or more than twodecades, outftting the eet o Seattles youth. Located behindUniversity Village, this is the place or everything romminiature wingtips to popular Crocs. But remember, kids only.

    Best indePendent toy shoP

    Top Ten Toys is not your average toy store: or one, theJTNewsreaders have chosen it (again) as their avoriteo the past year. But they also put some thought into theproducts they oer no toy guns, and or the sake o

    parents, no toys that make annoying lights and sounds.

    Best outdoor shoPPing

    Yes, University Village is the winner or best outdoorshopping and why wouldnt it be? It has everything,rom Frans Chocolates to Noahs Bagels to Trophy cucakesto the kosher QFC. So why not?

    Best local, little, indePendent

    shoP

    Seattle is blessed with many o these gems, and thenominees ranged rom clothing boutiques to tinybookstores. The winner is Cakespy, a new Capitol Hillstoreront with a little bit o everything rom art and gitsto the newest dessert trends.

    Best Judaica

    Rumor has it that the olks at Temple Bnai TorahsJudaica shop can get you anything you need, even i itsnot in stock. Psst. Hey you. Yeah, you! You wanna buy amezuzzah?

    Best gift shoP

    Light your sparklers! Fireworks with fve locationsaround the Puget Sound region oers everything romcreative Judaica to handcrated products by local artistsand designers.

    PeoPle of The Book(anD sCreen)

    Best indePendent BooKshoP

    Obviously the move to Capitol Hill hasnt slowed the olksat Elliott Bay Book Co. down at all. I anything, its been aboon as they edged out Third Place Books or the title oSeattles avorite.

    Best JeWish BooK of 2010

    Readers voted and critics would likely agree thatthe best Jewish book o 2010 was David Grossmans Tothe End of the Land. The Israeli novelists story o a amily,meted out on an aimless hike through the Galilee, is hismost personal yet. Another popular choice was rom localrabbi Mark Glickman and his new book Sacred Treasure The Cairo Genizah.

    Best JeWish author of 2010

    For this category, the voters went local, selecting NoahFriedland, a computer scientist whose frst novel, A HouseDivided, tells the story o an ambitious Israeli academicliving in the United States who gets drawn back into thepolitics o his home country when his brother dies.

    Best JeWish-theMed or israeli filM

    of 2010

    Ajamitells the story o a Jaa neighborhood o mixedJewish, Muslim and Christian population. A collaborationbetween Christian and Jewish flmmakers, the flm wascritically acclaimed in Israel.

    Best JeWish actor of 2010

    There is no shortage o talented, dramatic Jewish actors. Butthis year, the people have chosen to go or unny. Grownups

    star Adam Sandler wins here, although an awkward shruggoes out to the person who nominated Larry David.

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    Best Place to hang out and Meet

    other fun JeWs

    JConnect wins here, which makes sense: One o the slogansconsidered by the UW Hillel young adult organization wasA Great Place to Hang Out and Meet Other Fun Jews.

    Best Place to Meet a nice JeWish

    Boy or girl

    And by meet other un Jews they really meant meetother un Jews o the opposite sex (or or those with adierent orientation, o the same sex not that theres

    anything wrong with that). Yes, JConnect takes the prizehere as well.

    Best online dating site

    The competition or Jewish dating sites is slim, so nosurprise that JDate racked up nearly all the votes. And

    who could deny the greatness o a dating site that asksright away i you keep kosher?

    Best JeWish PicKuP line

    My avorites range rom the simple (Nice kippah!) tothe hilariously Jewish (Is that a bagel in your pocket?)to the almost uncomortably direct though sure toappeal to mothers (Hi, Im a doctor).

    graB BagBest (or Worst) Political antic of

    2010

    The winner squeaked in beore 2010 ended. Readerspraised the eort to prevent bus ads critical o Israel romrunning on King County Metro lines. In other news, SarahPalin elicits strong emotions rom our readers.

    Most iMPortant Political issue

    of 2010

    Here our readership turned away rom specifcally Jewish

    issues toward something more universal (though i you asome people, not universal enough): Healthcare reorm.Also checking in with high vote totals were, o course, theconomy. And WikiLeaks? Not even a WikiSqueak.

    Best local sPorts teaM of 2010

    This award goes out to the only Seattle sports team to wa title this year, the Seattle Storm, starring Jewish pointguard Sue Bird! The award or best Jewish team nameheads over to Rock, and the 613s o Northwest Yeshiva

    High School.

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    There are two winners in this category. The frst relatesto the aorementioned 613s o Northwest Yeshiva HighSchool, whose girls basketball team, as one reader notgraciously oreits a tournament that ell on the Fast oEsther. The second goes to Beth Huppin, our local Jewishero, who was honored with the 2010 Covenant Awardor Jewish Education.

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    o many in the Middle East and

    beyond, Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish represents

    a triumph o aith, hope and determina-

    tion over squalor, suering and righten-

    ingly long odds.

    Te oldest o nine children, all bornin the Jabalia reugee camp, he became

    known as the Gaza doctor, the rst Pal-

    estinian physician on sta at an Israeli

    hospital, a globally respected obstetrician

    and gynecologist specializing in human

    ertility with a masters degree in public

    health rom Harvard.

    Ten his wie Nadia, the mother o their

    eight children, died o leukemia at age 45.

    Four months later, on January 16, 2009, three

    o his daughters, Bessan, 21, Mayar 15, and

    Aya, 14, and a niece, Noor, 17, were killed

    when someone in an Israeli tank shelled the

    amily home during the Gaza war. No Israeli

    authority has asserted there was hostile re or

    any other sign o resistance rom the house.

    Abuelaish, an observant Muslim, sub-

    sequently completed a book he had been

    contemplating or three years, I Shall Not

    Hate, an autobiographical plea or peace

    and human dignity that he brought to a

    pair o recent Seattle-area book signings.

    It is important to eel anger in the

    wake o events like this; anger that signals

    that you do not accept what has happened,

    that spurs you to make a dierence, he

    wrote. But you have to choose not tospiral into hate. All the desire or revenge

    and hatred does is drive away wisdom,

    increase sorrow, and prolong strie.

    In an appearance beore about 275

    people at emple Bnai orah in Belle-

    vue on January 17 and a presentation

    that drew 310 at own Hall in Seattle two

    nights later, Abuelaish never wavered

    rom that theme.

    In Seattle, where the audience appeared

    to be more sympathetic to the Palestinian

    cause, he was berated by a middle-aged

    man who said he grew up in a reugee

    camp on the West Bank and served time

    in an Israeli prison.

    How can you say dont hate them?

    the man said.

    For many Palestinians, we hate the Israeli

    army. Tey are our killers they murdered

    your daughters, he continued, raising his

    voice. Youre asking us to love them?

    Killing cant be

    solved by killing.

    Whats important to

    me is my daughters,

    Abuelaish replied.

    hey will nevercome back.

    he Palestinian

    cause is holy and

    noble. We must use

    the holy and noble

    means away rom

    any hate, he said.

    Keep conident in

    your cause with rationality, with wisdom.

    At the synagogue, a center o interaith

    eorts, the audience was predominantly

    Jewish but included Christians and Mus-

    lims, including women in headscarves.

    Asked what he would tell Hamas about

    justice and violence, Abuelaish said he

    would not single out Hamas, that his

    message was the same to the Palestinian

    Authority and the Israeli government:

    Violence will never win words are

    stronger than bullets.

    He has repeatedly asked personal

    acquaintances in the Israeli governme

    why his house was shelled, people wh

    know what happened, and the respons

    he said, has been nothing. Tey turn

    dea ear.

    Beore his appearance in Bellevu

    Abuelaish was asked how trying to pr

    mote understanding and ease tensio

    between the Israeli and Palestinian pe

    ples could be translated into governme

    and political action.

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    Because of Temple Bnai Torahs work in the interfaith community, Dr. Izzeld

    Abuelaishs appearance was a mix of Jews, Muslims and Christians, includin

    some in headscarves that greeted Abuelaish as he signed books.

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    First the bad news: Book Lustis nished.

    Now the good news: Nancy Pearl, the

    creator o the series o books that helps

    hungry readers nd the right book at theright time and Library Journals 2011

    librarian o the year, isnt giving up her

    personal quest to promote literacy and

    the pure joy o reading. Its just that she

    has so many new channels to spread the

    word her blog at www.nancypearl.com

    and a witter eed (@Nancy_Pearl) with

    recommendations that she updates on a

    regular basis.

    Its so much un to witter. I wit-

    ter every day about a book, Pearl told

    JNews rom her home in Seattle. I think

    thats an easier, maybe even more efcient

    way to do it.

    Tis woman who has spent so much

    time with other peoples words has also

    embarked upon something new: Her rst

    novel. But Pearl is somewhat daunted by

    the thought o putting her own characters

    on the page.

    Its much scarier, she says. Even

    though the novel that Im working on is not

    autobiographical at all, it eels much more

    personal than the Book Lust books did.

    Its your characters and your ideas and your

    way o putting the words together.

    Pearl, who retired as director o the

    Seattle Public Librarys Center or the

    Book in 2004, is certainly

    not lacking or what to do.

    Aside rom writing, she

    reads. A lot. On the morningJNews spoke with Pearl,

    she had completed reading

    a 19th-century antasy novel

    by Ben Aaronovich called

    Midnight Riot.

    Everything is very real

    its a mystery, but there

    are vampires, ghosts and

    werewolves, etc., who play

    in, Pearl says.

    Pearl also talks books

    on NPR, travels to various cities to train

    librarians and readers to help them advo-

    cate or literacy and works with students

    in the University o Washingtons Library

    and Inormation Sciences program.

    But shell take a break rom all o that on

    Sun., Jan. 30, when shell be the speaker at

    the Jewish Federation o Greater Seattles

    annual Connections womens event.

    Pearl oers up two books or readers


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