How To Handle Rejection In Dating with herpes

If you told it to someone you care about and is suppose to

care about you, but rejects you because of herpes virus, they

don't deserve to be in your life.

I found out about my H status at the beginning of this month

and the told the guy I had been dating for a year. We both

exchanged the L word and talked about having a future

together, kids, etc. but he rejected me..by cutting me off and

ignoring my attempts to reach out to him. and we haven't

spoke since. I'm still coping and do have my down days

where I let my thoughts get the best of me.

You don't need to tell everyone. And if u do decide to (b/c

sometimes we just need someone to talk to), use

discernment. A true friend or someone that REALLY

loves/cares about you, won't reject you, but will be

supportive and try to understand.

Keep dating, and you will find someone who wants to be

with you regardless of your condition. There are certainly

some who wouldn't mind keeping the intimacy level just

short of doing things that could transmit the virus. And of

those people, it's likely that at least one will come around,

and say, "Hey, I understand there's a risk, but I'm crazy

about you, so I'm willing to take it."

Depending on your dating style, you might look for another

person who knows he or she has herpes, if only to avoid

having to discuss it. If you already use dating services or

personal ads, you can also use any online dating sites for

people with herpes.  There are lots of online herpes dating

sites. Go to http://www.TopHerpesDatingSites.com and

check the reviews from experts and users. You can  easily

choose the best herpes dating   site suit you well.