dealing with angry patients and family members
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Dealing with angry patients & family members
Dr. Padma Puppala
Anger often is either an expression of emotion derived from the patient’s situation and/or triggered by minor lapse, often unrelated
Billing erro
rs
Long waitingtimes
Unresponsive
staff
Getting caught in an altercation with one patient or a family member can interfere with
your effectiveness as a clinician and compromise care of other patients too
AngerPain
Fear & worry
Feeling unheard
Undiagnosed illness
When any patient appears to be “angry,” the presence of pain must be considered and treated as a matter of urgency
Hospitalization can be an intensely destabilizing experience for both the patient and his or her caregivers ;
“Physical, emotional & Financial”
Patient’s sometimes feel their requests are unheard, expectations are not met or they are not informed about their
condition, plan of management or risks involved
Calm, professional and empathetic approach is essential for establishing coherent dialogue and diffusing the situation
Anger is contagious
It can trigger fight or flight response in you
How we react…..
Try to solve the problem
Defend yourself or the person who upset
them
“Feelings first”
Universal upset person protocolDr. Dike Drummond
“Works for patients, colleagues, your partner, children and even complete strangers”
Regardless of what/who they are upset with, Either verbally upset or visibly upset, but silent
6 Steps of UUPPYou look upset
Tell me about it
I’m so sorry this is happening
What would you like me to help
Here is what we can do
Thank you for sharing your feelings
Acknowledge the emotion and encourage to speak and vent it out
An angry patient is unlikely to be receptive
to your explanation until his grief is fully
expressed
The patients' stories need to be heard. Careful listening is just a part of defusing the patient's anger
Active-listening involves repetitions, summaries, validations, and empathetic statements
Our curiosity about what has happened has a therapeutic effect.
By staying curious, we also avoid being defensive about ourselves.
By arguing, trying to judge or expressing opinions,a power struggle may ensue making things worse
Avoid being defensive
As clinicians, we usually do not know the details of what has happened, and we often cannot and need
not resolve the problems
Whatever the cause of anger may be, empathy can still be used to address the patient's emotions
Unfortunately difficult patients continue to exist.
You can’t beat them or throw them out
The term “difficult” is subjective. Differences in expertise and experience account for differences in perception
Summary
• Errors in hospitals would continue to happen• Sometimes, due to loopholes in processes• Face it; Don’t run away• Avoid being defensive or blaming people• Acknowledge patient’s emotion, empathize• Establish trust and diffuse situation• Learn from experiences by introspection