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www.wrksolutions.com 1.888.469.JOBS (5627)Workforce Solutions is an equal opportunity employer/program. Auxiliary aids and services are available upon

request to individuals with disabilities. (Please request reasonable accommodations 48 hours in advance.)

Relay Texas: 1.800.735.2989 (TDD) 1.800.735.2988 (voice) or 711

CONFLICT RESOLUTION & PROBLEM SOLVING

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Understanding Conflict

Learning Objectives:

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Understanding Conflict

5 Steps

Learning Objectives:

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Understanding Conflict

5 StepsStyles of Handling Conflict

Learning Objectives:

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Understanding Conflict

5 StepsStyles of Handling Conflict

Win/Win Approach

Learning Objectives:

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Understanding Conflict

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Understanding Conflict

Who here has ever had a conflict?

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Understanding Conflict

Who here has ever had a conflict?

Who has not?

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Levels of Conflict

Discomfort

Understanding Conflict

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Levels of Conflict

Discomfort Incident

Understanding Conflict

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Levels of Conflict

Discomfort IncidentMisunders-

tanding

Understanding Conflict

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Levels of Conflict

Discomfort IncidentMisunders-

tandingTension

Understanding Conflict

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Levels of Conflict

Discomfort IncidentMisunders-

tandingTension Crisis

Understanding Conflict

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That “gut” feeling that things just aren’t

right.

Understanding Conflict

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That “gut” feeling that things just aren’t

right.

DISCOMFORT

Understanding Conflict

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Has something minor happened which

has left you upset or irritated?

Understanding Conflict

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Has something minor happened which

has left you upset or irritated?

INCIDENT

Understanding Conflict

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Are the details of the situation unclear?

Cannot figure out clear motives or

intent?

Understanding Conflict

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Are the details of the situation unclear?

Cannot figure out clear motives or

intent?

MISUNDERSTANDING

Understanding Conflict

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Anxious about your relationship with the

other person? Are you about to

explode/resign/give them a piece of your

mind?

Understanding Conflict

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Anxious about your relationship with the

other person? Are you about to

explode/resign/give them a piece of your

mind?

TENSION

Understanding Conflict

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Emotions running too high? Are the two

parties not talking anymore? Does the

conflict seem extremely complex?

Understanding Conflict

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Emotions running too high? Are the two

parties not talking anymore? Does the

conflict seem extremely complex?

CRISIS

Understanding Conflict

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Understanding Conflict

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Understanding Conflict

• Look for the early clues to conflict

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Understanding Conflict

• Look for the early clues to conflict

• Greet conflict in a positive way

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Understanding Conflict

• Look for the early clues to conflict

• Greet conflict in a positive way

• Identify the level of conflict to help

choose an appropriate strategy

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5 Steps to Conflict Resolution & Problem Solving

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5 Steps to Conflict Resolution & Problem Solving

Define

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Define

Brainstorm

5 Steps to Conflict Resolution & Problem Solving

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Define

Brainstorm

Solution

5 Steps to Conflict Resolution & Problem Solving

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Define

Brainstorm

SolutionImplement

5 Steps to Conflict Resolution & Problem Solving

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Define

Brainstorm

SolutionImplement

Results

5 Steps to Conflict Resolution & Problem Solving

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Solution: What are you going to do? The ideal solution is the most effective and with fewest side effects.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

Brainstorm: What are some ways to solve the problem? The harder the problem, the more solutions you may need.

Input: a goal; research of the problem and possible solutions; imagination.

Output: pick-list of possible solutions that would achieve the stated goal.

Define: What are you trying to solve? In addition to getting clear on what the problem is, defining the problem also establishes a goal for what you want to achieve.

Input: something is wrong or something could be improved

Output: a clear definition of the opportunity and a goal for fixing it.

Results: What did you do? To know you successfully solved the problem, it’s important to review what worked, what didn’t and what impact the solution had.

Input: resolutions; results of the implementation

Output: bullets on your resume; promotions

Implement: What are you doing? The implementation of a solution requires planning and execution.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

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Solution: What are you going to do? The ideal solution is the most effective and with fewest side effects.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

Brainstorm: What are some ways to solve the problem? The harder the problem, the more solutions you may need.

Input: a goal; research of the problem and possible solutions; imagination.

Output: pick-list of possible solutions that would achieve the stated goal.

Define: What are you trying to solve? In addition to getting clear on what the problem is, defining the problem also establishes a goal for what you want to achieve.

Input: something is wrong or something could be improved

Output: a clear definition of the opportunity and a goal for fixing it.

Results: What did you do? To know you successfully solved the problem, it’s important to review what worked, what didn’t and what impact the solution had.

Input: resolutions; results of the implementation

Output: bullets on your resume; promotions

Implement: What are you doing? The implementation of a solution requires planning and execution.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

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Solution: What are you going to do? The ideal solution is the most effective and with fewest side effects.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

Brainstorm: What are some ways to solve the problem? The harder the problem, the more solutions you may need.

Input: a goal; research of the problem and possible solutions; imagination.

Output: pick-list of possible solutions that would achieve the stated goal.

Define: What are you trying to solve? In addition to getting clear on what the problem is, defining the problem also establishes a goal for what you want to achieve.

Input: something is wrong or something could be improved

Output: a clear definition of the opportunity and a goal for fixing it.

Results: What did you do? To know you successfully solved the problem, it’s important to review what worked, what didn’t and what impact the solution had.

Input: resolutions; results of the implementation

Output: bullets on your resume; promotions

Implement: What are you doing? The implementation of a solution requires planning and execution.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

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Solution: What are you going to do? The ideal solution is the most effective and with fewest side effects.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

Brainstorm: What are some ways to solve the problem? The harder the problem, the more solutions you may need.

Input: a goal; research of the problem and possible solutions; imagination.

Output: pick-list of possible solutions that would achieve the stated goal.

Define: What are you trying to solve? In addition to getting clear on what the problem is, defining the problem also establishes a goal for what you want to achieve.

Input: something is wrong or something could be improved

Output: a clear definition of the opportunity and a goal for fixing it.

Results: What did you do? To know you successfully solved the problem, it’s important to review what worked, what didn’t and what impact the solution had.

Input: resolutions; results of the implementation

Output: bullets on your resume; promotions

Implement: What are you doing? The implementation of a solution requires planning and execution.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

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Solution: What are you going to do? The ideal solution is the most effective and with fewest side effects.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

Brainstorm: What are some ways to solve the problem? The harder the problem, the more solutions you may need.

Input: a goal; research of the problem and possible solutions; imagination.

Output: pick-list of possible solutions that would achieve the stated goal.

Define: What are you trying to solve? In addition to getting clear on what the problem is, defining the problem also establishes a goal for what you want to achieve.

Input: something is wrong or something could be improved

Output: a clear definition of the opportunity and a goal for fixing it.

Results: What did you do? To know you successfully solved the problem, it’s important to review what worked, what didn’t and what impact the solution had.

Input: resolutions; results of the implementation

Output: bullets on your resume; promotions

Implement: What are you doing? The implementation of a solution requires planning and execution.

Input: decision; planning; hard work. Output: resolution to the problem.

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Conflict Handling Styles

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Conflict Handling Styles

Each of us may handle conflict

differently.

No conflict style is inherently right

or wrong, but one or more styles

could be inappropriate or

ineffective for a given situation.

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Competing

Competitors come across as aggressive, autocratic,

confrontational, and intimidating.

Value of issue/goal

• High

Value of relationship

• Low

Result

• I win, you lose

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Accommodating

It’s very important to understand, accommodation doesn’t mean

“weakness”.

Value of issue/goal

• Low

Value of relationship

• High

Result

• I lose, you win

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Avoidance

Avoiders deliberately ignore or withdraw from a conflict rather

than face it.

Value of issue/goal

• Low

Value of relationship

• Low

Result

• I lose, you lose

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Compromising

Compromisers are willing to sacrifice some of

their goals and persuade others to give up theirs

too–give a little, get a little.

Value of issue/goal

• Medium

Value of relationship

• Medium

Result

• I win some, you win some

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Collaboration

Collaboration generates creative solutions that satisfy all

the parties’ concerns creates respect, trust, and builds

relationships.

Value of issue/goal

• High

Value of relationship

• High

Result

• I win, you win

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Win/Win Approach

Everyone’s a winner!

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Win/Win Approach

What could they have done in order for both of

them to have the whole orange?

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Win/Win Approach

Talked

What could they have done in order for both of

them to have the whole orange?

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Win/Win Approach

Listened

What could they have done in order for both of

them to have the whole orange?

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Win/Win Approach

Found out what each other wanted/needed

What could they have done in order for both of

them to have the whole orange?

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Win/Win Approach

The KEY to a Win/Win approach is to explore needs

before settling on a solution.

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Win/Win Approach

Principles of a Win/Win Approach

• Considering what I want AND what they want

• Be concerned with what’s fair

• Respect relationships

• They don’t have to lose for me to win

• Find a solution including as many needs as

possible

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Win/Win Approach

Benefits of a Win/Win Approach

• Increased productivity

• Encouraging creativity in people

• Results in good quality solutions

• Commitment from employees

• Focusing energy and attention on solving

problems instead of fighting