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LEAD plenary session at NSC 2014

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Page 1: Break Your Mind Open

BREAKYOUR

Mind

POPCORNED BY DEY DOS

OPEN

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Your LEADHOSTS

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DEYDOS

AMALIAGHIBAN

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BY BEING OPEN TO LEARN FROM EVERY SINGLE EXPERIENCE YOU LIVE

How do you break your mind open?

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What stops you from learning from every single experience?

MY OWN BELIEFS ABOUT WHAT GOOD & BAD EXPERIENCES ARE

AND HOW THEY AFFECT ME

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Never let your printer know that you are in a

hurry…

PRINTERS CAN SMELL YOUR FEAR!

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EVERY TIME WE ENCOUNTER A BAD EXPERIENCE,

WE GET TO KNOW OURSELVES BETTER

How do you usually respond to “bad” experiences?

anger � detachment � ignore it

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Is change a “bad”

experience?

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SOME FACTS ABOUT

!   Everybody has them !   No one likes them !   Few turn them into positives !   Normally later…

BAD EXPERIENCES

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What separates people who thrive from those who

merely survive?

HOW THEY FACE THE PAIN OF THEIR BAD EXPERIENCES

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PAIN SUFFERING

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It is all about

PAIN

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Pain prompt us to face who we have become and

where we are.

WHAT WE DO WITH THAT EXPERIENCE DEFINES WHO WE

CONSTANTLY BECOME

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THE PAIN OF INEXPERIENCE

THE PAIN OF INCOMPETENCE

THE PAIN OF DISAPPOINTMENT

THE PAIN OF CONFLICT

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THE PAIN OF CHANGE

THE PAIN OF REGRET

THE PAIN OF HARD DECISIONS

THE PAIN OF DISCIPLINE

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THE PAIN OF THE NEW

THE PAIN OF NOT BEING Nº 1

THE PAIN OF LEAVING

THE PAIN OF RESPONSIBILITY

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What could all these painful experiences

teach us?

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LET DISCOMFORT BE A CATALYST FOR OUR

DEVELOPMENT

Blame…

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NOPAIN NOGAIN

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1. EMBRACE A

To a large degree in life we get what we expect.

GROWTH MINDSET

Why would I want to expect the worst?

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2. EMBRACE AND UTILIZE

Use the energy that comes from strong emotions and adrenaline to solve problems and learn lessons.

YOUR EMOTIONS

How can I smartly utilize my emotional

energy?

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3. EMBRACE THE VALUE OF

Facing them is inevitable, learning is optional, and we normally learn

long after they happen.

BAD EXPERIENCES

Why would I wait for after?

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4. EMBRACE CHANGES LEARNED THROUGH

We either face the hard feelings and embrace change

or we try to escape.

BAD EXPERIENCES

Why would I choose the pain of regret over the

pain of discipline?

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5. EMBRACE OWNERSHIP FOR

Circumstances don’t define us, what we do in the face of them does.

YOUR OWN LIFE

Why would I give such power to the

circumstances?

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No matter what you have gone through in this role so

far – or what you are currently going through – you have the opportunity

to grow from it.

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It’s sometime very hard and difficult to see the

opportunities…

BUT THEY ARE THERE!

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THEY ARE THERE!

Even if you can’t see them…

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It’s not just about being willing to believe and look

for them, but to pursue them with discipline.

THEN IT GETS EASIER

EVERY TIME!

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Life is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.

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THERE IT IS WHERE THE LEADER IN ME EMERGES

My @XP is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way I cope with it is what makes the difference.

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Am I ready to look for opportunities in

everything that comes in the way of my @XP?

AM I WILLING TO START AT NSC 2014?

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