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Angry Anger Iceberg rejected embarrassed annoyed disgusted attacked offended scared overwhelmed guilt shame lonely grief distrustful unsure anxious grumpy hurt stressed nervous disappointed exhausted trapped trauma disrespected insecure envious regret uncomfortable worried tricked helpless depressed frustrated Icebergs are large pieces of ice found floating in the open ocean. What you can see from the surface can be mis- leading. Most of the iceberg is hidden below the water. This is how anger works. Often when we are angry, there are other emotions hidden under the surface.

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Page 1: Anger Iceberg - The Gottman Institute · Angry Anger Iceberg rejected embarrassed annoyed disgusted attacked offended scared overwhelmed guilt shame lonely grief distrustful unsure

Angry

Anger Iceberg

rejected

embarrassed

annoyed

disgusted

attacked

offended

scared

overwhelmed

guilt

shame

lonely

grief

distrustful

unsure

anxious

grumpy

hurt

stressed

nervous

disappointed

exhausted

trapped

trauma

disrespected

insecure

envious

regretuncomfortable worried

tricked

helpless

depressedfrustrated

Icebergs are large pieces of ice found floating in the open ocean. What you can see from the surface can be mis-leading. Most of the iceberg is hidden below the water.

This is how anger works. Often when we are angry, there are other emotions hidden under the surface.