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Page 1: 7 Habits of a highly effective teen: Habit #1 Be Proactive 7 Habits of a highly effective teen: Habit #1 Be Proactive

7 Habits of a highly effective 7 Habits of a highly effective teen:teen:

Habit #1 Be ProactiveHabit #1 Be Proactive

7 Habits of a highly effective 7 Habits of a highly effective teen:teen:

Habit #1 Be ProactiveHabit #1 Be Proactive

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Habit #1 Be PROACTIVEHabit #1 Be PROACTIVEthe day’s lesson planthe day’s lesson plan

Habit #1 Be PROACTIVEHabit #1 Be PROACTIVEthe day’s lesson planthe day’s lesson plan

1.1. Introduce Proactive and Reactive Introduce Proactive and Reactive LanguageLanguage

2.2. Battle of the SexesBattle of the Sexes

3.3. Acrostic PoemAcrostic Poem

4.4. Positive PromisesPositive Promises

5.5. Scenarios – Proactive vs. Reactive.Scenarios – Proactive vs. Reactive.

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What does this quote mean?

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not

an act, but a habit.”-Aristotle-Aristotle

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Three types of People

• People who make things happen

• People who watch things happen

• People who wonder…what happened

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Four Human ToolsFour Human Tools

1.1.Self-AwarenessSelf-Awareness2.2.ConscienceConscience3.3.ImaginationImagination4.4.WillpowerWillpowerHow will these tools help How will these tools help

you be more proactive?you be more proactive?

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Proactive PeopleProactive Peopleare a different breed…are a different breed…

Proactive People:Proactive People: Are not easily offendedAre not easily offended Take responsibility for their choicesTake responsibility for their choices Think before they actThink before they act Bounce back when something bad happensBounce back when something bad happens Always finds a way to make it happenAlways finds a way to make it happen Focus on things they can do something Focus on things they can do something

about, and don’t worry about things they about, and don’t worry about things they can’tcan’t

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Proactive LanguageProactive Language I’ll do itI’ll do it

I can do better than thatI can do better than that

Let’s look at all our optionsLet’s look at all our options

I choose toI choose to

There’s gotta be a wayThere’s gotta be a way

I’m not going to let your bad mood rub off I’m not going to let your bad mood rub off on me.on me.

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Reactive People…Reactive People…a common breed?a common breed?Reactive People…Reactive People…a common breed?a common breed?

Reactive People:Reactive People: Are easily offendedAre easily offended Focuses on the negativeFocuses on the negative Blow off responsibilitiesBlow off responsibilities Blame othersBlame others React at the spur of React at the spur of the momentthe moment Get angry and say things they later regretGet angry and say things they later regret Get “beat down” when something bad Get “beat down” when something bad

happenshappens

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Reactive LanguageReactive Language I’ll tryI’ll try

That’s just the way I amThat’s just the way I am

There’s nothing I can doThere’s nothing I can do

I have to??I have to??

I can’tI can’t

You ruined my day!You ruined my day!

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1. Separate in groups of boys and girls- Boys are Proactive words- Girls are Reactive words

2. Give the dry erase marker to one representative in your group.

3. When I say go, the 1st representative writes down a word for their team on the board.

4. Once you write down one word, hand off the marker to another teammate.

5. Get as many words as you can before the time is up!

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Acrostic PoemAcrostic PoemP P

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PPLAY HARDLAY HARD

RRESPECT YOUR FAMILY, YOUR ESPECT YOUR FAMILY, YOUR SCHOOLSCHOOL

OOFFER TO HELP TO SOMEONE FFER TO HELP TO SOMEONE WHO NEEDS ITWHO NEEDS IT

AACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR CCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONSYOUR ACTIONS

CCLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELFLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF

TTAKE ACTIONAKE ACTION

IINVITE A FRIEND TO A SCHOOL NVITE A FRIEND TO A SCHOOL DANCEDANCE

VVISIT A SICK FRIENDISIT A SICK FRIEND

EENVISION A GOAL AND MEET ITNVISION A GOAL AND MEET IT

PPLAY HARDLAY HARD

RRESPECT YOUR FAMILY, YOUR ESPECT YOUR FAMILY, YOUR SCHOOLSCHOOL

OOFFER TO HELP TO SOMEONE FFER TO HELP TO SOMEONE WHO NEEDS ITWHO NEEDS IT

AACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR CCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONSYOUR ACTIONS

CCLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELFLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF

TTAKE ACTIONAKE ACTION

IINVITE A FRIEND TO A SCHOOL NVITE A FRIEND TO A SCHOOL DANCEDANCE

VVISIT A SICK FRIENDISIT A SICK FRIEND

EENVISION A GOAL AND MEET ITNVISION A GOAL AND MEET IT

RRESTING WHEN YOU SHOULD ESTING WHEN YOU SHOULD BE WORKINGBE WORKING

EEXPECT YOUR PARENTS TO XPECT YOUR PARENTS TO BAIL YOU OUTBAIL YOU OUT

AAVOID CHALLENGESVOID CHALLENGES

CCUT OTHERS DOWN WHEN YOU UT OTHERS DOWN WHEN YOU FEEL THREATENEDFEEL THREATENED

TTALK…TALK…TALKALK…TALK…TALK

IINSIST THAT YOU ARE RIGHT, NSIST THAT YOU ARE RIGHT, EVEN WHEN YOU ARE NOTEVEN WHEN YOU ARE NOT

VVENT ABOUT PROBLEMS THAT ENT ABOUT PROBLEMS THAT YOU DON’T INTEND TO YOU DON’T INTEND TO SOLVESOLVE

EEXCUSES…EXCUSES…EXCUSESXCUSES…EXCUSES…EXCUSES

RRESTING WHEN YOU SHOULD ESTING WHEN YOU SHOULD BE WORKINGBE WORKING

EEXPECT YOUR PARENTS TO XPECT YOUR PARENTS TO BAIL YOU OUTBAIL YOU OUT

AAVOID CHALLENGESVOID CHALLENGES

CCUT OTHERS DOWN WHEN YOU UT OTHERS DOWN WHEN YOU FEEL THREATENEDFEEL THREATENED

TTALK…TALK…TALKALK…TALK…TALK

IINSIST THAT YOU ARE RIGHT, NSIST THAT YOU ARE RIGHT, EVEN WHEN YOU ARE NOTEVEN WHEN YOU ARE NOT

VVENT ABOUT PROBLEMS THAT ENT ABOUT PROBLEMS THAT YOU DON’T INTEND TO YOU DON’T INTEND TO SOLVESOLVE

EEXCUSES…EXCUSES…EXCUSESXCUSES…EXCUSES…EXCUSES

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Positive PromisePositive Promise Make a positive promise to yourself

Something that you can keep within the next 48hrs

Write down your promise in your spiral notebook

Come back to class and discuss how well you accomplished your goal with a partner.

Was it realistic?Were you able to keep your promise?

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Scenarios: Proactive vs. Scenarios: Proactive vs. ReactiveReactive

• I need 3 volunteers who aren’t afraid I need 3 volunteers who aren’t afraid to act.to act.

• You will be given a script for 2 You will be given a script for 2 scenariosscenarios

• One is for showing reactive peopleOne is for showing reactive people• Two is for showing proactive peopleTwo is for showing proactive people