6 ways to get the most out of group
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6 Ways to Get the Most out of Group Therapy
Posted by Into Action Treatment on December 29, 2015 in Articles
Understanding that group therapy is the
recommended course for treatment of a drug addiction
is one thing, knowing how to use this to your
advantage is something totally different. Group
therapy offers some unique benefits during recovery.
You meet with people who understand the situation
you are in and who are ready and willing to lend a
helping hand in overcoming the obstacles you face on
your quest for sobriety. There are several ways you can utilize group therapy dynamics best for a clear
advantage.
1. Be Honest
Lying becomes second nature to may addicts and the idea of entering a group setting and being
completely honest from the get go is scary. It’s okay. Even if you’re already well into group therapy,
it’s never too late to start being honest and honesty is an important part of the process. How can you get
help for an issue you don’t even admit you struggle with?
2. Make a genuine effort
Like lying, faking therapy is a common mistake that addicts make. It’s the result of listening to much
to your lying addiction. You think ‘it’ doesn’t apply to you or you don’t need the help, or whatever else
it is that you tell yourself that makes it okay to fake therapy. It isn’t okay. Forget that these people are
here to help you or that the rest of the group is counting on your support. It isn’t okay to try to fake
your way through group therapy FOR YOU. Don’t half-ass your recovery. Go at it with gusto. Put
your recovery and the progress you can make through group therapy at the forefront of your priorities.
The sooner you make the commitment; the sooner you will see results.
3. Make allies
As early as your first group therapy session, you will notice that there are certain people who you can
identify with or people who inspire you. Make allies of them. You will need someone to look to when
you struggle. So will they. Fighting the monsters of addiction is easier and more successful with allies
on your side.
4. Share accountability
Personal accountability is one of the hardest challenges on the quest for sobriety. In a group
therapy setting, accountability is shared. It is your job to hold yourself accountable but it’s also your
job to call bullshit when someone in your group tries to dodge their own accountability. Everyone in
the group is responsible for everyone else. It’s how bonds are made and strengthened.
5. Learn
Learn from the failures of your group mates. Learn from their successes. Learning from each other is a
uniquely human advantage. The ability to share your struggles so others can learn from them is an
opportunity for you to connect and give back to your group. It costs you nothing and it gives you more
satisfaction than you can imagine when you realize that your story might save someone’s life, or at the
very least- the same struggle.
6. Share
Share the weight of addiction. When you are feeling particularly vulnerable, you can offload the
weight in group and the other members can help you deal with your burdens. When you are having a
good day, perhaps you can be someone else’s rock. When group therapy is at its peak, you can do both
fluently and frequently.