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Addiction touches nearly every
family. It’s time to talk about it
openly and without fear.
See page 12.
No One Is
Immune
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JAMIE’S STORYJamie had struggled with an addiction to
prescription medication. With great effort,
his family worked tirelessly to get him help,
but it was always “one step forward, three
steps back,” Daniels says.
She and former husband, Detroit Red
Wings announcer Ken Daniels, who will be
speaking about Jamie at an event March 7
at Temple Israel (see page 18) didn’t learn
about his problem with addiction until
December of his senior year at Michigan
State University. A friend told his sister
that Jamie was getting into stronger
prescription drugs.
“He didn’t want people to know
what he was going through. He was
afraid if people knew, they would
use it against him, even his peers,”
Daniels says.
Unlike the majority of families with
an addict, there was no predisposition
to the disease in Daniels’ family. “I didn’t
know what the signs were but, in hindsight,
I realized that from the time he was young,
he was often alone and said he felt like he
JACKIE HEADAPOHL MANAGING EDITOR
no ONE isNothing safeguards you
against addiction — not a
loving family, not wealth,
not faith, not age, not intel-
ligence, wisdom nor willpower.
Addiction can overcome anybody
and, once it has you in its steely
grip, it can cost you your health,
your family, your home, your live-
lihood and even your life.
Jamie Daniels paid that ulti-
mate price, dead at 23 from an
opiate overdose while he was in
the midst of a recovery program.
His mother, Lisa Daniels of West
Bloomfield, has been left “bro-
ken,” she says, “and the only thing
that will partially repair me is
to know that people like Jamie,
young people struggling with
addiction, get the help they need.
They’ve got to be able to speak
up and get help without being
shunned, without fear of being
labeled an addict for the rest of
their lives.”
The alternative — silence —
only exacerbates the problem. “I
didn’t tell anybody,” Daniels says.
“None of my friends knew what
was going on. None of my family
knew. We didn’t share what Jamie
was going through. Now it’s time
to stop that. If we had, maybe
Jamie would be alive today.”
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ImmuAddiction touches nearly every
family. It’s time to talk about it
openly and without fear.
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ABOVE: Lisa Daniels
is determined to get
young people the help
they need to battle
addiction in honor of
her late son, Jamie
Daniels.
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never fit in. Maybe he was depressed. I do
know that he suffered from depression for a
while before his death.”
She does know that at age16, Jamie gave a
self-diagnosis to a therapist as having ADD
and asked for Adderall. “He did not have
ADD,” Daniels says. “He eventually told me he
intentionally answered the questions wrong
on the ADD test. It was that easy. He was
struggling with something at 16, but Adderall
was not the answer; it may have been the
beginning of something terrible.”
Jamie continued to take Adderall through
college. His family doesn’t know when he
turned to opiates. “They were easily obtain-
able on campus and, by the time he gradu-
ated, he couldn’t stop,” she says.
She watched him try to detox himself sev-
eral times. On three occasions, he was taken
to the emergency room during an acute crisis,
only to be discharged hours later with no
long-term plan. They finally found a therapist
Jamie liked, who guided him toward getting
the medical help he needed.
During his most difficult crisis to date,
Jamie called his therapist who recommended
he go directly to the emergency room to be
admitted to a 12-day detox program.
The hospital let him out two days early.
“From there, they wanted Jamie to move
into a sober living facility here in Michigan,
but after speaking with Jamie’s therapist, we
agreed to send him to a private rehab center
in Florida.”
Jamie, still under his father’s health insurance,
went to Palm Beach County, Fla., for treatment.
He first spent a month at the Beachway Therapy
Center, then moved on to a sober living house
with a strong reputation in Delray.
Jamie’s sister, Arlyn, drew the symbol on this necklace
as a tribute to her brother and had it tattooed on her.
It is a half-moon of music notes, and each star has
one of his initials (JRD). “I think it was Arlyn’s way
of knowing Jamie is still watching over her.”
— LISA DANIELS
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He was sober, attended outpatient treatment meet-
ings and eventually got a job working as a law clerk.
“At work he was doing well, but, at home on his own,
he was depressed,” Daniels says.
Florida has become the nation’s recovery capital
with more than 400 sober living homes in Palm Beach
County alone. These homes are linked with outpa-
tient treatment programs, doctors and labs. Some
owners, realizing there is more money to
be made from a relapsed individual
with insurance, pay “body brokers”
to lure individuals in recovery into
specific sober homes with offers of
gifts, or in Jamie’s case, rent covered
completely by insurance. Jamie had
become the victim of “patient bro-
kering.”
Nine days after transferring to this new
sober home, Jamie died of a drug overdose.
The Daniels family tried to piece together the last
week of Jamie’s life. They learned the doctor this home
sent him to had prescribed a new medication for his
anxiety, the highly addictive Xanax. “They set him up
to fail,” Daniels says.
On. Dec. 7, 2016, just four days after he was pre-
scribed the Xanax, Jamie ingested heroin laced with
fentanyl (a synthetic opioid 50 times stronger than
heroin). It shocked his heart and killed him. “We don’t
know how or when he got the drugs,” Daniels says. “No
medications or drugs were found at the scene.”
The Daniels didn’t find out about the corrupt nature
of the home Jamie was in until months after his death.
However, after speaking with the insurance company
and the drug task force detectives, it was determined
that most of the charges from two of the three sober
homes Jamie lived in were fraudulent.
Daniels estimates that the fraudulent charges to the
insurance company were between $55,000 and $60,000.
Approximately two weeks after Jamie’s death, they
learned the owner of the last house Jamie lived in had
been under investigation. Eventually, he was convicted
and is now serving 27 years in prison.
Daniels wants others to be aware of this danger in
the billion-dollar industry of addiction and let them
know it’s not just happening in Florida. “Jamie’s ability
for successfully beating his addiction was taken away
from him because he was manipulated,” she says.
She adds that addiction did not define the life of her
son, however. “He was a beautiful soul: loving, caring
and compassionate. He loved and protected his sis-
ter, Arlyn. They were the best of friends. He called his
Bubbie just to chat and always ended each phone call
with ‘love you.’ He would have helped anyone at any
time.”
ADAM’S STORYIt is only random luck that Adam’s story doesn’t end
When To Seek Help Lisa Kaplan is program coordinator for commu-nity education at Maplegrove Center, which pro-vides inpatient and intensive outpatient addiction treatment for adults and intensive outpatient programs (IOP) for youth up to age 18 and their parents.
Kaplan runs the parent program of the IOP, and she says the first step for parents is “not to
be in denial. Addiction gets worse over time. Early inter-vention is the key.”
Parents need to be aware of what their kids are doing, she says. “In a lot of cases, kids are using right under their parents’ noses, and parents write it off to normal teenage behavior.
“Many parents say they behaved the same way when
they were kids, but what they don’t know is that it’s more dangerous for today’s kids. Marijuana today is way more dangerous; the THC level is much higher than ever before, causing addic-tion and mental health problems that didn’t exist when they were kids.”
If parents suspect their child is a chronic user, the first step is to have the child evaluated by an adolescent therapist who has experience with substance abuse. That person will recommend detox, if needed, and a treatment program.
Maplegrove’s intensive outpatient program involves three hours per day, three days per week for six weeks. Teens undergo group ther-apy, educational lectures and workshops taught by adolescent peer mentors to learn about the 12-step programs. Parent attendance is manda-tory two days per week. Parents participate in psychoeducational support groups, educational lectures and also learn about 12-step programs by adult peer mentors.
Therapy is not the cure-all, Kaplan says. “Addiction is a chronic illness and people who are not ready for recovery are going to continue to use,” she says. “We have kids who come in — because they’re required to — with no intention of becoming clean or sober. Our goal for these patients is to move them further down the continuum to a higher stage of readiness through education and therapy.”
A 12-step program is also an important part of treatment, both for the addicts and their fam-ily. “Kids have a higher chance of succeeding in recovery if parents are also in a recovery program like Al-Anon, Nar-Anon or Families Anonymous. You can find meetings at familiesanonymous.org, which attracts parents of teens and young adults.”
Maplegrove also offers educational and sup-port groups for family members of people who have problems with alcohol or other drugs. They are free and open to all, not just families being treated in their programs. For more information about Maplegrove’s community education pro-grams, contact Lisa Kaplan or a member of the community education staff at (248) 661-6170.
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like Jamie’s. Adam, now 27, has been struggling with sub-
stance abuse, depression and anxiety since high school.
(Adam is not his real name — he wishes to remain anony-
mous because he still fears the stigma of addiction.)
“My drug and alcohol use began at a young age when my
friends and I began experimenting with alcohol, often taking
it from our parents’ liquor cabinets,” he says. “The alcohol
made me feel better about myself. It made me more comfort-
able in social situations.”
Adam says he always felt different from his friends. “My
parents were divorced, and all of my friends’ parents were
still together,” he says. “This made me self-conscious in social
situations such as birthdays and graduations, etc. My parents
didn’t know I was experimenting with drugs, but they knew I
was feeling unhappy and insecure.”
He graduated from a local high school and headed off to
Michigan State University. That’s when he was introduced to
harder drugs. “That first semester was tough. I was unhappy.
I felt inferior to my friends who had been accepted into
University of Michigan. Once I got into a fraternity, I felt
much more comfortable.” Being a part of a fraternity also accelerated his drug use. “I
was exposed to harder drugs and started experimenting,” he
says. “Once you get to college, drugs are just one phone call
away.”
At first, Adam took the drugs just to party, “but they
seemed to have a different effect on me than my friends. It
was almost as if a part of my soul had been broken and never
healed. Chemicals did it for me. They relieved anxiety. They
made me more confident, more sociable. Nobody would have
known I was struggling with depression.”
He says his drug use picked up through college, and he
began using drugs every day. He maintained a 3.6 GPA. “That
made it worse for me. I was getting accolades. It looked like
my life was on a good path, but I was struggling, and my fam-
ily didn’t know.”
He got accepted to law school in another state. This is
when his drug use really became a problem. He did not
understand how depressed he truly had become. He tried to
get sober on his own when he was 22. “But I didn’t know how
far along I was in my addiction. I started sneaking around,
disappearing for hours in the day, not being connected with
anyone. I was using Oxycontin every day,” he says.
By his second year in law school, he told his parents about
his problem and began seeing a therapist. “I stopped taking
Oxy because it was expensive and started using Xanax more,”
he says. “More commonly, people go to heroin after Oxy,
but growing up in the West Bloomfield Jewish community, I
believed my life would never get to that point.”
After law school, he moved back home with his parents,
saw a therapist, enrolled in intensive outpatient therapy
but didn’t go back after the first session. “I’m thinking, ‘I’m
Jewish. I come from a well-to-do family. I’m successful. People
in my position do not have drug problems.’ I struggled with
accepting the problem I had.”
He got a job at a law firm, but his drug use was an everyday
thing. “I was in a haze, using Xanax off the street.” He tried to
quit cold turkey and suffered a mental psychosis. “I was will-
ing to go to rehab but was not ready to get sober,” he says.
The shock factor kept him clean for two months and then
he started taking Oxy again. “No one knew,” he says. He began
to use heroin. “However, because I was not using it intrave-
nously, I was in denial about the depths of my addiction.”
Eventually, his drug use progressed to a point where he
was no longer functioning and things such as his work and
his social life had begun to deteriorate. This is when he quit
cold turkey and became deathly sick, prompting him to ask
his parents for help. He was sent to an inpatient facility in
Florida for two months. He got out in October and has been
sober for six months.
Adam’s family is very supportive and play a vital role in his
continued sobriety; however, the shame is something both he
and his family still deal with. “Everyone’s parents talk about
how great their kids are, how they’re succeeding,” he says.
“My family was in a dark place and couldn’t reach out. It’s the
pressure of living in West Bloomfield, I guess.”
Adam attends Alcoholics Anonymous meetings and is in
group therapy, trying to understand his addiction and the
shame that comes along with it.
He stresses that he could not recover without the under-
standing, love and support of his friends, community and
family.
“The only reason I am here today is because of my sup-
port system and their belief in me,” he says. “I want people to
know that in order to recover, you need to be able to ask for
help. The biggest obstacle to recovery for me was my inability
to ask for help because of the unfounded stigma that exists in
our community.
“God-willing, I hope I hit my rock bottom,” he says. “But
this is a chronic disease and I’m sure things could get
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“Chemicals did it for me. They relieved anxiety. They made me more confident,
more sociable.”
— ADAM
Alan Bishop, owner of Mr. Alan’s Shoes, has struggled with addiction throughout his life. Along the way, he met the love of his life, got married, had kids and built a business. During it all, he says, he felt “less-than” and used alcohol to make him feel more comfortable around others. With the help of his wife, he was able to stop. But after his eventual divorce, he started drinking again. “I enjoyed it for many years until I
picked up a bad illness.”About 12 years ago, Bishop learned
he had tinnitus, and the pain drove him mad. His doctor prescribed Xanax. “I asked if I would get addicted. He said, ‘Absolutely, but don’t worry, I’ll supply you forever.’”
The Xanax helped, and Bishop’s life improved greatly for many years; all the while he also drank. “It got to the point where I always made sure I had enough
Xanax; I would get the shakes if I didn’t have it. I had them in my coat, in my car, everywhere.”
About five years ago, the siren in his head from tinnitus came back and the pain was worse than ever. He went to a facility in California where he found strength to get clean and carry on. There, he started to go to 12-step meetings. “I started hearing others’ stories and realized my story was just the same. I was no different than them.”
Slowly but surely, he got better. “I went home and was scared out of my mind to be part of the community again and embarrassed to have an addiction, embarrassed that I had gone to rehab, and I didn’t want to leave my house.”
He was told for the best chance at recovery he should attend 90 meetings in 90 days, so he did. “I picked the best sponsor, a Jewish doctor, a little tough on me but nice at the time. He got me through the steps.”
Bishop still has tinnitus, but he’s learned tools in AA to help with the pain. “I live a completely normal life with it. I meditate, pray, read and refocus myself from the noise.”
Bishop has been sober for five years and, during that time, he’s helped 10 mostly Jewish men with their sobriety and he’s also seen a lot of people die. “I see a young person die once a month from heroin and that’s horrific. My goal is to help other people. That’s why I’m talking in the Jewish News. Addiction is not an exclusive disease. It can attack every family.” He invited anyone to reach out to him at [email protected] if they want to talk.
ROBERT’S STORYRobert Rotenberg, 63, secretary-treasurer at General Mill Supply Company, has been sober since June 10, 2014. He’d been drinking heavily since he was a teenager and tried a “little bit of everything except heroin.”
His addiction didn’t begin controlling his life until he was in his 50s. “I knew I was doing things that were not OK, like
drinking late at night, early in the morn-ing and anytime else. I would say I forgot something, so I could go take a couple of gulps from a bottle.”
As his addiction progressed, he began breaking promises to his family and to himself. “I would wake up thinking how long could I go without drinking. It was 7 a.m.”
He was miserable and lost. Four years ago, he walked into an AA meeting
where he saw Alan Bishop, someone he had known since Hebrew school. “I said, ‘You, too?’ He said, ‘Me, too,’ and we hugged,” Rotenberg says. “I went to meetings for a while but still had not surrendered.”
Eventually, he became more and more disgusted with how alcohol had taken over his life and checked into an inpatient recovery center. It changed his life. “I accepted that I was an alcoholic and would be until I take my last breath. I became comfortable sharing my story with family and friends who’ve always been very supportive. I have no inter-est in living a lie.”
By sharing his story, he hopes to help young people deal-ing with addiction and sharing that there is a way out. “Like Alan, I want to help. I’ve seen too many young people die since I started going to meetings,” he says.
He says if he could, he would tell his teenage self to do a reality check. “Denial is a formidable enemy. I was trapped in it for many years. Most of us were unable to see how obsessed we were becoming,” he says. “Addiction can hap-pen quickly. Try to notice the signs.”
He says that if young people don’t want to talk to him, he knows people in their 20s he can connect them with. “When all you really want to do is use or only want to be with peo-ple who want to use, you’re going down a dangerous road,” he says. “It’s a living hell. There is a way out. But you have to want the way out, which is being ready to surrender.”
You can reach out to Robert at [email protected]. •
Advice From Those Who’ve Been There
Alan Bishop Robert Rotenberg
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“I’m hopeful because she’s alive.
Where there’s life, there’s hope.”
— JILL SHERMAN MARX
worse if I went back to using.
“My life has made a complete 180 in the right
direction. I have not felt this healthy, both mentally
and physically, in the past eight years,” he adds. “I
am now back to working as an active lawyer and
look forward to the rest of my life. I want to leave
this chapter of my life behind me; however, I never
want to forget it either because it’s what has got-
ten me to this point.”
JADE’S STORYJade Marx, 21, grew up with her twin brother and
two younger siblings in West Bloomfield. She was
a typical kid, involved in BBYO, at Temple Israel
and had her bat mitzvah. She was an amazing
athlete, excelling at softball. She’s been struggling
with addiction since she was 13.
Her parents enrolled her in Frankel Jewish
Academy her sophomore year after she had been
hanging out with a rough crowd the year before at
North Farmington High. “Her brother was already
there. We thought putting her in FJA would be the
magic,” says her mom, Jill Sherman Marx, who
works as a fitness instructor.
Soon after, Marx got a phone call from the
school social worker because Jade was self-harm-
ing, cutting. “I knew about this behavior from
one of my clients,” Marx says. “I
understood it was a self-sooth-
ing behavior, but I was horrified
that my daughter was doing it.”
A short time later, Jade threat-
ened suicide. That began a
vicious cycle of numerous visits
to the ER and mental hospitals.
Jade admitted to using drugs,
and her problems continued to
grow worse. During her senior
year, she got in trouble with the
police and was sentenced to pro-
bation, drug classes and com-
munity service but wasn’t taking
it seriously, her mom says.
“I knew we had to get her
help, but there were no inpatient
treatment centers in Michigan
that would take a 17-year-old,”
Marx says. She and her former
husband, Darrell Marx, found a treatment center
in Hawaii willing to take their daughter. It was a
30-month program.
“I can’t tell you how agonizing it was to send my
child away for 30 months, but it was the only way I
could help her,” she says.
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Jill Sherman Marx
Darrell Marx
A Community
Conversation On Th e
Opioid Epidemic
Temple Israel presents the Alicia Joy
Techner Memorial Parenting Conference.
The opioid epidemic affecting the entire Metro
Detroit community will be the subject of the
annual Alicia Joy Techner Memorial Parenting
Conference Wednesday, March 7, at Temple Israel.
Held since 1979, the Alicia Joy Techner Memorial
Parenting Conference seeks to bring the Southeast
Michigan community together for
public conversations about modern
parenting challenges. The series is
sponsored by Ilene and David Techner
of Birmingham in memory of their
beloved daughter Alicia, and is open
to the community and presented at
no cost for attendees (though advance
registration is requested).
Detroit Red Wings TV announcer
Ken Daniels, who lost his son Jamie
to addiction, will speak at the event,
entitled “If Only I Had Known.” It is
designed to share personal stories
from a variety of perspectives so par-
ents can feel more informed, empow-
ered and educated about the opioid
crisis and how it is undoubtedly
affecting families they know.
Other scheduled speakers include
Steve Feldman, COO of Feinberg
Consulting/Feinberg Addiction
Services; West Bloomfield Police Chief
Michael Patton; and the Hon. Edward
Sosnick, Oakland County Circuit
Court Judge (retired).
“Alicia Joy Techner would have
been 40 years old last year,” said David
Techner, funeral director at the Ira
Kaufman Chapel in Southfield. “Ilene
and I take great pride in knowing that
the community members who will
benefit from this conference would
have been Alicia’s peers and friends,
alongside her siblings. These resourc-
es, in her memory, will help them with
the balance of challenge and reward
that comes from the parenting experi-
ence.”
Kari Provizer, director of the Robert
Sosnick Family Life Center at Temple
Israel, said, “We appreciate the
Techners stepping forward to make
possible an event that will call atten-
tion to a community crisis that is still
not achieving enough attention.”
The free event begins at 7 p.m.
at Temple Israel, located at 5725
Walnut Lake Road, just east of
Drake Road, in West Bloomfield.
Registration is requested via Kate Boman at
(248) 661-5700 or [email protected]. •
Ken Daniels
Steve Feldman
Chief Michael
Patton
Hon. Edward
Sosnick
David Techner
ANTHONY LANZILOTE
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Jade Marx at the motel
where she’s staying
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Original Research by Walter L. Field Sponsored by Irwin S. Field Written by Jared Sichel
“My son, the Nobel prize winner!”
The Jewish scientists who found the keys to our body’s defenses.
ELIE METCHNIKOFF (1845-1916). b. Panasovka, Russia. Nobel Prize in Physi-ology or Medicine 1908. White blood cells — our first line of defense.
After obtaining his four-year natural sciences degree in only two years at Kharkiv University, Elie Metchnikoff began work in a private lab in Messina, Italy in 1882. There, he noticed a reaction in starfishes when he stuck small thorns into them—white cells would inflame the affected area and then surround, attack, and literally devour the invader. These defensive cells were named “phagocytes,” and although Metchnikoff’s findings were initially met with skepticism, he was awarded a Nobel Prize in 1908 for his discovery of this key element of organisms’ innate immune system—the body’s first line of defense. Metchnikoff’s research into lactic acid also began the widely popular probiotics move-ment. He theorized that ingestion of certain bacteria—often found in types of yogurt and milk—could prolong life.
OTTO LOEWI (1873-1961). b. Frankfurt, Germany. Nobel Prize in Physiology or
Medicine 1936. Identifying how our brain communi-cates with our body.
Initially an aspiring clinician, Otto Loewi switched to re-search after he arrived at the painful conclusion that mod-ern medicine had no treatment for people with advanced tuberculosis and pneumonia. That shift revolutionized human medicine. Loewi, bucking the conventional scientific wisdom of his time, discovered that neurons can communicate with each other through chemical reactions—not only electrical signals. This discovery of neurochemical transmission was
instrumental in pharmacology, pathology, psychiatry, and countless other medical fields. Sus-pecting that chemicals played an intimate role in neuro-communication, Loewi took two beat-ing frog hearts and covered them both in saline solution. He stimulated the vagus nerve of one of the hearts, thus slowing down its heart rate. He then transferred some of the saline from that heart on to the other heart, which in turn slowed down that heart’s rate, proving that there was a chemical—not only an electric impulse—released by the vagus nerve that impacted cell and neuron behavior. That chemical, or neurotransmitter, is now known as acetylcholine.
JOSHUA LEDERBERG (1925-2008). b. Montclair, New Jersey. Nobel Prize in Physiology or Medicine 1958. Explaining bacterial resistance. Graduating high school at 15 and receiving his Nobel Prize only 18 years later, Joshua Led-erberg’s genetic research made him one of molecular biology’s foundational scientists. A zoologist and doctor by training, Leder-berg bucked most scientists of his time, who believed that bacteria pass down exact genetic copies to their offspring. In the late 1940s Lederberg showed that bacteria transfer and share DNA among themselves, creating offspring with different genes that are better adapted for that specific environment. The discovery had massive implications for biotechnol-ogy, genetics, and pharmacology, particularly in understanding how bacteria develop resis-tance to drugs. Lederberg went on to chair the genetics department at Stanford, write regular science columns for the Washington Post, and advise several U.S. presidents and NASA.
Jewish Contributions to Humanity
#8 in a seriesBecause Jade was a minor, the
treatment center said that if she ever
threatened suicide, they would have
to send her home. After the first week,
that is exactly what Jade did. “I was
scared and angry because this was
her one opportunity and she was
blowing it,” she says.
After Jade was sent home, she spent
two nights in jail for violating her
probation. She never returned to FJA,
instead enrolling in an online school
to earn her high school diploma.
Meanwhile, her drug use continued.
“She was a heroin user, an anything
user,” Marx says. “She has no fear for
herself. She’s suffered severe infec-
tions, lost the use of her hand on two
occasions, and overdosed and sur-
vived several times.”
She and Darrell have learned that
they can’t bail Jade out. “In the earlier
years,” says Darrell Marx, “your par-
enting instincts kick in and you want
to do whatever you can to help. But
we learned that the more we bailed
her out, the worse she would get; but
it’s still not easy.”
He recalls a time that Jade was liv-
ing with him and broke the rules. “I
told her she had to go. I sent her out
in wintertime to fend for herself,” he
says. “I didn’t want to, but I knew I
needed to.”
Jade has been to at least six differ-
ent facilities and hospitals so far, try-
ing to beat her addiction. Her longest
sobriety has lasted six months.
“It’s usually when I’m feeling super
lonely and fed up with life — just
feeling miserable — that I decide to
get clean for a while,” says Jade, who
works at a factory in New Baltimore, a
job she enjoys.
Although her mother considers her
to be “homeless,” Jade disagrees. She
is not sleeping in the street or in a car,
she says, but at a motel in Roseville
with a friend.
The spiral of addiction is hard to
explain, she says. The same reasons
she cites for wanting to get clean
are similar to the ones she cites for
relapsing. “Boredom and depression,”
she says. “That first time taking drugs
makes it go away, but by the next
day, I’m miserable again and feeling
trapped.”
Jade says she’s been sober from
street drugs for a few weeks. She quit
on her own, cold turkey, and is not
working any 12-step program at the
time. She does continue to see a psy-
chiatrist though. “I’m doing OK,” she
says. “I work a lot, which helps.”
She and her parents maintain a
good relationship, talking to each
other almost every day. “I think
they’ve done their best by me,” Jade
says. “I’m glad they go to Al-Anon
(a 12-step program for families of
addicts). It seems to help.”
Darrell Marx says he supports Jade
when she does anything positive in
her life. “I want to fix things for her,
but I can’t. I can only support her. I
have to let her figure it out. But when
she’s ready, she knows I’m here for
her.”
Jill Sherman Marx says she’s not giv-
ing up on her daughter. “I’m hopeful
because she’s alive. Where there’s life,
there’s hope.”
She encourages anyone in the com-
munity struggling with addiction in
their family to reach out to her at
[email protected] if they want to talk.
Jade has high hopes for beating
addiction as well. “I have to take it day
by day and just stay in the moment,”
she says. “Looking into the future
and saying, ‘I’m going to be clean and
sober for the rest of my life’ stresses
me out too much.”
ELIMINATING THE STIGMA“Jamie’s story, Adam’s and Jade’s are
just a few of many stories that need
to be told to make a change,” Daniels
says. “The Jewish community needs
to open up and forget the stigma of
what you think an addict is. It is not
a weakness. It’s a disease.
“We can’t be afraid to speak up
anymore. Even Jamie recognized the
more your family and close friends
are aware of your struggles, the more
they can contribute to supporting
your efforts to overcome them.”
Marx adds, “Addiction is a crisis in
our world. I do need to talk about it,
and I hope other people are listening.
There’s no shame. No stigma.”
According to Lisa Edelson, a thera-
pist at Birmingham Maple Clinic,
“The stigma is going away very slow-
ly, but it takes an educated public for
it to go away completely. The more
people feel ashamed and don’t seek
treatment, the longer it will take.”
Edelson defines an addict as a per-
son who feels compelled to engage
in behavior regardless of the damage
it creates and in spite of knowing it
is unhealthy and dysfunctional —
someone who has tried to stop the
behavior and can’t and feels power-
less to control themselves. “When
they go untreated, they get worse,”
Edelson says. “It’s not the fault of the
patients.”
Now is the time to talk about the
crisis of addiction and where families
can seek treatment, according to
Daniels.
“People all around us are strug-
gling and need help from our com-
munity. That is the first step,” she
says. “Let’s rally together to help
our kids, mothers, fathers, grand-
parents — addiction doesn’t dis-
criminate, and everyone is vulner-
able. Until we step up as a Jewish
community, we’re going to lose
more people like Jamie.” •